Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

**JackTaggart** · 11-16-22 22:48

Originally Posted by YukPhu [View Original Post]

For deffo she's "fluffy". Maybe her fingers are slim.

I spent a lot of time in South America this year. At first I was filtering out all the curvy girls on seeking because here it usually means morbidly obese / rolls. There it usually means slim but with a nice ass.

**Yuk Phu** · 11-16-22 18:24

Originally Posted by BuckCock [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...1-7d814965dfe6

This one started sending me messages last month. Gave some basic banter for about 2 weeks then I asked her to upload a full body pic to the site. Wouldn't do it so I cut contact. Body type says Slim but I'm convinced she's fat.

For deffo she's "fluffy". Maybe her fingers are slim.

**Buck Cock** · 11-16-22 05:37

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...1-7d814965dfe6

This one started sending me messages last month. Gave some basic banter for about 2 weeks then I asked her to upload a full body pic to the site. Wouldn't do it so I cut contact. Body type says Slim but I'm convinced she's fat.

**Big Mac Daddy** · 11-15-22 15:30

I messaged an older (50) woman there, decent looking and divorced. Took it offline and she wanted $200 for a dinner date. Here ya go, "No and next"!

BMD.

**Gridge** · 11-15-22 14:53

Originally Posted by BigMacDaddy [View Original Post]

I stole it from the "soup Nazi" character from the old Seinfeld show. If you don't know it, check it on You Tube.

BMD-feld.

No soup for you! Come back one year!

**Steve 99** · 11-15-22 14:33

Originally Posted by TopGun9 [View Original Post]

This is a time waster.

Texted back and forth over several days discussing PPM and expectations, etc. Finally come back with a "I only sell contents these days". *****, why don't you just said so in the first place.

Maybe if you're willing to offer her 500 ppm, she might be DTF.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...b-1966f0a436a4

This one hit me up after the content only line last week. Says she is now down to meet. She doesn't have car. She wants to meet at capital grill. Yeah right. Lets go to dunkin donuts honey. LOL.

Didn't get any numbers and didn't try to meet. It is always pain in ass when they don't drive. Anyone land her? How was it? Cost?

**Kwagmire** · 11-14-22 10:31

Originally Posted by ArchitexOne [View Original Post]

Any information? Sent me a message but I am not a paid subscriber but she is just my type https://members.seeking.com/member/3...oAccessGranted#.

I've been talking with her but comms have been sporadic / inconsistent. Hard to nail down any sort of logistics for an initial meet and greet, so the jury's still out for me.

Kwag.

**ArchitexOne** · 11-13-22 20:55

Any information? Sent me a message but I am not a paid subscriber but she is just my type https://members.seeking.com/member/3...oAccessGranted#.

**JackTaggart** · 11-13-22 13:44

Originally Posted by OldPup [View Original Post]

I think that the angle on that scam is that they will ask you to send a picture of the gift card from which they try to extract the money by going online.

There are many in CT, a bunch of them go by the name Lucy once you move to text, WhatsApp or Telegram, that use that scam.

I agree that the benefits outweigh the hassles. If you suck enough oysters, there are many pearls out there. I just had the most amazing vacation thanks to SA. Two college girls that met me at the beach for sunset, fed them dinner and lots of booze and then had a few hours of dessert in bed. Another woman in her forties but with an incredible body, who was insatiable and who's still begging me to come back, and a 27 year old that wouldn't let me give her any gifts, just two nights of dinner and along with two blissful sleepovers.

Ah, sending the photo makes sense now. Thanks!

**BlueFox141** · 11-12-22 23:40

Originally Posted by PopPoppy70 [View Original Post]

Most SB's I move to texting after a day or so, otherwise it's just too much hassle and a waste of time. In texting I quickly I discuss my past arrangements and tell them this is what I offer as ppm. I also say I've been scammed before in the past by sending money to girls ahead of time (haven't BTW) for uber / giftcard / whatever and that I don't do that anymore.

It sets where I'm at and that I don't tolerate any bullshyt. They can take it or leave it. Plenty of girls out there to be had without the BS, you just have lay down your rules.

I have been off SA for at least 6 months, but I found that telling them that I would never send any money prior to meeting in person and don't prepay for anything, ever, weeded out a lot of the scammers. Although, once in awhile I would get one who would set up a meet and ask for something an hour or two beforehand. It's still the best way to go. Been thinking about going back because, although it was a lot of work, I did find some gems. Not sure if it's worth it now.

Blue.

**PopPoppy70** · 11-12-22 17:09

Most SB's I move to texting after a day or so, otherwise it's just too much hassle and a waste of time. In texting I quickly I discuss my past arrangements and tell them this is what I offer as ppm. I also say I've been scammed before in the past by sending money to girls ahead of time (haven't BTW) for uber / giftcard / whatever and that I don't do that anymore.

It sets where I'm at and that I don't tolerate any bullshyt. They can take it or leave it. Plenty of girls out there to be had without the BS, you just have lay down your rules.

**Big Mac Daddy** · 11-12-22 09:50

Originally Posted by DaReal86 [View Original Post]

LOL was trying to figure out whose quote this was on here. Thanks for reminding me it was the BigMacDaddy.

I stole it from the "soup Nazi" character from the old Seinfeld show. If you don't know it, check it on You Tube.

BMD-feld.

**Kwagmire** · 11-12-22 09:31

Originally Posted by DaReal86 [View Original Post]

Newbies take some notes this is how it's done. Either discuss it through text or a FREE meet and greet no deposit bullshit. These b!tches don't deserve shit until the job is done. I am not speaking bad on members on the board but a lot men in general have turned into simps! Don't simp for no women besides your wife or GF. These women want whats in your wallet and you want to make a sperm deposit. NEXT!

Thanks, DR86.

It's too bad. She's super cute, and we truly had a great, easy, intelligent and flowing conversation on the phone. Because she's short sighted and wouldn't accept a free drink and maybe free dinner as I thoroughly enjoyed talking with her, instead wanting to be paid for same, she potentially (provided she was "feeling it" too, with me) left many thousands, over the course of an ongoing sugar relationship, on the table.

Ah, women.

**DaReal86** · 11-11-22 21:05

Originally Posted by SlackerInMsn [View Original Post]

As BMD says, NEXT!

LOL was trying to figure out whose quote this was on here. Thanks for reminding me it was the BigMacDaddy.

**Big Mac Daddy** · 11-11-22 20:34

Originally Posted by SlackerInMsn [View Original Post]

While all the "let's meet for $" are a NEXT! I've definitely had a few dates where it was, "you didn't value my time, if you did, you would've paid me extra after dinner and drinks and we could have fun next time.

Thank you.

She now knows, because she didn't value your time, there is no next time.

BMD.