NoVA SugarBabies

[Mross86]

Agree there are some voices of reason there, unfortunately it is human nature to gravitate to a position consistent with your needs / desires. This is why in our approach to POT SB we need to be kind and firm regarding compensation.

Interesting fact is that in every experience I've had the initial ask has always been either 1 k or just north of it, and in every case I've been able to reduce it by 50% to 500 or 600. As if they know, what the going PPM rates are and always double it for the initial ask LOL.

[Flipper69]

Online only "to start. " Didn't talk numbers because hell nah.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...3-fcd7fe82c531

Yeah I'd pass on this one brother. To me it seems like it's one of those where you put lot of effort talking and it goes nowhere at the end.

[Flipper69]

Shit, 300 is about right. She's like any of those Latin girls that passed by the dc area. They're just her to fuck as many dudes for cash and offer subpar services.

So paying anything more than 300 is too much.

Agree 100%. I had super sub par experience with one of them. Ended up paying 400 I think. She had the looks but it felt like I'm on an assembly line with her trying to get me out of her way before the next dude comes in. Not a good experience, it was one and done.

[Mross86]

Online only "to start. " Didn't talk numbers because hell nah.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...3-fcd7fe82c531

I might be biased but also maturity (or lack of) at this age is usually a big issue. I usually start with the drinking age. Small gap but it makes a difference IMO.

[Senbonzakura]

Online only "to start. " Didn't talk numbers because hell nah.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...3-fcd7fe82c531

[Flipper69]

You sure about this being a legit tryst account? Phone number has changed a couple times and she's one of those "what city you in" and "50% deposit" replies.

Also, I've clicked on "Lincoln, NE" there a couple times and seen a couple similarly written profiles, with the random endless touring dates which make no sense geographically for travel.

Pretty sure it's a scam listing.

That looks like a scam. Like 100%. Too many red flags.

[BoMcC]

https://tryst.link/escort/aik0_

Her Tryst, FYI.

You sure about this being a legit tryst account? Phone number has changed a couple times and she's one of those "what city you in" and "50% deposit" replies.

Also, I've clicked on "Lincoln, NE" there a couple times and seen a couple similarly written profiles, with the random endless touring dates which make no sense geographically for travel.

Pretty sure it's a scam listing.

[ProCatHunter]

Just curious, have any of you approached any girls on social media (IG, Snap, tiktok) and successfully been able to get them to become a SB? I had a girl recently tell me that she sometimes she gets approached on social media and gets dates. She doesn't have a seeking profile, she was recommened by another SB I had. She didn't show me the chats and didn't want to get into further details, so I don't know how these guys approach her. What would you say? Some of these girls in OF specially, seem to be more prone to accepting these kinds of approaches.

Yep. Snap, IG, etc. Algorithm friend / follow recommendation feature is a gold mine for SBs because if you get one SB who gives you their real account userid, social media algo will automatically suggest her friends and then their friends into your feed / network. If you're treating your sb correctly, she'll already be talking to her friends about you. They will pop up in the recommended friends feed. They might friend you, and then their friends pop into your feed as recommendations, so on and so forth.

Direct friends are usually off limits for me because I've found so many SBs will return after taking a break for whatever reason ("serious relationship" or 3/6 month relocation, etc.) and will often look to me for something "easy and fun. " I don't burn bridges because that's dumb.

That said, the friends of friends, are usually open to letting you buy them a drink because they've already heard about you. If you're doing things correctly. They don't care about the first SB because she's not a direct friend. They are usually open to drinks at first and something more later.

If you develop a reputation of treating a young lady right (outside and behind closed doors), it's easy to build a large network of potential SBs without reupping the seeking account. Also prevents them from creating a seeking account because they don't need to, helping to avoid scenarios where some finance bro offers her $2k for a 1 night pump and dump. If this happen, that usually sets expectations - in a negative way. As opposed to taking a young lady out for a good time, having fun together, and then helping her out while she is navigating her early 20s. I’ve found the latter scenario is better for all involved, and also helps expand the sugar bowl for all players.

Of course this doesnt work for the 1 and done guys who are overpaying, but thats not the lady Im looking for either. I dont want the hottest SB for a 1 night thing who is going to demand 1k a date. Those women usually want everything covered, are dead fish behind closed doors, and think theyre doing you a favor by letting you take them to dinner. No thanks. I want the cute PYT GND type that is looking to check the SB box off their bucket list, wants to explore their sexuality, will open up to more activities (anal, cim w swallow, CIP, bondage, rimming, pleasing, video, etc) and who is willing to do a lot more behind closed doors after they get to know you better. They are the type that recognize they dont want a LTR with a guy whose over twice their age, but want something thats more than just a friend, who can take care of them better than the the guys their age, from an emotional, financial, and sexual standpoint.

[VeryBigBuck]

True but just about all of the bithes on there whine about not being able to find a SD. I think the best thing I read on there was a question about what it is really like to be a Sugar Baby. Most of the answers were that you could make some $ to help pay your bills but the idea of jet setting off to Europe and walking the red carpet was not reality.

Agree there are some voices of reason there, unfortunately it is human nature to gravitate to a position consistent with your needs / desires. This is why in our approach to POT SB we need to be kind and firm regarding compensation.

[TomFordModel]

Wouldn't go less than 500 so I passed! If she looks likes her pics! Would love a review!

Shit, 300 is about right. She's like any of those Latin girls that passed by the dc area. They're just her to fuck as many dudes for cash and offer subpar services.

So paying anything more than 300 is too much.

[Dkayz]

Just curious, have any of you approached any girls on social media (IG, Snap, tiktok) and successfully been able to get them to become a SB? I had a girl recently tell me that she sometimes she gets approached on social media and gets dates. She doesn't have a seeking profile, she was recommened by another SB I had. She didn't show me the chats and didn't want to get into further details, so I don't know how these guys approach her. What would you say? Some of these girls in OF specially, seem to be more prone to accepting these kinds of approaches.

From IG I have got a few over the years. Haven't really tried on OF. Honestly, OF has turned into a garbage dump now that AI and companies have taken the personal GND stuff out of 90% of it.

[NovaNova]

And the prevailing advice on the Reddit forum Sugarlifestyleforum is "to weed out the lowballers and johns, set your money standards high".

True but just about all of the bithes on there whine about not being able to find a SD. I think the best thing I read on there was a question about what it is really like to be a Sugar Baby. Most of the answers were that you could make some $ to help pay your bills but the idea of jet setting off to Europe and walking the red carpet was not reality.

[NovaNova]

Just curious, have any of you approached any girls on social media (IG, Snap, tiktok) and successfully been able to get them to become a SB? I had a girl recently tell me that she sometimes she gets approached on social media and gets dates. She doesn't have a seeking profile, she was recommened by another SB I had. She didn't show me the chats and didn't want to get into further details, so I don't know how these guys approach her. What would you say? Some of these girls in OF specially, seem to be more prone to accepting these kinds of approaches.

I have one in rotation that is no longer active on SA that found some other SD doing SM. She is model like IMHO and has two other SD that she has no issue in telling me about. She met me on SA and the other two because they DM'd her on her safe for work SM platforms.

I have been working on another that used to be on SA but now moved to OF with disaapointing $ results. I got her snap and have video chatted with her but no luck yet meeting IRL. She is local to the area and told me the dick in the videos she makes on OF is "an older gentleman that helps her out" So I think it is possible but have no personal experience yet.

[VeryBigBuck]

That was also before Tiktok got all the girls on board thinking they could get a sugar daddy to spend $1 k on dinner with them, though. There were still the 50 Shades of Grey girls that thought they'd get flown to Europe for dinner and shit, but they were easy to spot out, as you also pointed out.

And the prevailing advice on the Reddit forum Sugarlifestyleforum is "to weed out the lowballers and johns, set your money standards high".

[AnonDemon69]

Just curious, have any of you approached any girls on social media (IG, Snap, tiktok) and successfully been able to get them to become a SB? I had a girl recently tell me that she sometimes she gets approached on social media and gets dates. She doesn't have a seeking profile, she was recommened by another SB I had. She didn't show me the chats and didn't want to get into further details, so I don't know how these guys approach her. What would you say? Some of these girls in OF specially, seem to be more prone to accepting these kinds of approaches.