"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**Zerry** · 10-27-20 16:24

Meant to say the choices in D. C. Are a bit rough. Surrounding areas look a bit better. Blackmail is one thing, but there is also getting threatened, robbed, stabbed or otherwise harassed. I also consider that if a SB has a run in with LE of any sort, even unrelated, to SA it could lead back to me. Extreme I know.

Originally Posted by Lobsid [View Original Post]

Most of my SBs are in Maryland and NOVA. I have none in DC, and a few in PA. I just started looking into Richmond, and haven't had much luck there yet. My cheerleader wasn't a Redskins cheerleader. She cheer for a different state 2 years ago. She never told me about her cheerleading career. I only found out about it by googling her real name. Plus she was a beauty pageant winner for the city her sports team was at. I'm not married so I have less to lose. I do have a fiance, but she on the west coast. With corona we aren't meetup as much. The biggest commit I get from all my SBs is that I'm a nice and normal guy. My success rates increase when I don't talk about sexual fetishes (bbfscip) till after we meetup. I only let the girls know before hand that I'm seeking adult relationship. After that I treat everything else like a normal date.

**Ernest Ll** · 10-27-20 16:11

Originally Posted by GeechieDan [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/ea12e...7-56afd5fbb2c5

I may be traveling and wanted some intel on this young lady. Texted her and she's DTF.

Sent me a pic that matched her profile. Claims to be a UVA first year, but from Cville and living at home taking all classes online.

Texted extensively for a day, been silent for 3.

**Geechie Dan** · 10-27-20 15:55

https://www.seeking.com/member/ea12e...7-56afd5fbb2c5

I may be traveling and wanted some intel on this young lady. Texted her and she's DTF.

**DoggieFan** · 10-27-20 13:58

Originally Posted by GeechieDan [View Original Post]

So I viewed her profile and I saw that she viewed mine. I tried to go back to her profile and it wasn't available. Either she deleted her profile or she blocked me for some unknown reason.

She blocked you. She doesn't have a pic on her profile. Did she when you saw it?

**Member #7176** · 10-27-20 13:07

Most of my SBs are in Maryland and NOVA. I have none in DC, and a few in PA. I just started looking into Richmond, and haven't had much luck there yet. My cheerleader wasn't a Redskins cheerleader. She cheer for a different state 2 years ago. She never told me about her cheerleading career. I only found out about it by googling her real name. Plus she was a beauty pageant winner for the city her sports team was at. I'm not married so I have less to lose. I do have a fiance, but she on the west coast. With corona we aren't meetup as much. The biggest commit I get from all my SBs is that I'm a nice and normal guy. My success rates increase when I don't talk about sexual fetishes (bbfscip) till after we meetup. I only let the girls know before hand that I'm seeking adult relationship. After that I treat everything else like a normal date.

Originally Posted by Zerry [View Original Post]

You say you aren't picky, but at 3-400 the choices are all pretty rough (or ruff also works). Richmond is a much better market, so that's probably were most of your activity is. I just don't have the energy to make that drive and deal with hotels, so I am very picky. The other week I drove an hour to meet a new girl, got about 10 feet from her in the parking lot and said, "sorry I'm not here to meet you and left. " She was possibly cute, but she was wearing sweat pants and had fingernails that were over an inch long.

I have a solid regular that keeps my brain clear when I'm having a dry spell on Bumble / Hinge / SA.

Also, is it that former Redskins cheerleader? I talked to her and suspected she was fake, or at the very least a take the money and ghost scam. We talked a lot, but she would never meet up. I insist on meeting in public first, so maybe that was her hang up.

My golden rule of doing this is to never fuck around with anyone who has nothing to loose. I need to feel confident that a girl has things going for her, and that she doesn't want to be exposed for being on SA as much as I don't.

**Ernest Ll** · 10-27-20 12:41

As I recall, the holidays are good times for sugar as CoEds and other SBs are looking for $$ for holiday shopping.

This year, PT jobs will be in short supply.

Add to that, many colleges are wrapping up at Thanksgiving and not starting back till late Jan or even Feb.

Lots of free time, little chances for income = well stocked bowl.

**Zerry** · 10-27-20 10:26

You say you aren't picky, but at 3-400 the choices are all pretty rough (or ruff also works). Richmond is a much better market, so that's probably were most of your activity is. I just don't have the energy to make that drive and deal with hotels, so I am very picky. The other week I drove an hour to meet a new girl, got about 10 feet from her in the parking lot and said, "sorry I'm not here to meet you and left. " She was possibly cute, but she was wearing sweat pants and had fingernails that were over an inch long.

I have a solid regular that keeps my brain clear when I'm having a dry spell on Bumble / Hinge / SA.

Also, is it that former Redskins cheerleader? I talked to her and suspected she was fake, or at the very least a take the money and ghost scam. We talked a lot, but she would never meet up. I insist on meeting in public first, so maybe that was her hang up.

My golden rule of doing this is to never fuck around with anyone who has nothing to loose. I need to feel confident that a girl has things going for her, and that she doesn't want to be exposed for being on SA as much as I don't.

Originally Posted by Lobsid [View Original Post]

I want a harem. I get bored of fc the same girl. I want to FC a different girl everyday, which I am currently doing. I'm not as picky about looks as some guys. I rather have variety. Currently, have 1 ex professional cheerleader. I'm meeting up with a model this week. I have 3 cute college girls. 1 Army soldier, because I support our troops. A gym manager, who is very flexible. A married MILF who lactating. My longest SB just graduated college. I would get bored if all my SBs were models.

Because of my business obligations I can't travel more then 2 hrs away. I can only play in DC, Virginia, Maryland or Pennsylvania. Before I became a SD. I was meetup with high end escorts. I hooked up with models and pornstars during that time. Fun, but I prefer variety.

**Member #7176** · 10-27-20 00:52

I want a harem. I get bored of fc the same girl. I want to FC a different girl everyday, which I am currently doing. I'm not as picky about looks as some guys. I rather have variety. Currently, have 1 ex professional cheerleader. I'm meeting up with a model this week. I have 3 cute college girls. 1 Army soldier, because I support our troops. A gym manager, who is very flexible. A married MILF who lactating. My longest SB just graduated college. I would get bored if all my SBs were models.

Because of my business obligations I can't travel more then 2 hrs away. I can only play in DC, Virginia, Maryland or Pennsylvania. Before I became a SD. I was meetup with high end escorts. I hooked up with models and pornstars during that time. Fun, but I prefer variety.

Originally Posted by Zerry [View Original Post]

Like I said, I need to party with you. I got to say though, if I had $3,500 a week to blow on SA I'd probably raise my standards and lower frequency. You do get some gems at 400 but, not 5 a week. No judgement intended.

Have you gone after some of the high-end girls? There are not a lot of them, but there are a few chicks around here that are truly model caliber. In SoCal there were insanely hot women on SA. Using some of the budget for destination sugaring is something else I'd do.

Search San Diego / LA, you could easily line up a dozen potential girls at the 300-600 price point and see most of them in a week. Man I miss living there. I was having more 3 somes there than one on one dates here and spending the same money. It's been a while, but some of my connections might still be active.

**Ernest Ll** · 10-26-20 16:30

Originally Posted by GeechieDan [View Original Post]

So I viewed her profile and I saw that she viewed mine. I tried to go back to her profile and it wasn't available. Either she deleted her profile or she blocked me for some unknown reason.

She viewed me first last night, I sent a message and poof.

**ThatSexyGuy** · 10-26-20 16:06

Saw her today.

https://www.seeking.com/member/373ad...3-d5aea07de48a

Well she's a big mess and I did search this forum and tried my best to find a review but nothing came up. Even when I searched for an Emily. Well, this was my first outing in a long time and I've been MIA a few years so I knew it was wrong to meet her seeing as she said she had kids and it seemed to good to be true from her pics.

Upon arriving for our date she was cool at first. But as I talked to her more and more she fell apart. It was sad really. It kinda made me want to get up and just leave, but she explained symptoms she had I can't even remember them all. But she had many many problems. She had a wig on and wore it proudly. It was visible to see the strings on her head. Nice face and decent body. So she was definitely fuckable. But after she kept telling me about her problems with her ex and revealing how she was assaulted in the military I lost all interest. How does she expect me to ever want to bang her after hearing that. And she clearly needs help and is super struggling to provide for her kids. Shame. But I'm not in the hype of being a hero so onto the next girl LOL.

**Gatsby804** · 10-26-20 14:49

Originally Posted by ErnestLl [View Original Post]

Anyone get anywhere with this super cute blonde?

https://www.seeking.com/member/ebac0...9-f61980611e94

I can verify she is real. Doesn't seem to response to messages much though. Most likely very low volume, and just on SA looking to marry rich.

**Geechie Dan** · 10-26-20 13:04

Originally Posted by KevinCalormis [View Original Post]

I tried this one out, she initially hit me up or probably wouldn't have happend since my searches on seeking cap at 23. Very insistent that everything be covered, but decent body and got into it. Probably won't see her again, she was a backup for an 18 yo that got cold feet when it was FC time.

https://www.seeking.com/member/01bb1...1-4f7d490db6c3

So I viewed her profile and I saw that she viewed mine. I tried to go back to her profile and it wasn't available. Either she deleted her profile or she blocked me for some unknown reason.

**DWinthrop** · 10-26-20 12:45

I tried this one out, she initially hit me up or probably wouldn't have happend since my searches on seeking cap at 23. Very insistent that everything be covered, but decent body and got into it. Probably won't see her again, she was a backup for an 18 yo that got cold feet when it was FC time.

Great body, she definitely works out.

https://www.seeking.com/member/01bb1...1-4f7d490db6c3

**Ernest Ll** · 10-26-20 12:29

Anyone get anywhere with this super cute blonde?

https://www.seeking.com/member/ebac0...9-f61980611e94

**ThatSexyGuy** · 10-26-20 10:34

Originally Posted by Lobsid [View Original Post]

Girls say that because they want to make sure that your not a crazy guy that will murder them. Most of the guys on the site are weird. Almost every SB I meet up with say I am one of the most normal person they met on the site. Some girls require M&G date 1st, but most of the time I get FC. Remember the girls that msg you are interested too. Hardest part is weeding out scammers

Thanks man. Was nervous to get back in. It's so many options but I have to at least verify them and make sure it's safe as possible.