The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

**MmceStep** · 07-07-25 14:32

Originally Posted by Biscuits1234 [View Original Post]

Absolute insanity!! Seeking has already gone so downhill that it's not even worth half the current asking price. More fakes than ever before. Doesn't help that Seeking is trying their hardest to brand themselves as a normal affluent dating site, but only for the male side. The female side can get away with murder without being so much as receiving a warning it feels like!

Maybe it's just NC, but this lifestyle is just doesn't feel worth it anymore. Too many women on there (especially in the early 20's range) that expect the Lost City of Gold for nothing in return.

The next time I toggle / cancel my Seeking subscription, it will be for good. Thanks for the heads up.

This is absolutely baffling to me. For the past few years I've thought 'man, this is so overpriced for what they're delivering, and if they made it more reasonable, they could probably have way more engagement. ' They can't seem to get rid of the scammers and when you do find one that seems legit, she hasn't logged in for 2 months. It seems like a terrible idea to reduce the amount of paying participants (price elasticity). The ladies will also scale back depending on how much opportunity they see to meet paying members (and this is what I think has been happening). This seems like a slaughter the dairy cows strategy. It seems like Seeking is reaching their end of the road.

**Biscuits1234** · 07-06-25 22:11

Originally Posted by SaintMan3500 [View Original Post]

I have some "wonderful"(eyeroll) news, guys! Seeking will be increasing their prices by up to 25%, on July 8th!

https://blog.seeking.com/membership-...doesnt-have-to

Finding a decent arrangement without dealing with pic sellers, GPS, scammers, or paid meet & greet only bozo's was already a nightmare.

Absolute insanity!! Seeking has already gone so downhill that it's not even worth half the current asking price. More fakes than ever before. Doesn't help that Seeking is trying their hardest to brand themselves as a normal affluent dating site, but only for the male side. The female side can get away with murder without being so much as receiving a warning it feels like!

Maybe it's just NC, but this lifestyle is just doesn't feel worth it anymore. Too many women on there (especially in the early 20's range) that expect the Lost City of Gold for nothing in return.

The next time I toggle / cancel my Seeking subscription, it will be for good. Thanks for the heads up.

**jobobtheclown** · 07-05-25 20:42

Originally Posted by SaintMan3500 [View Original Post]

I have some "wonderful"(eyeroll) news, guys! Seeking will be increasing their prices by up to 25%, on July 8th!

https://blog.seeking.com/membership-...doesnt-have-to

Finding a decent arrangement without dealing with pic sellers, GPS, scammers, or paid meet & greet only bozo's was already a nightmare.

Their every move seems calculated to make the site less useful; it's baffling. The weird selfie popup, the increased price, removing body type from pages. I'm using SBe more and more, and it's entirely their doing.

**SaintMan3500** · 07-05-25 15:36

I have some "wonderful"(eyeroll) news, guys! Seeking will be increasing their prices by up to 25%, on July 8th!

https://blog.seeking.com/membership-...doesnt-have-to

Finding a decent arrangement without dealing with pic sellers, GPS, scammers, or paid meet & greet only bozo's was already a nightmare.

**Member #7183** · 07-04-25 22:59

Originally Posted by SmallAsianCock [View Original Post]

She's real. Asks for a lot. You can negotiate.

Thanks for your resp. She is on tryst as well so not much of a sb unfortunately.

**SmallAsianCock** · 07-04-25 18:26

Originally Posted by GoodBoyce [View Original Post]

Been lurking here. Got too much success lately but want to make sure I am not walking into trouble. Any intel on this sb please would be greatly appreciated. Lives by airport. Jade.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...d19d6bd165d969

She's real. Asks for a lot. You can negotiate.

**Member #7183** · 07-04-25 15:10

Been lurking here. Got too much success lately but want to make sure I am not walking into trouble. Any intel on this sb please would be greatly appreciated. Lives by airport. Jade.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...d19d6bd165d969

**LostTribe** · 06-29-25 23:29

Originally Posted by Sobe69 [View Original Post]

Looks like Lucy is gone in the wind. Why the autofail on Margo.

For me there is enough drama when the SB is single. Having experienced a sugaring love triangle first hand, I will not put myself in that position again. Hence the autofail. As always YMMV and all the best to those who decide to make the attempt.

**Sobe69** · 06-29-25 16:27

Looks like Lucy is gone in the wind. Why the autofail on Margo.

Originally Posted by LostTribe [View Original Post]

Lucy,

Had a M&G with this one, she is the girl in the pictures but has gained significant weight. Very personable and sweet so if you like that plus short and thick, go for it.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...e-05fb292b61c6

Margo,

Is married and looking for a second source of income with the "blessing" of her husband. Automatic fail for me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...c-cec18f7a35f0

**Member #7183** · 06-28-25 15:06

Originally Posted by LostTribe [View Original Post]

I have come across Bri's and Marie's in my journey, maybe you will get lucky but a link or a picture will help the community help you. Don't give her any $ in advance or buy pictures, as I have encountered many a scammer who said they were located in the F-ville / Holly Springs area.

Yep. Here is the brii. Appreciate any guidance. TIA!

**LostTribe** · 06-28-25 13:05

Originally Posted by GoodBoyce [View Original Post]

Found this sb for the first time. Goes by brii marrie and stays near Fayetteville. Any intel is appreciated. Asking 5 for dream. Says looking for long term. Found her on sbene. Didn't know if I should share a pic though but possibly looks like a regular in sb / sd world.

I have come across Bri's and Marie's in my journey, maybe you will get lucky but a link or a picture will help the community help you. Don't give her any $ in advance or buy pictures, as I have encountered many a scammer who said they were located in the F-ville / Holly Springs area.

**Member #7183** · 06-28-25 01:20

Found this sb for the first time. Goes by brii marrie and stays near Fayetteville. Any intel is appreciated. Asking 5 for dream. Says looking for long term. Found her on sbene. Didn't know if I should share a pic though but possibly looks like a regular in sb / sd world.

**BlahTime** · 06-27-25 18:28

Originally Posted by MrMayhem23 [View Original Post]

Blonde spinner, early 30's, fit, skilled and fun.

I met her 3 or so years ago on Seeking and just recently reconnected. She asked about meeting other respectful men so I said I'd help. I don't discuss finances. I just make introductions. She may ask for a pic so if she's not interested just move on. There have been times I haven't been someone's cup of tea. Be respectful please. When we refer each other we are representing each other.

Senior members only. DM for her contact info if interested.

FYI your gracious offer probably led to a full inbox. If you get a chance, please empty it out. I appreciate your offer to connect us.

**LostTribe** · 06-27-25 14:49

Met with Jane, she is real, body is a bit more frumpy than the pictures suggested. Comes from a high drama background and brings that energy into the date. Also used to be a pro (seen on STG) and will check your number against "The white list" and will potentially write a review about you (the irony!) Overall was fun but will not repeat. Also will not be sharing any additional info as I don't want to get outed with this one. Have fun but proceed with caution.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...f-7dcc6e45fba7

**AshWink** · 06-27-25 08:01

Originally Posted by MrMayhem23 [View Original Post]

Blonde spinner, early 30's, fit, skilled and fun.

I met her 3 or so years ago on Seeking and just recently reconnected. She asked about meeting other respectful men so I said I'd help. I don't discuss finances. I just make introductions. She may ask for a pic so if she's not interested just move on. There have been times I haven't been someone's cup of tea. Be respectful please. When we refer each other we are representing each other.

Senior members only. DM for her contact info if interested.

Your inbox full, clear messages or send me DM please.