"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**JunkSecond** · 07-18-26 06:50

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

Especially a post 30's girl. Honestly if you're sure you can't charm her down, and most "know her worth" girls can't, then I like to leave them with a little comment about their age as I get ready to block them, try to give them a little perspective on their "worth. " They say 500, you respond "Oh, I didn't realize you were 20. I thought your profile said 35. ".

35 with kids is not prime, but most ladies think they are like wine and become better with age. There are unicorns over 30 with kids that still feel like new, but those are the rare exceptions not the rule. I only visit ATL for work so don't put in much effort when I get hit with "Know my worth. " I think I closed her out with a statement that I would love to meet her but can't justify the expense when I have college girls asking me for half and they are a lot of fun too. I have also stopped blocking. I now opt for USER NOTES and add the phone number birth control status and this one "wants to meet for dinner at 5:00" then hide the profile. That way I can still look up the profile for my notes if someone wants intel and posts a link.

If I am really digging a lady and want to negotiate I will tell them I will think about it and try to setup a meet to negotiate in person over coffee / drinks. After chatting, some charm, and you see them relax after realizing you are not a serial killer, I offer a win / win choice. "We can call it an evening and I will give you a small gift for meeting me for coffee (usually $50 in small bills to appear more substantial in a sealed envelope to cover gas and parking) or I offer x for the evening with amount depending on location, attraction and the sexual "no list" usually 200-300 never over 400.

**GoneForGood97** · 07-17-26 22:31

Originally Posted by BrownSugaTwo [View Original Post]

I assume she's and escort but I can't find her page anywhere. Does anyone know anything about her -.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...f-53d539a854d1

Not sure she's an escort, but if I was a betting man I'd put a large bet on stripper. The giveaway is the tattoo on the lower stomach that goes down to the pubic area.

Also looking at her photos more closely, you can absolutely see the one where she is in the silver outfit is her at a strip club. You can see a roll of dollar bills on her garter. So yeah, almost certainly real, but stripper means she's a pro with more steps. Probably easy to close, but you'll pay the "stripper tax" to get between her legs.

**GoneForGood97** · 07-17-26 22:25

Originally Posted by JunkSecond [View Original Post]

35 with at least one kid, hit me up and I thought I was going to find a gem. Nope, wanted 5 bills. Lives in Sandy Springs but profile keeps bouncing around, 95% sure she is real and fishing hard for a simp.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...9-6b769e795c90

Especially a post 30's girl. Honestly if you're sure you can't charm her down, and most "know her worth" girls can't, then I like to leave them with a little comment about their age as I get ready to block them, try to give them a little perspective on their "worth. " They say 500, you respond "Oh, I didn't realize you were 20. I thought your profile said 35. ".

**BrownSugaTwo** · 07-16-26 16:02

I assume she's and escort but I can't find her page anywhere. Does anyone know anything about her -.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...f-53d539a854d1

**BrownSugaTwo** · 07-16-26 15:58

Has anyone met Mia before -.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...5-f05023bb514f

I think she's been mentioned in the past. Couldn't find a review though.

**JunkSecond** · 07-16-26 15:42

35 with at least one kid, hit me up and I thought I was going to find a gem. Nope, wanted 5 bills. Lives in Sandy Springs but profile keeps bouncing around, 95% sure she is real and fishing hard for a simp.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...9-6b769e795c90

**Sneakey1961** · 07-16-26 14:11

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...8-6055097ac76b

This one seemed very promising, met a couple times and then when deed time comes she wants to change the agreement and then says she doesn't think she can have sex for money. Also says she doesn't drink then downs a bunch of cocktails. Andy, Andrea, Ciana. Comes right out and tells me she's crazy. Calls her pimp and wants me to "talk" to him on the phone. Just stay away!

**Grail47** · 07-14-26 11:20

Originally Posted by NikkaNamedSlik [View Original Post]

SB is not mostly bots you just have to know how to use it. Most of the girls on SB are also on Seeking or used to be. The thing about SB is that it auto sends messages from girls accounts to get you to pay to unlock the message. Never unlock a message from a girl that you didn't like or message first. Other than that it's just like any other site.

Thanks for that tip! I might then give SB a try, following my initial experiences with subscribing to Sugarbook.

**NikkaNamedSlik** · 07-14-26 11:13

Originally Posted by Grail47 [View Original Post]

That's possible, but I feel like that's a losing plan of action, if so. In the meantime, I'm giving Sugarbook a try, as it has a 1 month subscription option and I read some decent reports on it in my local forum (LA). I miss the chat feature of SDM, though, as well as the option to match with a girl when she has liked your profile. Plus the filters, search and sort options are better on SDM than Sugarbook. I'd consider the SB site, but I read mostly all negative experiences from other guys here about how it nickel & dimes you and is mostly bots.

I'm also finding out an odd aspect to Sugarbook. I only look for SB's local to me and started chatting with someone who's location said Los Angeles. She shared her digits with me, but it was an out of state area code. Not that uncommon. Then I noticed her profile changed to say San Jose. I asked her about this and she said she's in Utah, she has no idea why her profile says she's in California at all. So. Is this site rigging the girl's locations so we'll message who we think is local?

SB is not mostly bots you just have to know how to use it. Most of the girls on SB are also on Seeking or used to be. The thing about SB is that it auto sends messages from girls accounts to get you to pay to unlock the message. Never unlock a message from a girl that you didn't like or message first. Other than that it's just like any other site.

**Steel Wolf** · 07-14-26 01:15

Originally Posted by Jims2321 [View Original Post]

Are you on auto renewal?

I am. Or rather, I was. And I was told explicitly my auto renewal would renew at the higher rate.

**Grail47** · 07-13-26 16:57

Originally Posted by BumbaCloth [View Original Post]

They're trying to like Seeking pretending to be legitimate dating site. Maybe Secret Benefits will get better.

That's possible, but I feel like that's a losing plan of action, if so. In the meantime, I'm giving Sugarbook a try, as it has a 1 month subscription option and I read some decent reports on it in my local forum (LA). I miss the chat feature of SDM, though, as well as the option to match with a girl when she has liked your profile. Plus the filters, search and sort options are better on SDM than Sugarbook. I'd consider the SB site, but I read mostly all negative experiences from other guys here about how it nickel & dimes you and is mostly bots.

I'm also finding out an odd aspect to Sugarbook. I only look for SB's local to me and started chatting with someone who's location said Los Angeles. She shared her digits with me, but it was an out of state area code. Not that uncommon. Then I noticed her profile changed to say San Jose. I asked her about this and she said she's in Utah, she has no idea why her profile says she's in California at all. So. Is this site rigging the girl's locations so we'll message who we think is local?

**BumbaCloth** · 07-13-26 16:47

They're trying to like Seeking pretending to be legitimate dating site. Maybe Secret Benefits will get better.

Originally Posted by Grail47 [View Original Post]

I sent a complaint to the site and received this reply:

"Our pricing adjustments allow us to continue enhancing the quality of our service, maintaining a secure and reliable platform, and improving features that support our members' experience. Along with the pricing update, we are continuing to enhance higher-value services, including premium support-related features such as Chairman Service, Dating Assistant Service, and Waitlist-related service improvements. ".

None of those "higher-value services" mean anything to me. It's as if the owners of SDM suddenly want to gut their membership base of anyone except the top 1%. It will become a ghost town over there.

**Jims2321** · 07-12-26 17:13

Originally Posted by SteelWolf [View Original Post]

Interesting. I also inquired and was told contradictory information.

Are you on auto renewal?

**Steel Wolf** · 07-12-26 16:11

Originally Posted by Jims2321 [View Original Post]

Just a follow up. I reached out to SDM support about the popup dialog box. They confirmed as long as your subscription is auto renewed, the $30/ m ($90 renewal rate) is locked in.

Interesting. I also inquired and was told contradictory information.

**Jims2321** · 07-11-26 22:05

Originally Posted by Jims2321 [View Original Post]

If you click on the subscriptions tab and then try to cancel this is the dialog box that pops up.

Just a follow up. I reached out to SDM support about the popup dialog box. They confirmed as long as your subscription is auto renewed, the $30/ m ($90 renewal rate) is locked in.