"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**Bran001** · 10-29-20 15:32

Originally Posted by Dsprdo [View Original Post]

I have been curious about this as well, because I have had the same profile and user name on SA for a long time and sometimes I wonder if I should delete and create a new one. I went down the reddit rabbit hole and the main sugar forum is titled sugar life style. In its rules it specifically prohibits posting others identifying information and says that any "blacklist" type of post will be removed.

I participated a bit on that subreddit a few years ago. Stopped when I saw the jr high school behavior, doxxing, gossiping, etc. , that goes on behind the scenes.

There was a private subreddit for SB's to talk about SD's, and vice versa. Then all sorts of drama about women pretending to be men to get into the private SD sub. . . Etc etc. So I just said fuck it and never went back.

There surely is still a private subreddit where the SB's talk about the SD's. I'd NEVER connect your SA profile to your Reddit handle. There are vindictive people on Reddit.

**Ernest Ll** · 10-29-20 15:07

Originally Posted by Dsprdo [View Original Post]

I went down the reddit rabbit hole and the main sugar forum is titled sugar life style. In its rules it specifically prohibits posting others identifying information and says that any "blacklist" type of post will be removed.

But it doesn't prevent two SBs from figuring out they are in the same city and connecting offline to compare notes.

**Dsprdo** · 10-29-20 11:55

Originally Posted by Lodzvisiter [View Original Post]

Do you all know where the SBs are sharing information about SDs? Similar to this forum for us?

I have been curious about this as well, because I have had the same profile and user name on SA for a long time and sometimes I wonder if I should delete and create a new one. I went down the reddit rabbit hole and the main sugar forum is titled sugar life style. In its rules it specifically prohibits posting others identifying information and says that any "blacklist" type of post will be removed.

**Ernest Ll** · 10-29-20 11:03

Originally Posted by Lodzvisiter [View Original Post]

Do you all know where the SBs are sharing information about SDs? Similar to this forum for us?

I thought I heard SA had forums for SBs, but I could be mistaken.

Reddit has all kinds of message boards, so that is one likely option.

Plus there is a fair amount of word of mouth, mainly among the more UTR / semi pros like Classy. They have friends they told about it or talked into joining.

Had one gal in Lburg tell me to FO because her friend / roommate told her I stiffer her on a video she sent me unsoliicited.

If you believe in the "textbook SB" theory that they all aren't ******, then they probably don't compare notes with other SBs -- " hey, if we are getting passed round guy to guy, here are the fat cocks and fat wallets to message and these are the ones to avoid" not seeing that much as a widespread trend. I think they more trade notes on how to be an SB and tell anonymous -- and embellished on the $$ - war stories about the men who they have met.

As this forum clearly proves, when guys talk sex specifics about the women they are with, every other guy wants a shot at that. If they don't consider themselves ******, most women arent going to want what some other woman has. Which is why your wives are telling their friends whether or not you are good in bed and the friends arent coming on the swinging dicks and expert pussy eaters.

In your circle.

**Lodzvisiter** · 10-29-20 09:21

Originally Posted by ErnestLl [View Original Post]

So I'm messaging another late 30's POT who was listed in RVA, then changed to woodbridge and Cville.

FunSapiosexual I think was her handle.

She finally replies "I'm not interested. YOur name is Ernest and one of the girls warned us about you".

Gee. Wonder who that was.

Do you all know where the SBs are sharing information about SDs? Similar to this forum for us?

**ThatSexyGuy** · 10-28-20 16:44

Originally Posted by TheHobbyLobby [View Original Post]

So I just wanted to see if anyone has actually met up with her or chatted with her. Pics look too good to be true.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3445a...f-85e708f67b1f

Sent initial email but haven't heard back.

I sent a message and she replied back immediately. Also found a 19 year old who just joined. She's so unfamiliar. I take it she's never done this before.

LOL, I told me girl she lucky to have me. Look at all these girls selling pus for a little $250-400!

Anyone seen her?

https://www.seeking.com/member/4bd92598-ce4c-4b61-8bc6-85a92a488354

She says she won’t share her body for $$$ but I told her let’s go out and see what happens and she agreed. Is this a lost cause?

**Ernest Ll** · 10-28-20 16:23

So I'm messaging another late 30's POT who was listed in RVA, then changed to woodbridge and Cville.

FunSapiosexual I think was her handle.

She finally replies "I'm not interested. YOur name is Ernest and one of the girls warned us about you".

Gee. Wonder who that was.

**TheHobbyLobby** · 10-28-20 12:31

So I just wanted to see if anyone has actually met up with her or chatted with her. Pics look too good to be true.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3445a...f-85e708f67b1f

Sent initial email but haven't heard back.

**Geechie Dan** · 10-28-20 11:56

Originally Posted by ErnestLl [View Original Post]

Sent me a pic that matched her profile. Claims to be a UVA first year, but from Cville and living at home taking all classes online.

Texted extensively for a day, been silent for 3.

I sent 2 text messages since yesterday. Gone silent on me too.

**JustLonely** · 10-28-20 09:01

So my premium membership expired at 830 this morning. By 9 am I got a discount offer of 33% to renew. First time ever had one that quick. It's usually months before they off it, if ever.

**Zerry** · 10-28-20 08:18

Originally Posted by Lobsid [View Original Post]

You, could say the same thing about meeting any girl on any dating site. Sorry, I'm not that paranoid. With all things in life you should be careful, and be aware of your surroundings.

I also only meet them in public too.

**Member #7176** · 10-27-20 20:43

You, could say the same thing about meeting any girl on any dating site. Sorry, I'm not that paranoid. With all things in life you should be careful, and be aware of your surroundings.

Originally Posted by Zerry [View Original Post]

Meant to say the choices in D. C. Are a bit rough. Surrounding areas look a bit better. Blackmail is one thing, but there is also getting threatened, robbed, stabbed or otherwise harassed. I also consider that if a SB has a run in with LE of any sort, even unrelated, to SA it could lead back to me. Extreme I know.

**Zerry** · 10-27-20 15:24

Meant to say the choices in D. C. Are a bit rough. Surrounding areas look a bit better. Blackmail is one thing, but there is also getting threatened, robbed, stabbed or otherwise harassed. I also consider that if a SB has a run in with LE of any sort, even unrelated, to SA it could lead back to me. Extreme I know.

Originally Posted by Lobsid [View Original Post]

Most of my SBs are in Maryland and NOVA. I have none in DC, and a few in PA. I just started looking into Richmond, and haven't had much luck there yet. My cheerleader wasn't a Redskins cheerleader. She cheer for a different state 2 years ago. She never told me about her cheerleading career. I only found out about it by googling her real name. Plus she was a beauty pageant winner for the city her sports team was at. I'm not married so I have less to lose. I do have a fiance, but she on the west coast. With corona we aren't meetup as much. The biggest commit I get from all my SBs is that I'm a nice and normal guy. My success rates increase when I don't talk about sexual fetishes (bbfscip) till after we meetup. I only let the girls know before hand that I'm seeking adult relationship. After that I treat everything else like a normal date.

**Ernest Ll** · 10-27-20 15:11

Originally Posted by GeechieDan [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/ea12e...7-56afd5fbb2c5

I may be traveling and wanted some intel on this young lady. Texted her and she's DTF.

Sent me a pic that matched her profile. Claims to be a UVA first year, but from Cville and living at home taking all classes online.

Texted extensively for a day, been silent for 3.