Seeking Arrangements

[McBright]

I agree but it's still more fish in the dish bowl.

[beQUOTE=Bran001;6010170]That type of SB is a type that I have zero interest in, so they can do and say whatever they want. They are the pro / semi-pro / "I know my worth" clan.

I have nothing to do with that type of woman.

They are all over Reddit telling each other how much they make at this and I'm sure that 80% of it is inflated or down right BS. [ / QUOTE].

[DarkClouds]

I follow many of them of social media even when I decide not to see them. And I see that they do manage to find arrangements that involve travel, or being out on a boat, or museum trips, or some such extravagance. The sort of stuff I would never do on a first date. Once intimacy is out of the way, if it went well, I might consider going for a meal or a concert or to the zoo or something. But that's where I draw the line.

Once in a blue moon they might find that unicorn SD who offers extravagance on day 1. Some are the type to hold out just for that (those are the types I also want nothing to do with). Most are the type to get by with the more run of the mill SD until the unicorn SD comes along.

I've been with gorgeous ladies for very reasonable allowances and then later seen them out on some SD's boat or holidaying in Aruba at some SD's expense (I call them photo ops).

To some extent you have to keep in mind that there are guys who don't have functioning tools. So all they can do is photo ops. Some girls are looking exclusively for that kind of guy. I never want to give a girl the impression that I'm that guy.

That type of SB is a type that I have zero interest in, so they can do and say whatever they want. They are the pro / semi-pro / "I know my worth" clan.

I have nothing to do with that type of woman.

They are all over Reddit telling each other how much they make at this and I'm sure that 80% of it is inflated or down right BS.

[Bran001]

There is a Reddit group for Sugar Babies that has a lot of information. It's comical, they are all the pro SB. Luckily most are not in our area.

That type of SB is a type that I have zero interest in, so they can do and say whatever they want. They are the pro / semi-pro / "I know my worth" clan.

I have nothing to do with that type of woman.

They are all over Reddit telling each other how much they make at this and I'm sure that 80% of it is inflated or down right BS.

[HounDog3]

Just had a good date with a senior member on SA and she said with the discount for the 4th she had hundreds of messages on Monday and Tuesday. Taking a break for 30 days myself to let the newbies ruin it for themselves. Bring on the fall!

McBright if you're taking a break for 30 days, why not share her screen name and link to her profile.

<<she said with the discount for the 4th she had hundreds of messages on Monday and Tuesday>> sounds more like a pro then the typical SA woman?

[McBright]

There is a Reddit group for Sugar Babies that has a lot of information. It's comical, they are all the pro SB. Luckily most are not in our area.

Probably. There are a ton of forums for SBs and they are full of shitty advice like this. Just takes a few dumbasses to make it worth them trying it with everyone. Best thing to do is tell them you only do in person, then move on.

Other tip I have is I've noticed a ton of profiles with just awful grammar or in a way that nobody would write lately. Like:

"I'm very outgoing and love a good conversation. Looking for someone with mutual respect to form a companionship".

These are inevitably scams. They tend to be online for a few days then either get reported or just make new profiles.

[Mfp79]

Is there a script these girls are all reading from?

Probably. There are a ton of forums for SBs and they are full of shitty advice like this. Just takes a few dumbasses to make it worth them trying it with everyone. Best thing to do is tell them you only do in person, then move on.

Other tip I have is I've noticed a ton of profiles with just awful grammar or in a way that nobody would write lately. Like:

"I'm very outgoing and love a good conversation. Looking for someone with mutual respect to form a companionship".

These are inevitably scams. They tend to be online for a few days then either get reported or just make new profiles.

[KcirtaPanner2]

I can't link because she blocked me but don't waste your time with CharmingPregg (new account from the last couple days, huge belly, said she's 29 weeks). Appears to be real but running the usual "I do online first then meetup" scam. I had little doubt that's where it was headed but being with a hot preggo chick is on my bucket list so I had to give it a shot.

Is there a script these girls are all reading from? I swear to god it's the same lines over and over. "It's for my safety. I've had too many bad experiences. " She's been doing this "for years" yet it's her first time on Seeking? Sure hon.

Just once I would love one of them to explain to me how me sending them 150 bucks before meeting somehow ensures their safety. Do you really think that if I was some kind of kidnapper or weirdo that 150 bucks would stop me? It's so absurd.

[McBright]

Just had a good date with a senior member on SA and she said with the discount for the 4th she had hundreds of messages on Monday and Tuesday. Taking a break for 30 days myself to let the newbies ruin it for themselves. Bring on the fall!

There once was a time where if you put in an effort, sugar was to be found on SA. The last several months have been semi-pro, picture sellers or pay just to meet.

Over the last few years, I've enjoyed 3 long term sugars, a few 2 or three meet ups and several one timer. Most were worth the time and $, of course a few were duds, but more often than not, all had a good time.

Might be time to take a break from the game. Good luck to a and thanks for you advice along the way.

[BostonJones]

Using picture of pornstar Violet Starr.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...6-f365cffc174b

[FriendlyKing]

Scammer avoid.

Thanks for flagging. I initiated a chat and after a few exchanges I realized she was a scammer.

[KangTheMonger]

I try to create a new account. Different Email, VPN on my computer and different credit card number, but same name. Any help would be great.

I think you should use IP address complete, I think having a VPN sets of some red flags

[Tribeca67]

Scammer avoid.

[Bran001]

You tried to uninstall, reinstall or reboot? Could be a problem with the App program itself and not your phone. Could send a message to the developer of the App.

Android App?

Because if you actually use Seeking you know that there is no iOS app any more.

[Mattis1775]

I had the Seeking app set to send me notifications when I received a message, and it worked fine until about a week ago when all of a sudden I stopped receiving the notifications. I checked the settings on the app and nothing had been changed. Anyone else had this problem? It's very annoying to have to constantly open the app to check and see if I have any messages, I like to be able to respond immediately because it's hard to keep a girl's attention sometimes on there.

You tried to uninstall, reinstall or reboot? Could be a problem with the App program itself and not your phone. Could send a message to the developer of the App.

[KcirtaPanner2]

I had the Seeking app set to send me notifications when I received a message, and it worked fine until about a week ago when all of a sudden I stopped receiving the notifications. I checked the settings on the app and nothing had been changed. Anyone else had this problem? It's very annoying to have to constantly open the app to check and see if I have any messages, I like to be able to respond immediately because it's hard to keep a girl's attention sometimes on there.