Stupid Shit In San Diego

**RolfTorren** · 06-23-23 23:50

I think I forked over $400 once when Roz Cummings was running a special. A super nice lady and amazing sex. Normally that would have been out of my price range but I just happened to have it and wanted to splurge. I've thought of saving up for a local pornstar like Blair Williams but not sure its worth it. $260 used to be my upper limit for 1 hr FS. These days for me at least I think better vslue is found in 1 hr fbsm sessions that include body slides and p2 p.

Originally Posted by Waylay [View Original Post]

I don't think I've gone over 500, and that's extremely rare for me. But I have paid it a few times under very specific circumstances. If I'm paying that much, I don't want condoms involved and it's got to be a low-volume girl, or porn star. I'd probably go up to 1000 for like, my favorite American or Japanese pornstar. But even that seems crazy when I could have 3 awesome sessions with beautiful women for the same cost. How about y'all? (And this is def not a brag session, I usually don't pay more than 300 total for anything).

**MaximusKahn** · 06-23-23 23:20

You're not be bagging but it seems like you are bragging and just trying to start up a thread.

Price is variable to who, and what you will get.

Quality and class and situation all apply.

If you are paying a grand for fun. You are with stupid rich or she is amazing hot. Or both.

Originally Posted by Waylay [View Original Post]

I don't think I've gone over 500, and that's extremely rare for me. But I have paid it a few times under very specific circumstances. If I'm paying that much, I don't want condoms involved and it's got to be a low-volume girl, or porn star. I'd probably go up to 1000 for like, my favorite American or Japanese pornstar. But even that seems crazy when I could have 3 awesome sessions with beautiful women for the same cost. How about y'all? (And this is def not a brag session, I usually don't pay more than 300 total for anything).

**Waylay** · 06-23-23 13:33

I don't think I've gone over 500, and that's extremely rare for me. But I have paid it a few times under very specific circumstances. If I'm paying that much, I don't want condoms involved and it's got to be a low-volume girl, or porn star. I'd probably go up to 1000 for like, my favorite American or Japanese pornstar. But even that seems crazy when I could have 3 awesome sessions with beautiful women for the same cost. How about y'all? (And this is def not a brag session, I usually don't pay more than 300 total for anything).

**Rey KittyHawk** · 06-23-23 10:00

Originally Posted by BillyIsTheOne [View Original Post]

It really sucks that I have absolutely no one in real life that I can talk to about this stuff so I guess I will post it here. Most of you guys are not repeaters but I'm the kind of guy that keeps seeing girls past their due date. I guess its because I get really good deals and expanded menus. So I got this gal I've been seeing for about a year. Once or twice a week. I get 'no limit' service for 160. Pop as many times as I want. Stay as long as I want (within reason) but now its coming to an end. She's cute enough, The problem is she is gaining too much weight. She's 5'5 and probably 150 lbs now. She was about 120 when we started. She knows I'm getting bored and she knows exactly what I want and how to deliverit after this much time together. I need a pop about every three days so she starts texting me, sending me pics, porn clips. 'Can you come over and cum in my mouth?' I want you fuck my mouth and pussy back and forth, mmmmm' Other than the weight, its kind of a dream come true to have someone ready at the drop of a hat, lives close by, who will do anything you want for super cheap. I either need to tell her to start losing weight or I need to cut her loose. What should I do?

I think many of us Monger so we can enjoy the fun, thrills, and frills with a NSA relationship.

Your experience is a lesson to us all to be cautious about becoming attached, or letting our girls become attached to us.

Don't go to often, enjoy it too much, or spend a fortune on one. Spread out the love and the wealth amongst several if not many and you won't have to worry about breaking up with a "girlfriend. ".

I always spread out my visits. Continuously seeing the same girl several times a week for continuous weeks is dangerous and in my opinion can only lead to problems.

And the reasons Quoting Paul Simon's - 50 Ways to Leave Your Lover, was very funny.

**Jaguar300ZX** · 06-21-23 18:04

Originally Posted by BillyIsTheOne [View Original Post]

It really sucks that I have absolutely no one in real life that I can talk to about this stuff so I guess I will post it here. Most of you guys are not repeaters but I'm the kind of guy that keeps seeing girls past their due date. I guess its because I get really good deals and expanded menus. So I got this gal I've been seeing for about a year. Once or twice a week. I get 'no limit' service for 160. Pop as many times as I want. Stay as long as I want (within reason) but now its coming to an end. She's cute enough, The problem is she is gaining too much weight. She's 5'5 and probably 150 lbs now. She was about 120 when we started. She knows I'm getting bored and she knows exactly what I want and how to deliver it after this much time together. I need a pop about every three days so she starts texting me, sending me pics, porn clips. 'Can you come over and cum in my mouth?' I want you fuck my mouth and pussy back and forth, mmmmm' Other than the weight, its kind of a dream come true to have someone ready at the drop of a hat, lives close by, who will do anything you want for super cheap. I either need to tell her to start losing weight or I need to cut her loose. What should I do?

The problem is all inside your head you see, the answer is quite easy if you take it logically.

I'd like to help you in your struggle to be free, there must be 50-ways to leave your lover.

It's really not my habit to intrude, furthermore, I hope my meaning won't be lost or misconstrued.

But, I'll repeat myself, at the risk of being crude, there must be 50-ways to leave your lover.

Just slip out the back Jack, . Make a new plan Stan, . You don't need to be coy Roy, . Just get yourself free.

Hop on the bus Gus, . You don't need to discuss much, . Just drop off the key Lee, . And get yourself free.

**MaximusKahn** · 06-21-23 11:38

I understand both the connection you made, and the change you feel with her weight gain. With providers it’s all about attraction and quality of service. When one or both of them changes, well we want to move on.

I'm like you and love to repeat good experiences and tend to build rapport with a provider that I'm attracted too.

Since she clearly likes you as a customer, and since you go so much she's also been counting on your visits for income, she's after the money too.

The only excuses a provider might accept, is you found love, you ran out of money, or you're moving far away.

They know we are temporary in their lives and know we will leave, or they will leave. I suggest being kind about it, you never know when you may want to go back, or will bump into her again at another spa.

Some time ago I had my Long Term All Time Favorite move back to China. Gone, and to be honest it was a terrible feeling.

The only excuses I would have accepted, is, if she found love, was quitting the business completely, or was moving far away.

All the best of luck, hope it works out for everyone. Mx.

Originally Posted by BillyIsTheOne [View Original Post]

It really sucks that I have absolutely no one in real life that I can talk to about this stuff so I guess I will post it here. Most of you guys are not repeaters but I'm the kind of guy that keeps seeing girls past their due date. I guess its because I get really good deals and expanded menus. So I got this gal I've been seeing for about a year. Once or twice a week. I get 'no limit' service for 160. Pop as many times as I want. Stay as long as I want (within reason) but now its coming to an end. She's cute enough, The problem is she is gaining too much weight. She's 5'5 and probably 150 lbs now. She was about 120 when we started. She knows I'm getting bored and she knows exactly what I want and how to deliverit after this much time together. I need a pop about every three days so she starts texting me, sending me pics, porn clips. 'Can you come over and cum in my mouth?' I want you fuck my mouth and pussy back and forth, mmmmm' Other than the weight, its kind of a dream come true to have someone ready at the drop of a hat, lives close by, who will do anything you want for super cheap. I either need to tell her to start losing weight or I need to cut her loose. What should I do?

**Member #7047** · 06-21-23 10:37

Originally Posted by HermanMiller [View Original Post]

Tell her you are in a relationship. She will understand. IF you ghost her or say something mean, you might never see her again -- even if she loses weight or you decide to see her again.

This is good advice.

I had a similar relationship that spanned years with a local provider. I had to move on for different reasons than yours, but I ended things with some harsh words and I kindof regret that. Just bow out by saying you're in a relationship.

**BillyIsTheOne** · 06-21-23 01:43

Originally Posted by DrPornDawger [View Original Post]

I ain't Dr. Ruth or Dr. Oz nor any emotional Dr.

This article might help or not.

https://www.doctornerdlove.com/tell-...dont-want-sex/

I would just ghost them.

Thanks for that man, that was a great read LOL.

**HermanMiller** · 06-21-23 01:42

Originally Posted by DrPornDawger [View Original Post]

I ain't Dr. Ruth or Dr. Oz nor any emotional Dr.

This article might help or not.

https://www.doctornerdlove.com/tell-...dont-want-sex/

I would just ghost them.

Tell her you are in a relationship. She will understand. IF you ghost her or say something mean, you might never see her again -- even if she loses weight or you decide to see her again.

**DrPornDawger** · 06-21-23 01:30

Originally Posted by BillyIsTheOne [View Original Post]

It really sucks that I have absolutely no one in real life that I can talk to about this stuff so I guess I will post it here. Most of you guys are not repeaters but I'm the kind of guy that keeps seeing girls past their due date. I guess its because I get really good deals and expanded menus. So I got this gal I've been seeing for about a year. Once or twice a week. I get 'no limit' service for 160. Pop as many times as I want. Stay as long as I want (within reason) but now its coming to an end. She's cute enough, The problem is she is gaining too much weight. She's 5'5 and probably 150 lbs now. She was about 120 when we started. She knows I'm getting bored and she knows exactly what I want and how to deliverit after this much time together. I need a pop about every three days so she starts texting me, sending me pics, porn clips. 'Can you come over and cum in my mouth?' I want you fuck my mouth and pussy back and forth, mmmmm' Other than the weight, its kind of a dream come true to have someone ready at the drop of a hat, lives close by, who will do anything you want for super cheap. I either need to tell her to start losing weight or I need to cut her loose. What should I do?

I ain't Dr. Ruth or Dr. Oz nor any emotional Dr.

This article might help or not.

https://www.doctornerdlove.com/tell-...dont-want-sex/

I would just ghost them.

**PoonTangJohnny** · 06-21-23 01:29

Originally Posted by BillyIsTheOne [View Original Post]

It really sucks that I have absolutely no one in real life that I can talk to about this stuff so I guess I will post it here. Most of you guys are not repeaters but I'm the kind of guy that keeps seeing girls past their due date. I guess its because I get really good deals and expanded menus. So I got this gal I've been seeing for about a year. Once or twice a week. I get 'no limit' service for 160. Pop as many times as I want. Stay as long as I want (within reason) but now its coming to an end. She's cute enough, The problem is she is gaining too much weight. She's 5'5 and probably 150 lbs now. She was about 120 when we started. She knows I'm getting bored and she knows exactly what I want and how to deliverit after this much time together. I need a pop about every three days so she starts texting me, sending me pics, porn clips. 'Can you come over and cum in my mouth?' I want you fuck my mouth and pussy back and forth, mmmmm' Other than the weight, its kind of a dream come true to have someone ready at the drop of a hat, lives close by, who will do anything you want for super cheap. I either need to tell her to start losing weight or I need to cut her loose. What should I do?

LMAO! I don't mean to make light of your situation. But just Be thankful, that you're Not married to this woman!

Otherwise, you'd be just like about every other unhappy married hobbyist here, in search for something their wives, aren't. And I can relate, I don't care what kind of deal I'm getting (Bare FS / even free), if a chicks overweight & I'm not attracted to her, I wouldn't fuck her for free!

I see a surprisingly large percentage of the guys here, posting links / pics of disgustingly obese, filthy looking drug addicts that they're happily in love with fucking. And if these ungodly looking women can make some of these guys here happy, then more power to them.

Count your Blessings, Billy! No child support, no alimony. Maybe it's finally time for you to just move on. The 1 thing truth I've learned (whether in this hobby or relationships) in life, is that nothing great, lasts forever.

**BillyIsTheOne** · 06-21-23 00:02

It really sucks that I have absolutely no one in real life that I can talk to about this stuff so I guess I will post it here. Most of you guys are not repeaters but I'm the kind of guy that keeps seeing girls past their due date. I guess its because I get really good deals and expanded menus. So I got this gal I've been seeing for about a year. Once or twice a week. I get 'no limit' service for 160. Pop as many times as I want. Stay as long as I want (within reason) but now its coming to an end. She's cute enough, The problem is she is gaining too much weight. She's 5'5 and probably 150 lbs now. She was about 120 when we started. She knows I'm getting bored and she knows exactly what I want and how to deliverit after this much time together. I need a pop about every three days so she starts texting me, sending me pics, porn clips. 'Can you come over and cum in my mouth?' I want you fuck my mouth and pussy back and forth, mmmmm' Other than the weight, its kind of a dream come true to have someone ready at the drop of a hat, lives close by, who will do anything you want for super cheap. I either need to tell her to start losing weight or I need to cut her loose. What should I do?

**PoonTangJohnny** · 06-20-23 13:51

Originally Posted by Admin2 [View Original Post]

I'm all about discourse, if you want to try and persuade me I'll give you the chance. I'll listen to any reasonable considered argument that evolves with facts and then weigh it. I may never agree with you but as long as the discourse is civil and I have time I'm happy to listen.

I hope he didn't persuade you, he and everybody who thinks that addiction is about a weakness of character are simply wrong. Not bad people, just incorrect.

If you want to know how a modern society successfully deals with addiction look to Portugal. I've been sober forever and I personally think we should decriminalize all drugs and give them to people for free. Let people smoke, snort, eat, shoot whatever drug they want. We could do that and feed and house all the junkies in the USA for a fraction of the cost that we are currently paying for interdiction and incarceration.

It's time to end prohibition. It's not working.

This is one mans personal opinion, it's not a stance of the USASG its just me.

As to the rest I agree, he was just a troll, he probably didn't even believe what he was writing.

A2.

Late in coming, but still felt the need to respond.

First & foremost: Congrat's on your continued sobriety, A2! I sincerely mean this.

And I have to commend you, for giving this guy a very long leash so he could have his say on this subject, and then pretty much let him self-destruct on his own.

And no, this guy didn't persuade me that addiction, is a "weakness. " < However, I did used to strongly feel this way (that addiction was a weakness).

These past few years, however, I've witnessed so many people (ladies working in this hobby & family / friend's) sadly succumb to their seemingly possessed addictions. I tried helping a few of these people offering them support in every way imaginable. But nothing I could do or say, could alter their course / self-destructive behavior. Even my own brother, nothing can seem to make him see how badly alcohol is / had destroyed his life, and he's already hit rock bottom and almost died, once already.

Because of these people, I've had a change of heart, compassion and understanding.

**Jaguar300ZX** · 06-20-23 11:29

Originally Posted by Backstage99 [View Original Post]

Has anyone ever received a shake down text message from an 818 number here?
I recently received one this morning (I know. Stupid me for using my actual phone and not a burner) but the texter sent my home address and info on relatives. They were all in Spanish though. I assume this is some Mexican dude trying to shake me down.
I was planning on not responding or possibly informing them I'm a Second Amendment gun carrying citizen and have relatives in the SDPD and Homeland Security.
Any advice would be helpful. Leaning towards no response but wanted to get your ideas. I'll be switching to a burner shortly. What an ass.

My advice is DON'T reply! And BLOCK that phone number.

Any engagement you have with them will only drag you further down a Rabbit hole.

There's a lot of internet database sites that do reverse phone number searches, and will provide some personal info related to the searched phone number.

(EX: your current & previous address, all other phone numbers associated to you, and the names of your relatives).

It'a an amateurish attempt to extort you, because they obviously don't have anything real to use against you.

But they do have enough info to make your life a Nightmare if you provoke them.

**GMob69** · 06-19-23 20:49

A burner Google voice account is your friend.

Originally Posted by Backstage99 [View Original Post]

Has anyone ever received a shake down text message from an 818 number here?

I recently received one this morning (I know. Stupid me for using my actual phone and not a burner) but the texter sent my home address and info on relatives. They were all in Spanish though. I assume this is some Mexican dude trying to shake me down.

I was planning on not responding or possibly informing them I'm a Second Amendment gun carrying citizen and have relatives in the SDPD and Homeland Security.

Any advice would be helpful. Leaning towards no response but wanted to get your ideas. I'll be switching to a burner shortly. What an ass.