Sugar Baby

**OrlandoExec33** · 09-29-21 09:58

Don't disagree with you that appearance makes a difference. Fitness, sophistication, attractiveness and gamesmanship all matter -and will open more doors for you and get you in the bedroom fast and sometimes free or at a reduced rate. But, don't fool yourself, absent the diamond in the rough, the overwhelming majority of these women are not on Seeking to simply date you, no matter how amazing you might be. I shared a couple recent friends with whom I leveraged such. BUT, I also wanted to share my other experiences.

Things have changed a lot with seeking over the last couple years.

Originally Posted by Ymmv1515 [View Original Post]

Appearance definitely makes a difference. Most of these girls has a 3 point system. Looks, fitness and size. Most guys don't want to admit it but it true.

**Ymmv1515** · 09-29-21 09:28

Originally Posted by SuitNTie420 [View Original Post]

I actually think it has a lot to do with your looks, age, weight and personality. They are on there for money but they also don't want to feel like a ho's so they are looking for a connection and I can tell you firsthand, many of the women I have seen have told me they have walked out of numerous meet ups because the guys are using old pictures and are overweight, super old, not attractive etc. It's not just about money on this site like it is on back page, not at all in my experience.

I like to stick to the young hot 20 to 26 year olds so I'm not sure about the older women on there but the younger women want to have fun, want to feel special, want to feel like they're with someone who is going somewhere and want to be taken care of financially. There are still a ridiculous number of beautiful young woman that are legit and looking for help on there.

Appearance definitely makes a difference. Most of these girls has a 3 point system. Looks, fitness and size. Most guys don't want to admit it but it true.

**SuitNTie420** · 09-29-21 09:05

I actually think it has a lot to do with your looks, age, weight and personality. They are on there for money but they also don't want to feel like a ho's so they are looking for a connection and I can tell you firsthand, many of the women I have seen have told me they have walked out of numerous meet ups because the guys are using old pictures and are overweight, super old, not attractive etc. It's not just about money on this site like it is on back page, not at all in my experience.

I like to stick to the young hot 20 to 26 year olds so I'm not sure about the older women on there but the younger women want to have fun, want to feel special, want to feel like they're with someone who is going somewhere and want to be taken care of financially. There are still a ridiculous number of beautiful young woman that are legit and looking for help on there.

**OrlandoExec33** · 09-28-21 20:24

Seeking is covered in GPS. There are diamonds in the rough, but it definitely takes time to find them. And, no matter what you think, remember there is a reason these women are on Seeking. Cash. Cold, hard, cash. It doesn't matter how attractive, fit, or sophisticated you are. It doesn't matter if you are the gamemaster himself. The overwhelming predominance of women on Seeking are focused on money.

Case in point, I was seeing an intelligent hottie in her upper 30's. We never discussed PPM or allowance, but I would pick up dinners, a nice hotel and leave her 300. I thought our connection was on point, sex was outstanding and she into it. Heck, there were no rules in the bedroom and she came relentlessly. But, when push came to shove, it was about $$ She came out asking for 500 per meet or else she couldn't continue. When I demanded and tried to game her, she was adamant. I walked away learning again that no matter how great I think the connection is, it's really all about the money.

Fortunately, I do have some common sense that when another hottie asked me to help her buy a plane ticket home from an alleged work trip, I decided to mess with her by offering to purchase an actual ticket vice sending her cash. She blocked me within hours of me refusing to send money vice purchase a ticket that I knew she never wanted.

**TungstenHP** · 09-28-21 15:03

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**LatinaHunpster** · 09-26-21 19:24

Originally Posted by Psylon53 [View Original Post]

Thank you and LatinaHunpster for the feedback!

It just feels like pulling teeth to find the right girl that would agree to a simple PPM arrangement. I sure miss the days when Backpage was up and running. I have been to many FKK's in Europe and let me tell you: that experience blows up anything in the US out of the water! Hell if it were allowed here, my entrepreneur-self would open a giant FKK in the US with tons of Eastern European hotties to treat my fellow patriots' headaches lmao!

I would sure appreciate it if someone wanted to share any SA link or digits in PM of a drama-free young, skinny blond ready to meet who doesn't ask for a deposit upfront.

In fact it is quite time-consuming. Just remember however, SA is NOT backpage. Although the endgame may be the same, you have to have some finesse here and you definitely have to have some game. These girls (most of them) want to see themselves as part of a "Sugar Daddy" deal and not a "ho", so keep that in mind. You can't just go straight to the offer of $ to bonk.

Like I say- have some game and a little charm maybe. Tell them you are interested in Friends with Benefits (or gravitate toward the ones that list that) - they get it.

If they say "online first for awhile and then maybe in person". Its not going to go anywhere- move on from those. Also, I'd recommend you NEVER by a pic!

There is so much more. It takes time, but there are some hotties that are very real and can be had.

**Bertil** · 09-26-21 18:48

Originally Posted by RedWhiteBlue [View Original Post]

She agreed to meet for lunch. Then at the last minute she said that she gets 200 just to meet. I let her know that 200 would be fine if and only if we made our way to the promised land. She responded with 500 for that and I took a pass.

RWB.

Here are 2 others that want cash just to meet up in case anyone is wondering. Not sure what's going on this month but there has been more of these women coming around.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...b-916b214de910

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...8-dd68d31d7ac1

I usually just block them so they don't appear on my searches anymore.

**Captainv** · 09-26-21 17:15

You got scammed brother! Never ever pay for meet ups, and never pay in advance, always in person and in cash.

Originally Posted by Psylon53 [View Original Post]

First post, yey!

I signed up a few days ago and my experience has been sour so far. I probably contacted 25+ women in a week. Lots of them aged 18 to 25 are just scammers, asking you to send them something on cashapp with empty promises, or want you to buy their pics / videos. Some say ok to meet, but then don't show up or get cold feet at the last minute.

The only one I had a good vibe with was this one: https://members.seeking.com/member/e...6-5a562a585aad , I even paid her on site $200 for the first meet and greet for coffee. I thought we clicked, she was ok with PPM, but then after we said we would meet again soon and she left, she sent me a message saying that she supposedly was not comfortable with me not being single. Well my profile says separated, not married, but she would not even read my subsequent messages? She is a beautiful college student and I wonder if she is just a plain scammer, or if she really has principles. Anyhow, why would she care about someone's marital status if is she is taking money for meeting + fun?? Thoughts?

**Psylon53** · 09-26-21 09:30

Originally Posted by Bertil [View Original Post]

Great first post. You just saved multiple mongers some money I'm sure. I try to avoid girls that want money just to meet up and I hope that you never make that mistake again. Sometimes you have to go through it a few times to learn. It happened to me when I first started. The girl was so fuckin hot I couldn't resist. She knew how to pull my strings. We made out and she said she really liked me and couldn't wait to see me again for some more action. 3 visits later I realized I would probably spend a shit load of money trying to bang her and I cut my losses. Let me feel her up and everything but she knew the game well. These days things are different. If a girl asks for money up front I tell them I expect ass no exceptions. They can take it or leave it. Too many women on there willing to have some real fun. Good luck.

Thank you and LatinaHunpster for the feedback!

It just feels like pulling teeth to find the right girl that would agree to a simple PPM arrangement. I sure miss the days when Backpage was up and running. I have been to many FKK's in Europe and let me tell you: that experience blows up anything in the US out of the water! Hell if it were allowed here, my entrepreneur-self would open a giant FKK in the US with tons of Eastern European hotties to treat my fellow patriots' headaches lmao!

I would sure appreciate it if someone wanted to share any SA link or digits in PM of a drama-free young, skinny blond ready to meet who doesn't ask for a deposit upfront.

**RedWhiteBlue** · 09-26-21 08:13

Originally Posted by Cupcake4 [View Original Post]

Anyone have any experience with this one, she was on a list someone posted earlier. I've been talking to her and would love to compare notes if anyone else has experience.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...f-2a33592b7656

She agreed to meet for lunch. Then at the last minute she said that she gets 200 just to meet. I let her know that 200 would be fine if and only if we made our way to the promised land. She responded with 500 for that and I took a pass.

RWB.

**Bertil** · 09-26-21 07:46

Originally Posted by Psylon53 [View Original Post]

First post, yey!

I signed up a few days ago and my experience has been sour so far. I probably contacted 25+ women in a week. Lots of them aged 18 to 25 are just scammers, asking you to send them something on cashapp with empty promises, or want you to buy their pics / videos. Some say ok to meet, but then don't show up or get cold feet at the last minute.

The only one I had a good vibe with was this one: https://members.seeking.com/member/e...6-5a562a585aad , I even paid her on site $200 for the first meet and greet for coffee. I thought we clicked, she was ok with PPM, but then after we said we would meet again soon and she left, she sent me a message saying that she supposedly was not comfortable with me not being single. Well my profile says separated, not married, but she would not even read my subsequent messages? She is a beautiful college student and I wonder if she is just a plain scammer, or if she really has principles. Anyhow, why would she care about someone's marital status if is she is taking money for meeting + fun?? Thoughts?

Great first post. You just saved multiple mongers some money I'm sure. I try to avoid girls that want money just to meet up and I hope that you never make that mistake again. Sometimes you have to go through it a few times to learn. It happened to me when I first started. The girl was so fuckin hot I couldn't resist. She knew how to pull my strings. We made out and she said she really liked me and couldn't wait to see me again for some more action. 3 visits later I realized I would probably spend a shit load of money trying to bang her and I cut my losses. Let me feel her up and everything but she knew the game well. These days things are different. If a girl asks for money up front I tell them I expect ass no exceptions. They can take it or leave it. Too many women on there willing to have some real fun. Good luck.

**Cupcake4** · 09-26-21 01:20

Anyone have any experience with this one, she was on a list someone posted earlier. I've been talking to her and would love to compare notes if anyone else has experience.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...f-2a33592b7656

**R Ryder** · 09-25-21 22:23

I 100% agree. Paying $200 for a meet and greet will not make these girls like you anymore. Just remember you're a successful man who has options. A man with options will not be needy or require too much of their time. This is a trait that they seek. So guys never ever pay for a meet and greet, pay for pics, or pay anything upfront.

Originally Posted by LatinaHunpster [View Original Post]

Buying them lunch / dinner or drinks for a meet and greet?- sure that's reasonable- pay them for just meeting you? Hell no. I'd be insulted if I felt like I needed to pay a chick to have a cup of coffee. I have had plenty of them suggest that to me and I have never agreed to it- and I've done quite well on SA. If they give you any nonsense about "their time spent" explain its your freaking time too!!

Think about it- Why would a chick sleep with you if she can take $200 off of you for a coffee date? She doesn't care about your married status- that's just the line she laid on you.

**LatinaHunpster** · 09-25-21 21:58

Originally Posted by Psylon53 [View Original Post]

First post, yey!

I signed up a few days ago and my experience has been sour so far. I probably contacted 25+ women in a week. Lots of them aged 18 to 25 are just scammers, asking you to send them something on cashapp with empty promises, or want you to buy their pics / videos. Some say ok to meet, but then don't show up or get cold feet at the last minute.

The only one I had a good vibe with was this one: https://members.seeking.com/member/e...6-5a562a585aad , I even paid her on site $200 for the first meet and greet for coffee. I thought we clicked, she was ok with PPM, but then after we said we would meet again soon and she left, she sent me a message saying that she supposedly was not comfortable with me not being single. Well my profile says separated, not married, but she would not even read my subsequent messages? She is a beautiful college student and I wonder if she is just a plain scammer, or if she really has principles. Anyhow, why would she care about someone's marital status if is she is taking money for meeting + fun?? Thoughts?

Buying them lunch / dinner or drinks for a meet and greet?- sure that's reasonable- pay them for just meeting you? Hell no. I'd be insulted if I felt like I needed to pay a chick to have a cup of coffee. I have had plenty of them suggest that to me and I have never agreed to it- and I've done quite well on SA. If they give you any nonsense about "their time spent" explain its your freaking time too!!

Think about it- Why would a chick sleep with you if she can take $200 off of you for a coffee date? She doesn't care about your married status- that's just the line she laid on you.

**Bertil** · 09-25-21 17:11

Originally Posted by Bennigans69 [View Original Post]

This one Resurface again use to see her still young and easy going.

Mooniex3.

I've talked to her before but she wanted more than I wanted to pay. Tried negotiating but she wasn't having anything under 350 or 4. Can't remember for sure but at the time I was consistently getting girls hotter than her for 200 to 250 so I passed. Maybe I'll try again this time around.