"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**ThatSexyGuy** · 08-23-21 20:35

She sent me this and it's nice.

**Member #6575** · 08-23-21 19:49

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

There is a faulty assumption in your answer. SA doesn't have that info about me, and a significant part of the postings here are about how to get your SA membership without giving that info up. I do it routinely, as I have posted. I used a prepaid card, I have an email address that is anonymous (and I use a service that enables unlimited email aliases, which lets me get a new profile on SA w / a new email address in case they ban an old one). I give them my 'sugar identity', something I made up long ago and have recorded so it is consistent.

You are quite correct -- the cc is always the acilese heal!

**SBmidlo** · 08-23-21 18:05

Originally Posted by Ronson1 [View Original Post]

She looks good. Any info?

https://www.seeking.com/member/fab7e...1-05335614f762

Have not spoken with her. With close examination of those pics and the what's backgrounds, it's a pretty safe bet she's a stripper at a local club.

**FarFarAway** · 08-23-21 15:33

Originally Posted by SaTraveler [View Original Post]

This is easy answer. The POT -- at some point ya have to give her pictures --and they should be pictures UNIQUE that you ONLY have available for mongering. NEVER online anywhere else inc FB.

Second -- you TXT or E-mail the picture from from a google account or txt. So there is a break in the connection (sort of).

With SA -- they have your real name, E-mail information and CC information -- think a hack cannot put that together. Just E-mail on the site was enough for the Ashley Maddison data breach, and caused some suicides!

Imaging a hack and data dump with you City, Town, E-mail and PICTURE!!

SA is the new AM waiting to happen. We all are used to using google and google voice TXT -- but a picture will get your balls fried by a divorce attorney!

There is a faulty assumption in your answer. SA doesn't have that info about me, and a significant part of the postings here are about how to get your SA membership without giving that info up. I do it routinely, as I have posted. I used a prepaid card, I have an email address that is anonymous (and I use a service that enables unlimited email aliases, which lets me get a new profile on SA w / a new email address in case they ban an old one). I give them my 'sugar identity', something I made up long ago and have recorded so it is consistent.

**Ronson1** · 08-23-21 13:15

She looks good. Any info?

https://www.seeking.com/member/fab7e...1-05335614f762

**Member #6575** · 08-23-21 13:14

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

The question is, who is the bigger threat? SA, or the POT? I want to keep the girl from having my photo. I also should want SA to not have it either.

Some of the girl's profile pictures I've seen lately have been very obscure, if I can get something like that that is really me to work, I'll be OK.

This is easy answer. The POT -- at some point ya have to give her pictures --and they should be pictures UNIQUE that you ONLY have available for mongering. NEVER online anywhere else inc FB.

Second -- you TXT or E-mail the picture from from a google account or txt. So there is a break in the connection (sort of).

With SA -- they have your real name, E-mail information and CC information -- think a hack cannot put that together. Just E-mail on the site was enough for the Ashley Maddison data breach, and caused some suicides!

Imaging a hack and data dump with you City, Town, E-mail and PICTURE!!

SA is the new AM waiting to happen. We all are used to using google and google voice TXT -- but a picture will get your balls fried by a divorce attorney!

**Member #6575** · 08-23-21 13:03

Originally Posted by SBmidlo [View Original Post]

Could this be the same person? https://www.seeking.com/member/21f12...d-1de4e538c8e0.

I sent her a message on SA a while back and she sent me her number. I never pursued after seeing the cash and dash review here. She isn't as active on SA as she used to be but has logged in recently. Actually sent me a message a couple of weeks ago saying she could travel to my side of town.

Most certainly her -- not idea of why she went of the rails. She is north of Richmond still and no transport. I expect her to pick up again in a few weeks once she gets mobile again -- treat with care and control your environment -- outside of the warning. I would still see her.

SA.

**TheHobbyLobby** · 08-23-21 07:13

Originally Posted by SBmidlo [View Original Post]

Could this be the same person? https://www.seeking.com/member/21f12...d-1de4e538c8e0.

I sent her a message on SA a while back and she sent me her number. I never pursued after seeing the cash and dash review here. She isn't as active on SA as she used to be but has logged in recently. Actually sent me a message a couple of weeks ago saying she could travel to my side of town.

Yep that is her. Sounds too risky based on the reviews that I have read.

**Ernest Ll** · 08-22-21 21:49

Originally Posted by RazorGator22 [View Original Post]

This one that you gave intel on.

https://www.seeking.com/member/663b9...b-cc1feba2efb9

Anyone have more? She told me she has a BF so I would have to be ok with that. Then she said she prefers PPM and she usually gets 1 k. I said highest I've gone is 4. Then I said 5 for her (I am a sucker for those pearly whites) and she declined and wished me luck.

Her BF is a married guy who won't leave his wife. She left her husband for him — and he gives her $3 k a month sees her a couple of times a month — sometimes for full weekends. He's into being a cuck, so she bangs other guys and he sometimes watches as she facetimes her blowjobs to him. So she is looking for more sugar to make him her side piece, probably to remind him what that's like. She is pretty, a total freak, but that is a lot for RVA.

**Blak Gekko** · 08-22-21 21:20

Distinguished Gents here in RVA.

Just curious if anyone here has any new intel on this chick? I saw her back in 2016 when she was brand new on the SA scene. I know she had a baby just wondering how she is now before I pull the trigger.

Thanks BG.

https://www.seeking.com/member/916d0...7-732be29052be

**RazorGator22** · 08-22-21 18:52

Originally Posted by ErnestLl [View Original Post]

Any get anywhere with.

https://www.seeking.com/member/5a6c4...6-c28356aa52c9

https://www.seeking.com/member/2a340...e-2ef5687b8fce

https://www.seeking.com/member/27f61...a-1b98894fd3af

https://www.seeking.com/member/60f5a...5-4078a7109f9f

https://www.seeking.com/member/e6d23...d-f7467c84b352

Made good traction with.

https://www.seeking.com/member/6136c...0-0b8d1261354f -- verified in real life. Haven't seen much more of her, but she is a legit nympho. All holes open, very sub, happy to get double teamed. Just wants great sex and a little spoiling -- gifts, treats, she makes her own $$.

https://www.seeking.com/member/05976...f-f0714e79b92c - dosnt have a car, can't host, but happy with $300 very open minded and fun. Face pics are all over the palce from hot to not.

https://www.seeking.com/member/663b9...b-cc1feba2efb9 -- another total freak verified IRL. Left her husband for her married BF. He is her cuck, so she sends him vids of her fucking other guys.

Psycho chick must discussed -- Avoid.

https://www.seeking.com/member/1dc17...f-6b99ede3ae40

This one that you gave intel on.

https://www.seeking.com/member/663b9...b-cc1feba2efb9

Anyone have more? She told me she has a BF so I would have to be ok with that. Then she said she prefers PPM and she usually gets 1 k. I said highest I've gone is 4. Then I said 5 for her (I am a sucker for those pearly whites) and she declined and wished me luck.

**SBmidlo** · 08-22-21 15:49

Originally Posted by Drugrepva [View Original Post]

I met her at a private residence in Apr and had a great time! On my next visit she did a cash and dash at one of the motels in Ruther Glen. She told one of the SMs that her BF pulled her into his truck and beat her up. Then that same week she posts pics of a day trip she took with him; looked like they had fun. Two SMs confronted her about it and she was supposed to return the donation. This is the first time this has happened to me in 15 yrs, so I'm not too upset. What I'm mad about is not listening to my gut (there were red flags) and not following the rules that have kept me safe all these years.

She's definitely more pro than SB. Be careful!

Could this be the same person? https://www.seeking.com/member/21f12...d-1de4e538c8e0.

I sent her a message on SA a while back and she sent me her number. I never pursued after seeing the cash and dash review here. She isn't as active on SA as she used to be but has logged in recently. Actually sent me a message a couple of weeks ago saying she could travel to my side of town.

**Drugrepva** · 08-22-21 14:19

Originally Posted by TheHobbyLobby [View Original Post]

So this girl advertised a lot on SA. She was more pro than SB. I know she was very popular but I can't remember if she had good reviews. Does anyone remember her. I made contact with her from my burner phone and surprisingly she replied. I asked if she was still in the game and she said from time to time. I am in need of a good BJ so I may hit her up. I know she used to be able to host. Any help is appreciated.

I met her at a private residence in Apr and had a great time! On my next visit she did a cash and dash at one of the motels in Ruther Glen. She told one of the SMs that her BF pulled her into his truck and beat her up. Then that same week she posts pics of a day trip she took with him; looked like they had fun. Two SMs confronted her about it and she was supposed to return the donation. This is the first time this has happened to me in 15 yrs, so I'm not too upset. What I'm mad about is not listening to my gut (there were red flags) and not following the rules that have kept me safe all these years.

She's definitely more pro than SB. Be careful!

**FarFarAway** · 08-22-21 14:01

Originally Posted by Kwagmire [View Original Post]

Thanks for posting about Kamo. I'm going to look into it.

I'd love to hear from some of the more computer savvy here -- I know nothing is foolproof, especially when it comes to computers, and that true anonymity is nearly impossible while still having a computer be actually "usable" in real life.

What's your objective? Keeping anonymous from a SB? Keeping your activities hidden from an SO? Those are two key things for most guys. The former is a lot about opsec, not tech. Of course, tech helps w / the latter. I always want to be in a position that I can hand my phone or my laptop to my SO and tell her that she's free to look at anything she wants. The only way to do that is literally to have nothing on it, but you can store a lot of stuff in the cloud, or the equivalent. Recall that Gen. Petraeus never ever sent an email to his mistress, but they both had access to the same email account, and would just put drafts on it that the other could read. They were caught by the NSA, but presumably, a SB or the SO don't have access to their tech. I have posted earlier on this, I think these are reasonable measures most could do.

I use security browsers whenever possible. Tor is great for security, Epic is pretty good. The latter has a built-in VPN, the former is like VPN inside a VPN. I don't think either of these work very well on the SA site at this time. This has varied over time, and is somewhat dependent on specifics, like OS. I do use Epic for entering the webpage for Google Voice. As another approach, I use my work VPN, which puts me into a server that has 20,000 users, it would require the cooperation of my employer to figure out that it was me using a particular node at any one time, this is very unlikely to happen. I currently am using Safari through the VPN to access SA.

I think GV is a great tool, it enables me to text from home on a web page, where I never have my burner phone, b / c a physical object is always a risk of discovery. I am always on my laptop, the SO can be in the house as long as I listen while I type. I do like to run the apps off a thumb drive. That is good to keep caches etc. Off your main hard disk. I have a separate thumb drive at my office that is encrypted and on which I keep everything, screenshots of the profiles of current POTs and past SBs, their pix, etc. That could also be done on the cloud. The reason I like the thumb drive, in the event of a serious breach and needing to dispose of evidence quickly, it can easily be flushed.

I think a burner, while it does have the risk of discovery, is a good idea. Put GV on it and you have double protection. You can put GV on your regular phone, IK several people here do that. I think there is a risk of your sugar life crossing over into your real life is you do this though, and you'd really better know what you're doing if you go this way.

Never use bookmarks. Memorize your logins and passwords.

I don't think secure passwords and stuff like that are any real issue / benefit.

I fear that Google could easily figure out who I am, b / c my employer uses Google to host our servers, and they can obviously do some comparisons and see the same machine / node doing different things, my sugar identity and my IRL identity. I just rest on the idea that they have no motivation to do this so long as LE isn't subpoenaing them, and I don't do anything that even skirts on illegal.

I am messaging w / a MILF in a city I travel to this week. Her initial text to me came up in GV w / her real name and company, b / c she isn't using GV, she is using her business (not personal) cell #. She's single, w / little risk, so she can do this.

**DoneThatOnce** · 08-22-21 12:24

Originally Posted by TheHobbyLobby [View Original Post]

So this girl advertised a lot on SA. She was more pro than SB. I know she was very popular but I can't remember if she had good reviews. Does anyone remember her. I made contact with her from my burner phone and surprisingly she replied. I asked if she was still in the game and she said from time to time. I am in need of a good BJ so I may hit her up. I know she used to be able to host. Any help is appreciated.

I saw her twice pre-covid about 3 weeks apart. First time was fun with a full menu. Next time she was on something and seemed in a haze. No kissing or DATY that time. Then she started texting me everyday until I blocked her.