WYP, SA, and other SD sites

[Old Chinese Guy]

I met this pathetic mess last year at the Starbucks in Arundel Mills. Whined so much about not having any money to feed her kids that I gave her $ just to go away. The dumb ***** contacts me again today to meet up and I remembered a PM from another monger with a link to her new profile. I looked it up and clicked on the link and sure enough it was her. I tried to cancel but she said that Dana is her cousin. So I had to see for myself. Sure enough, same dumpy, middle-aged woman. The only difference is her hair color. We chit chatted for a few minutes and everything was the same. Interior designer, kids, etc. All the same stuff as last year. So finally I said so what are you thinking? She said "about what?" I said about getting out of here? She said and go where? I said "Exactly" and excused myself and left. Guys, please don't waste your time on this one.

https://www.seeking.com/member/364e5...8-d08c438dfe9f

She wants $2 K / month, GTFOOH!

[BobDingle10]

I met this pathetic mess last year at the Starbucks in Arundel Mills. Whined so much about not having any money to feed her kids that I gave her $ just to go away. The dumb ***** contacts me again today to meet up and I remembered a PM from another monger with a link to her new profile. I looked it up and clicked on the link and sure enough it was her. I tried to cancel but she said that Dana is her cousin. So I had to see for myself. Sure enough, same dumpy, middle-aged woman. The only difference is her hair color. We chit chatted for a few minutes and everything was the same. Interior designer, kids, etc. All the same stuff as last year. So finally I said so what are you thinking? She said "about what?" I said about getting out of here? She said and go where? I said "Exactly" and excused myself and left. Guys, please don't waste your time on this one.

https://www.seeking.com/member/364e5...8-d08c438dfe9f

Chatted with her last year. Met for appetizers near her. First messages she made it clear she was dtf at my place off the break but something seemed off. Did a meet and greet and it went well though she didn't put much into her appearance. She's cute. Fuckable frame on her, but had stains on her clothes. Didn't whine much with me but didn't seem dtf. Gave her some dough to just get out of there. Followed up just to see if some action was possible (I was bored) and she ghosted.

You maaaaaay be able to fuck with more aggression in the approach but not really worth the effort to find out.

[BustaNut60]

I met this pathetic mess last year at the Starbucks in Arundel Mills. Whined so much about not having any money to feed her kids that I gave her $ just to go away. The dumb ***** contacts me again today to meet up and I remembered a PM from another monger with a link to her new profile. I looked it up and clicked on the link and sure enough it was her. I tried to cancel but she said that Dana is her cousin. So I had to see for myself. Sure enough, same dumpy, middle-aged woman. The only difference is her hair color. We chit chatted for a few minutes and everything was the same. Interior designer, kids, etc. All the same stuff as last year. So finally I said so what are you thinking? She said "about what?" I said about getting out of here? She said and go where? I said "Exactly" and excused myself and left. Guys, please don't waste your time on this one.

https://www.seeking.com/member/364e5...8-d08c438dfe9f

[ProCatHunter]

Well I was pleasantly surprised today, have finally made contact with some actual non scammers on SA and have gotten the ball rolling. Hopefully this is a good start to a building rotation if my luck holds.

Seems 300 is the average number I am seeing for the ladies, how does that stack up for the vets of SA? Is this the normal anount the girls usually ask for?

If you're providing more than $300 you're overpaying. You should be able to get away with less if you're covering the hotel but it'll also depend on chemistry, etc. More often than not the ladies will start higher. I've found that getting them to the m&g and having a conversation about allowance there helps reduce the gift. I've also given higher gift amounts if the girl was super hot, can host, etc, but you're right in the ballpark if that is the number.

[MikelSmith9207]

Usually I'm quoted 400, but often tell them I can only do 300. I have found a few for much less. Got an arrangement with one regular, $50 for head, $100 to fuck. Works out great. Most recent "arrangement" is with a married woman who is just a *****. Didn't really care about the money, gave her $160 for two rounds at hotel during the workday.

As a married guy myself, I really appreciate finding a good married woman on SA. The weekday, working-hour rendezvous is best for me. Mind sharing who she is through DM?

[Piehole]

She is willing to meet for $$$ but cannot host.

https://www.seeking.com/member/2a5b9...f-7ce5bd24aa53

Did you meet her? If so, details please.

[Piehole]

Well I was pleasantly surprised today, have finally made contact with some actual non scammers on SA and have gotten the ball rolling. Hopefully this is a good start to a building rotation if my luck holds.

Seems 300 is the average number I am seeing for the ladies, how does that stack up for the vets of SA? Is this the normal anount the girls usually ask for?

Usually I'm quoted 400, but often tell them I can only do 300. I have found a few for much less. Got an arrangement with one regular, $50 for head, $100 to fuck. Works out great. Most recent "arrangement" is with a married woman who is just a *****. Didn't really care about the money, gave her $160 for two rounds at hotel during the workday.

[DriftingFan101]

Well I was pleasantly surprised today, have finally made contact with some actual non scammers on SA and have gotten the ball rolling. Hopefully this is a good start to a building rotation if my luck holds.

Seems 300 is the average number I am seeing for the ladies, how does that stack up for the vets of SA? Is this the normal anount the girls usually ask for?

[DriftingFan101]

LOL wow she thinks dudes are going to pay just for the pleasure of her company and not some bedroom fun? Talk about delusional.

[Mcc110]

Yeah, chatted a bit but she told me the site was just about "prostitution" and that she wasn't looking for sex. Not worth it.

https://www.seeking.com/member/7cdc5...e-8ec87993e844

This one is for real, but has serious gps. Didn't bother to do the meet since I'm not shelling out $$ $$ $$ for a session in the fc. She's in the bowl for the money not the game. If you're one of those dudes who doesn't mind dropping large bills to bang a hot young thing, she is your girl.

Also, she's not in Annapolis, but rather in the bel air area. Most of you guys don't mind driving a bit for the hobby, but it matters for others.

[ProCatHunter]

https://www.seeking.com/member/7cdc5...e-8ec87993e844

This one is for real, but has serious gps. Didn't bother to do the meet since I'm not shelling out $$ $$ $$ for a session in the fc. She's in the bowl for the money not the game. If you're one of those dudes who doesn't mind dropping large bills to bang a hot young thing, she is your girl.

Also, she's not in Annapolis, but rather in the bel air area. Most of you guys don't mind driving a bit for the hobby, but it matters for others.

[ProCatHunter]

https://www.seeking.com/member/eada9...5-cfb65452418e

Example of a BP girl. She is active on the site when she needs cash. Sells nudes but also will meet in person. Damage for me was $200 but she started at $400 allowance request. Everything covered so I won't bother repeating. A bit of a dead fish for me as well (she likes girls but does this for the cash).

I've found that discussing allowance is best done in person. Going allowance in bmore area is $$$ ish. Most ladies start higher, but if you're in good shape and relatively attractive, and have the ability to use a bit of charm and sweet talk, rates go down.

And with most women, if you fuck them well and are willing to be relatively consistent, the allowance requirements will drop even further over time.

This has been my experience at least. Happy hunting gents.

[ProCatHunter]

Sure, many are crazy, many are flakes. It's kinda like a poker game. When you sit down at the table, it just takes a while to get to know how to read different profiles and to develop your own style of play. Some girls use seeking as a straight up escort or backpage site. You'll need to be upfront and direct with them. Some girls are gps who are looking for the $5 k a month guy (those dudes do exist but are few and far between). Some girls are just looking for a semi decent looking dude that they would probably bang in real life to help with a few bills (this is my sweet spot). Some girls are into certain fetishes and are exclusively looking for a guy who is into the same stuff they are into (there was one girl who really enjoyed pain and the bruises on her body proved it. Way too much for me).

No doubt there are a ton of scammers, but there are more than enough gems to keep going. Look for profiles that have been around for at least 6 months and that are still active. Most scammer profiles die after a month or so since the pool of guys is relatively limited. Also go back a little bit in the thread on this page to find out which girls are legit, and which aren't.

Remember, it's a numbers game, so the more lines you cast, the more likely you are to get a bite.

Glad to know it's not me that's crazy and that it really is just bullshit scammers I am getting, that really makes me wonder what it was like when SA was actually good. I have 3 months that I paid for and if things do not improve I think I will just go back to escorts who are actually willing to meet as this is just paying to encounter scammers at this point which is not what I signed up for.

[DriftingFan101]

Glad to know it's not me that's crazy and that it really is just bullshit scammers I am getting, that really makes me wonder what it was like when SA was actually good. I have 3 months that I paid for and if things do not improve I think I will just go back to escorts who are actually willing to meet as this is just paying to encounter scammers at this point which is not what I signed up for.

[BigCoolie]

Yeah, I would have to agree higher-end escorts are generally more reliable than SBs on SA wrt to keeping appointments… As a rule, I never ever paid for M&Gs, I'll pay for drinks / dinner but I ain't reimbursing anyone for their time if I ain't able to put it in one or more of the three holes.

I would say all three holes. But, he is right. The scammers are usually obvious. The SBs who prefer PTP are a bit obvious too. The amateurs usually want you to make them feel special and unique. Almost like dating when you are emailing them through the site, but in person is usually much better. I do not send money until we are in an arrangement and after our first encounter. I am sure that we all differ around the latter part of that prior sentence.