"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**LouisHernandez** · 02-14-25 15:23

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

Or...she didn't want to admit to someone she knows that she fucks strangers for $ LOL. I find that more likely than a vengeful ex bf going through all the trouble to setup an account on the site, especially since she pulled it right after someone she knows asked about it (whereas a vengeful ex likely wouldn't, but instead deny knowing about it while leaving it up). Not saying vengeful ex boyfriends won't do shit, but there's a lot other options that are less effort and / or higher impact than "make a fake dating profile on a p2 p site".

Too much work for a "vengeful boyfriend". She got busted and used a stupid excuse is where my money is.

**TooHotForYou** · 02-14-25 14:27

Originally Posted by FreudFro [View Original Post]

Oh, I agree, that could also explain it. I am certainly not niave enough to believe it outright. However, to me, there were a couple of red flags with the profile. First, it was a few months old and was logged into about the same amount of time from when it was created. So basically, it was created and then not logged into. Mostly inactive.

The next were the pictures, which included a lot of her friends. I know a lot of girls have pics with friends, but this seemed over-the-top to me. Also, none of the friends' faces were blurred. Again, not a guarantee.

Finally, when I said I contacted her I didn't tell her I knew of her. I just contacted her outside of SA. I didn't want her to know my profile there.

So what did you do when you contacted her? To me this sounds like stalking. Tell us the whole situation if it is something helpful for us.

**FreudFro** · 02-14-25 08:41

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

Or...she didn't want to admit to someone she knows that she fucks strangers for $ LOL. I find that more likely than a vengeful ex bf going through all the trouble to setup an account on the site, especially since she pulled it right after someone she knows asked about it (whereas a vengeful ex likely wouldn't, but instead deny knowing about it while leaving it up). Not saying vengeful ex boyfriends won't do shit, but there's a lot other options that are less effort and / or higher impact than "make a fake dating profile on a p2 p site".

Oh, I agree, that could also explain it. I am certainly not niave enough to believe it outright. However, to me, there were a couple of red flags with the profile. First, it was a few months old and was logged into about the same amount of time from when it was created. So basically, it was created and then not logged into. Mostly inactive.

The next were the pictures, which included a lot of her friends. I know a lot of girls have pics with friends, but this seemed over-the-top to me. Also, none of the friends' faces were blurred. Again, not a guarantee.

Finally, when I said I contacted her I didn't tell her I knew of her. I just contacted her outside of SA. I didn't want her to know my profile there.

**GoneForGood97** · 02-13-25 22:23

Originally Posted by FreudFro [View Original Post]

I recently saw a profile for a girl that went to High School with my kids on SA. Through a round-about way I contacted her because it didn't seem right. It wasn't. She thinks a jilted ex-boyfriend created the profile. It's not longer on SA.

Or...she didn't want to admit to someone she knows that she fucks strangers for $ LOL. I find that more likely than a vengeful ex bf going through all the trouble to setup an account on the site, especially since she pulled it right after someone she knows asked about it (whereas a vengeful ex likely wouldn't, but instead deny knowing about it while leaving it up). Not saying vengeful ex boyfriends won't do shit, but there's a lot other options that are less effort and / or higher impact than "make a fake dating profile on a p2 p site".

**LDSlanger** · 02-13-25 13:32

Originally Posted by JohnnyMapalo [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...c-a82f690dbb2d

Anybody seen this disgusting hood rat. She text me out of the blue on seeking asking me if I want to get sucked up. LOL. She's in Kennesaw, per her ads location. Anyone seen this girl? Looks like a Listcrawler chic.

I love trashy sluts send her my way I'm banned on seeking LOL.

**FreudFro** · 02-13-25 11:50

Originally Posted by PeterJohnson [View Original Post]

And if they removed all those fake profiles of hot girls, then there wouldn't be that many left and then the site then seems less worthwhile to men who haven't subscribed yet (and talked to the fakes/scammers). It's better for Seeking to have fake profiles than no profiles, for a certain town or city or region.

And no I seriously doubt the girls will have to do selfie verification.

I don't know how to fool it with the selfie step. Maybe have to go downtown and pay some random homeless dude to let you "take his photo". Or I wonder if this could be done online at one of those "fiverr" type sites.

There are fake accounts everywhere. Either from the site owners or others. Ashley Madison was full of fake accounts.

I recently saw a profile for a girl that went to High School with my kids on SA. Through a round-about way I contacted her because it didn't seem right. It wasn't. She thinks a jilted ex-boyfriend created the profile. It's not longer on SA.

Another great way to weed out possible fakes is check to see how long it's been since they have logged in. If they haven't logged in since they created the account, they are most likely fake.

**Peter Johnson** · 02-13-25 11:23

Originally Posted by MacLuvin [View Original Post]

I have to sort through 100's of profiles to find a few real girls.

And if they removed all those fake profiles of hot girls, then there wouldn't be that many left and then the site then seems less worthwhile to men who haven't subscribed yet (and talked to the fakes/scammers). It's better for Seeking to have fake profiles than no profiles, for a certain town or city or region.

And no I seriously doubt the girls will have to do selfie verification.

I don't know how to fool it with the selfie step. Maybe have to go downtown and pay some random homeless dude to let you "take his photo". Or I wonder if this could be done online at one of those "fiverr" type sites.

**Johnny Mapalo** · 02-12-25 12:18

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...c-a82f690dbb2d

Anybody seen this disgusting hood rat. She text me out of the blue on seeking asking me if I want to get sucked up. LOL. She's in Kennesaw, per her ads location. Anyone seen this girl? Looks like a Listcrawler chic.

**MacLuvin** · 02-12-25 09:49

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

The one good thing about this, it ought to mean that any new profiles of girls that show up have been verified in the same way, meaning they will be real people too.

It also motivates guys to keep their behavior in check, since old, grandfathered (no pun intended) profiles that didn't require this verification take on added value.

I have posted recently about old profiles that are clearly fake but have been resurrected, I am sure that is a scammer play.

But seeing as SA makes money off us mongers and not the girls, I bet they don't have to play by the same rules. But I really would like them to clean up the site with all those fake women / profiles. Luckily you can sense a bot / scammer profile form a mile a way, but it makes the search that much harder when I have to sort through 100's of profiles to find a few real girls.

**LouisHernandez** · 02-11-25 19:49

Originally Posted by BerolLoz [View Original Post]

Yeah this is new as of fall this year, had you renewed in summer would have been able to do it the old way. It's not just Seeking, SDM is doing the same thing, but I think it's still optional there.

Here's the announcement: https://blog.seeking.com/seekings-co...-online-dating.

I figured seeking would finally change policy since the site has been completely overrun with fake accounts and scammers.

**Airmantroy** · 02-11-25 18:22

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

The one good thing about this, it ought to mean that any new profiles of girls that show up have been verified in the same way, meaning they will be real people too.

It also motivates guys to keep their behavior in check, since old, grandfathered (no pun intended) profiles that didn't require this verification take on added value.

I have posted recently about old profiles that are clearly fake but have been resurrected, I am sure that is a scammer play.

I have my doubts about the girls having to pass this, I've already blocked several obvious scammers, all with recent profiles. But we can hope.

**FarFarAway** · 02-11-25 10:45

The one good thing about this, it ought to mean that any new profiles of girls that show up have been verified in the same way, meaning they will be real people too.

It also motivates guys to keep their behavior in check, since old, grandfathered (no pun intended) profiles that didn't require this verification take on added value.

I have posted recently about old profiles that are clearly fake but have been resurrected, I am sure that is a scammer play.

**MacLuvin** · 02-11-25 08:59

Originally Posted by PeterJohnson [View Original Post]

That seems to be the case. Optional with old acct, but mandatory when creating new account.

I tried to see if I could just use some photos online to pass the selfie verification but after a few attempts, it failed and locked the account.

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

Here's where face rec comes in handy. Use your real photo to find pix online that look a lot like you, but aren't. Search for them w / tineye and the face rec software to be certain they don't show you as someone pulling pics off the web for this purpose.

Problem is like Peter Johnson said, it can detect that it's not a real selfie. Basically if you try it on the computer it makes you scan a QR code to open the app in your phone to allow camera access for a selfie. So you can't get around it having to be a selfie. Tried using a filtered pic that looks similar to me and it failed too, and it's a pic that previously had passed on my old SA account that I'd used as a profile pic. It was basically as you said, found a pic that looks like me using a real pic and it's some random guy but the AI can tell it's not an actual selfie. This is unfortunate.

Edit to add - if you try to open new account on your mobile device it automatically opens your camera, you can't upload the selfie. If you do it on a computer it requires a mobile device to scan a QR code that also opens your camera. So you'd have to snap the pic on your phone and hope it thinks it's a selfie, which it seems smart enough to tell you're taking a pic of a pic

**FarFarAway** · 02-10-25 16:24

Originally Posted by PeterJohnson [View Original Post]

That seems to be the case. Optional with old acct, but mandatory when creating new account.

I tried to see if I could just use some photos online to pass the selfie verification but after a few attempts, it failed and locked the account.

Here's where face rec comes in handy. Use your real photo to find pix online that look a lot like you, but aren't. Search for them w / tineye and the face rec software to be certain they don't show you as someone pulling pics off the web for this purpose.

**Peter Johnson** · 02-10-25 13:07

Originally Posted by JohnnyKash [View Original Post]

They just added that verification picture thing it keeps asking me if I would like to I just X out of it. So I'm thinking if you are just opening a account its a must if you have a old account its optional.

That seems to be the case. Optional with old acct, but mandatory when creating new account.

I tried to see if I could just use some photos online to pass the selfie verification but after a few attempts, it failed and locked the account.