Seeking Arrangements

**James Woods** · 01-26-22 08:48

Originally Posted by GianniVersace [View Original Post]

I would also NEVER EVER get a hotel room for a outcall before even meeting the SB. You need a meet and greet first before ever booking a hotel room plain and simple.

Normally that is my policy too. I was thrown off a little because the conversations seemed good. I can usually tell after the first few messages back and forth if it is going to be a waste of time. Like I said, no real red flags. The date was going well to that point.

If someone meets with her and it is a positive experience I would love to know. Maybe this was some other girl using her pics, or something? I am an optimist.

Have fun. Be careful.

JW.

**JDeller** · 01-26-22 07:58

First, do m&g first. What if you discover the girl is a whack job? Lifeless? Terrible personality? Happened to me once at m&g and couldn't wait to bail.

Second, make hotel reservation as late as possible-preferably when you see them arrive in parking lot.

Third, show the money if they ask (and they will) and put it in a secure place so they can't just grab and dash, move it during a break in the action and always give the money at the end.

After a few dates I just move to venmo. Most guys aren't comfortable with that but I like the convenience and avoids making the whole deal seem transactional and them feeling like a _ It also tends to limit any further discussion of money, like, "Can we do a higher ppm moving forward? "My oil bill just came".

Originally Posted by GianniVersace [View Original Post]

I would also NEVER EVER get a hotel room for a outcall before even meeting the SB. You need a meet and greet first before ever booking a hotel room plain and simple.

**MinorLeague** · 01-26-22 00:17

Originally Posted by Boston234 [View Original Post]

I was wondering what is people's experience with strippers?

Not recently. Back in the 2000's I fucked a couple Burning Angel models (paid) who were also strippers, those were the days.

**Gianni Versace** · 01-25-22 23:17

Originally Posted by CandyMan555 [View Original Post]

James Woods;5745393]Quick Quick Version:

She reached out via SA. Usual pleasantries. Seemed to check out. Moved the convo to Snap Chat. Set up a meet at a local hotel. Wanted 4. 5 for BBFS or 5 for Greek.

Seemed like a pro, she didn't pop any other red flags.

Later at hotel she comes in, makes small talk, we get comfortable. She asks about the donation, we get that out of the way. She is heavier than in the pics but I roll with it. She plays with Mr. Happy for a couple min, gets a text notification, apologizes, and says she will be right back. Leaves her purse on the bedside table to "prove she will be back", and runs out to her car. 15 min goes by and it becomes clear that she took off. Blocked me on all communications. I check the bag (not a half bad LV knock off) and it's empty sans a bottle of shitty perfume.

Buyer beware. YMMV.

JW. [ / QUOTE.

Most guys show her the money but do not give it to them.

I have had 2 walk outs a long time ago when I first started in this hobby.

Be careful.

I would also NEVER EVER get a hotel room for a outcall before even meeting the SB. You need a meet and greet first before ever booking a hotel room plain and simple.

**CandyMan555** · 01-25-22 21:35

James Woods;5745393]Quick Quick Version:

She reached out via SA. Usual pleasantries. Seemed to check out. Moved the convo to Snap Chat. Set up a meet at a local hotel. Wanted 4. 5 for BBFS or 5 for Greek.

Seemed like a pro, she didn't pop any other red flags.

Later at hotel she comes in, makes small talk, we get comfortable. She asks about the donation, we get that out of the way. She is heavier than in the pics but I roll with it. She plays with Mr. Happy for a couple min, gets a text notification, apologizes, and says she will be right back. Leaves her purse on the bedside table to "prove she will be back", and runs out to her car. 15 min goes by and it becomes clear that she took off. Blocked me on all communications. I check the bag (not a half bad LV knock off) and it's empty sans a bottle of shitty perfume.

Buyer beware. YMMV.

JW. [ / QUOTE.

Most guys show her the money but do not give it to them.

I have had 2 walk outs a long time ago when I first started in this hobby.

Be careful.

**James Woods** · 01-25-22 14:32

Originally Posted by JClearMan1 [View Original Post]

"Too long to post here"? _Here_ is the right place to post a long scammer story, so we can all benefit from your experience.

Quick Quick Version:

She reached out via SA. Usual pleasantries. Seemed to check out. Moved the convo to Snap Chat. Set up a meet at a local hotel. Wanted 4. 5 for BBFS or 5 for Greek.

Seemed like a pro, she didn't pop any other red flags.

Later at hotel she comes in, makes small talk, we get comfortable. She asks about the donation, we get that out of the way. She is heavier than in the pics but I roll with it. She plays with Mr. Happy for a couple min, gets a text notification, apologizes, and says she will be right back. Leaves her purse on the bedside table to "prove she will be back", and runs out to her car. 15 min goes by and it becomes clear that she took off. Blocked me on all communications. I check the bag (not a half bad LV knock off) and it's empty sans a bottle of shitty perfume.

Buyer beware. YMMV.

JW.

**suaimmagine** · 01-25-22 13:52

Originally Posted by LoveOralNs [View Original Post]

Hi.

I have seen a couple of ads on Secret Benefits that I thought were interesting and worth trying but I can't get any vanilla or prepaid visa to work. Anyone have suggestions of a card that works??

Thanks for your help.

I'd stay clear of that site. TONS of bots and very few real women. SA has a lot of scammers and flaws, but SB is the worst. Here's a post from a former employee.

https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifest...from_employee/

**Boston234** · 01-25-22 13:01

I was wondering what is people's experience with strippers?

I've met three so far and they were definitely all about the money. One was OK, one I passed, and the last one I only found out she used to be a stripper after meeting her a few times. The last one honestly wasn't the best experience. She was very attractive but she would ignore texts and be stone cold when we met. I think she had a narcissistic personality disorder.

Not sure if most strippers are like this and I should avoid them in general?

**LoveOralNs** · 01-25-22 10:11

Hi.

I have seen a couple of ads on Secret Benefits that I thought were interesting and worth trying but I can't get any vanilla or prepaid visa to work. Anyone have suggestions of a card that works??

Thanks for your help.

**CandyMan555** · 01-24-22 13:57

Originally Posted by GianniVersace [View Original Post]

The issue is not your card number being out there. The issue is if your data was compromised such as what happened to the Ashley Madison platform than your name and information would be public information which could potentially be embarrassing.

I had so many issues with Vanilla card that I bought an Amex gift card and had no problem.

**JClearMan1** · 01-24-22 12:32

Originally Posted by JoeBell [View Original Post]

Hazel_Eyed_Lass.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...d-bb40025f002e

Not sure if she's been discussed before. Didn't find anything on search.

I want to know why she's wearing a "normal hair" wig in one of her photos.

**JoeBell** · 01-24-22 12:28

Hazel_Eyed_Lass.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...d-bb40025f002e

Not sure if she's been discussed before. Didn't find anything on search.

**FrogPilot** · 01-24-22 12:21

Originally Posted by GianniVersace [View Original Post]

The issue is not your card number being out there. The issue is if your data was compromised such as what happened to the Ashley Madison platform than your name and information would be public information which could potentially be embarrassing.

Aha, I see, seems more of a concern for married fellows, rather than me. I'd still prefer that not to happen, but I don't know of any way around the payment option if gift cards still aren't working.

**NewEngland** · 01-23-22 19:20

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...6-a9774fdbe5f3

Hi anyone have luck getting in contact and meeting her.

**Gianni Versace** · 01-23-22 16:13

Originally Posted by FrogPilot [View Original Post]

I had the same problem. Signed up with a vanilla Visa e-gift card, but when I went to renew with a new vanilla Visa e-gift card it wouldn't accept it. I don't care too much so I just instead used a real credit card. Eventually I'll order a new card so I don't have to worry about my card info being out there.

The issue is not your card number being out there. The issue is if your data was compromised such as what happened to the Ashley Madison platform than your name and information would be public information which could potentially be embarrassing.