The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

[MisterMister46]

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...4-fee27af057a8

Chatted with this girl and she told me she starts at 1 k. I'll pass as that's absurd in my opinion.

If anyone has recommendations for someone who is okay with something short-term, I'd appreciate it.

[CuriousVaMan]

This. You create the bowl you want to play in.

I still routinely see SA ladies for a $$ to $$$ fee. Yes, I take them to nice restaurants first and we stay at a nice hotel, but they don't treat me like there's any kind of time limit either. I don't make it transactional, and neither do they. I guess my point is that most of these women are looking for a variety of things. If I take the most cynical POV, I could say that they're after short con (quick score), medium con (regular arrangement), long con (long term or marrying a guy of means). If you start out the conversation with "How much for 1 hour of _ they're going to realize that they're probably going to see you one time. In their minds, It doesn't really matter how they treat you, and they don't expect to be treated very nicely by you either, so they might as well put a big number to it. I always say "My expectation is to have a non-intimate, non-paid public M&G first". I think all of them see this as a job interview, and of the last 12 times I've done this, all but one have agreed to go to my room after dinner, and yes. I have provided them with some sugar for this. The best of these have turned into regular, repeat scenarios. To summarize, your typical college girl doesn't want to think of herself as a prostitute, but at the same time she isn't going to turn down 'big money' if no one's going to find out. There's an amount of money that allows her to set aside her principles, and 800 might be that number for many of these. Just come at it a different way and I guarantee you that you'll have a better time.

[T647A]

I still routinely see SA ladies for a $$ to $$$ fee. Yes, I take them to nice restaurants first and we stay at a nice hotel, but they don't treat me like there's any kind of time limit either. I don't make it transactional, and neither do they. I guess my point is that most of these women are looking for a variety of things. If I take the most cynical POV, I could say that they're after short con (quick score), medium con (regular arrangement), long con (long term or marrying a guy of means). If you start out the conversation with "How much for 1 hour of _ they're going to realize that they're probably going to see you one time. In their minds, It doesn't really matter how they treat you, and they don't expect to be treated very nicely by you either, so they might as well put a big number to it. I always say "My expectation is to have a non-intimate, non-paid public M&G first". I think all of them see this as a job interview, and of the last 12 times I've done this, all but one have agreed to go to my room after dinner, and yes. I have provided them with some sugar for this. The best of these have turned into regular, repeat scenarios. To summarize, your typical college girl doesn't want to think of herself as a prostitute, but at the same time she isn't going to turn down 'big money' if no one's going to find out. There's an amount of money that allows her to set aside her principles, and 800 might be that number for many of these. Just come at it a different way and I guarantee you that you'll have a better time.

This is the truest thing I've ever seen about sugar dating. This advice is perfect.

[SmallAsianCock]

Sarai 20 yo, seems friendly but probably high $$.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...b-57fcfeb9bb29

She wanted 5 bills. I offered 400. Her response " Unfortunately that won't work for me. ".

I am not willing to offer 5 bills for an unknown.

[YayaGogo]

I obviously can't tell you not to pay these girls 800 for an hour but I will tell you that there are a whole lot of guys (like me) out here that don't have the luxory of casino winnings. So when the girls quote 800 and then get 800 that only reinforces their mindset that they can get crazy money. I started out with SA in 2015 bangin' 18 - 24 yo girls twice a week for 150-200. Then went to 300 in 2022 - 2023. Even at 600 plus a 150 hotel is 750 but a guy has to earn 1000, then get a new paycheck of 750. Do that every week and its $50,000 a year. Just sayin'.

There are girls that will quote an amount and not budge, while many others will start high and settle for a lower amount. There is no way to determine which is which unless you play the game. Girls on SA may go lower if 1) they find you more attractive than the average guy on the site 2) you offer an experience that's more than just meeting in a hotel for a sex for money transaction 3) you will be longer term and not a one or two time thing 4) you have a decent personality and don't come across as creepy 5) they are desperate to pay bills right now 6) any other reason.

I'm on a budget and prefer weekly meets so for those I'm interested in I try to talk them down to $$$ if their starting bid is higher. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't and I never take it personally or begrudge anyone for holding out, it's their decision. There are more than enough on SA that will go $$ or $$ Good luck!

[MmceStep]

The girls that quote 800 are not going to sleep with you for 300. They will sleep with you for 800.

There are girls that will see you for 300. And even for 200.

This is kinda like getting a $20 Timex or a $20,000 Rolex. Both tell you the correct time. One is more desirable than the other.

I ONLY see top quality SA girls. Like the top 10% of what you see on there. You don't have to believe me, but it's true. I have no problem getting 8. 5's in real life, I sure as shit am not going to pay for one.

[LikesGirls]

I obviously can't tell you not to pay these girls 800 for an hour but I will tell you that there are a whole lot of guys (like me) out here that don't have the luxory of casino winnings. So when the girls quote 800 and then get 800 that only reinforces their mindset that they can get crazy money. I started out with SA in 2015 bangin' 18 - 24 yo girls twice a week for 150-200. Then went to 300 in 2022 - 2023. Even at 600 plus a 150 hotel is 750 but a guy has to earn 1000, then get a new paycheck of 750. Do that every week and its $50,000 a year. Just sayin'.

The girls that quote 800 are not going to sleep with you for 300. They will sleep with you for 800.

There are girls that will see you for 300. And even for 200.

This is kinda like getting a $20 Timex or a $20,000 Rolex. Both tell you the correct time. One is more desirable than the other.

[MmceStep]

I obviously can't tell you not to pay these girls 800 for an hour but I will tell you that there are a whole lot of guys (like me) out here that don't have the luxory of casino winnings. So when the girls quote 800 and then get 800 that only reinforces their mindset that they can get crazy money. I started out with SA in 2015 bangin' 18 - 24 yo girls twice a week for 150-200. Then went to 300 in 2022 - 2023. Even at 600 plus a 150 hotel is 750 but a guy has to earn 1000, then get a new paycheck of 750. Do that every week and its $50,000 a year. Just sayin'.

I still routinely see SA ladies for a $$ to $$$ fee. Yes, I take them to nice restaurants first and we stay at a nice hotel, but they don't treat me like there's any kind of time limit either. I don't make it transactional, and neither do they. I guess my point is that most of these women are looking for a variety of things. If I take the most cynical POV, I could say that they're after short con (quick score), medium con (regular arrangement), long con (long term or marrying a guy of means). If you start out the conversation with "How much for 1 hour of _ they're going to realize that they're probably going to see you one time. In their minds, It doesn't really matter how they treat you, and they don't expect to be treated very nicely by you either, so they might as well put a big number to it. I always say "My expectation is to have a non-intimate, non-paid public M&G first". I think all of them see this as a job interview, and of the last 12 times I've done this, all but one have agreed to go to my room after dinner, and yes. I have provided them with some sugar for this. The best of these have turned into regular, repeat scenarios. To summarize, your typical college girl doesn't want to think of herself as a prostitute, but at the same time she isn't going to turn down 'big money' if no one's going to find out. There's an amount of money that allows her to set aside her principles, and 800 might be that number for many of these. Just come at it a different way and I guarantee you that you'll have a better time.

[StormyTuesday]

I've met Stella three months back. That time, she quoted 800 for an hour and 1500 for two. I had some casino winnings that day, so went with the instinct to meet her. She came on time and left exactly in an hour LOL. At least for me, she didn't look as attractive in person as the pics. But great body, less talkative and great attitude. So much better than these other girls who want easy money without even moving their lazy ass. If its 400, I'd have definitely visited her again.

I obviously can't tell you not to pay these girls 800 for an hour but I will tell you that there are a whole lot of guys (like me) out here that don't have the luxory of casino winnings. So when the girls quote 800 and then get 800 that only reinforces their mindset that they can get crazy money. I started out with SA in 2015 bangin' 18 - 24 yo girls twice a week for 150-200. Then went to 300 in 2022 - 2023. Even at 600 plus a 150 hotel is 750 but a guy has to earn 1000, then get a new paycheck of 750. Do that every week and its $50,000 a year. Just sayin'.

[MikeoDamerika]

I need advice.

I used to be able to update my membership with visa blackhawk gift cards. It seems like I can't get any of those to work anymore.

Any advice? I can't use my regular credit card.

Thanks.

[Thomaspartey]

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...7-a2ece46e348e

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...d-537b226fcef6

Either one may be Pro (read my post regarding Pros).

I've met Stella three months back. That time, she quoted 800 for an hour and 1500 for two. I had some casino winnings that day, so went with the instinct to meet her. She came on time and left exactly in an hour LOL. At least for me, she didn't look as attractive in person as the pics. But great body, less talkative and great attitude. So much better than these other girls who want easy money without even moving their lazy ass. If its 400, I'd have definitely visited her again.

[Bachelor1234]

She is a pro. Me one time. Another guy I know also one time. Most likely others as well. That qualifies as a pro.

Over the years, I've probably seen her 3 or 4 times. She's cool and fun but the vibes are a bit more on the pro side. I'm fine with this.

I've met several women on sugar sites only to find out later they have ads on escort sites. Never seen her advertise on escort sites though.

[SmallAsianCock]

Is she a pro?

She is a pro. Me one time. Another guy I know also one time. Most likely others as well. That qualifies as a pro.

[NightTraveler]

Any feedback on this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...f-22791363158a

Seems responsive on chatting and later texting, thinking about meeting her tomorrow (Monday).

How was Luna? I'm considering seeing her tonight. Seems very chatty.

[Falconwings33]

I used to see her for a little while. I would recommend her. She's very cool and the pics are real. I'm not sure what you mean by "pro" exactly. She is a legit SB (not on escort sites) if that's what you mean.

I've seen her as well. Used to be popular in Richmond board. Nice girl, great body with man made tittes.