Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

**CtSpoilGuy** · 07-18-26 23:52

Hey everyone. I had a woman from seeking that gave me incredible head but she got out of the game a little while ago and I haven't found someone that can really replace her yet. Any recommendations would be greatly appreciated. Feel free to DM their profile if you don't want the word to get out LOL. And I'm happy to send any recs that I can as well.

**XxMarkXx** · 07-17-26 19:08

Originally Posted by Chudakkad [View Original Post]

She mentioned that its per meet.

She should be freestyling at some ofvthe swanky hotels in the city. Someone willing to provide that kinda coin regularly is probably a tough find on seeking.

**Chudakkad** · 07-17-26 10:16

Originally Posted by XxMarkXx [View Original Post]

I always distinguish between allowance and PPM, meaning they are different methods of compensation.

1200 PPM. No.

1200 Allowance, if we get together 3-4 times a month, could be possible.

Keep in mind, she is in Boston, so, expectations will be higher than in hartford.

She mentioned that its per meet.

**TheAceofbase** · 07-17-26 10:10

Originally Posted by XxMarkXx [View Original Post]

I always distinguish between allowance and PPM, meaning they are different methods of compensation.

1200 PPM. No.

1200 Allowance, if we get together 3-4 times a month, could be possible.

Keep in mind, she is in Boston, so, expectations will be higher than in hartford.

100% true.

I've never agreed to an allowance-based situation. It's always PPM (or as I refer to it while messaging on the site - "Pay-Per View" / "PaperView" Remember, there are certain "reg flag" words seeking folks look for; PPM is one of them.

**XxMarkXx** · 07-17-26 10:06

Originally Posted by Chudakkad [View Original Post]

Asking for 1200 allowance for PPM.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...2-937fa2fabf61

I always distinguish between allowance and PPM, meaning they are different methods of compensation.

1200 PPM. No.

1200 Allowance, if we get together 3-4 times a month, could be possible.

Keep in mind, she is in Boston, so, expectations will be higher than in hartford.

**TSmithers24** · 07-17-26 08:38

Originally Posted by Steve99 [View Original Post]

I have noticed when I click a lot these links on site often I am getting account deactivated blocked etc. I wonder if SA is flagging links for us not to see?

Or maybe all these chicas blocked me. LOL. Bad man.

You guys geting block on this one?

update: It just came up now...weird... forget all asians...

I noticed this too but if you refresh when on that page the profile usually comes up. It's weird.

**Yuk Phu** · 07-16-26 20:38

Originally Posted by Steve99 [View Original Post]

I have noticed when I click a lot these links on site often I am getting account deactivated blocked etc. I wonder if SA is flagging links for us not to see?

Or maybe all these chicas blocked me. LOL. Bad man.

You guys geting block on this one?

update: It just came up now...weird... forget all asians...

Copy / paste the link and when you get the warning, refresh the browser.

**Chudakkad** · 07-16-26 19:01

Originally Posted by Steve99 [View Original Post]

I have noticed when I click a lot these links on site often I am getting account deactivated blocked etc. I wonder if SA is flagging links for us not to see?

Or maybe all these chicas blocked me. LOL. Bad man.

You guys geting block on this one?

update: It just came up now...weird... forget all asians...

Not on this one, but yeah I get block from time to time on the ones I have been chatting with, some software glitch.

**Steve 99** · 07-16-26 17:00

Originally Posted by Chudakkad [View Original Post]

Asking for 1200 allowance for PPM.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...2-937fa2fabf61

I have noticed when I click a lot these links on site often I am getting account deactivated blocked etc. I wonder if SA is flagging links for us not to see?

Or maybe all these chicas blocked me. LOL. Bad man.

You guys geting block on this one?

update: It just came up now...weird... forget all asians...

**Chudakkad** · 07-16-26 16:21

Asking for 1200 allowance for PPM.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...2-937fa2fabf61

**TopGun9** · 07-14-26 11:45

Originally Posted by Chudakkad [View Original Post]

Haha! Help me guys, no luck so far in over two months.

Sadly, I think the bowl is no longer what it seems to be.

Either you will be wasting your time, or pay a premium for average looking girls.

Might as well go straight to escorts these days.

**TheAceofbase** · 07-13-26 23:28

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**TheAceofbase** · 07-13-26 23:20

Originally Posted by DarkClouds [View Original Post]

Sorry, I have to disagree. That was the approach I used during the Backpage days. But on Seeking, that is not the right approach. The girls on Seeking are not pros. They're not used to quoting prices. Anything they do quote could be terribly misinformed, based on what they've read on Reddit forums etc. If you make a reasonable offer, they will usually accept. And you're off to the races.

Every girl on seeking knows why she is there; they're "pros" without being "pros".

I've had tremendous success over the last few years on seeking and I never was the first to provide an amount. Let them tell you and then negotiate.

**DarkClouds** · 07-13-26 18:19

Sorry, I have to disagree. That was the approach I used during the Backpage days. But on Seeking, that is not the right approach. The girls on Seeking are not pros. They're not used to quoting prices. Anything they do quote could be terribly misinformed, based on what they've read on Reddit forums etc. If you make a reasonable offer, they will usually accept. And you're off to the races.

Originally Posted by TheAceofbase [View Original Post]

Never expose your hand.

She asks what you "can do". Ask her "what are you expecting".

Rule #1 never lead with an offer.

**TheAceofbase** · 07-12-26 22:43

Originally Posted by Chudakkad [View Original Post]

She asked how much could I do and I said four Benjamins and she got sarcastic " I am al set! Thank you! Hope you find what you are looking for blah blah blah" I asked her what she was expecting and may be we could come up with a number that works for both is us, I reached her again and said I could go up but it has been radio silence since then.

Never expose your hand.

She asks what you "can do". Ask her "what are you expecting".

Rule #1 never lead with an offer.