Non Pro's

[RaisingCain]

DJ Sybian, I met around April or May of last year. She came to my place a few times for $400 each. We hit it off, but there are a million red flags.

1. After we had sex, she said she'd be raped 3 weeks earlier. Claimed that she was doing Instacart and someone drugged her while she was shopping, took her out of the store. She woke up naked in the back of pick up truck with some guy stripping her car. According to her, the police showed up, told her to get dressed and go home and let the guy go. The story is so unbelievable that I was skeptical. I believe she was raped, but I couldn't imagine any cop in Washington State encountering a naked woman claiming she was raped and telling her to get dressed and go home and let the guy go. I believe it has something to do with the other things she told me.

I've seen her close to a dozen times now I guess. I've learned she exaggerates a fair amount, for sympathy or something? Idk why. I agree when she's been drinking she can be a handful, and has even missed some dates with me because she was likely drunk. However when you can get her, she is a cool sweet girl to be around, and about the tightest girl I've ever met. You talked about her seeing guys bareback, and my experience with her is that she is a safety girl, so I wonder if that was her exaggerating again. I know I'd love to be in that bare.

Also the boyfriend part is real, I live somewhat near them and have met him a couple times, she actually introduced us one time, she's open with him.

I have been to her place several times, she has a room there that is just for playing, and have never been approached by anyone, her boyfriend just heads out for a couple hours.

I've found the best way with some of her flakiness is to communicate the day of meeting, and she loves when you bring weed.

[DrtyHarry]

Avoid this one.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...6-f96f038609c1

Seen her once a few months ago. I wasn't going to see her again because it was just an ok time.

She reached out last week wanting to see me again. I figured what the heck maybe it would be better this time since we had been together once. Communication was great all week. A hour before she texted me saying how excited she was. I was going to her apartment BTW. About 10 minutes I let her know I was almost there. Parked texted I was there. Started walking to here place and was approached by a guy asking what I was doing here. I said I was visiting a friend. He said no I wasn't and should leave. So I did. I sent her a few more text but never heard anything back.

Be warned

I have seen her maybe 1. 5 years ago. At the time she went by another screenname. At the time she did not advertise as "Open Relationship" but rather as "Married but looking" if I am not mistaken. I usually do a couple drinks before fucking and it was no different with her we drank a little, smoked and chatted. We fucked like bunnies and I was on my merry way. We fucked a few times and then I moved on. Not for any particular reason, she was fun and always on time and did whatever I wanted to bed. I just loose interest after a few times, the whole thing about this hobby (for me) is the variety. I am not surprised seeing Micheals experience with her, she was great but you knew there a was a lot below the surface.

[HelloThar]

I can tell you the first is not a newbie (and definitely not my type), just a head case. Another member here went on a date with her and even agreed on terms before she changed her mind and started demanding money for every single meet. I'm guessing at this point she learned to put those demands up front and saved you a headache. Personally, those pics she posts would be a huge red flag.

Yeah, I was probably being nice labeling her as such. Basically went through my series of questions, acted fine at first, then suddenly felt offended for hinting at anything physical for a ppm. Bear in mind my bio, intro message, and first few texts makes things really obvious.

I think I was less annoyed with the scammer who asked me for gas money late in the process than I did with her. Would've ditched her way sooner if she wasn't one of the few non-Seattle types I was chatting with at the time. Glad we didn't meet though.

[Mamouna]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...0-e811506a9276

Time waster / newbie who expected free money.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...6-eef1e9284477

Time waster / newbie. Somehow just ignored everything in my first message and wanted me to explain terms. That or high, was weird.

I can tell you the first is not a newbie (and definitely not my type), just a head case. Another member here went on a date with her and even agreed on terms before she changed her mind and started demanding money for every single meet. I'm guessing at this point she learned to put those demands up front and saved you a headache. Personally, those pics she posts would be a huge red flag.

[3Putt]

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...e-0821f52fc6a4

Any one who list Washington Washington as a location, I just skip.

[Irwin18]

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...e-0821f52fc6a4

[HelloThar]

I've actually already blocked the bottom two in my previous report, so can't check the names anymore. Should be Lealeone and Khloebaby or something. If anyone wants to correct me, feel free.

Reminder for others that it's easy for people to change their usernames. I don't know how some people add emojis to it, seeking doesn't let me add special characters, and I've seen hearts in people's usernames.

I sometimes do wildcard keyword searches here by typing the last random digits of the seeking profile URL, I. E. *fa1fbebea1a7* and it should pop up if someone's mentioned it in a previous report.

[MilfHunter66]

Guys for your contributions to be truly effective in the longer term people should be able to find them. If people are looking for info on a particular profile in SA, if you post the username and your contribution is relevant it would be returned.

Edited my post to include usernames.

[DelToro]

Guys for your contributions to be truly effective in the longer term people should be able to find them. If people are looking for info on a particular profile in SA, if you post the username and your contribution is relevant it would be returned.

[MilfHunter66]

This one gave me a real good story

Brown eyes

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...3-fa1fbebea1a7

Once she realized I wasn't falling for it the communication stopped and she blocked me. Then today I see a new profile for her. It's interesting the level of BS theses ladies can come up with LOL.

This one seemed ready and was pushing for a quick meetup.

Boldandblunt

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...7-5c29fc3831b0

Every time I tried setting something up there was a lame excuse. Today it was her mom had a heart attack. But she was still active on seeking.

These ladies are just looking for something for nothing.

[HelloThar]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...0-e811506a9276

Time waster / newbie who expected free money.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...6-eef1e9284477

Time waster / newbie. Somehow just ignored everything in my first message and wanted me to explain terms. That or high, was weird.

[HelloThar]

Kay can host but she prefers not to, and definitely wouldn't the first time you hook up with her.

Thanks for the info. I'm too lazy to work through that, especially since the one I'm seeing now is similar in looks, location, and rate but so much more easygoing all around. That, and I don't have a boat, LOL.

[MaCross19]

Kay can host but she prefers not to, and definitely wouldn't the first time you hook up with her.

[HelloThar]

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...3-4d5ce4e1193c

Can host for $400, but don't have any other info. Apparently she's been reported here before a couple years back but no information was given other than through DMs. She's one among many I messaged but not interested after looking at her pics again.

Kay.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...d-ad9053658db4

Best sex I have ever had on the site but she is picky as hell. She likes boats so if you have a boat that will help. We ended up doing $500 per meet. Again best sex I have ever had on here's but then she ghosted.

Her pictures look great, but damn, you can tell she's high maintenance in that bio. I actually had her hidden, but I'm sure a lot of guys wouldn't mind even a one and done if they get the same experience at that rate. Can she host at all?

Anyone else notice if they have a shitload of items on their wishlist, it's almost always a red flag, LOL.

Thanks for the shoutout, its nice to see that ones contributions are appreciated.

It also helps I think with the hesitant newbies as they get a bit overwhelmed by the directness and do not engage with me. I have not met many newbies, and the couple that I did were absolute gems.

Also at some point once we are on text, I initiate sexting, if I can not openly chat about how we are going to fuck, then the probability of that actually happen is going to be low, I rather know in advance and not waste my time on a M&G. Its also a good way to figure what they are comfortable doing. I never directly ask about BB or Anal, I just describe it on the things we could do and let them respond to that, if they say, that sounds great, then you are good to go

Being direct while respectful works well. My closing percentage on the first M&G is around 90%, because by that point its pretty obvious what we both want, but I always give them the option to back down as pressuring them would end up on a poor experience.

I wouldn't mind meeting a newbie, though I can tell it's definitely going to be rare. I like the fact that it's generally clearcut if they get overwhelmed at least as it makes passing or continuing the process easier. If there's any doubt whatsoever in their responses, it's almost always not going to continue from there.

I'm probably a bit more reserved on sexting unless they start it themselves, but I don't blame you for initiating it as a means to see how they respond or if they have certain boundaries. I'd probably just straight up ask them the latter, LOL, but then again I'm not looking for anything too specific. Yet.

Also agree that M&G should basically be a formality as long as you aren't a creep and filtered well by that point. I'm also of the same idea that if they don't enjoy the experience, I won't either, so I make sure to emphasize that.

[DelToro]

Michael, you and DelToro, among others here are definitely the go to's for experience. The ones that can admit what they're doing and not let it bother them are the ones getting shit done and being rewarded for it, and that's exactly what most guys want. It's a wakeup call for everyone else.

Thanks for the shoutout, its nice to see that ones contributions are appreciated.

I'm with some of the others on here and agree that being direct and fairly explicit, but respectful is best. I just don't have the patience to beat around the bush (heh). You might miss out on some that you could grind out and work with, but I don't mind that if it means weeding out a majority of time wasters, scammers, or those looking for something serious, one or two messages in or sooner..

To me that has worked well. I can go several times so I make sure that the expectation of multiples is there. Many do not reply when I reach but when they do, there is no doubt that fucking several times is the expectation, if we match and reach and agreement, etc. I also mention that I am looking for something consistent, and its true, its hard for me to find somebody that can keep up, when that happens I want to keep seeing them. They definitely like the idea that is not just a hook up.

It also helps I think with the hesitant newbies as they get a bit overwhelmed by the directness and do not engage with me. I have not met many newbies, and the couple that I did were absolute gems.

Also at some point once we are on text, I initiate sexting, if I can not openly chat about how we are going to fuck, then the probability of that actually happen is going to be low, I rather know in advance and not waste my time on a M&G. Its also a good way to figure what they are comfortable doing. I never directly ask about BB or Anal, I just describe it on the things we could do and let them respond to that, if they say, that sounds great, then you are good to go

Being direct while respectful works well. My closing percentage on the first M&G is around 90%, because by that point its pretty obvious what we both want, but I always give them the option to back down as pressuring them would end up on a poor experience.