Sugar Daddy Sites

[Uncountable]

What do you guys think? Wants 6 bills per meet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...5-3e3ea3727041

[Boobman76]

Seeking is offering a free hour right now. I saw and clicked the offer on the banner at the top of the page, and it works. Only valid until midnight tonight.

[PantyPatrol1]

What does that mean? I never heard of any such thing before.

Before, you could type in a college as a location, and all SB POTs who listed that school as their location would show up in a search. They got ride of that unfortunately.

[Murrican]

Not prickish at all, my good man, and probably good advice! If I go, I'll channel my inner Dian Fossey. I'm from your same bubble but obviously lack your patience. I don't mind hearing about them and their lives, but the constant obsession with pop culture (which is vulgar in every possible way) and their phone drives me nuts. I've walked out of Tinder dates in the middle of the meal. I guess I am well past the point of listening to / entertaining a woman just to get in her pants. That's called dating, been there done that. Ha Maybe I'm just an escort guy at this point.

You know what's worse than obsession with pop culture? (And that is indeed bad). Obsession with fancy objects they can't afford. Some really really want a Chanel bag or an LV bag or a pair of Loubtiton shoes so bad. Enough that they'll sleep with an older guy to get it. For what? To signal to the outside world that they're flush with resources, but to live with the cognitive dissonance of what you had to do to get that bag? It's embarrassing to me to think about that. Some girls are just vapid and empty but some have a few brain cells and if they just applied themselves in a different direction they could do so much better.

To be clear I never say so because I don't want to appear condescending and paternalistic. And I also want to get laid that night. But I do think it.

[HollywoodGuy]

I also noticed less AA's; I think that they are screening potential UTR working girls more closely than before and this demo may have sensed the hostility. They even removed the college campuses as locations in searches-that says it all. Just my take.

I think the AA girls just realized that its faster money the old fashioned way or just using social media or the many OF type sites.

[FarFarAway]

They even removed the college campuses as locations in searches-that says it all. Just my take.

What does that mean? I never heard of any such thing before.

[Chupacabra]

Ok time for me to be judgmental and prick-ish.

I find the dinners with these girls interesting. In an anthropological way. They really do live in a separate universe. My life is surrounded by people like me. My friend group and my professional group are all highly educated, professional class, and they speak a sort of American dialect that signals your participation in this class. For example everyone knows "where did you go to school" means college and it's a proxy for other things. Or it's totally normal to talk about macroeconomic policy and have an opinion on it.

And then I find myself sitting in front of some seeking girl. She does nails or hair but really wants to run her own salon. Or she is a nanny but does TikTok videos and really wants to be an influencer. Or she's bored as an office manager and dreams of being a stay at home wife.

I always just listen. I'm always very encouraging, even if in my head, I'm thinking "influencer" is not a paid career destination you're likely to reach..

Not prickish at all, my good man, and probably good advice! If I go, I'll channel my inner Dian Fossey. I'm from your same bubble but obviously lack your patience. I don't mind hearing about them and their lives, but the constant obsession with pop culture (which is vulgar in every possible way) and their phone drives me nuts. I've walked out of Tinder dates in the middle of the meal. I guess I am well past the point of listening to / entertaining a woman just to get in her pants. That's called dating, been there done that. Ha Maybe I'm just an escort guy at this point.

[PantyPatrol1]

I think the $ days may be over at least in vegas (I have no clue about L. A.). I have been back on seeking for about a month now and no takers. I did get some interest at $.5 and at $$ I am home free. It's sad but that's just where things have gone to. I have chosen not to partake at those prices as I am looking for someone I can see at least once a week. And at a working stiffs income it's not really in my budget to spend 1 k a month quite yet. In vegas they have what they call Latina Houses. Decent girls for a $ max (including tip). (check the thread) But that's not what I am looking for.

Also very few younger girls, way more older, curvier, and taller girls. None of which hold any interest for me. And way less AA girls to choose from. I have a girl living with me but that's a whole different story (and takes about 5 bills a month out of my gross). My one long term hottie (a dancer in vegas I was seeing for the last 4 years) dropped me. She didn't even ask for more money. She just straight up ditched me. So for now I will patiently wait and see what happens.

Its a different landscape now. Seeking has morphed into a dating app targeting less-beat women from 25-45 who have useless degrees or under-performing careers and need their shit paid for. I also noticed less AA's; I think that they are screening potential UTR working girls more closely than before and this demo may have sensed the hostility. They even removed the college campuses as locations in searches-that says it all. Just my take.

[HollywoodGuy]

I have no idea how Hollywood does it, but that's what I'm seeing. These are mainly white chicks, some asian, which probably explains the GPS. For reference I'm mid 40's, fit, gl, used to kill it in my 30's.

I think the $ days may be over at least in vegas (I have no clue about L. A.). I have been back on seeking for about a month now and no takers. I did get some interest at $.5 and at $$ I am home free. It's sad but that's just where things have gone to. I have chosen not to partake at those prices as I am looking for someone I can see at least once a week. And at a working stiffs income it's not really in my budget to spend 1 k a month quite yet. In vegas they have what they call Latina Houses. Decent girls for a $ max (including tip). (check the thread) But that's not what I am looking for.

Also very few younger girls, way more older, curvier, and taller girls. None of which hold any interest for me. And way less AA girls to choose from. I have a girl living with me but that's a whole different story (and takes about 5 bills a month out of my gross). My one long term hottie (a dancer in vegas I was seeing for the last 4 years) dropped me. She didn't even ask for more money. She just straight up ditched me. So for now I will patiently wait and see what happens.

[Murrican]

There are still a few that seem traditional, who want to grab an (expensive) meal and get to know you, so these may be the few legit sugar babies still out there, but they have all been so vapid that I couldn't summon the energy to go (plus I'm on the wagon so that makes the prospect of sitting through dinner with one, with the chance of getting blueballed, just a bridge too gar).

Anyway my two cents. I'll probably go back to straight escorts, K-girls.

Ok time for me to be judgmental and prick-ish.

I find the dinners with these girls interesting. In an anthropological way. They really do live in a separate universe. My life is surrounded by people like me. My friend group and my professional group are all highly educated, professional class, and they speak a sort of American dialect that signals your participation in this class. For example everyone knows "where did you go to school" means college and it's a proxy for other things. Or it's totally normal to talk about macroeconomic policy and have an opinion on it.

And then I find myself sitting in front of some seeking girl. She does nails or hair but really wants to run her own salon. Or she is a nanny but does TikTok videos and really wants to be an influencer. Or she's bored as an office manager and dreams of being a stay at home wife.

I always just listen. I'm always very encouraging, even if in my head, I'm thinking "influencer" is not a paid career destination you're likely to reach.

It really is interesting just to be reminded that you live in a stupid little bubble of robots just like you. But it's comfortable at least.

[Chupacabra]

There's a setting in seeking, if you're a paid member, where it doesn't notify the other person if you have viewed them. You should use it.

I realized how creepy I looked when I'd check out the same girl a few times over days. She must've been like "why this dude always checking my profile?" Good switch to flip. Only works if paying.

Thanks for the tip. I'm a longtime single guy, so my OpSec is terrible. Haha But it's so nice not to worry.

Some info to share: Every good looking chick who's dtf will ask for $1 k. It's almost like they are all using the same playbook. If you negotiate from there, the truly hot ones will ghost you, the good looking ones will drop to 700-750, and the more cute girl next door types will drop to 400-600. I have no idea how Hollywood does it, but that's what I'm seeing. These are mainly white chicks, some asian, which probably explains the GPS. For reference I'm mid 40's, fit, gl, used to kill it in my 30's.

The other m. O. , which I haven't sampled yet, is getting some smaller amount (200 ish) to go to lunch or dinner and negotiate ppm from there. These are usually the really hot ones. I haven't pursued because I assume it's a scam. Free meal and a tip on top. LOL.

There are still a few that seem traditional, who want to grab an (expensive) meal and get to know you, so these may be the few legit sugar babies still out there, but they have all been so vapid that I couldn't summon the energy to go (plus I'm on the wagon so that makes the prospect of sitting through dinner with one, with the chance of getting blueballed, just a bridge too gar).

Anyway my two cents. I'll probably go back to straight escorts, K-girls.

[JollyJohnRoger]

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...8-ecb145ad1436

Anyone try her out? Looks hot.

Is she real?

Yes, tried out. She is definitely hot. See the other posts regarding her pimp / booker / boyfriend and blackmail, etc.

[Murrican]

I made the mistake of looking in Colombia (was planning a Medellin trip) and thought hell, why not Venezuela. Now I'm probably more popular than their star soccer player. Haha.

There's a setting in seeking, if you're a paid member, where it doesn't notify the other person if you have viewed them. You should use it.

I realized how creepy I looked when I'd check out the same girl a few times over days. She must've been like "why this dude always checking my profile?" Good switch to flip. Only works if paying.

[RanManCan]

Nice looking pics, but check out that video!

Nekoshou - https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...b551fb6bbcbc2b

[Chupacabra]

One thing I noticed since signing back up. There are no foreign profiles hitting me up. Used to be like 6 a day. Now it's zero. Big improvement.

I made the mistake of looking in Colombia (was planning a Medellin trip) and thought hell, why not Venezuela. Now I'm probably more popular than their star soccer player. Haha.