"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**Gyxser70** · 10-31-20 01:26

After asking a few questions here last week, and always reading about how so many have tapped Co-Ed's for cheap I finally decided to hop on and pay for a membership. I made a thorough and well detailed profile. I added two photos: one showing most of my face and the other 'private' one showing the whole picture. Many view me and message for access to see the private picture as well as the forever impressive "hey".

Within the hour, I was messaging quite a few women as well as receiving many profile views and being favorited. I like women in their early 20's to early 30's either finishing up their degree or already in a more professional job. If I can't see a pic of nice straight white teeth or pretty manicured nails it throws off a red flag for me. Is the norm on Seeking for almost every girl to have lots of tattoos? Anyway, once we exchange pleasantries and the "what're you looking for," I try to get off the site quickly; either Kik, Snap, or text.

It's usually pretty easy for me to find their FB once I get their number, etc. Call me a weirdo, but I think what gets me off most is seeing how a girls' FB posts make her seem so sweet and innocent- either posting food recipe links, or pictures of quotes on how they're so wise now from the people who hurt them in the past but within an hour of talking I've already gotten nudes, videos hehe.

One thing I'm very surprised about is the amount of girls who go silent when it comes to actually arranging to meet. I've talked to about 20-25 women so far and it's looking like 2 might actually follow through on meeting. Why give me your # and go through with all that then go silent after a few text messages? I'm not pushy or anything, I simply ask what their availability is.

Out of the two I'm possibly meeting, there's one who is an absolute knockout; she's a gorgeous girl. On top of her wide hipped 5'9" frame she actually seems very smart, punctual and just gets it. She has a demanding office job and isn't one for the traditional kind of dating per her profile. She's had two prior arrangements before. I'm afraid I may have bit off more than I can chew.

Will post another update in time.

**FarFarAway** · 10-30-20 17:12

This has come and gone on the site, it's back. Of course, I would never use this, it's got to be a rip-off. However, when I don't have a paid membership, I still like to browse, and like to arouse a POTs interest in me. I can share private photos (mine are all fake, so there's no risk), like them, and recently, I have been viewing their wish lists. They know I have done that, SA does too, they send me emails that so and so has updated her wish list. Even if I never ever intend to get her anything on that list, it makes her think I might because I viewed it. There was a whole set of posts a couple of years ago of how to tease a shopping spree with a SB, while banging her and never delivering.

Anyway, the contents of her wish list is often interesting. I do like to give little treats to girls at the M&G, and this is a window into their desires. I was surprised to see chocolates, as well as sneakers. I can get a gift card that addresses these interests of girls. No surprise lingerie is on there, jewelry too. Flowers showed up periodically. Interesting, sex toys are on there too. I find that funny, I read a profile today of a girl who said she wanted a platonic relationship, but her wish list has several different types of dildos / vibes.

Creating the mind frame in your POT that she's going to get all sorts of benefits is the way to get her to the FC, especially if she is a real NP.

FFA.

**BookerTNelson** · 10-30-20 14:21

Originally Posted by ThatSexyGuy [View Original Post]

Says she won't engage unless there's a connection. I've come across multiple profiles saying this and I'm targeting all of them. Simply because the chances of them being new or not passed around yet excites me. Nothings worse than the thought of diseases out here and catching something. And once I'm sure they're not seeing multiple guys I'm going in raw and giving them the whole 9 inches. I got two young girls I found who swear they won't have sex at all. I'm taking them out soon. And when I do I'm going to post here for all to see.

https://www.seeking.com/member/d1f78...2-c4d968e2a2d7

This one is on the connection bullshit.

Of course, the other girls I have I won't post but if you guys find them try your best to hit. I get such evil thoughts thinking about how much I will enjoy smashing a hot young adult women who told me she doesn't do sex but then turns around and for a mere $250-300 let's me dig her guts out and blow my load all over her face. Of course, I work long hours so setting up meets is a chore.

This is most accounts though. The draw of Seeking to these women is that they think it puts them above hookers, escorts and other sex workers but for sub-200, I've had them all doing the same things. Either way I get the draw for you.

**ThatSexyGuy** · 10-30-20 12:04

Says she won't engage unless there's a connection. I've come across multiple profiles saying this and I'm targeting all of them. Simply because the chances of them being new or not passed around yet excites me. Nothings worse than the thought of diseases out here and catching something. And once I'm sure they're not seeing multiple guys I'm going in raw and giving them the whole 9 inches. I got two young girls I found who swear they won't have sex at all. I'm taking them out soon. And when I do I'm going to post here for all to see.

https://www.seeking.com/member/d1f78...2-c4d968e2a2d7

This one is on the connection bullshit.

Of course, the other girls I have I won't post but if you guys find them try your best to hit. I get such evil thoughts thinking about how much I will enjoy smashing a hot young adult women who told me she doesn't do sex but then turns around and for a mere $250-300 let's me dig her guts out and blow my load all over her face. Of course, I work long hours so setting up meets is a chore.

**BookerTNelson** · 10-30-20 11:04

Originally Posted by Dsprdo [View Original Post]

I have been curious about this as well, because I have had the same profile and user name on SA for a long time and sometimes I wonder if I should delete and create a new one. I went down the reddit rabbit hole and the main sugar forum is titled sugar life style. In its rules it specifically prohibits posting others identifying information and says that any "blacklist" type of post will be removed.

I'd switch it up. Personally I change them fairly often because honestly the profile is just a shell game and I get a new shot at SB's with a new profile. Same with the phone number.

**Bran001** · 10-29-20 16:32

Originally Posted by Dsprdo [View Original Post]

I have been curious about this as well, because I have had the same profile and user name on SA for a long time and sometimes I wonder if I should delete and create a new one. I went down the reddit rabbit hole and the main sugar forum is titled sugar life style. In its rules it specifically prohibits posting others identifying information and says that any "blacklist" type of post will be removed.

I participated a bit on that subreddit a few years ago. Stopped when I saw the jr high school behavior, doxxing, gossiping, etc. , that goes on behind the scenes.

There was a private subreddit for SB's to talk about SD's, and vice versa. Then all sorts of drama about women pretending to be men to get into the private SD sub. . . Etc etc. So I just said fuck it and never went back.

There surely is still a private subreddit where the SB's talk about the SD's. I'd NEVER connect your SA profile to your Reddit handle. There are vindictive people on Reddit.

**Ernest Ll** · 10-29-20 16:07

Originally Posted by Dsprdo [View Original Post]

I went down the reddit rabbit hole and the main sugar forum is titled sugar life style. In its rules it specifically prohibits posting others identifying information and says that any "blacklist" type of post will be removed.

But it doesn't prevent two SBs from figuring out they are in the same city and connecting offline to compare notes.

**Dsprdo** · 10-29-20 12:55

Originally Posted by Lodzvisiter [View Original Post]

Do you all know where the SBs are sharing information about SDs? Similar to this forum for us?

I have been curious about this as well, because I have had the same profile and user name on SA for a long time and sometimes I wonder if I should delete and create a new one. I went down the reddit rabbit hole and the main sugar forum is titled sugar life style. In its rules it specifically prohibits posting others identifying information and says that any "blacklist" type of post will be removed.

**Ernest Ll** · 10-29-20 12:03

Originally Posted by Lodzvisiter [View Original Post]

Do you all know where the SBs are sharing information about SDs? Similar to this forum for us?

I thought I heard SA had forums for SBs, but I could be mistaken.

Reddit has all kinds of message boards, so that is one likely option.

Plus there is a fair amount of word of mouth, mainly among the more UTR / semi pros like Classy. They have friends they told about it or talked into joining.

Had one gal in Lburg tell me to FO because her friend / roommate told her I stiffer her on a video she sent me unsoliicited.

If you believe in the "textbook SB" theory that they all aren't ******, then they probably don't compare notes with other SBs -- " hey, if we are getting passed round guy to guy, here are the fat cocks and fat wallets to message and these are the ones to avoid" not seeing that much as a widespread trend. I think they more trade notes on how to be an SB and tell anonymous -- and embellished on the $$ - war stories about the men who they have met.

As this forum clearly proves, when guys talk sex specifics about the women they are with, every other guy wants a shot at that. If they don't consider themselves ******, most women arent going to want what some other woman has. Which is why your wives are telling their friends whether or not you are good in bed and the friends arent coming on the swinging dicks and expert pussy eaters.

In your circle.

**Lodzvisiter** · 10-29-20 10:21

Originally Posted by ErnestLl [View Original Post]

So I'm messaging another late 30's POT who was listed in RVA, then changed to woodbridge and Cville.

FunSapiosexual I think was her handle.

She finally replies "I'm not interested. YOur name is Ernest and one of the girls warned us about you".

Gee. Wonder who that was.

Do you all know where the SBs are sharing information about SDs? Similar to this forum for us?

**ThatSexyGuy** · 10-28-20 17:44

Originally Posted by TheHobbyLobby [View Original Post]

So I just wanted to see if anyone has actually met up with her or chatted with her. Pics look too good to be true.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3445a...f-85e708f67b1f

Sent initial email but haven't heard back.

I sent a message and she replied back immediately. Also found a 19 year old who just joined. She's so unfamiliar. I take it she's never done this before.

LOL, I told me girl she lucky to have me. Look at all these girls selling pus for a little $250-400!

Anyone seen her?

https://www.seeking.com/member/4bd92598-ce4c-4b61-8bc6-85a92a488354

She says she won’t share her body for $$$ but I told her let’s go out and see what happens and she agreed. Is this a lost cause?

**Ernest Ll** · 10-28-20 17:23

So I'm messaging another late 30's POT who was listed in RVA, then changed to woodbridge and Cville.

FunSapiosexual I think was her handle.

She finally replies "I'm not interested. YOur name is Ernest and one of the girls warned us about you".

Gee. Wonder who that was.

**TheHobbyLobby** · 10-28-20 13:31

So I just wanted to see if anyone has actually met up with her or chatted with her. Pics look too good to be true.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3445a...f-85e708f67b1f

Sent initial email but haven't heard back.

**Geechie Dan** · 10-28-20 12:56

Originally Posted by ErnestLl [View Original Post]

Sent me a pic that matched her profile. Claims to be a UVA first year, but from Cville and living at home taking all classes online.

Texted extensively for a day, been silent for 3.

I sent 2 text messages since yesterday. Gone silent on me too.

**JustLonely** · 10-28-20 10:01

So my premium membership expired at 830 this morning. By 9 am I got a discount offer of 33% to renew. First time ever had one that quick. It's usually months before they off it, if ever.