Seeking Arrangements

[JClearMan1]

But not completely nonexistent. I never believed anyone frankly who said they encountered connections without funding on SA. Until it happened to me. Agreed it's not a 20-something (which is not my target anyway) - I think she's quite attractive and cool. But that's me. Wasn't looking for free at all. Where I didn't realize she wasn't there for funds until we got into the conversation for a bit. It just evolved into a friendship with true benefits. Which is exactly what she wants. Downside: there is the "responsibility" of a friendship. Not the same as a full relationship but not the cut & dry meet and "see ya next time" thing. So there's that. Also. Meets for sensual play are more mood-driven than "desire for funds" driven. So note as urgent for her. I guess that's good and bad. Bottom line. It works but nothing is truly "free". Just might not be money.

BTW. The advice on this thread is generally very good and accurate as long as you understand we all have different tastes, preferences. Bran, Banjo and others have been spot on.

I've been talking to this one in the burbs and she sounds interesting. Wondering if anyone has also had experience? Thanks!

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...4-db7d97117cdd

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[JClearMan1]

That has happened to me twice, once from SA and once from WYP. The woman from SA was an older North Shore lady who covered the hotel room as well. She had a very significant job and wanted nothing. 3 holes open to boot. Unfortunately, she retired from her job and decided to become a regular suburban retiree. I saw her at least ten times over the years and always the same. The WYP woman was married and visiting from out of state for work. She just wanted some fun. She had a small apartment in the suburbs and never even asked for the initial WYP contribution. The more you sift on those sites the more gold you find.

Exactly! Time and patience. I like your sifting for gold metaphor. One of mine is a single professional woman that lives north of Boston (in a super nice place), and as far as I can tell just wants to try tons of different stuff with toys and so on. I'm her Huckleberry. The other is woman south of Boston that hates her husband. For her I get a hotel room, but she's never asked for money for herself. We just have marathon sex once a week.

[JClearMan1]

JClear, did you get your free women on SA? I've got two women myself, but got them from dating sites. I can't imagine a girl who'll fuck for free, going to SA. If a woman is looking for sex, dating sites offer plenty for females without the limitations of SA.

Yes, both of them. The "arrangements" they were seeking weren't just "give me money to fuck".

[Tostone71]

The free deals on SA / SB are the true unicorns. There is no point sifting for that. It's too rare. Tinder is probably your best bet. Happy hunting.

But not completely nonexistent. I never believed anyone frankly who said they encountered connections without funding on SA. Until it happened to me. Agreed it's not a 20-something (which is not my target anyway) - I think she's quite attractive and cool. But that's me. Wasn't looking for free at all. Where I didn't realize she wasn't there for funds until we got into the conversation for a bit. It just evolved into a friendship with true benefits. Which is exactly what she wants. Downside: there is the "responsibility" of a friendship. Not the same as a full relationship but not the cut & dry meet and "see ya next time" thing. So there's that. Also. Meets for sensual play are more mood-driven than "desire for funds" driven. So note as urgent for her. I guess that's good and bad. Bottom line. It works but nothing is truly "free". Just might not be money.

BTW. The advice on this thread is generally very good and accurate as long as you understand we all have different tastes, preferences. Bran, Banjo and others have been spot on.

I've been talking to this one in the burbs and she sounds interesting. Wondering if anyone has also had experience? Thanks!

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...4-db7d97117cdd

[Banjomania]

The free deals on SA / SB are the true unicorns. There is no point sifting for that. It's too rare. Tinder is probably your best bet. Happy hunting.

Will and Banjo, thanks for your info. For now, I'll keep mining the dating sites. They are free, and it's easier to weed through the ladies there, than the scammers and professionals on SA. And it seems like SA is a financial drain.

Perhaps I'm wrong, after all on SA it's pretty clear what the deal is, so it's faster that way, than explaining my no commitment posture to the dating women.

[SalamanderFour]

Which dating sites have you tried? I never had much luck with them?

I was on Tinder and Okcupid, but amazingly I got banned from both for being honest about my status (married). Both, esp Okcupid try to get you onto paid versions w shady techniques, so beware. Trying POF now, but it's an uphill path. Dating sites can be a time waste because there's too many woman that want real dates (dining, etc) or a real relationship. Eventually you'll find an older mom who is open to being a sidepiece, but they got a job, and a family, so it's hard arranging to meet. I've had two women suggest paid arrangements, but we couldn't make that happen.

Is SA or WYP easier? I get the impression those sites have their own time drain w bots, women that just sell videos, and no-show women and flakes, so those sites may not offer a real advantage. Is that true?

[Joe1223]

Which dating sites have you tried? I never had much luck with them?

I was on Bumble with a couple of successes. However I got banned because I would tell the girls I was only interested in a SB arrangement. Must have upset someone and they reported me. I haven't tried to add new profile as the ROI wasn't there for me. If you have patience it may work and there is no fee to join but it takes a fair amount of time investment.

[Joe1223]

If you look on the right side of the conversation screen (on desktop), you can see a very useful piece of data (which location the gal has been in most recently).

She was actually in Europe recently so it may show that if she checks her profile. I know this because am on IG with her and she was posting her trip. Her and I had discussed a few details but she ghosts me when I try to make a plan with her. I have moved on but she is real just flaky or selective of who she wants?

[WillSmith96]

Will and Banjo, thanks for your info. For now, I'll keep mining the dating sites. They are free, and it's easier to weed through the ladies there, than the scammers and professionals on SA. And it seems like SA is a financial drain.

Perhaps I'm wrong, after all on SA it's pretty clear what the deal is, so it's faster that way, than explaining my no commitment posture to the dating women.

Best of luck.

[Ypkan]

Will and Banjo, thanks for your info. For now, I'll keep mining the dating sites. They are free, and it's easier to weed through the ladies there, than the scammers and professionals on SA. And it seems like SA is a financial drain.

Perhaps I'm wrong, after all on SA it's pretty clear what the deal is, so it's faster that way, than explaining my no commitment posture to the dating women.

Which dating sites have you tried? I never had much luck with them?

[SalamanderFour]

I got three free from SA, all are suburban soccer Mom's, and Tinder refugees.

Will and Banjo, thanks for your info. For now, I'll keep mining the dating sites. They are free, and it's easier to weed through the ladies there, than the scammers and professionals on SA. And it seems like SA is a financial drain.

Perhaps I'm wrong, after all on SA it's pretty clear what the deal is, so it's faster that way, than explaining my no commitment posture to the dating women.

[DarkClouds]

If you look on the right side of the conversation screen (on desktop), you can see a very useful piece of data (which location the gal has been in most recently).

Made contact with her but she told me she thought she would make a costly SB. So being curious I engaged her to find out what that means. I never got an amount from her but we exchanged a few messages trying to figure out what she wanted. She states the benefit would need to outweigh the cost? Then she put a knife in it and said no matter the arrangement, it is sex work something she told herself she would never do. I assumed we were done with the conversation at that point but asked her again anyway, still waiting for an answer. Not sure if anyone has had better luck but I guess I can cross her off my list.

Can't figure out what she is actually looking for. She is real but didn't try to sell any content, ask for a prepayment and money never came up. The search continues.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...e-d4484b50ac5a

[DarkClouds]

Come on guys, that's enough. Post some pictures of your ladies? Of course, it's possible to get ugly broads for free, both on and off SA. AFAIK, posting the number of uglies you've scored is not useful to anyone here.

I got three free from SA, all are suburban soccer Mom's, and Tinder refugees.

[WillSmith96]

JClear, did you get your free women on SA? I've got two women myself, but got them from dating sites. I can't imagine a girl who'll fuck for free, going to SA. If a woman is looking for sex, dating sites offer plenty for females without the limitations of SA.

I got three free from SA, all are suburban soccer Mom's, and Tinder refugees.

[Banjomania]

That has happened to me twice, once from SA and once from WYP. The woman from SA was an older North Shore lady who covered the hotel room as well. She had a very significant job and wanted nothing. 3 holes open to boot. Unfortunately, she retired from her job and decided to become a regular suburban retiree. I saw her at least ten times over the years and always the same. The WYP woman was married and visiting from out of state for work. She just wanted some fun. She had a small apartment in the suburbs and never even asked for the initial WYP contribution. The more you sift on those sites the more gold you find.

JClear, did you get your free women on SA? I've got two women myself, but got them from dating sites. I can't imagine a girl who'll fuck for free, going to SA. If a woman is looking for sex, dating sites offer plenty for females without the limitations of SA.