Sugar Babies & Arrangements

[Newrider]

It is my opinion that we as hobbyists, have contributed to the unrealistic rates the ladies on Seeking are expecting these days. There are many "unqualified" ones asking for $600 and above these days. I stick to my guns and limit it to $300 for a first meet. As I tell them this is due to all the games and BS on the site. Maybe to $400 if she falls into the young, hot category with good communications. I'd rather stick to some of my professional regulars who provide an enjoyable time without the drama at the same price.

For example, I often schedule with Carol's Brazilian ladies when they are in town. All of her ladies very attractive, attentive to your needs, and provide a fun GFE. Including BBJ and MSOGs at $400 for the hour. I know there is a lady visiting Tampa this week, but her ad is not up yet. But here are a few examples.

https://www.eros.com/ohio/files/5781875.htm

https://www.eros.com/maryland/baltim...628.htm?cat=48

https://www.eros.com/illinois/chicag...248.htm?cat=48

Wow! These pics accurate of what you get? They offer BBFS for 400?

[CheekyFella]

Hi guys. I haven't tried being a SD yet, but I'm thinking about joining Seeking. I read some of the posts on here, lots of good info. What I want to know is, after you meet a girl for the first free coffee date to get to know each other, how much do they typically want to go home with you? I'm just asking for a general low to high range of what I should expect.

It is my opinion that we as hobbyists, have contributed to the unrealistic rates the ladies on Seeking are expecting these days. There are many "unqualified" ones asking for $600 and above these days. I stick to my guns and limit it to $300 for a first meet. As I tell them this is due to all the games and BS on the site. Maybe to $400 if she falls into the young, hot category with good communications. I'd rather stick to some of my professional regulars who provide an enjoyable time without the drama at the same price.

For example, I often schedule with Carol's Brazilian ladies when they are in town. All of her ladies very attractive, attentive to your needs, and provide a fun GFE. Including BBJ and MSOGs at $400 for the hour. I know there is a lady visiting Tampa this week, but her ad is not up yet. But here are a few examples.

https://www.eros.com/ohio/files/5781875.htm

https://www.eros.com/maryland/baltim...628.htm?cat=48

https://www.eros.com/illinois/chicag...248.htm?cat=48

[Mandane]

Hi guys. I haven't tried being a SD yet, but I'm thinking about joining Seeking. I read some of the posts on here, lots of good info. What I want to know is, after you meet a girl for the first free coffee date to get to know each other, how much do they typically want to go home with you? I'm just asking for a general low to high range of what I should expect.

Opinions could possibly vary on this. Some research on this forum may help, but for me if don't do meet and greets anymore unless I have already negotiated a ppm amount. In person and with your dick doing the thinking you are prone to making a rash decision or agreeing to an amount you might later regret.

Amount depends on how much game you have and tbh how you look. If you are not unattractive and in good shape you don't have to pay a premium for the most part. My own data suggests age and attractiveness of the girl is a big factor as well. Older and less attractive may agree to very little. I had one tell me once that she had gotten anywhere from 100 to 500. For me if I have found that trying to get to agreement on 300 has maybe a 50% success rate. 400 has much higher odds. 500, for me, is reserved for young and hot. YMMV.

For example, met this one a few times for 400:

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...3-a72957bd6a5e

Sex was great, but wasn't really into her so moved on.

[Legalize it]

Hi guys. I haven't tried being a SD yet, but I'm thinking about joining Seeking. I read some of the posts on here, lots of good info. What I want to know is, after you meet a girl for the first free coffee date to get to know each other, how much do they typically want to go home with you? I'm just asking for a general low to high range of what I should expect.

[Joe Pumper]

After all the games I've experienced on the site, I find it hard that any situation can surprise me. But this lady didn't let me down. She reaches out to me to start the conversation. I had not seen her profile before. I do a search on her name and no red flags. The conversation goes well, and we quickly jump to text messages as her intent was straight forward. She sends me a few photos. Nice body and her rate is fair. I ask specifics about what to expect. No kissing, but OK with Oral. We schedule a meeting for the next morning as I was working. She must have repeated at least 10 times throughout the day not to get cold feet. I assured her that would not happen. I have a lot of experience meeting ladies on the site. And having an extremely busy schedule myself, I understand the importance of be respectful to someone else's.

So, this morning I text her at the agreed upon time... crickets... I followed up... still nothing. I went to work and hear from her a few hours later saying she was sleeping. She asks when we are going to meet. I respond that I am at work and that I have plans this evening. She gets pissed at me and comments that I am just like the rest of the guys who flake. I am like are you serious? She then gets even more annoyed that I wouldn't change my plans to accommodate her. I asked her what does my having preexisting plans have to do with the fact that our appointment wasn't important enough for her to get up. It would almost be hilarious if it wasn't for the sad fact these women think the world revolves around them.

I decided to have a bit of fun and continued with the text messages to see what she would say. She then tries to save face by saying no worries because she has so many prospective SDs in her Inbox to go through. So, I ask. If that was the case. Why did you reach out to me?

I knew she would immediately block me. So, I grabbed her page link, so you fellas don't need to waste your time.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...4-87d0fb52a8c8

BTW. There were a few red flags. She requires an Uber which is not mentioned until the time of scheduling. So there may be more upsell during the meeting. She also got annoyed because I see other ladies on the site. Like I am to be committed to her, but she is free to play.

Interesting she told me that she was just looking for a mentor and not an arrangement of any type. LOL.

[GermanOwl]

So I had setup a short notice meeting at a bar with this beauty and she asked if she could bring her friend and have all 3 fun at a very little upcharge from what we agreed, so I said sure.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...e-9d7cca3d3fc1

When I met up with them definitely the pics are either fake or so heavy photoshopped you cannot say it is the say girl. The pics I would rate a 8/10 but in person for sure a 6/10.

Too keep a long story short, when we decided to head back to my place for fun they wanted money upfornt and they insisted on keeping the money in their car and meet me at my place. LOLOLOL.

Anyway took a pass and my sunk cost was a couple of margaritas and some apps. But I advise definetly to avoid. Apparently her friend is on SA also but I did not recognize her. Will post some pice tomorrow so you mongers are aware. Good news is that I texed another beauty on my way home and ended up cumming pretty good after all with some anal action (seperate report coming soon).

Found the link of the other girl that was there. Pics look much better and extremely photoshopped. Honestly when I met up with them I almost decided to leave the place because of how rough they looked, so not too mad that it worked out the way it did.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...1-6fcc6f3895ae

[GermanOwl]

So I had setup a short notice meeting at a bar with this beauty and she asked if she could bring her friend and have all 3 fun at a very little upcharge from what we agreed, so I said sure.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...e-9d7cca3d3fc1

When I met up with them definitely the pics are either fake or so heavy photoshopped you cannot say it is the say girl. The pics I would rate a 8/10 but in person for sure a 6/10.

Too keep a long story short, when we decided to head back to my place for fun they wanted money upfornt and they insisted on keeping the money in their car and meet me at my place. LOLOLOL.

Anyway took a pass and my sunk cost was a couple of margaritas and some apps. But I advise definetly to avoid. Apparently her friend is on SA also but I did not recognize her. Will post some pice tomorrow so you mongers are aware. Good news is that I texed another beauty on my way home and ended up cumming pretty good after all with some anal action (seperate report coming soon).

[CheekyFella]

After all the games I've experienced on the site, I find it hard that any situation can surprise me. But this lady didn't let me down. She reaches out to me to start the conversation. I had not seen her profile before. I do a search on her name and no red flags. The conversation goes well, and we quickly jump to text messages as her intent was straight forward. She sends me a few photos. Nice body and her rate is fair. I ask specifics about what to expect. No kissing, but OK with Oral. We schedule a meeting for the next morning as I was working. She must have repeated at least 10 times throughout the day not to get cold feet. I assured her that would not happen. I have a lot of experience meeting ladies on the site. And having an extremely busy schedule myself, I understand the importance of be respectful to someone else's.

So, this morning I text her at the agreed upon time... crickets... I followed up... still nothing. I went to work and hear from her a few hours later saying she was sleeping. She asks when we are going to meet. I respond that I am at work and that I have plans this evening. She gets pissed at me and comments that I am just like the rest of the guys who flake. I am like are you serious? She then gets even more annoyed that I wouldn't change my plans to accommodate her. I asked her what does my having preexisting plans have to do with the fact that our appointment wasn't important enough for her to get up. It would almost be hilarious if it wasn't for the sad fact these women think the world revolves around them.

I decided to have a bit of fun and continued with the text messages to see what she would say. She then tries to save face by saying no worries because she has so many prospective SDs in her Inbox to go through. So, I ask. If that was the case. Why did you reach out to me?

I knew she would immediately block me. So, I grabbed her page link, so you fellas don't need to waste your time.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...4-87d0fb52a8c8

BTW. There were a few red flags. She requires an Uber which is not mentioned until the time of scheduling. So there may be more upsell during the meeting. She also got annoyed because I see other ladies on the site. Like I am to be committed to her, but she is free to play.

[CheekyFella]

Didn't wind up pulling the trigger. Felt a little too much like an escort. Could only get her down to $500 and she wanted to come to my place during midday hours which doesn't work for me. Here's a photo she sent me with her face in case you're still interested. Think you're right on the little bit chubby based on the private photo she had as well. If she was hotter I may have pulled the trigger at that price but I can get escorts for 200 to 300 that are hotter than her.

So this lady reaches out to me. We exchange a few messages to discuss out meeting details. She shared another photo. Cute, but not in the $600 range. She didn't realize I had already seen a few messages on here prior. But then I told her of my intent to get some feedback from her previous SDs. She quickly blocked me. I am guessing she has something to hide.

[Member #6651]

Yeah, I was pretty sure that is her and follow her on the social and other sites. Just haven't been able to get beyond a couple of messages back and forth, so was hoping some monger here has had the pleasure of meeting her and share any details.

Nope, my experience with her on socials (SP, specifically) matches yours. A few messages back and forth, then AWOL. I'm probably alone in this, but when I'm able to link a sugarbaby to a social account, I infer a lot about potential sugar interactions from social media interactions.

[GermanOwl]

She looks like Cheerleader Kait https://twitter.com/cheerluvkaitlyn?lang=en.

Yeah, I was pretty sure that is her and follow her on the social and other sites. Just haven't been able to get beyond a couple of messages back and forth, so was hoping some monger here has had the pleasure of meeting her and share any details.

[Member #6651]

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...1-280972234e2e

I have been chatting with this beauty which is right up my alley on what I like with the girls on SA and the type that I typically meet up with (slim body model type body, 18-25 yrs etc.). She has been very slow to respond and I was first thinking it may be a fake profile, but the profile is verified and has been on the site since 2021, so highly probable that she is real. We have had some back and forth but she is seldom on the site and have not been able to get her digits or get an indication from her if she wants to meet up. I was also able to find out that she has an porn channel as well as her Instagram, that I can share to Senior Members (assuming I get some intel in return). After finding her free and porn online I am even more interested in her tight body and ass. One thing to note is that she has some meat curtains on her, not my thing but I can look past that given all the rest of her body. (It looks like a wad of paper mache sticking out from her or better said that double roast beef sandwich from Arby's menu.). Anyway any intel is appreciated or maybe you guys have been able to meet up with her, if so please PM me if you prefer.

She looks like Cheerleader Kait https://twitter.com/cheerluvkaitlyn?lang=en.

[Carlosa]

Quick chat with this one then bowed out Seems hot enough but turned rude when expectations were discussed. She wants a monthly allowance. No sex early on "until she is taken care of". She will decide when but the support needs to flow until she decides it is gametime. Her last paid her bills and they never had sex because he was old (her words). Passing.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...f-a245403d0ed5

Everybody here knows there's a couple of idiots that are falling for that shit.

[Heywood2020]

Quick chat with this one then bowed out Seems hot enough but turned rude when expectations were discussed. She wants a monthly allowance. No sex early on "until she is taken care of". She will decide when but the support needs to flow until she decides it is gametime. Her last paid her bills and they never had sex because he was old (her words). Passing.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...f-a245403d0ed5

[Heywood2020]

Hey gentlemen. I will be visiting Tampa for an extended period of time and looking for a few recommendations. I can return the favor in Orlando. Prefer low volume, 30 +. Fit. Non smoker. Clean body. Flexible budget for quality. Thanks in advance!