Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[JHawkThe1]

I had a few dates with her. She is amazing. Great comms, great personality, great times hanging out with her.

I am getting out of the game for a while and had to put things on hold with her. Wanted to share that she is one of the good ones there. Look her up and treat her nicely. No, can't share her info, you need to earn that from her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...4-28de880ac2e5

Is this member still active link isn't working.

[Omgwtfnvm]

There was a girl I met on here awhile back and it was weird she sent nudes etc talked dirty asked for payment amount etc I agreed. She came to the hotel, I ate her out then she started sucking the D and she got thirsty for water and drank water and then said she had to go when I told her to ride it LOL. Didn't pay her nothing but fuck it.

[Boy Wonder 9]

Dude. No-one asked for her contact info; we asked for a link. You posted this on the seeking arrangement / sugar forum. We all assume you met her on a website.

Sheesh.

Honestly, I feel bad for you. You're getting played and you don't even know it.

Have fun.

I did meet her on SA but I'm not a member anymore so I can't send a link I don't remember her handle either.

I have been getting PM's asking me for her #. That's why I said that.

I'm new to SA and obviously can be a push-over and made some bad decisions with her. First was not nailing down our arrangement from the get-go. Since I have made an investment I have to get my money's worth through the party. After that then I will be in a position to discuss our future arrangement if I want that. I have other things in the works but these things take time to develop.

[Omgwtfnvm]

Anyone got info on this one? Willing to pay to hear any stories lmk.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...4-0f2af1684275

[GlenBenton]

Thanks for your responses. She's OK with me not paying the car so we are still talking and going to the party.

No I am not sharing her contact info until I am done with her and she agrees.

It was right before Christmas and after we fucked I took her shopping for her kids. I think that made her feel less like a hoe and she probably wanted to establish that type of relationship. I hated going shopping won't do that again.

Good advice to set a fixed # of dates then pay on the last date.

No more $ for her until after the party then I will lay out what I want if I want. I want to fuck her once no charge before the party then whatever happens at the party. If that goes well then I will decide what our arrangement is.

Dude. No-one asked for her contact info; we asked for a link. You posted this on the seeking arrangement / sugar forum. We all assume you met her on a website.

Sheesh.

Honestly, I feel bad for you. You're getting played and you don't even know it.

Have fun.

[Boy Wonder 9]

We were sexting each other this afternoon she has car issues (old one died) but does not have $ for a new one and she just started a new job is borrowing a car they want back. She politely asked me if I would make her car payment $450/ month in exchange for meeting 2-3 times a month. Obviously I'm not going to commit to anything like that and politely told her I would not do that and why. . Now I wonder if she will go to the party as my date with no $ exchanged. It was fun and expensive while it lasted.

Thanks for your responses. She's OK with me not paying the car so we are still talking and going to the party.

No I am not sharing her contact info until I am done with her and she agrees.

It was right before Christmas and after we fucked I took her shopping for her kids. I think that made her feel less like a hoe and she probably wanted to establish that type of relationship. I hated going shopping won't do that again.

Good advice to set a fixed # of dates then pay on the last date.

No more $ for her until after the party then I will lay out what I want if I want. I want to fuck her once no charge before the party then whatever happens at the party. If that goes well then I will decide what our arrangement is.

[ILoveThatPoo]

Was she from the Bay Area about 32? Blonde hair blue eyes. Talking to this girl named ClassyFan wanted to see if it's the same girl she seems a bit off mentally.

It's always easier if you post a link but no it is not the same person. Poo.

[JHawkThe1]

We fuck on a semi regular basis.

350 ppm.

Always on time and well groomed.

Not on birth control.

No Greek.

Otherwise she is generally decent in bed. Not very kinky. She's never bailed or tried anything shady with me.

I like her, but more because if I am looking for someone to hook up she is generally available and reliable, but I'm not all that into her. She is really nice though, a good person overall.

Was she from the Bay Area about 32? Blonde hair blue eyes. Talking to this girl named ClassyFan wanted to see if it's the same girl she seems a bit off mentally.

[GlenBenton]

Not finding too many young black in Middletown LOL.

I smell bullshit.

[TopGun9]

Can you post a link?

Not finding too many young black in Middletown LOL.

[LuckyCT]

Why are you even entertaining her asks?

Don't, for a second, think that this chick likes you. She clearly only wants the green.

I went back a few posts ago and saw that you took her shopping too? What in the Christ is up with that?!

Pay her the $450 after 4 meets. Period! She either goes for that or you move on and she gets nothing. Take charge my man!

[GlenBenton]

We were sexting each other this afternoon she has car issues (old one died) but does not have $ for a new one and she just started a new job is borrowing a car they want back. She politely asked me if I would make her car payment $450/ month in exchange for meeting 2-3 times a month. Obviously I'm not going to commit to anything like that and politely told her I would not do that and why. . Now I wonder if she will go to the party as my date with no $ exchanged. It was fun and expensive while it lasted.

Why are you even entertaining her asks?

Don't, for a second, think that this chick likes you. She clearly only wants the green.

I went back a few posts ago and saw that you took her shopping too? What in the Christ is up with that?!

[GlenBenton]

I saw her again last week at her place. We agreed on $125 I told her I spent a lot on out previous date plus I have truck issues so I'm on a budget. She was cool.

I had some BDSM play in mind as well as the usual stuff everything was going great when she proceeded to give me one of the best if not the best BBBJCIM I have probably ever had. I don't know how long it lasted but it was intense. Now we are laying there cuddling and she says she's really stressed out and doesn't know what to do about a situation. We talk about it and I make several suggestions then she says if you can pay for x $350 instead of the $125 that would really help me out. Like a big fat bass I latched onto that tasty lure and said yes. She probably had a plan going into it but I know she is sincere at least I think so. I had invited her to a party next week so I said OK but you have to agree to see me one more time and go to the party no $ involved. Of course she said yes so I will see how that plays out. We get along really well it seems there is more to it for her than just the $. Unfortunately, the arrangement may ruin it for me. SA is proving to be expensive glad I dropped it.

Can you post a link?

[Boy Wonder 9]

I saw her again last week at her place. We agreed on $125 I told her I spent a lot on out previous date plus I have truck issues so I'm on a budget. She was cool.

I had some BDSM play in mind as well as the usual stuff everything was going great when she proceeded to give me one of the best if not the best BBBJCIM I have probably ever had. I don't know how long it lasted but it was intense. Now we are laying there cuddling and she says she's really stressed out and doesn't know what to do about a situation. We talk about it and I make several suggestions then she says if you can pay for x $350 instead of the $125 that would really help me out. Like a big fat bass I latched onto that tasty lure and said yes. She probably had a plan going into it but I know she is sincere at least I think so. I had invited her to a party next week so I said OK but you have to agree to see me one more time and go to the party no $ involved. Of course she said yes so I will see how that plays out. We get along really well it seems there is more to it for her than just the $. Unfortunately, the arrangement may ruin it for me. SA is proving to be expensive glad I dropped it.

We were sexting each other this afternoon she has car issues (old one died) but does not have $ for a new one and she just started a new job is borrowing a car they want back. She politely asked me if I would make her car payment $450/ month in exchange for meeting 2-3 times a month. Obviously I'm not going to commit to anything like that and politely told her I would not do that and why. . Now I wonder if she will go to the party as my date with no $ exchanged. It was fun and expensive while it lasted.

[Boy Wonder 9]

I saw her again last week at her place. We agreed on $125 I told her I spent a lot on out previous date plus I have truck issues so I'm on a budget. She was cool.

I had some BDSM play in mind as well as the usual stuff everything was going great when she proceeded to give me one of the best if not the best BBBJCIM I have probably ever had. I don't know how long it lasted but it was intense. Now we are laying there cuddling and she says she's really stressed out and doesn't know what to do about a situation. We talk about it and I make several suggestions then she says if you can pay for x $350 instead of the $125 that would really help me out. Like a big fat bass I latched onto that tasty lure and said yes. She probably had a plan going into it but I know she is sincere at least I think so. I had invited her to a party next week so I said OK but you have to agree to see me one more time and go to the party no $ involved. Of course she said yes so I will see how that plays out. We get along really well it seems there is more to it for her than just the $. Unfortunately, the arrangement may ruin it for me. SA is proving to be expensive glad I dropped it.