"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**FarFarAway** · 12-26-25 20:08

Originally Posted by DoctorSugar [View Original Post]

300 is nothing to me. But I'm still not wasting it for nothing. Coffee or a happy hour drink is my first meet. If I like her and it's going well (but not quite good enough for let's go get a room), then I give her 50 to 100 for "gas. " If they ask for gas money up front or insist they need a nice dinner for a meet and greet, I assume they are either scammers or have golden pussy syndrome.

I agree w / this. It is one thing for a girl to ask for $ to meet, it is completely another to have good chemistry w / someone and want to encourage them by giving them something (either outright cash or, what I often do, a gift card for like 40-50, from Sephora or Victoria). You are setting up a pattern that won't be that good in the long run if you let the girl make demands. You want to be in the position of control, and you give the sugar when the girl has delivered, not the other way around.

That being said, some POTs do legitimately have expenses they need to cover to meet. I am thinking Uber, gas, or babysitter. I'd be willing to agree to modest amounts for those, abut the same as the gift cards. I have gotten Uber gift cards for girls when they have asked me to send an Uber to get them. IK I am missing out on an opportunity to get some of their personal info through the ride share booking, but I can't risk sending an Uber to a POT because I have a SO.

**Doctor Sugar** · 12-26-25 13:28

Originally Posted by PeterJohnson [View Original Post]

Ok at least you recognized and admitted your mistake (to yourself, and courageously to us). Props for that.

I've only paid for non sexual date a handful of times, and then always $50 or less. It can make sense if you really enjoy the date and get some value from it. And it shows the girl you aren't a total broke loser (or could make her suspect you are a pathetic simp loser).

I'm not a foodie, so I can't see paying some girl to have lunch with me, but if you really enjoy sharing a meal with an attractive young woman, then go for it. I have done M&G when we met for a hike and will give them 50 for that, although at least some light titty play is expected on the trail.

50 is a good amount. It's enough that they don't feel like you are trying to get something for nothing, but not so much that they are taking advantage of you and taking your $ without giving you anything great in return.

So it can work, but I can't see giving a girl $100+ for a non sexual first date. Maybe for a subsequent date after I've had a few sexual ones with her first. But not for first time coffee meet. $100+ for that is usually simpastic. Although must concede that it could also be a baller whale move....if $100 (or $300) is absolutely nothing to you, and in that case carry on.

300 is nothing to me. But I'm still not wasting it for nothing. Coffee or a happy hour drink is my first meet. If I like her and it's going well (but not quite good enough for let's go get a room), then I give her 50 to 100 for "gas. " If they ask for gas money up front or insist they need a nice dinner for a meet and greet, I assume they are either scammers or have golden pussy syndrome.

**Peter Johnson** · 12-25-25 15:24

Originally Posted by Marmong [View Original Post]

This one's pictures are very misleading. She is atleast 75 pounds bigger than her pictures. There was one or two positive reviews but just wanted to warn you reputable gentleman.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...5-fa310d491de4

"- Which one's Trudi? The one with all the shit in her face? - No, that's Jody. That's my wife. ".

**Peter Johnson** · 12-25-25 15:05

Originally Posted by PlayerOne1 [View Original Post]

I paid $300 for meet and greet and I should not have.

Ok at least you recognized and admitted your mistake (to yourself, and courageously to us). Props for that.

I've only paid for non sexual date a handful of times, and then always $50 or less. It can make sense if you really enjoy the date and get some value from it. And it shows the girl you aren't a total broke loser (or could make her suspect you are a pathetic simp loser).

I'm not a foodie, so I can't see paying some girl to have lunch with me, but if you really enjoy sharing a meal with an attractive young woman, then go for it. I have done M&G when we met for a hike and will give them 50 for that, although at least some light titty play is expected on the trail.

50 is a good amount. It's enough that they don't feel like you are trying to get something for nothing, but not so much that they are taking advantage of you and taking your $ without giving you anything great in return.

So it can work, but I can't see giving a girl $100+ for a non sexual first date. Maybe for a subsequent date after I've had a few sexual ones with her first. But not for first time coffee meet. $100+ for that is usually simpastic. Although must concede that it could also be a baller whale move....if $100 (or $300) is absolutely nothing to you, and in that case carry on.

**HollowGuy** · 12-25-25 01:03

Originally Posted by Airmantroy [View Original Post]

She's a stripper, even an "honest" stripper will lie about fucking customers and the amount of money they ACTUALLY get. She's so full of shit her eyes are brown.

Yes she is lying because I have fkd her and if he is paying top tier dollar, you know be fkn her.

**CrazyRocket** · 12-24-25 23:58

Originally Posted by ChristianTroy [View Original Post]

This her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...d-96a7a42027eb

No, not that Skylar. She previously went with Sky. I nuked my account the other day so I don't have the link to her profile. Her headline was something like sexy college girl or so. 20 years old. She had a few photos with a black dress.

**Airmantroy** · 12-23-25 12:28

Originally Posted by HollowGuy [View Original Post]

I know it has been discussed in here and Ik girls lie. But here is a conversation I had with a stripper who had a seeking account.

"ASH.

Honestly the reason why I deleted it is because I have one solid reqular who always pulls through and a lot of those guys were asking for too much for too little money like $300 for sex.

ME.

$300 is good for pussy with milage. Do you know how many dancers are on there ik? They would be lucky to see $300 to be honest. There is no way you work in a strip club and not have sex in VIP.

ASH.

I have a regular who gives me 1 k just for dinner and we hang out every so often.

He's awesome.

He'll come to the club and get 3 hour Vips.

And want nothing.

Nothing sexual he just likes me and wants to talk.

ME.

Gtfoh!

ASH.

I don't want to ruin that by seeing someone else.

ME.

He sounds like a fkn unicorn.

ASH.

His name is William and I really feel like won the lottery now".

She's a stripper, even an "honest" stripper will lie about fucking customers and the amount of money they ACTUALLY get. She's so full of shit her eyes are brown.

**Jah Cool** · 12-23-25 11:19

Originally Posted by HollowGuy [View Original Post]

I know it has been discussed in here and Ik girls lie. But here is a conversation I had with a stripper who had a seeking account.

"ASH.

Honestly the reason why I deleted it is because I have one solid reqular who always pulls through and a lot of those guys were asking for too much for too little money like $300 for sex.

ME.

$300 is good for pussy with milage. Do you know how many dancers are on there ik? They would be lucky to see $300 to be honest. There is no way you work in a strip club and not have sex in VIP.

ASH.

I have a regular who gives me 1 k just for dinner and we hang out every so often.

He's awesome.

He'll come to the club and get 3 hour Vips.

And want nothing.

Nothing sexual he just likes me and wants to talk.

ME.

Gtfoh!

ASH.

I don't want to ruin that by seeing someone else.

ME.

He sounds like a fkn unicorn.

ASH.

His name is William and I really feel like won the lottery now".

I googled SIMP and a photo of William popped up. Talk about messing up the game. LOL.

**HollowGuy** · 12-23-25 09:29

I know it has been discussed in here and Ik girls lie. But here is a conversation I had with a stripper who had a seeking account.

"ASH.

Honestly the reason why I deleted it is because I have one solid reqular who always pulls through and a lot of those guys were asking for too much for too little money like $300 for sex.

ME.

$300 is good for pussy with milage. Do you know how many dancers are on there ik? They would be lucky to see $300 to be honest. There is no way you work in a strip club and not have sex in VIP.

ASH.

I have a regular who gives me 1 k just for dinner and we hang out every so often.

He's awesome.

He'll come to the club and get 3 hour Vips.

And want nothing.

Nothing sexual he just likes me and wants to talk.

ME.

Gtfoh!

ASH.

I don't want to ruin that by seeing someone else.

ME.

He sounds like a fkn unicorn.

ASH.

His name is William and I really feel like won the lottery now".

**Rabbit56** · 12-22-25 21:48

Originally Posted by ChristianTroy [View Original Post]

This her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...d-96a7a42027eb

I've interacted with her. Traded numbers and she texted me saying her and her friend wanted to come over right then and there for PPM. It was so forward it actually turned me off and I didn't respond.

**Christian Troy** · 12-22-25 16:02

Originally Posted by IAmHereForFun [View Original Post]

What does GPS and SDM mean?

GPS = Golden Pussy Syndrome (overinflated sense of market value).

SDM = SugarDaddyMeet (sugar site like seeking) https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/.

**IAmHereForFun** · 12-22-25 14:56

Originally Posted by ChristianTroy [View Original Post]

This her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...d-96a7a42027eb

What does GPS and SDM mean?

**Christian Troy** · 12-22-25 14:47

Originally Posted by CrazyRocket [View Original Post]

I don't have the link to her profile at the moment but those who are seeking in the range of 18-24 would probably have seen her already. She has dark red hair now. 20 yo student from ATL. She is on and off the site, and based on my assessment so far she may already have turned into a GPS in the short period of time. Couldn't get through her after texting for a while back then. I am about to give up as I don't have patience anymore to deal with inconsistency. Just curious if anyone had luck with her so far.

On Seeking, 18-25 yo white SBs has been a challenge recently. Thinking about venturing back to SDM.

This her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...d-96a7a42027eb