The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

**Swimback** · 12-21-24 11:48

Originally Posted by FabricBuster [View Original Post]

Curious which prepaid card you used for SB?

My conspiracy theory is most girls on SB are fake. The real ones receive some kind of incentive for getting you to message them and spend credits.

**FabricBuster** · 12-21-24 10:38

Originally Posted by Biscuits1234 [View Original Post]

She's on SB as well (I connected with her there): https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...db0f47b93933d0.

Just started talking to her. From what I can tell she is very real, but very new to this. I get timid vibes of desperation from the way she talks. Like this sugar dating thing is a last resort for her. Might be reading too deep.

I haven't set anything up with her yet as she supposedly went to bed shortly after connecting. Will follow up when / if this progresses anywhere.

Curious which prepaid card you used for SB?

**AshWink** · 12-20-24 18:19

Originally Posted by MmceStep [View Original Post]

It's a solid thought. I tend to be more relationship driven with SA. I also let my guard down way more when doing SA M&G's. I guess I can't really do that anymore, with the way these two worlds are colliding. I also think it's amazing that a couple times I've really thought I've been talking to this well-put-together, top shelf college coed and what showed up was a complete junkie 304. Some of these girls are extremely proficient liars.

Any suggestions what not to say / ask during M&Gs?

That's where I've discussed allowances in the past, and haven't attempted anything since the new law.

**Biscuits1234** · 12-20-24 01:42

Originally Posted by jobobtheclown [View Original Post]

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...73389478&nsp=1
https://members.seeking.com/member/d...6-ebf7aebb77d6

Had a M&G, scheduled a first date, but suddenly asked for $1. 3 k all of a sudden the day before the date (way more than and in addition to the 400 agreed upon). Obviously I didn't pay, she still set up the appointment, then I got ghosted and blocked at the last minute. Scammer; don't believe her sob stories. Avoid.

She's on SB as well (I connected with her there): https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...db0f47b93933d0.

Just started talking to her. From what I can tell she is very real, but very new to this. I get timid vibes of desperation from the way she talks. Like this sugar dating thing is a last resort for her. Might be reading too deep.

I haven't set anything up with her yet as she supposedly went to bed shortly after connecting. Will follow up when / if this progresses anywhere.

**jobobtheclown** · 12-19-24 20:48

Originally Posted by BerolLoz [View Original Post]

Thanks for that. She looks cute, assuming she's real. But yes, I'd drop $400 on her, but 1. 3 K is crazy. A bit of an odd number, too. Why not an even grand, or $1200 or $1500?

Odd she still sets-up the meet after you told her no, and then ghosts / bocks. Sounds more like an immature kid than a real scammer. Still, waste of your time.

I think you're spot on; it felt more like chickening out. I wasn't even that annoyed when she ghosted, until I realized she blocked me rather than deleted her account on SDM, and made a new one on Seeking. Anyway, figured why'all could benefit from knowing to keep your wallets close.

**Berol Loz** · 12-19-24 17:45

Originally Posted by jobobtheclown [View Original Post]

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...73389478&nsp=1
https://members.seeking.com/member/d...6-ebf7aebb77d6

Had a M&G, scheduled a first date, but suddenly asked for $1. 3 k all of a sudden the day before the date (way more than and in addition to the 400 agreed upon). Obviously I didn't pay, she still set up the appointment, then I got ghosted and blocked at the last minute. Scammer; don't believe her sob stories. Avoid.

Thanks for that. She looks cute, assuming she's real. But yes, I'd drop $400 on her, but 1. 3 K is crazy. A bit of an odd number, too. Why not an even grand, or $1200 or $1500?

Odd she still sets-up the meet after you told her no, and then ghosts / bocks. Sounds more like an immature kid than a real scammer. Still, waste of your time.

**Rgfct4** · 12-19-24 11:32

Originally Posted by HowAbtThis [View Original Post]

This one is interesting. First, I'll start by saying that I haven't personally met her. I have however seen her on a couple of swinger sites. A couple that I know in the lifestyle has met her as well. On these swinger sites, the profile is that of a male that boasts a wife and two "girlfriends". Of which she is one of the listed girlfriends. I've seen profiles for all 3 of the ladies on SA at some point, so the guy isn't fooling anyone who has seen them on SA and similar places. Anyway, apparently they host and go to a lot of swinger events. You can have them all for nothing if you are lucky? Enough to be at one of these events.

Could you please post a link or two? Or DM them to me?

Thanks in advance.

**HowAbtThis** · 12-19-24 08:44

Originally Posted by Swimback [View Original Post]

She is high volume and will BB anyone who asks. I almost met with her not too long ago but I got a feeling I shouldn't and backed out. That is the reality with the high volume girls, its a matter of time before she catches something and spreads it. I've had the clap twice in my time doing SA and it was from very clean cut looking girls. Thankfully it was an antibiotic pill and done with that. It is a matter of time BB'ing girls. Girls go in two directions when they start this stuff: 1. Fuck a few guys then burn out realizing the money isn't worth their mental health. 2. Embrace the lifestyle and become a pro at it. I've met some over the years who were only on seeking like two weeks and then burned out, lucky I caught them when I did. Still see one or two but they are mostly retired / UTR, will just see guys they have seen before. That's all to say when you see a pro girl you deal with pro girl problems.

This one is interesting. First, I'll start by saying that I haven't personally met her. I have however seen her on a couple of swinger sites. A couple that I know in the lifestyle has met her as well. On these swinger sites, the profile is that of a male that boasts a wife and two "girlfriends". Of which she is one of the listed girlfriends. I've seen profiles for all 3 of the ladies on SA at some point, so the guy isn't fooling anyone who has seen them on SA and similar places. Anyway, apparently they host and go to a lot of swinger events. You can have them all for nothing if you are lucky? Enough to be at one of these events.

**jobobtheclown** · 12-19-24 07:47

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...73389478&nsp=1
https://members.seeking.com/member/d...6-ebf7aebb77d6

Had a M&G, scheduled a first date, but suddenly asked for $1. 3 k all of a sudden the day before the date (way more than and in addition to the 400 agreed upon). Obviously I didn't pay, she still set up the appointment, then I got ghosted and blocked at the last minute. Scammer; don't believe her sob stories. Avoid.

**Swimback** · 12-18-24 12:41

Originally Posted by Ganggang123 [View Original Post]

Any more recent updates on her? I've seen her before in the past back when she was doing BBBJ only but the recent posts about doctor visits are making me nervous.

She is high volume and will BB anyone who asks. I almost met with her not too long ago but I got a feeling I shouldn't and backed out. That is the reality with the high volume girls, its a matter of time before she catches something and spreads it. I've had the clap twice in my time doing SA and it was from very clean cut looking girls. Thankfully it was an antibiotic pill and done with that. It is a matter of time BB'ing girls. Girls go in two directions when they start this stuff: 1. Fuck a few guys then burn out realizing the money isn't worth their mental health. 2. Embrace the lifestyle and become a pro at it. I've met some over the years who were only on seeking like two weeks and then burned out, lucky I caught them when I did. Still see one or two but they are mostly retired / UTR, will just see guys they have seen before. That's all to say when you see a pro girl you deal with pro girl problems.

**Ganggang123** · 12-17-24 13:41

Originally Posted by Rgfct4 [View Original Post]

What did you doctor tell you?

Any more recent updates on her? I've seen her before in the past back when she was doing BBBJ only but the recent posts about doctor visits are making me nervous.

**UnitedFan** · 12-17-24 01:15

Saw Bbjay mentioned. Vile woman only interested in scamming and money. My own fault but I should've read the signs before giving into her sob story and giving her money. She basically ghosted and when I called her out she turned it around on me. Huge waste of time. Buyer beware of this shitty woman.

**SaintMan3500** · 12-13-24 18:59

Originally Posted by YourCCPimp [View Original Post]

Sorry, forgot I couldn't post the link. Let's just Allyssa got into a little legal trouble.

While I didn't see the link, I think I know what you're talking about. I had seen her face on one of those websites that showed what she had gotten charged with. Unfortunately, I'm not surprised, since the reason initially was due to something similar.

**YourCCPimp** · 12-12-24 08:03

Originally Posted by YourCCPimp [View Original Post]

You may have a hard time meeting with her.

Sorry, forgot I couldn't post the link. Let's just Allyssa got into a little legal trouble.

**YourCCPimp** · 12-11-24 20:42

Originally Posted by SaintMan3500 [View Original Post]

Great post. From looking at the names and putting them in the search bar, it seems I've also had "conversations" with them. From memory.

Carolina Charm: I remember she's been on the site a long time, but communication with her would always be shitty unless I said a smart ass comment (to which she'd immediately respond or have something of substance to say). Not into me.

Veronica J: She's replied to me in the past, but always seemed adamant about online only nonsense.

Natasha: She's replied to me in the past, but responses would always be one word generic responses. Not Into me.

Bbjay- not into me.

Violet710- I've talked with her but the biggest problem has been figuring out a day / date to meet. Either she's busy, or the days she suggested don't work with my schedule, etc. That said, Never got the vibe she would try to scam me or stand me up.

Allyssa- Probably the closest person that I've come close to meeting and we have had decent convos. Unfortunately a situation occurred that prevented us from linking up. Not a bad communicator, but seems very bitter and angry. I remember following her on Twitter / X, and 99% of her posts would be complaining, or telling people to KYS or wishing death on them.

You may have a hard time meeting with her.

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