Arrangement Reports

[Chicago41]

Talking with these 3. Anyone sample?

I talked with beachbhabie a bit a couple months ago and she ghosted me. Seemed flaky.

[Yardy00]

She's moderately new, that should change soon.

One of the underrated aspects of SA is seeing how hilariously out of touch the new girls are. If you read through the new accounts so many of them seem to have no idea of their competition on the site. Girls I wouldn't give 100 to are signing up with attitudes like they are SA's saving grace and about to change the game, with headlines like "believe it or not I'm real" or "chicago's best finally here". Then you read the bio and some BS about "not willing to meet but can possibly send some lucky daddy some cute photos if the price is right". I always get a kick out of these, especially when I check back in 2 weeks and their profiles / attitudes are completely different since they finally get the idea that 1) there are much better looking women than them on the site and 2) we have the internet and don't pay for photos.

So many of the new profiles have the online only tag LOL.

[Pal5600]

Talking with these 3. Anyone sample?

https://www.seeking.com/member/0bbe5...6-455f0dfa866c

https://www.seeking.com/member/0fb32...b-297c739c7da0

https://www.seeking.com/member/8f8ff...4-dcad95d31e7e

Messaged but no word back yet.

https://www.seeking.com/member/ac5ac...5-8d8c3d05d3a8

https://www.seeking.com/member/7e686...d-6a7d85cef414

https://www.seeking.com/member/4ba0c...a-cec9b1bf73bb

1) beautiful_blonde14 she just want bullshit online only.

2) emily410 platonic friendship bullshit or just with me.

3) lexxxxxxxxxxxx never respond to me.

And the other not really my cup of tea.

[Pal5600]

https://www.seeking.com/member/98a56...3-55393f8bcab6

This one likely be fake, but anyone chat with her.

[ChiNorthside]

Talking with these 3. Anyone sample?

https://www.seeking.com/member/0bbe5...6-455f0dfa866c

https://www.seeking.com/member/0fb32...b-297c739c7da0

https://www.seeking.com/member/8f8ff...4-dcad95d31e7e

Messaged but no word back yet.

https://www.seeking.com/member/ac5ac...5-8d8c3d05d3a8

https://www.seeking.com/member/7e686...d-6a7d85cef414

https://www.seeking.com/member/4ba0c...a-cec9b1bf73bb

[OlderGuy1954]

Ok, I'll give them a couple days. I now suspect they may have picked up on me using a VPN (spammers regularly use VPNs too).

Sorry for the off topic, back to your regularly scheduled programming!

I turned on my VPN mid-session and that triggered something at SA. No problems with VPNs and SA in general, but a rapidly changing IP address makes them think you're a problem. Customer service had it back in a day or so.

[FafaFooey]

Based on my admittedly limited experience way more than 1% of the gals on SA are not what they claim to be. That's not to say they're LE. I haven't encountered that. But, scammers of all varieties, yes. Druggies, yes. No relation in real life to the photos, yes. Scary criminal history, yes. Plenty of gals will do a meet and greet over coffee, or drink, or dinner. Its a way to screen them, and better to hold off discussing details of an arrangement once you are in person and have a safer feeling.

Agree. I think whatever the risks are on SA a simple public M&G mitigates most of them. If there are LE on SA then skipping on the 'meet right now' girls pretty much elminates them. Of course anything that's imaginable is possible, but its very, very unlikely most LE jurisdictions are going to commit the resources to enagage in a drawn out process to nab a guy or girl for what's in most places a misdemeanor. And many of the scammers, druggies, etc. That bring down the level of the site also won't want to put in the time to go through with that step, always pushing to get on to the paid stages (or demanding to be paid for simple M&Gs!

[Chicago41]

Twice in the last six weeks. I write cust service and within about 36 hrs its reactivated. They never give a reason other than its a computer Algorithm.

The last time I told them that I expected to be refunded for the day and a half and they added three days to my account.

Ok, I'll give them a couple days. I now suspect they may have picked up on me using a VPN (spammers regularly use VPNs too).

Sorry for the off topic, back to your regularly scheduled programming!

[Randolph]

Nothing more from my point of view. I had an account there until July, deleted it, decided to make a new one a couple days ago. I log in last night and suddenly it shows a screen saying I'm suspended and I get an e-mail saying the same. Send a message to customer support, no response. Tried to log in this morning and it says my account has been deleted. And just yesterday, I paid for the membership upgrade, too. Real nice.

Twice in the last six weeks. I write cust service and within about 36 hrs its reactivated. They never give a reason other than its a computer Algorithm.

The last time I told them that I expected to be refunded for the day and a half and they added three days to my account.

[Chicago41]

Post isn't gone from here. Check my post history, it's still there.

Her account has been deactivated.

Sounds like your sa account being suspended is unrelated unless there's more to the story.

Nothing more from my point of view. I had an account there until July, deleted it, decided to make a new one a couple days ago. I log in last night and suddenly it shows a screen saying I'm suspended and I get an e-mail saying the same. Send a message to customer support, no response. Tried to log in this morning and it says my account has been deleted. And just yesterday, I paid for the membership upgrade, too. Real nice.

[Pau Ford]

Post isn't gone from here. Check my post history, it's still there.

Her account has been deactivated.

Sounds like your sa account being suspended is unrelated unless there's more to the story.

Sometime in the last week, someone here posted about a girl on SA who had done BBFS "with half the guys here", I went and favorited her, now see the posts about her here are gone and her profile on SA is either gone or she blocked me. Also now my SA account is suspended WTF? Kind of hard to explain it with the posts deleted, but did anyone else get suspended today? There's no reason I should be suspended, I hadn't even contacted her or anyone else in months.

[Chicago41]

Sometime in the last week, someone here posted about a girl on SA who had done BBFS "with half the guys here", I went and favorited her, now see the posts about her here are gone and her profile on SA is either gone or she blocked me. Also now my SA account is suspended WTF? Kind of hard to explain it with the posts deleted, but did anyone else get suspended today? There's no reason I should be suspended, I hadn't even contacted her or anyone else in months.

[Wisguy50]

I'm certain the majority of SA ladies are legit but even if only 1% of ads are something other than what they claim to be, then I suppose caution and treading smartly with 100% of all interactions is the way to go. I appreciate the back and forth guys. Helped with this whole thought process. Have fun and play safe. CE.

Based on my admittedly limited experience way more than 1% of the gals on SA are not what they claim to be. That's not to say they're LE. I haven't encountered that. But, scammers of all varieties, yes. Druggies, yes. No relation in real life to the photos, yes. Scary criminal history, yes. Plenty of gals will do a meet and greet over coffee, or drink, or dinner. Its a way to screen them, and better to hold off discussing details of an arrangement once you are in person and have a safer feeling.

[Creative Eros]

Dipping my toes into the SA waters. Do you need to pay these guys to actually message the girls? I can't decide if that's worth it or not.

Acid. If you don't pay for a membership, you'll have no communication with the girls. For SA, no membership means you're just viewing profiles and teasing yourself. CE.

[Creative Eros]

Never would think someone's a dick for trying to spread useful info. But when I search around, the only legal troubles I see involving SA so far are guys busted for hooking up with underage girls or related crimes like assault, blackmail, etc. Almost always after the fact. I can't find any account of a 'typical' arrangement ending with a potential SD busted for solicitation or something similar. Either way, I was just counseling common sense and caution vs cutting-and-running over paranoia. I think the legal risks of fooling around on SA are much smaller than partaking of traditional escorts, especially the lower-end providers, and the biggest concerns are privacy and personal security. But I'm always open to being further informed / educated by any experiences that are shared here!

I don't remember where but I have read it on the forum, I know I have. I don't know how else to say this, chicks on SA are traditional escorts. What you're doing is soliciting. Now that backpage is gone do you think all those cops that were running stings there have retired or opened donut shops? They are doing the exact same stuff there they did on BP, trapping pedos, getting guys to show up for dates. It doesn't matter if you believe me or not, time will tell and I'm telling you, as the guy who reads a couple thousand posts all over this forum on a daily basis that it's already happening.

I have to say though that I hope that through this delusion people have about arrangements public opinion will be pulled to the place, like it did with weed, where chicks can just sell pussy if they want to like the rest of the civilized world.

A2

All valid points gents. And especially A2's last argument that with Backpage now being gone, with previous stings associated with that site, do the Sting Masters just shut up shop or seek alternative sites to sting. Columbo trench wearing, cigar smoking, disheveled food for thought. Is SA a website where prostitution trying to hide itself in 'date a coed for gifts' clothing. Of course it is. Is LEO keeping on eye on it potentially seeking new avenues for arrests. Quite possibly and I would even say probably. Is my paranoia justified. I've always taught my kids to follow their guts / intuition and I usually try to follow my own advice, so my gut tells me it is. I'm certain the majority of SA ladies are legit but even if only 1% of ads are something other than what they claim to be, then I suppose caution and treading smartly with 100% of all interactions is the way to go. I appreciate the back and forth guys. Helped with this whole thought process. Have fun and play safe. CE.