Sugar Babies & Arrangements

**RedRobinIdiot** · 08-29-25 18:18

Originally Posted by AnomBox [View Original Post]

Any intel? Shipped my long term SB off to grad school so back in the hunt for a new low-20's, bi & sub SB. This ones a little thicker than I like but talks a good game.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...9-80d23ab36a8c

Been talking to her, planned for a dinner date but no response on the night of date! Let me know if things work out for you.

**AnomBox** · 08-29-25 00:46

Any intel? Shipped my long term SB off to grad school so back in the hunt for a new low-20's, bi & sub SB. This ones a little thicker than I like but talks a good game.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...9-80d23ab36a8c

**DaGreatOne2345** · 08-26-25 20:54

Originally Posted by RedRobinIdiot [View Original Post]

SB girl I was talking to sends voice notes. We confirmed on the price but she keeps asking about if I am ok paying for babysitter. What does baby sitter mean here? Even after confirming the $$ she is asking about confirmation about baby sitter? Is this any code language? Wondering if it's safe or not to pursue?

Crossposting.

Or I would just avoid it altogether. No chick with a child is worth it. Ever. And if she doesn't really have a child, then like Mandane said, it's a scam.

**Mandane** · 08-23-25 16:15

Originally Posted by RedRobinIdiot [View Original Post]

SB girl I was talking to sends voice notes. We confirmed on the price but she keeps asking about if I am ok paying for babysitter. What does baby sitter mean here? Even after confirming the $$ she is asking about confirmation about baby sitter? Is this any code language? Wondering if it's safe or not to pursue?

Crossposting.

It means you are likely getting scammed. She's going to want that in advance even though no one actually pays babysitters in advance. If you really want to meet her find out what the babysitter is supposed to cost (probably $20 an hour) and offer to pay it in person. I would reduce the ppm, but that's just me. She will likely come up with some excuse as to why that won't work. That's how you confirm it's a scam.

**RedRobinIdiot** · 08-23-25 14:59

SB girl I was talking to sends voice notes. We confirmed on the price but she keeps asking about if I am ok paying for babysitter. What does baby sitter mean here? Even after confirming the $$ she is asking about confirmation about baby sitter? Is this any code language? Wondering if it's safe or not to pursue?

Crossposting.

**Joe Pumper** · 08-19-25 23:42

Originally Posted by PanosBob39 [View Original Post]

Had quite a bit of back and forth via text. She canceled on our first meet last minute but kept in touch. Picked out the most expensive restaurant she could find in her area I am guessing so no loss there. Reached out again a few weeks later to meet up for a quick familiarization, place not as $$ so got the "usually I get at least $100 to show love just for a meet up" text right before heading out. I passed. She's very cute and shared some really cute photos via some of the texts, but I don't do anything over the top like that just to meet, but to each his own.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...8-a0806370ba5e

I had a few dates with this one, she claims that after the third date she is open to "more". So, I went on three lunch dates with her and I sort of just sent her $50 instead of what she asked for and said once we progress past lunch dates I would give her the additional $150. So after the third date I asked about get more acquainted and she said she had some personal problems and it was going to be a little while before we could progress, I told her it was nice knowing her and moved on. She is just trying to go out with a bunch of men who treat her to lunch and she gets some funds as after, but I never felt like she was going to move to something more intimate.

**TrentWilliams** · 08-19-25 19:13

Originally Posted by Jsnx8990 [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...7-26b36c5efc4d

Slow comms. Wants 700-1 k after a 4-5 offer, major GPS.

She probably actually has a GP though, worth it IMO.

**Aimless Drifter** · 08-19-25 16:17

Pics are definitely the better side, but she's very nice with a very nice bubble ass and the profile pretty much spells out her situation. First visit was great, second not so much, 3rd with a bottle of wine the I don't do's went out the window or so I dreamt they did anyways. She mainly just wants to chill for a bit to take off the stress and help you do the same. Can't beat that and a nice go-to at $$$ ppm and maybe less if you press plus whatever you might have to put out for accommodations since she can't host.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...d-1bac2eb4cdce

**Aimless Drifter** · 08-19-25 16:04

Not as good as the pics but that bubble is the real deal! First visit awesome, intro self induced waterworks as an icebreaker but then begging daddy to be done soon after getting started in the real dream. Second visit not so much as it seemed even more rushed to get the best part over with after DATY and getting hers. She will chill with you for a bit after it seemed since accommodations had to be paid for but if nothing else is happening and you don't have a lot of time on your hands, might be a stretch at the 5 bills additional she wants for support. Could easily be taken off the site though as I sensed the urge for some long-term security as all kinds of possibilities were mentioned in conversation once more familiar.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...a-d493ce42dea6

**Aimless Drifter** · 08-19-25 15:43

Had quite a bit of back and forth via text. She canceled on our first meet last minute but kept in touch. Picked out the most expensive restaurant she could find in her area I am guessing so no loss there. Reached out again a few weeks later to meet up for a quick familiarization, place not as $$ so got the "usually I get at least $100 to show love just for a meet up" text right before heading out. I passed. She's very cute and shared some really cute photos via some of the texts, but I don't do anything over the top like that just to meet, but to each his own.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...8-a0806370ba5e

**Mandane** · 08-19-25 13:52

Talks a good game. Requires a Facetime before meeting. Wants $100 for that. Hard pass.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...3-89565e21eaa8

**Jsnx8990** · 08-19-25 13:00

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...7-26b36c5efc4d

Slow comms. Wants 700-1 k after a 4-5 offer, major GPS.

**Aimless Drifter** · 08-19-25 12:05

Originally Posted by Jsnx8990 [View Original Post]

First time mid May (met for drinks at a bar, she came over the following day), second time mid June. She tried to follow up a few more times and stopped messaging early July. The boyfriend was Hispanic IIRC, like Colombian and didn't speak any English from what I was told. That situation sketched me out which also influenced me not meeting again. I believe on the second meet she left her phone in her car (their shared car) and I picked her up since he may also have had her location. Either way probably not worth it if you need clean opsec like me.

Definitely thinking it was him then. Wow! Initially thought it was a scam and that he was just a really bad actor. The poor guy was holding on for love I suppose and just trying to see what she was getting into. Damn what a life!! I definitely run low profile with my head on a swivel always for sure. Your first encounter sounds good but agree not worth it with a stalking boyfriend to consider. Hopefully she's safe and appreciate the reply!

**Jsnx8990** · 08-19-25 11:42

Originally Posted by PanosBob39 [View Original Post]

Just curious at what timeframe did you meet up with Sophia. Comms with her for quite a bit a couple months back but the weirdest thing the night we were supposed to finally meet up. Some weird acting dude looked like he was trying to film me with his phone at the bar so I started filming him back and left. Haha. She never showed and he showed right about the time she was supposed to. Just wondering if this might have been the live in boyfriend you mentioned. Very weird evening to say the least as I though she was a fake after that.

First time mid May (met for drinks at a bar, she came over the following day), second time mid June. She tried to follow up a few more times and stopped messaging early July. The boyfriend was Hispanic IIRC, like Colombian and didn't speak any English from what I was told. That situation sketched me out which also influenced me not meeting again. I believe on the second meet she left her phone in her car (their shared car) and I picked her up since he may also have had her location. Either way probably not worth it if you need clean opsec like me.

**Aimless Drifter** · 08-19-25 10:22

Originally Posted by Jsnx8990 [View Original Post]

Some older intel from girls I don't see anymore along with some new ones I'm sussing out.

Melanie: https://members.seeking.com/member/3...6-64d6852a91b4.

Don't waste your time. Wants $450 just to get drinks or dinners.

Kimberly: https://members.seeking.com/member/0...e-d9a8ce12f98b.

Terrible comms. Sounded like she was open to casual but takes forever to reply / ghosts.

Essie: https://members.seeking.com/member/5...3-1ab54ff04e99.

More terrible comms. Will disappear for a month after hitting you up so never even got a chance to meet.

Shelby / don't remember username: https://members.seeking.com/member/8...4-f5c571b1623e.

27 in Sarasota. If profile doesn't link it's because she blocks you as soon as you go to text. Short thicc fit girl. Loud in person and extremely full of herself. She seems to be seeing a LOT of people, like new guy every day type. I did 500/ meet but only met one time because her opsec is terrible (real full name, real number) and she has a boyfriend she shares her location with and almost got busted. Wanted covered, didn't even want to give head, didn't want to get on top. Managed to get all and BBFS but she just went on about how good she is and she should get a "bonus" for it. Then to boot she got clingy over text. Shame because she's hot but couldn't deal with her personality enough to even want to see her again.

Just curious at what timeframe did you meet up with Sophia. Comms with her for quite a bit a couple months back but the weirdest thing the night we were supposed to finally meet up. Some weird acting dude looked like he was trying to film me with his phone at the bar so I started filming him back and left. Haha. She never showed and he showed right about the time she was supposed to. Just wondering if this might have been the live in boyfriend you mentioned. Very weird evening to say the least as I though she was a fake after that.