Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[XxMarkXx]

Been trying the past couple of weeks to find a sugar baby. Been mainly working on the wyp website. It really has been a mixed bag so far. Met one great girl had a great time, but she vanished after that. I think it had to do with me being in a relationship. Been messaging some other girls, but so far they are just wasting time. I know others have said they have had some decent luck on these sites, so I am going to keep at it for awhile yet. I have no interests in these time wasters. I know what I want and you would think if these girls were as interested in what they wanted as what they wrote down on their profile, things would move along with some of them.

Look through this thread, a number of very good posts about lots of things that you should find useful.

Some generally accepted info:

* WYP is tougher to start with than Seeking as you can spend all your credits very fast and have nothing but fake or low quality options.

* Seeking.com - sign up for one month. Message everyone that appeals to you. Get their numbers asap in the discussion and only text with them from then on. Never discuss money or activities on the site, you will get banned and that's a *****. Let your membership expire after a month and focus on the women you got numbers from.

Be prepared for lots of failures, ghosts, flakes, etc. You WILL find a few dates and get laid.

, but don't expect the process to be fast or easy.

[Gridge]

Been trying the past couple of weeks to find a sugar baby. Been mainly working on the wyp website. It really has been a mixed bag so far. Met one great girl had a great time, but she vanished after that. I think it had to do with me being in a relationship. Been messaging some other girls, but so far they are just wasting time. I know others have said they have had some decent luck on these sites, so I am going to keep at it for awhile yet. I have no interests in these time wasters. I know what I want and you would think if these girls were as interested in what they wanted as what they wrote down on their profile, things would move along with some of them.

[Tommy13]

This one looks to be real but I passed. She sent me this:

If you just want to go for coffee and talk, dinner $200 ppm.

If you want to have only fun $ 400 Ppm.

If you want to go for a coffee, talk and have fun $500.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...e-1efb8a5922c8

I had set up a date with her a long time ago and she ghosted me at the last minute and told me she was on her way all the way until I got to the place and then nothing until she finally just texts "I'm not coming. ".

[PopPoppy70]

This one looks to be real but I passed. She sent me this:

If you just want to go for coffee and talk, dinner $200 ppm.

If you want to have only fun $ 400 Ppm.

If you want to go for a coffee, talk and have fun $500.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...e-1efb8a5922c8

[AsianCarGuy]

Got to be honest, your report actually moved her up my list.

She's quite the character. Be prepared to be freaked out. It's a very risky encounter for a few reasons: she is borderline schizophrenic and might be on something; she asked to be picked up in front of her house and when I did her mom or aunt came running out after us. They know her behaviors because whoever it was called her and called her a * and asked who I was. Finally she kept saying she was going to jail for a failure to appear and rehab etc. She will laugh one second and cry another.

For this one I don't know if the juice is worth the squeeze. She doesn't look as good as the photos below fwiw. Those were probably years ago.

[Joey1994]

Great report!

Got to be honest, your report actually moved her up my list.

[Chudakkad]

As someone said on here the Girl Next Door are harder and harder to find. I had 2 days left on sub and winged it with a couple girls that responded.

Just a lesson in screening. I know better.

First one met me restaurant in Milford. Black girl. Shows up in Uber. Bigger than pic as usual. Come to find out she stripped in Bridgeport area in the past. Great. I should of bailed but she ubered and said WTF. She plays the .

I agree with you, I am also frustrated, not been able to meet a single woman and my sub ends in two days, there are scammers who talk to you for a while to build trust before you realize who they are, its tough out there, site is going downhill.

[Steve 99]

As someone said on here the Girl Next Door are harder and harder to find. I had 2 days left on sub and winged it with a couple girls that responded.

Just a lesson in screening. I know better.

First one met me restaurant in Milford. Black girl. Shows up in Uber. Bigger than pic as usual. Come to find out she stripped in Bridgeport area in the past. Great. I should of bailed but she ubered and said WTF. She plays the show me money routine. I didn't have it in me to protest so put it on bureau. Then she hustles no BJ. She actually calmed down and banged her pretty good. Not GFE. Now she is bugging me to see again. I blocked her then she threatened to ban me on SA. I played nice with her to calm her down. Don't want to get banned. Don't think she can get me banned just by reporting. I never post anything on the site with negotiaions. I could get her banned. Little ho.

Second one latina. Did meet and greet. Tall and thick. Not real fat but amazon type. Come to find out she stripped in NYC in past. Great. 2 for 2. Met her at hotel following week. Not bad. But she pulled the CBJ bullshit. Not a bad session. Too big for me. Angles hard. LOL.

Both 300 plus hotel. Value to me is not there. You really need to screen and decide on these girls spending your hard earned money on hard cores. Finding that raw GND is still worth it if you find it.

PM if you want the name of latina. She needs a daddy. Big naturals.

[Chudakkad]

Goes by Alana.

She's a $1 k baby if you're a baller. She's not worth even half that in my book.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...f-df31a10b8c55

Came down to 600 allowance, still a no go for me.

[Chudakkad]

If you meet up with this girl, use your big head instead of your little head like I did. I didn't take the value of the previous posts to heart. I only saw this pics and all the ones she kept sending me in snap. First flag. She said she lives in Wallingford, but when I ask where to pick her up, she says at her apt in Windsor.


Do yourself a favor. Don't bother with this one unless this is the craziness you crave in your life. No signs of demons but definitely deep mental health issues here.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...5-cd16905a5936

Great report!

[DonnnyBravo]

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...5-cd16905a5936

Sounded tipsy, incoherent, said she wanted to meet right away, then wanted to do facetime, then said I am scaring her, I said goodbye!

She's definitely real, and a real goof ball, she's a bargain price too.

She is definitely either a heavy user or has some seriois mental issues, maybe both. I picked her up for a m&g, she was non stop talking nonsense, saying the dame things over and over, asking for money, but interested in earning it. Wants me to take her shopping at louis vuitton?! Random crying, etc.

She is very attractive, but never got anywhere with her. No idea if she is worth the time, but you will need to have the right petsonality and patience level to deal with her.

I still talk to her now and then because, well, she has a rockin body and is pretty, hoping to catch her on a day she is lucid.

If you meet up with this girl, use your big head instead of your little head like I did. I didn't take the value of the previous posts to heart. I only saw this pics and all the ones she kept sending me in snap. First flag. She said she lives in Wallingford, but when I ask where to pick her up, she says at her apt in Windsor.

I said I was 30 min away. She changed meeting spots a couple times but just across the street from each other. She started calling me on snap every 2 min to see how close I was. (Why didn't I turn around) I get there. She starts asking if I'm like Ted Bundy and going to kill her. I took it as a joke until she asked multiple tomes (around 15 no joke). We drive off, and she says she's freaked by the neighborhood. We drive away and she talks and talks and repeated the same things. Personal issues, self identity issues, locked out of her phone, jealous over sibling successes, and on and on. She starts to cry at one point. Said maybe we should turn around and she said no bc she wants to be a "bad girl" for once. Said she hadn't had sex in like 5 mo (seriously? I thought others met her).

Get to the hotel and into the room. She walks into the bathroom and then re-emerges wearing a sexy black garter and stockings. Holy shit she's hott. I forgot everything that happened up to that point. Asked me how she looked. Amazing. Then she started talking again. Pushed her on the bed and she shut up. Bra off. Panties and garter off. Got down to biz. Dfk, nipple play, daty and she had her hands all over my head. Switched to BBBJ. Average. But she went down to gag a couple times. Told me we can't go further without the cover. Covered up and went to town on her. Various positions mosh, k9, cg, etc. A good 45 min went by and blew in the bag.

We cleaned up. And I knew it was too good to be true. She said it was a mistake. She felt like a *****. She said I'm cute and she fell in love with me. WTF. Just said let's go. Went back to drop her off since I was short on time. All the way back she kept saying she's in love with me mixed with her repeated stories from before. Then a couple exits away, she says that I have serious problems. That she has a psych degree and she just knows and says I need counseling. We get to her spot, she says she loves me then starts to cry when she gets out.

Thought that was it. Then she snaps me all a bunch how she misses me and loves me and that we should go to the trampoline park tonight (I just left). Later she asks to came over to my place. Then she flips. Saying I have problems and used her and blah blah blah. Block.

Do yourself a favor. Don't bother with this one unless this is the craziness you crave in your life. No signs of demons but definitely deep mental health issues here.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...5-cd16905a5936

[Chudakkad]

Another scammer, will ask you to book a Hotel and then ask for money for uber stay away.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...6-9606e4144839

[Chudakkad]

You dropped link to your mailbox, not her profile. Common mistake.

My apologies.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...9-751c2b32ed2c

[MyHobby]

Cashapp scammer.

https://members.seeking.com/messages...8-3940c929f014

You dropped link to your mailbox, not her profile. Common mistake.

[DarkClouds]

I know her in real life. She's been around forever and I've never met up with her in this way for a reason. Never felt like she was above board. Cute enough though. That picture is a true reflection of how she looks. Occasionally when she's hard up you can actually meet her.

Goes by Charlie. Another fake 'cashapp for gas' fake.

SOB story about sick dog, need money to get meds for dog. Want to meet right away, didn't even discuss time, location, or ppm. But need cashapp for gas money.

Told her to go fuck her dog then I'll cashapp her, guessed she didn't like that and blocked me.