Sugar Daddy Sites

[RanManCan]

A painfully shy little white girl showed up, so shy she could barely speak, which I knew before we met. This was her first time meeting anyone from the site and she says she's only had sex with a single long-term boyfriend (I mostly believe her).

Shows up in a little dress, no bra, staring at me from the jump with her big blue eyes. . . Just so fuckable.

I normally don't do car play, but she was hesitant to go to my place, so a bit of mutual touching in the car. Said she wants to explore her sexuality and wants it rough. I told her we could go back to my place and hangout, no sex required, she agreed. At my place we did everything except actual intercourse, I'm 99.9% confident that will come next time.

Feels like a bit of a unicorn, not every day I pull a young thin blonde SA-newbie who wants it rough.

[Pulgotass]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...a-c66acf55eba0

She's back on seeking and claims to be in LA now. She's a scammer for sure and extremely flashy if she agrees to meet.

I tried reporting her before but it doesn't do anything. If you can do the same, I'm sick of scammers ruining the site.

[UnknownSD]

Thank you, we have chatted / even facetime. I just don't love the look but might be fun for CIP.

Yeah, she doesn't smile much. She's kind of intimidating.

[UnknownSD]

I am new to this seeking.com or this kind of site. I live in San Diego actually.

Do you message her after joining the premium? What's the PPM? Pay per month? And how does it work? Is it pre-arranged for FS? Or date?

I also read a post that college girls from UCLA / USC would post it on seeking dot com? For San Diego, if college girls from SDSU post? Some girls are in a way like an escort but they don't want to go through PD site? And they just post here? What I am trying to get is how to tell if a girl is seeking a date or just want a quick money?

You can only message if you're a premium member on Seeking.

PPM stands for pay per meet.

You have to negotiate your own terms of your arrangement. Every arrangement is different.

Not many college girls on Seeking anymore. Occasionally, one or two will pop up but you have to act fast or else they usually get taken within their first week on the site.

All the SBs on sugar dating websites are all looking for arrangements or paid dates. They're not looking for regular dating. If you don't offer anything, you probably won't get many replies in your messages. The ones that claim they're looking for regular dating are fake / scammer profiles 99% of the time.

Good luck!

[HollywoodGuy]

You're basically a zen master at this point. I actually got one to come over the other day without discussing any pricing up front. Couldn't believe it at first but it happened, she just wanted me to be rough and let her call me daddy in a baby voice (which frankly I'm conflicted about). Slipped some money in her purse on the way home without her knowing. That's the kind of sugar baby I'm talking about. I channeled my inner HollywoodGuy.

Thanks and glad I started this thread. Back then there was just the richmond thread which was good for general advice but L. A. is like no where else.

Within the Sugar dating scene is a small niche which some in the kink world refer to as DDlg. Your girl was searching that out. Most guys are on the vanilla side so it's nice that she let her feelings be known. These are the only girls I date. And never have I ever allowed a girl call me by my first name and that includes in public (except my live in GF who does occasionally).

While not considered socially acceptable (I was even banned on TikTok for mentioning it) it is more common than than you might think. So not everyone's cup of tea but they say the way to a mans heart (and some girls too) is through their fetish. And happy hunting.

[RanManCan]

This made me laugh my ass off!

Funny, and true!

hardened eastern europeans who would remove your kidney for cash if they knew how

Agreed, the best experience is the no-money discussion date. I recently had 2, with very different results.

In both cases, we met without any discussion of money, had a great connection, went back to my place for luvins.

1. 24 white / egyptian thin pretty. At the end of the date, I slipped cash in her purse without her noticing, she never mentioned money. Next day I get a text thanking me for the wonderful date and said she's glad I did that because she would have no idea how to facilitate that discussion (perfect ! ) We're still hanging and going strong, she's my #1.

2. 29 white thin pretty. She said a few things that were on the disrespectful side throughout the date. I def took notice, but disregarded as she was quite tipsy and we otherwise seemed to have a great connection, and being sexy as hell didn't hurt. At the end of the date, as I was about to slip it into her purse, she asked about money but not an amount. I flashed the folded up bills at her as I put into her purse, she didn't know the amount.

We met a 2nd time a few weeks later (due to my vacation). She spent 3 hours getting ready and showed up looking like a million bucks in a little black dress. She had wine in fast-food cup so she could drink in the uber. While chatting and hanging out before doing the deed, she cut me off at every turn, I couldn't complete a single sentence.

When she noticed that I was getting annoyed by this, she came and sat on my lap to flirt with me. Soon after, she said under her breath that I "only gave her X per date" (which was at the top of my range, and that of most girls on the site). I immediately got her off my lap, cleared the drinks, put away the alcohol, closed all doors/windows (as I didn't know how she was going to react), called her an Uber, and sent her home empty handed. The end.

[TempleAvenue]

Here's a blonde girl for you guys. She's been on SA for many years, and I met her years ago. She's down at Encinitas near SD. Her photos are from many years ago. She's still using the same pics. She's more likely in her late 30's by now. I think she said she used to be a flight attendant. I'm not sure. I kind of forgot. She has a little prognathism on her lower jaw. She's tall and skinny back then not sure how she looks now. Allowance negotiable.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...c-d926a08da047

I am new to this seeking.com or this kind of site. I live in San Diego actually.

Do you message her after joining the premium? What's the PPM? Pay per month? And how does it work? Is it pre-arranged for FS? Or date?

I also read a post that college girls from UCLA / USC would post it on seeking dot com? For San Diego, if college girls from SDSU post? Some girls are in a way like an escort but they don't want to go through PD site? And they just post here? What I am trying to get is how to tell if a girl is seeking a date or just want a quick money?

[Chupacabra]

This is definitely doable. I had a FC w / a 32 YO dance teacher yesterday. She is very feminine / sub, hyper respectful to the big man and all. White, very very pretty, a little baby fat, but overall, very responsive. We M&G, then there was a large gap in time, but I did discuss details of the FC w her by phone. But zero concerning allowance. I went to her apartment (she has no car), spent an hour and banged her out. I brought her a bouquet of grocery store flowers, and left a greeting card w / 250 inside. She texts me later ecstatic.

Occasional diamonds in the rough, mixed in amongst all the hardened eastern europeans who would remove your kidney for cash if they knew how, and GPS candidates asking for $800-900 just to smash once with a rubber like they're doing you a favor. I so wish I had a job that would allow me to move out of this country. But it is nice when you get a girl who isn't cosmically jaded by age 21, good for you hope you treat her well. I should probably text mine soon, but she sent me the late night text "do you zelle daddy? Which I ignored. LOL.

[WowU812]

I only met her for an M&G for coffee. Yes, she's BBFS for 700 or 800. I forgot. It was a few years ago.

Thank you, we have chatted / even facetime. I just don't love the look but might be fun for CIP.

[FarFarAway]

I have run into several elaborate ruses that I cannot figure out. Some have been profiles of 40+ women, but still attractive. As a geezer, these offer some appeal to me.

One went through a lot of messaging on the site, but then complained she couldn't text me off the site because she had no minutes on her phone. Of course, she wanted me to PayPal it to her. She was (allegedly) close to me, so I suggested meeting at a nearby Sbux and I would hand her the cash. She 'verified' who she was by sending (on seeking) a photo of her passport, currently valid. No shit. So I went to the appointed spot at the appointed time. Crickets of course. Then the location on her profile changed to something in the New York area.

Another one was doing quite extensive and erudite messaging w / me on seeking. I asked to communicate off the site and she gave me her email. Via email we set a M&G at a coffee place close to her (alleged) location. Today, again, crickets. I cannot figure out the angle of this one. No $ was requested. I will say the AI they were using to write responses was top-notch. I would have bet I was conversing w / a highly educated and mature woman.

[UnknownSD]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...a-c66acf55eba0

Anybody contacted her? She will be in LA soon and wants an exclusive arrangement. She seems legit.

She's in LA now if you guys want to meet her. Be careful, she's very devious and devilish. Also, she's not as feminine as she looks, personality and look-wise. She dresses like a tomboy. Good luck!

[UnknownSD]

This girl has like 3 different profiles going just now, so far as I can tell. What is her deal? I've never been able to get a response from her.

Why do you share a little cutout photo and not just share her profile link? Are you afraid someone else will snatch her first? Don't worry about that. No one is interested in her. She's an SA elder. She's been on SA for too long. I have reviewed her before in the past. This is probably her 300th profile. She creates a new profile every few days. She's fat and damn ugly. What else do you want to know?

[UnknownSD]

How was Felicity Feline? BBFS?

I only met her for an M&G for coffee. Yes, she's BBFS for 700 or 800. I forgot. It was a few years ago.

[UnknownSD]

You do yeoman's work on this board and I for one appreciate it. Any pornstars on there now?

Felicity Feline and Theodora Day are still on there and active. I think Theodora Day's profile is probably fake since I never got a response from her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...1-f8895b7ad9f8

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...2-955dadd6a09f

[FarFarAway]

You do yeoman's work on this board and I for one appreciate it. Any pornstars on there now?

I contacted a profile, and her response was that she had been an adult film star. I am still scoping this one out, so no details yet.