Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[Chudakkad]

I always distinguish between allowance and PPM, meaning they are different methods of compensation.

1200 PPM. No.

1200 Allowance, if we get together 3-4 times a month, could be possible.

Keep in mind, she is in Boston, so, expectations will be higher than in hartford.

She mentioned that its per meet.

[TheAceofbase]

I always distinguish between allowance and PPM, meaning they are different methods of compensation.

1200 PPM. No.

1200 Allowance, if we get together 3-4 times a month, could be possible.

Keep in mind, she is in Boston, so, expectations will be higher than in hartford.

100% true.

I've never agreed to an allowance-based situation. It's always PPM (or as I refer to it while messaging on the site - "Pay-Per View" / "PaperView" Remember, there are certain "reg flag" words seeking folks look for; PPM is one of them.

[XxMarkXx]

Asking for 1200 allowance for PPM.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...2-937fa2fabf61

I always distinguish between allowance and PPM, meaning they are different methods of compensation.

1200 PPM. No.

1200 Allowance, if we get together 3-4 times a month, could be possible.

Keep in mind, she is in Boston, so, expectations will be higher than in hartford.

[TSmithers24]

I have noticed when I click a lot these links on site often I am getting account deactivated blocked etc. I wonder if SA is flagging links for us not to see?

Or maybe all these chicas blocked me. LOL. Bad man.

You guys geting block on this one?

update: It just came up now...weird... forget all asians...

I noticed this too but if you refresh when on that page the profile usually comes up. It's weird.

[Yuk Phu]

I have noticed when I click a lot these links on site often I am getting account deactivated blocked etc. I wonder if SA is flagging links for us not to see?

Or maybe all these chicas blocked me. LOL. Bad man.

You guys geting block on this one?

update: It just came up now...weird... forget all asians...

Copy / paste the link and when you get the warning, refresh the browser.

[Chudakkad]

I have noticed when I click a lot these links on site often I am getting account deactivated blocked etc. I wonder if SA is flagging links for us not to see?

Or maybe all these chicas blocked me. LOL. Bad man.

You guys geting block on this one?

update: It just came up now...weird... forget all asians...

Not on this one, but yeah I get block from time to time on the ones I have been chatting with, some software glitch.

[Steve 99]

Asking for 1200 allowance for PPM.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...2-937fa2fabf61

I have noticed when I click a lot these links on site often I am getting account deactivated blocked etc. I wonder if SA is flagging links for us not to see?

Or maybe all these chicas blocked me. LOL. Bad man.

You guys geting block on this one?

update: It just came up now...weird... forget all asians...

[Chudakkad]

Asking for 1200 allowance for PPM.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...2-937fa2fabf61

[TopGun9]

Haha! Help me guys, no luck so far in over two months.

Sadly, I think the bowl is no longer what it seems to be.

Either you will be wasting your time, or pay a premium for average looking girls.

Might as well go straight to escorts these days.

[TheAceofbase]

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[TheAceofbase]

Sorry, I have to disagree. That was the approach I used during the Backpage days. But on Seeking, that is not the right approach. The girls on Seeking are not pros. They're not used to quoting prices. Anything they do quote could be terribly misinformed, based on what they've read on Reddit forums etc. If you make a reasonable offer, they will usually accept. And you're off to the races.

Every girl on seeking knows why she is there; they're "pros" without being "pros".

I've had tremendous success over the last few years on seeking and I never was the first to provide an amount. Let them tell you and then negotiate.

[DarkClouds]

Sorry, I have to disagree. That was the approach I used during the Backpage days. But on Seeking, that is not the right approach. The girls on Seeking are not pros. They're not used to quoting prices. Anything they do quote could be terribly misinformed, based on what they've read on Reddit forums etc. If you make a reasonable offer, they will usually accept. And you're off to the races.

Never expose your hand.

She asks what you "can do". Ask her "what are you expecting".

Rule #1 never lead with an offer.

[TheAceofbase]

She asked how much could I do and I said four Benjamins and she got sarcastic " I am al set! Thank you! Hope you find what you are looking for blah blah blah" I asked her what she was expecting and may be we could come up with a number that works for both is us, I reached her again and said I could go up but it has been radio silence since then.

Never expose your hand.

She asks what you "can do". Ask her "what are you expecting".

Rule #1 never lead with an offer.

[ManBj123]

Interesting! Julia told me she was online only.

She confirmed the 200 Lbs is real.

[PoolPlayInTool]

She asked how much could I do and I said four Benjamins and she got sarcastic " I am al set! Thank you! Hope you find what you are looking for blah blah blah" I asked her what she was expecting and may be we could come up with a number that works for both is us, I reached her again and said I could go up but it has been radio silence since then.

From what I have seen over the last year a lot of women are asking ridiculous money. I had one quote me $1000 , I said no thanks, a day later she messaged me and said $750 , I said you are still far from what I am wiling to pay, her final number was $500. I did not even respond back to her because she tried to soak me for $1000 initially. $400 is a reasonable offer for Violet if she would not counter then she is a waste of time and has GPS. The ones you can get for $300 are usually desperate and or not desirable and then they will initially try for $600. Anything $600 and over is for really good looking younger women. I am totally done with seeking as its a waste of time, you can get a hot looking escort from Olita for $300 for 30 minutes.