NoVA SugarBabies

[BuckNaked84]

Everyone has already said this, but no never give any money upfront. Never pay for a meet and greet before after during or ever.

I have also learned to never agree to a first date at a restaurant. It is extra money that does not need to be spent and takes too long if you need to leave for some reason (cat fished, BSC baby, etc.). Coffee shops are fine for a first meet, do not cost much, and typically you pay for the coffee when you order so no waiting around to pay the waiter if you need to leave. There are stories on here of SB's getting expensive meals out of SD's with no intention of going to the FC and SD's being catfished and stuck in a restaurant for an hour or longer with a fugly chick.

A middleaged single female coworker and I were discussing online dating recently and she told me that some of her single friends just go on the vanilla sites to get expensive meals out of guys with no intention of actually dating. This happens everywhere so always meet somewhere inexpensive and easy to leave.

I have closed more Pun on a 150 tab than a one armed apple picker. Small price for me, but to each his own. If strapped for cash, Latin Angels or Elite has everything you need or could ever want, besides bare babies.

[NovaNova]

She is real and has a kid wants $$ upfront, which I do not do.

Question for the board, has anyone done $ upfront for anything and it was not a scam?? Whether it be gas $ or something upfront? Just curious if I have missed on a few, because of my no $ upfront policy, in fact do not use any electronic forms of $.

Everyone has already said this, but no never give any money upfront. Never pay for a meet and greet before after during or ever.

I have also learned to never agree to a first date at a restaurant. It is extra money that does not need to be spent and takes too long if you need to leave for some reason (cat fished, BSC baby, etc.). Coffee shops are fine for a first meet, do not cost much, and typically you pay for the coffee when you order so no waiting around to pay the waiter if you need to leave. There are stories on here of SB's getting expensive meals out of SD's with no intention of going to the FC and SD's being catfished and stuck in a restaurant for an hour or longer with a fugly chick.

A middleaged single female coworker and I were discussing online dating recently and she told me that some of her single friends just go on the vanilla sites to get expensive meals out of guys with no intention of actually dating. This happens everywhere so always meet somewhere inexpensive and easy to leave.

[PRMan12]

She is likely real, as we chatted, but not my type. Have fun.

I met her a couple times too. She is fun, real, and lots of fun a little thick but a good time. LOL, to the other posters. I'll keep my future sb's to myself.

[FarFarAway]

She is likely real, as we chatted, but not my type. Have fun.

That was a needle to PRMan12.

[BuckNaked84]

Yeah, we are still waiting on those 10 reports you wanted to post.

She is likely real, as we chatted, but not my type. Have fun.

[BuckNaked84]

I will sometimes voluntarily send something up front, for a couple of reasons:

1) I'm trying to get some real world info to verify she's for real. While my Venmo and CashApp are set up to not reveal my real name, other people aren't so shrewd. I view it as an insurance policy and one I am willing to pay.

2) We had plans (tentative or solid) and I broke them close to our planned meet. I don't think it is fair to her and I want to keep the lines of communication open for the future. Also, karma.

You are fueling the scammers. Absolutely never do this. They are literally looking for 20 bucks a pop. At several knuckleheads a week, they earn all they are after. Remember, scammers are not trying to hit a home run, they are trying to eke out an existence (for free).

[Member #6951]

She is real and has a kid wants $$ upfront, which I do not do.

Question for the board, has anyone done $ upfront for anything and it was not a scam?? Whether it be gas $ or something upfront? Just curious if I have missed on a few, because of my no $ upfront policy, in fact do not use any electronic forms of $.

I will sometimes voluntarily send something up front, for a couple of reasons:

1) I'm trying to get some real world info to verify she's for real. While my Venmo and CashApp are set up to not reveal my real name, other people aren't so shrewd. I view it as an insurance policy and one I am willing to pay.

2) We had plans (tentative or solid) and I broke them close to our planned meet. I don't think it is fair to her and I want to keep the lines of communication open for the future. Also, karma.

[FarFarAway]

Trying to set something up with this one:

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...1-c12f27d38d73

Any Intel??

Will post on others here shortly! TIA.

Yeah, we are still waiting on those 10 reports you wanted to post.

[Shinshi]

She is real and has a kid wants $$ upfront, which I do not do.

Question for the board, has anyone done $ upfront for anything and it was not a scam?? Whether it be gas $ or something upfront? Just curious if I have missed on a few, because of my no $ upfront policy, in fact do not use any electronic forms of $.

1) Never, ever pay upfront. This includes prior to meeting them, as well as for a simple platonic M&G. Don't know why guys think that's a great idea in any way. For anyone claiming it worked for them, feel free to refute & share who you've charmed in such a way. But the chances are incredibly minuscule that this approach pans out. Most women on Seeking are out to do the bare minimum whilst maximizing the benjamins they can draw out of johns. So if anyone engages in the aforementioned nonsense then acts surprised when their girl cash-and-dashes or makes up an excuse as to why the arrangement won't work, then with all disrespect, said person deserves to be parted with their money.

I am a newbie, I am dreaming but have been putting in the time and effort. Have a lot to report, and have also read the last 250 posts and learned the search engine tool, which I use all the time.

In last 2 months, have had a dream with 25 or so and am talking to another 15. However that is out of 200+ conversations. Currently have 10-12 that I have or would dream again regularly. I prefer variety. Willing to share and will, but want this board to show some life. It's very time consuming, but have a good method now. Tons of scammers, but now good at early detection.

Lets all make an effort to report, ask and share. If I'm out of line here, then seniors please let me know. Anyone who wants to share, can dm as well.

2) You can't seriously be asking for guidance when you've supposedly got the game down already. The way it works here is a user shares, then others share in kind (be it in the forum at large, or in private messages). If a SB that I engage with isn't worth the headache (be it her ghosting, running a scam, or asking some ridiculous PPM / allowance), I share with everyone. And if I've met them personally and it's not worth the time or money, or if I'm simply through with them (like in the case with ObscureFifi in the Baltimore forums), I again share with everyone. That's how these forums have always operated.

Bottom line: share your experiences of the ones you're finished with & don't plan on seeing again. If you plan to see any of them in the future, by all means keep those close to the chest. No one here would fault you for that. I myself used to have a few college-aged regulars who were a fantastic time that I never shared (two in particular who's only ask was a bite to eat, a hotel room, and junior to play with). But if you're just going to offer a not-so-humble brag about your conquests without anything of substance for us to work with, then how can you expect others to share with you? Sorry, but that's not how this works. As you pointed out earlier, you're a self-professed "newbie. " You have to earn credibility, give before receiving. Just saying, man.

[Eustisflman]

Scammer can not even post the same person in the pics on the profile. White Asian I guess.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...5-45bb8cbac97e

And another white Asian?

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...6-3c9d0bc5670a

The SB here is way fucked up and so hard to navigate. I thought we had it bad in FL on the SB site but DAMN.

[Eustisflman]

I am a newbie, I am dreaming but have been putting in the time and effort. Have a lot to report, and have also read the last 250 posts and learned the search engine tool, which I use all the time.

In last 2 months, have had a dream with 25 or so and am talking to another 15. However that is out of 200+ conversations. Currently have 10-12 that I have or would dream again regularly. I prefer variety. Willing to share and will, but want this board to show some life. It's very time consuming, but have a good method now. Tons of scammers, but now good at early detection.

Lets all make an effort to report, ask and share. If I'm out of line here, then seniors please let me know. Anyone who wants to share, can dm as well.

Over and out!

You want the board to pick up and then say you have seen 25. Where is any info on the 25? If you are ripping through 25, you are hitting and quitting so no need to keep them in your pocket. I get the don't over share the details but a " I meet xxxx and she is real. We had a fun night". That tells everyone here the MOST important detail. That she is real and will meet. Then we the guys, can email and work out our details and arrangements with her. You don't see a lot of posts because as we are seeing our gal, (over and over) we don't share till we are done. That might be a few months.

While this location may not be as active as YOU want it. Some of us travel to other places and use that location to get info and share as well. If you post something on the FL board asking for info, the first thing I do is look up WHAT you have posted and shared in the past to see if I would share with you.

You give to receive, not receive to give. Congrats on your 25, but without sharing anything other then your number of gals. Who cares.

[PRMan12]

Think she is real, but wants money upfront for m&g.

She is real and has a kid wants $$ upfront, which I do not do.

Question for the board, has anyone done $ upfront for anything and it was not a scam?? Whether it be gas $ or something upfront? Just curious if I have missed on a few, because of my no $ upfront policy, in fact do not use any electronic forms of $.

[PRMan12]

I exchanged numbers with both.

Bianca will say she can meet then ghost right before you start to make plans. Starts at 1000 per will come down.

College girl wants to meet near Towson. Starts at 800 will come down.

Thanks my friend! This is the type of feedback I'm looking for!

We must have the same taste. Did you end up meeting either??

Still trying with both.

[NovaNova]

I exchanged numbers with both.

Bianca will say she can meet then ghost right before you start to make plans. Starts at 1000 per will come down.

College girl wants to meet near Towson. Starts at 800 will come down.

So did you meet college girl and if so what were the damages?

Negotiation reminds me of an old joke a coworker told me.

Guy: Would you fuck me for $100,000.

Girl: Hell yes.

Guy: How about $50.

Girl: No way, what kind of girl do you think I am?

Guy: Well we have already established what you are, now we are just working on a price.

[DasHottCalla]

Biancaisqueen.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...8-7477d017f1e5

FunCollegeGirl.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...b-210515d0f4b1

Thanks!!

I exchanged numbers with both.

Bianca will say she can meet then ghost right before you start to make plans. Starts at 1000 per will come down.

College girl wants to meet near Towson. Starts at 800 will come down.