Non Pro's

[HelloThar]

I can tell you the first is not a newbie (and definitely not my type), just a head case. Another member here went on a date with her and even agreed on terms before she changed her mind and started demanding money for every single meet. I'm guessing at this point she learned to put those demands up front and saved you a headache. Personally, those pics she posts would be a huge red flag.

Yeah, I was probably being nice labeling her as such. Basically went through my series of questions, acted fine at first, then suddenly felt offended for hinting at anything physical for a ppm. Bear in mind my bio, intro message, and first few texts makes things really obvious.

I think I was less annoyed with the scammer who asked me for gas money late in the process than I did with her. Would've ditched her way sooner if she wasn't one of the few non-Seattle types I was chatting with at the time. Glad we didn't meet though.

[Mamouna]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...0-e811506a9276

Time waster / newbie who expected free money.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...6-eef1e9284477

Time waster / newbie. Somehow just ignored everything in my first message and wanted me to explain terms. That or high, was weird.

I can tell you the first is not a newbie (and definitely not my type), just a head case. Another member here went on a date with her and even agreed on terms before she changed her mind and started demanding money for every single meet. I'm guessing at this point she learned to put those demands up front and saved you a headache. Personally, those pics she posts would be a huge red flag.

[3Putt]

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...e-0821f52fc6a4

Any one who list Washington Washington as a location, I just skip.

[Irwin18]

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...e-0821f52fc6a4

[HelloThar]

I've actually already blocked the bottom two in my previous report, so can't check the names anymore. Should be Lealeone and Khloebaby or something. If anyone wants to correct me, feel free.

Reminder for others that it's easy for people to change their usernames. I don't know how some people add emojis to it, seeking doesn't let me add special characters, and I've seen hearts in people's usernames.

I sometimes do wildcard keyword searches here by typing the last random digits of the seeking profile URL, I. E. *fa1fbebea1a7* and it should pop up if someone's mentioned it in a previous report.

[MilfHunter66]

Guys for your contributions to be truly effective in the longer term people should be able to find them. If people are looking for info on a particular profile in SA, if you post the username and your contribution is relevant it would be returned.

Edited my post to include usernames.

[DelToro]

Guys for your contributions to be truly effective in the longer term people should be able to find them. If people are looking for info on a particular profile in SA, if you post the username and your contribution is relevant it would be returned.

[MilfHunter66]

This one gave me a real good story

Brown eyes

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...3-fa1fbebea1a7

Once she realized I wasn't falling for it the communication stopped and she blocked me. Then today I see a new profile for her. It's interesting the level of BS theses ladies can come up with LOL.

This one seemed ready and was pushing for a quick meetup.

Boldandblunt

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...7-5c29fc3831b0

Every time I tried setting something up there was a lame excuse. Today it was her mom had a heart attack. But she was still active on seeking.

These ladies are just looking for something for nothing.

[HelloThar]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...0-e811506a9276

Time waster / newbie who expected free money.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...6-eef1e9284477

Time waster / newbie. Somehow just ignored everything in my first message and wanted me to explain terms. That or high, was weird.

[HelloThar]

Kay can host but she prefers not to, and definitely wouldn't the first time you hook up with her.

Thanks for the info. I'm too lazy to work through that, especially since the one I'm seeing now is similar in looks, location, and rate but so much more easygoing all around. That, and I don't have a boat, LOL.

[MaCross19]

Kay can host but she prefers not to, and definitely wouldn't the first time you hook up with her.

[HelloThar]

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...3-4d5ce4e1193c

Can host for $400, but don't have any other info. Apparently she's been reported here before a couple years back but no information was given other than through DMs. She's one among many I messaged but not interested after looking at her pics again.

Kay.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...d-ad9053658db4

Best sex I have ever had on the site but she is picky as hell. She likes boats so if you have a boat that will help. We ended up doing $500 per meet. Again best sex I have ever had on here's but then she ghosted.

Her pictures look great, but damn, you can tell she's high maintenance in that bio. I actually had her hidden, but I'm sure a lot of guys wouldn't mind even a one and done if they get the same experience at that rate. Can she host at all?

Anyone else notice if they have a shitload of items on their wishlist, it's almost always a red flag, LOL.

Thanks for the shoutout, its nice to see that ones contributions are appreciated.

It also helps I think with the hesitant newbies as they get a bit overwhelmed by the directness and do not engage with me. I have not met many newbies, and the couple that I did were absolute gems.

Also at some point once we are on text, I initiate sexting, if I can not openly chat about how we are going to fuck, then the probability of that actually happen is going to be low, I rather know in advance and not waste my time on a M&G. Its also a good way to figure what they are comfortable doing. I never directly ask about BB or Anal, I just describe it on the things we could do and let them respond to that, if they say, that sounds great, then you are good to go

Being direct while respectful works well. My closing percentage on the first M&G is around 90%, because by that point its pretty obvious what we both want, but I always give them the option to back down as pressuring them would end up on a poor experience.

I wouldn't mind meeting a newbie, though I can tell it's definitely going to be rare. I like the fact that it's generally clearcut if they get overwhelmed at least as it makes passing or continuing the process easier. If there's any doubt whatsoever in their responses, it's almost always not going to continue from there.

I'm probably a bit more reserved on sexting unless they start it themselves, but I don't blame you for initiating it as a means to see how they respond or if they have certain boundaries. I'd probably just straight up ask them the latter, LOL, but then again I'm not looking for anything too specific. Yet.

Also agree that M&G should basically be a formality as long as you aren't a creep and filtered well by that point. I'm also of the same idea that if they don't enjoy the experience, I won't either, so I make sure to emphasize that.

[DelToro]

Michael, you and DelToro, among others here are definitely the go to's for experience. The ones that can admit what they're doing and not let it bother them are the ones getting shit done and being rewarded for it, and that's exactly what most guys want. It's a wakeup call for everyone else.

Thanks for the shoutout, its nice to see that ones contributions are appreciated.

I'm with some of the others on here and agree that being direct and fairly explicit, but respectful is best. I just don't have the patience to beat around the bush (heh). You might miss out on some that you could grind out and work with, but I don't mind that if it means weeding out a majority of time wasters, scammers, or those looking for something serious, one or two messages in or sooner..

To me that has worked well. I can go several times so I make sure that the expectation of multiples is there. Many do not reply when I reach but when they do, there is no doubt that fucking several times is the expectation, if we match and reach and agreement, etc. I also mention that I am looking for something consistent, and its true, its hard for me to find somebody that can keep up, when that happens I want to keep seeing them. They definitely like the idea that is not just a hook up.

It also helps I think with the hesitant newbies as they get a bit overwhelmed by the directness and do not engage with me. I have not met many newbies, and the couple that I did were absolute gems.

Also at some point once we are on text, I initiate sexting, if I can not openly chat about how we are going to fuck, then the probability of that actually happen is going to be low, I rather know in advance and not waste my time on a M&G. Its also a good way to figure what they are comfortable doing. I never directly ask about BB or Anal, I just describe it on the things we could do and let them respond to that, if they say, that sounds great, then you are good to go

Being direct while respectful works well. My closing percentage on the first M&G is around 90%, because by that point its pretty obvious what we both want, but I always give them the option to back down as pressuring them would end up on a poor experience.

[BoBroBgobs]

It is actually the opposite. The fat one requires condoms. But I don't want to pay $800 for one hot girl.

And I'd use a condom if I were you with the hot one as well. I had seen her like a year back (I think I had posted a report saying she gave a very pro vibe), and then recently a couple of months ago. During the recent one, we got talking and it seems she basically likes getting hammered and carelessly fuck anyone and everyone. She was telling stories about getting taken advantage of and getting stds like it was nothing. I never bring protection into the conversation, if it ever does I have my reports ready. This time I had a condom in my hand in no time.

[MaCross19]

Kay.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...d-ad9053658db4

Best sex I have ever had on the site but she is picky as hell. She likes boats so if you have a boat that will help. We ended up doing $500 per meet. Again best sex I have ever had on here's but then she ghosted.