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[LimpAndSmall]

This is a second example of the crucial information that can be revealed by investigating your SB. Information I really wished I had known before I agreed to an arrangement with this SB!

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...1-810071eebd17

I previously posted about Vanessa. About how she ghosted me after one meet, when I had (foolishly) given her an allowance. But in reality maybe I was lucky that she did so, and that we did not continue.

Looking her up reveals a long rap sheet, including.

- Manslaughter.

- Child endangerment,

- Firearms offenses, and.

- Drugs.

I guess I should count myself lucky to have escaped in one piece!

[LimpAndSmall]

There were several recent posts here pointing to both the dangers and possibilities associated with new online facial recognition technologies. Last night I decided to give it a try, and looked up some of my previous SBs. Got two surprises! Here is the first case.

Part I. Background.

Some years back I dated 30 yo Latina (real age). She caught my eye, as she was not only attractive with a curvy figure (big tits and ass, without being fat), but also claimed to have a good job as a business consultant. Her profile also stated that she was kinky, and wanted someone into that.

She was very discreet, and it took over a month of back and forth discussions and a nice lunch together before we finally closed the deal. She was well spoken, well dressed, clearly well educated, and drove a good car. After the meet and greet it still took another two weeks before we finally hooked up at a hotel. She did not seem driven by money, but we did agree a per meet figure.

Unlike her reserve over the previous month, and her very proper behavior at lunch, she was all over me the second she got in the hotel room door. Instant tight embrace and deep kisses, and straight on to the bed! One of the most sexually forward and aggressive women I have ever met. She insisted I simply worship her magnificent set of breasts. I had to lie in her lap and continuously suckle and fondle them. She was enormously aroused by this – I think she had multiple orgasms just from this. Apart from her other responses, the evidence for her arousal was that she became sloppy, dripping wet. Clearly one of her kinks.

After playing with her tits for ages, it was time to move on. I like giving and receiving oral, and she started to devour me with gusto – she must have been hungry! However, it was at this point that I noticed the problem. Her pussy stank. Not a fishy smell, but a very strong, objectionable smell. Yuk. I had to avoid her getting near or on my face, without obviously seeming to, by sort of jerking upright due to her doing such a great job on me. This discovery really put me off, but I somehow managed to continue on to do a good job of f*cking her in cowgirl and doggy (with condom! She seemed really happy, and we said our goodbyes.

Afterwards, she wanted to get together again for more fun – she asked several times over the following six months. I was very tempted, but I didn't date her again, as I was worried that the odor might have been due to a hygiene / health issue. I didn't think I could mention the issue to her directly, as doing so is, in my limited experience, a relationship killer. What would you pros have done in this situation? (I wish I had discovered this site at the time, and not just last year). I could think of three possibilities for why there was such an odor:

1. There was a hygiene issue.

2. Being dirty / smelly might have been one of her kinks? Or,

3. Just a result of being so very wet, combined with her diet? Everyone has a different intrinsic odor, which can be strongly affected by diet.

Part II – The results of a facial recognition search.

Fast forward to last night. As she was such an interesting person in multiple ways, I kept some of her photos. So I put one into a facial recognition search engine and immediately got several hits, which were indeed she. She was everything she said she was, and more! She is now a head of function at a leading niche US industrial company, was previously head of function at a local specialist consultancy company, and is also the owner of her own consultancy firm. Winner of a national leadership award and other distinctions, nominated (before I met her) for a woman of the year award, has media exposure, and so on and on. I was blown away by the results. She is a very high-profile professional, and does not lack for money. You can see why she wanted discretion. Proof, if any more was needed, that not all the women on SA are "sex workers" or semi-pro at best.

So, why was she on SA? Maybe she told me the truth when she said she was just too busy for conventional dating at the time. Maybe a way to find someone to satisfy her kinks – she seemed quite pleased by my efforts. No longer living locally, and no longer on SA, so far as I can tell.

Again, what would you pros have done in my situation?

[HollywoodGuy]

I think a lot of people equate the smoker question with cigarettes rather than weed. At least that's been the answer I've gotten.

The SB's almost 100% do. And if you date the younger ones you can be sure over 50% are 420 friendly and maybe over 80%. Personally I don't give a shit. Usually the higher they are the better the sex. I have dated ones that are always high and ones that never partake. It's never been an issue (as long as it's cannabis only). As a tea totaling old fogey (and x hippy) I am much more critical of drinking than smoking.

[CuriousVaMan]

I think the "smells" you can potentially bring home is often overlooked. I saw a SB the other day who wanted to smoke and I had to politely tell her not to. Smoke permeates the clothing, and as you say FFA, the warden would definitely notice.

Maybe they are just into edibles, tinctures or vaping (which is a lot less annoying).

[HollywoodGuy]

Can you be 420 friendly and not a smoker?

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...b-841c1da472cf

Too many on there mix and match about this. I don't want to be around any of it, just because, and also, for the same reason a girl should not wear perfume when seeing a SD. The warden.

Maybe they are just into edibles, tinctures or vaping (which is a lot less annoying).

[ChefSolo]

Can you be 420 friendly and not a smoker?

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...b-841c1da472cf

Too many on there mix and match about this. I don't want to be around any of it, just because, and also, for the same reason a girl should not wear perfume when seeing a SD. The warden.

I think a lot of people equate the smoker question with cigarettes rather than weed. At least that's been the answer I've gotten.

[FarFarAway]

Can you be 420 friendly and not a smoker?

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...b-841c1da472cf

Too many on there mix and match about this. I don't want to be around any of it, just because, and also, for the same reason a girl should not wear perfume when seeing a SD. The warden.

[FarFarAway]

If you don't mind me asking, as someone new to this scene, what do you typically pay her, and is it monthly or PPM?

As I said, "took any $ I gave her". I had the discussion w / her at the M&G, she said whatever I wanted to give her was fine. I think I went w / 300. I also gave her a bouquet of flowers from Ralphs and she was overjoyed w / that. Took them to work, everyone there commented on them. She is profoundly submissive, my approach won't work w / a GPS girl.

I only saw her that one time, as I said, I fucked it up. However, the sex was so good, now she is back.

[Saturnine99]

I reported here 6 months ago about a girl I FCed. 30's Latina, her important distinguishing feature. The most amazing nipples (think Thandie Newton) on firm round natural tits. Other good stuff too. Submissive, took any $ I gave her. I thought I was on the way. However, she didn't like getting the hotel room, which is how I keep secure. And, before we could meet again, I messed up. I was trying to text a POT, and somehow I sent it to her. She obviously realized I was chasing some other tail, and just quit responding to any messages I sent her. I had portrayed myself as doing only 1 girl at a time at the M&G. OK, I thought, too bad, I missed an opportunity to get live video of those tits.

Well, the other day, she texts me. I have been active on SA, I have a membership, IK she hasn't been on there. Just says she has been thinking about what fun we had. Obviously, I engage her, evidently her horninees has overcome her annoyance at being one-of many. So we are going to FC this week. A solution found to her getting a room.

Life is good, pussy is good, and there is no way anyone could call this girl an escort. So, as others here say, including HG, non-pros (NPs) can be found on SA.

If you don't mind me asking, as someone new to this scene, what do you typically pay her, and is it monthly or PPM?

[FarFarAway]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...1-7c81f5885917

[FarFarAway]

I reported here 6 months ago about a girl I FCed. 30's Latina, her important distinguishing feature. The most amazing nipples (think Thandie Newton) on firm round natural tits. Other good stuff too. Submissive, took any $ I gave her. I thought I was on the way. However, she didn't like getting the hotel room, which is how I keep secure. And, before we could meet again, I messed up. I was trying to text a POT, and somehow I sent it to her. She obviously realized I was chasing some other tail, and just quit responding to any messages I sent her. I had portrayed myself as doing only 1 girl at a time at the M&G. OK, I thought, too bad, I missed an opportunity to get live video of those tits.

Well, the other day, she texts me. I have been active on SA, I have a membership, IK she hasn't been on there. Just says she has been thinking about what fun we had. Obviously, I engage her, evidently her horninees has overcome her annoyance at being one-of many. So we are going to FC this week. A solution found to her getting a room.

Life is good, pussy is good, and there is no way anyone could call this girl an escort. So, as others here say, including HG, non-pros (NPs) can be found on SA.

[BamBam]

Report those SBs that take the monthly allowance and either ghost or feign perpetual sickness. Bait and switch.

Let's face it, as much as farfaraway glosses endlessly about how SBs aren't escorts and there's this emotional connection, the vast majority of SBs are mercenary $$ hunters.

Need to make this more of a level playing field.

Thoughts?

I did this for a long time on the Cincinnati SB thread. I could find a dozen or more scammers a week in our area. I disagree with our guru, HG, on the percent scammers - at least for my area. (I think he doesn't see a lot of them because they are not in his preferred demographic.) I am currently banned from Seeking and taking a break. I never reported any of them to the site. You have to keep in mind that the site LIKES having the scammers there. The scammers are a useful source of hot new profiles. Yes, they ban them after a few weeks. - in order to force them to make new profiles. However, they could easily block them 'ab initio' if they wanted to keep them out.

Next, there are always a few dicks who either simp to the scammers or taunt the scammers by telling them they are on the list. In my case, the scammer figured out who I was and the scammers started a campaign of reporting ME in retaliation. I was always careful about the site TOS but it is impossible to approach multiple profiles without some similarity in language. They got me for "spamming. "

I still keep a list but I much more careful about who I post online. As every experienced guy on here has figured out, there are always some AH's who will rush to a "girl" hoping to curry favor by sharing with them when anyone posts about them in our forums. The best approach is to cultivate a reliable circle of like-minded seniors with whom to share privately. I still post people online occasionally but not the full list.

BAM

[Dog Rice]

Where to keep such list, so is easily searchable.

Agreed about crashing the economy to put inflation under control. These SBs need to start paying student loans as well.

I like your way of thinking, but in all honesty the fed needs to keep jacking up interest rates to literally destroy the economy to keep inflation under control which is what I believe they are doing. We need another 2008/2009.

Rent and the general cost of living is going out of control, but I guess there are still enough people in the big metro areas with $$ to keep this going.

[FarFarAway]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...d-f95c45ab62fd

She is definitely real, and I've gotten more pix from her in the past; smoking hot, perhaps some implants, but a bit odd, and definitely an escort vibe.

[DannyDanDan]

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...1-c926b156ee82

Unfortunately I messed things up but now that I'm no longer seeing her I can share a review.

Very sweet girl, cute accent, really down to earth. Adventurous in bed and very submissive too. Great service every time and it was pretty easy and straightforward to discuss expectations kinks etc before hand. She prefers a meet and greet but doesn't charge for it except for Ubering her back and forth. Hit it off at the m&g and got to make out, might have been able to do more I think but I didn't want to scare her off. Not sure if that's standard for her so YMMV.

Damage was 4 $ each time.