Seeking Arrangements

[Tdg222]

Can someone tell how to get a visa vanilla card to work on SA.

[Hobbyist420]

Anybody ever get an actual sugar baby from Seeking? Seems like a lot of people posting on this forum just use it like Eros that you got to pay $100+/ mo for.

As supposed to the glory days of seeking pre-2019 (when I was juggling 3-5 at a time), my tenures with girls I meet on current SA have been getting shorter and shorter for various reasons: mostly they start asking for cashapp after a few meetings and I deny it and they move on OR I find more "semi-pros" on there (esp in the single mom circuit).

It's no big deal for me b / c in the end of the day, we aren't here for commitment but goes to show the girls are getting more jaded / pro-ey (not a bad thing if they like sex but just don't expect exclusive or low volume gems to be widely available as they used to) and that deteriorates the site's value less and less.

When you find the UTR gem though, its way better than Eros or anything else out there today so enjoy that shit when you find it and while you have it.

[Bran001]

As I've written before, my experiences are very similar. 3-5 (now a days 4-5 is most common) and it's pure fwb. Now that I've met these girls many times it's just texting to figure out what time and at what hotel. Got a text last night "Can I see you this week it's my horny week" (I know from experience she gets particularly horny the week before her period). 7/10 looks, MIT recent grad, super down-to-earth (no makeup), loves sex.

For me, always FWB situations. Meet for coffee or lunch once, see if there's chemistry. If so, meet up at a hotel or her place for a few hours of fun. Cash, always for me. Usually 3-5, sometimes less (had some free situations before). I am limited to weekday afternoons though when here. I have had more "date" like situations when traveling (dinner, then fun) but similar ranges.

As for the kinds of girls, it varies. College students, drop outs, young professionals, married women looking for fun on the side, it depends. Generally I have the best luck with girls who are like 7-8/10. The 9-10/10 girls tend to have GPS. Some are doing it for extra cash, some are treating it like a full time gig, some are just bored / lonely. Those tend to be the slightly less attractive girls. There's a whole other segment of girls who are just looking to be paid because they exist / they just talk to you. Or are just straight up scammers (my car is broke, I need gas, I'm running out of minutes on my phone, etc). Those tend to be the super hot ones. I weed these out pretty quickly and just move on.

Like I said, it's a numbers game. I probably miss lots of gems because I didn't write a bespoke message to them or whatever but if I did, I'd be doing this as a full time job.

[KcirtaPanner2]

The second profile reads classic scammer. "State, State" format for location.

Not commenting on this particular profile but a lot of girls will just put Massachusetts as their location because they're way out in Western MA or or somewhere else far from Boston and if they put their actual location they'll get filtered out of a lot of searches (I'm pretty close to Boston and I personally search for people within 25 miles). Not necessarily the sign of a scammer.

[AlexBok]

What kind of situations did you guys find? What kind of girls? How did the payola work?

Like many of the guys here I have gotten acquainted with many women from SA. Many different needs and wants, some want more than others. I've done the 35 yo bored housewives, 44 yo Latin mamas etc. They sometimes want more commitment. I just want it when I want it! I'm still friendly with a couple of young 25-29 year old who know what I want and will meet me if they have the time. It's become a fwb only I give them some fun money. Satisfying.

[Mfp79]

What kind of situations did you guys find? What kind of girls? How did the payola work?

For me, always FWB situations. Meet for coffee or lunch once, see if there's chemistry. If so, meet up at a hotel or her place for a few hours of fun. Cash, always for me. Usually 3-5, sometimes less (had some free situations before). I am limited to weekday afternoons though when here. I have had more "date" like situations when traveling (dinner, then fun) but similar ranges.

As for the kinds of girls, it varies. College students, drop outs, young professionals, married women looking for fun on the side, it depends. Generally I have the best luck with girls who are like 7-8/10. The 9-10/10 girls tend to have GPS. Some are doing it for extra cash, some are treating it like a full time gig, some are just bored / lonely. Those tend to be the slightly less attractive girls. There's a whole other segment of girls who are just looking to be paid because they exist / they just talk to you. Or are just straight up scammers (my car is broke, I need gas, I'm running out of minutes on my phone, etc). Those tend to be the super hot ones. I weed these out pretty quickly and just move on.

Like I said, it's a numbers game. I probably miss lots of gems because I didn't write a bespoke message to them or whatever but if I did, I'd be doing this as a full time job.

[ThizzleHats]

I had a few long term SB's and others that lasted no more than a couple weeks. Anybody trying / wanting to use SA like Eros, or Skip, etc, is wasting their time and money. As said in this forum recently, it is not that type of site.

Yes, many times. It's a numbers game on both sides. Just have to make a quick pitch to a lot of girls and the real ones will eventually bite.

What kind of situations did you guys find? What kind of girls? How did the payola work?

[Chuchunga]

The second profile reads classic scammer. "State, State" format for location, plus the "I am seeking for" language.

First is really nice. Will want between 5-7 with a cover. Tall former volleyball player.

[Rome400]

Texted with Blyn for a bit. Nice enough but tells me she wants a min of 500 / hr and usually gets 800 hr. Haven't replied yet because I want to ask you mongers your opinion. Think it's worth it? She won't send any more pics but will probably meet up. Seems pretty steep to me. A lot of girls on Sa have major gps.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...7-9cc6a8ace7b4

Me personally I wouldn't spend more then 300 for an unrushed couple of hours. She's from manchvegas, potential junkie, has multiple kids so theres a good shot of BD (baby damage). LOL so much more available, and no more pics. Geesh.

[Aimstraight]

Texted with Blyn for a bit. Nice enough but tells me she wants a min of 500 / hr and usually gets 800 hr. Haven't replied yet because I want to ask you mongers your opinion. Think it's worth it? She won't send any more pics but will probably meet up. Seems pretty steep to me. A lot of girls on Sa have major gps.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...7-9cc6a8ace7b4

[HounDog3]

Anybody ever get an actual sugar baby from Seeking? Seems like a lot of people posting on this forum just use it like Eros that you got to pay $100+/ mo for.

I had a few long term SB's and others that lasted no more than a couple weeks. Anybody trying / wanting to use SA like Eros, or Skip, etc, is wasting their time and money. As said in this forum recently, it is not that type of site.

[Mfp79]

Anybody ever get an actual sugar baby from Seeking? Seems like a lot of people posting on this forum just use it like Eros that you got to pay $100+/ mo for.

Yes, many times. It's a numbers game on both sides. Just have to make a quick pitch to a lot of girls and the real ones will eventually bite.

[ThizzleHats]

Anybody ever get an actual sugar baby from Seeking? Seems like a lot of people posting on this forum just use it like Eros that you got to pay $100+/ mo for.

[BR1201]

I think this one is fake.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...a-83883767e8a2

Two of the four pics are from a dance teacher from California who is active on FB and Instagram. Pretty easy to find her. We were discussing things via SA. She seemed good with anal (red flag?) and wanted to meet immediately (red flag? We started talking about money and then she blocked me. So no idea what's going on there. Obviously a real girl who wants to meet soon and likes it in the derriere is okay in my book. But again the pics were of someone else across the country.

[Wockser]

Pics are of porn star Violet Summers. I saw the profile too and was like yeah right.

Perfect, that's what I really wanted to know. Appreciate it.