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[HollywoodGuy]

Have any of you CA guys gone to London and found success out there? Sorry, I get it, this is a SoCal board, but I'm going out there for work and will be there for several months. It seems everyone out there has "Passport ready" in their profile and probably messaged at least 100+ girls out there, and barely a nibble from anyone.

Any pointers for across to see potential?

There is an international board. Forgot where the link is. Maybe someone can help out?

[ShowMeHow23]

Have any of you CA guys gone to London and found success out there? Sorry, I get it, this is a SoCal board, but I'm going out there for work and will be there for several months. It seems everyone out there has "Passport ready" in their profile and probably messaged at least 100+ girls out there, and barely a nibble from anyone.

Any pointers for across to see potential?

[RanManCan]

FarFarAway, you've had a gift sitting in your inbox for a week now.

You owe me a beer.

[FarFarAway]

I mean this very nicely and politely. I've always wondered who picks girls like that. To each his own and no judgment. But I'd personally just be alone with my hand than spend 5 minutes in the presence of a girl like that. She scares me. She looks like someone who would do something crazy and you'd look back and say "well obviously. ".

Could not agree more. I draw the line at face tattoos, excessive piercings, etc. It is sometimes interesting to fantasize about someone far away from us socially / demographically, and I entertain picking up girls in Starbucks like that, but this is way out there.

[Murrican]

So I don't mind tattoos on a girl and I love me a petite young Asian. But when I saw this I just couldn't stop thinking about what it would be like to fuck her. I mean, must be totally crazy, right:

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...3-2b4cf3c6c63d

Nice girl, good fuck. She's easygoing and knows how to suck cock. No BBFS, but she's athletic and enthusiastic. Not as weird as I though it was going to be.

Pretty expensive at 6. 5, probably won't repeat. But there's a lot of potential there.

I mean this very nicely and politely. I've always wondered who picks girls like that. To each his own and no judgment. But I'd personally just be alone with my hand than spend 5 minutes in the presence of a girl like that. She scares me. She looks like someone who would do something crazy and you'd look back and say "well obviously. ".

[HollywoodGuy]

Last weeks overnite guests.

Girl 1 - 5.5 - 115

Girl 3 - 5.2 - 100

[FarFarAway]

Or sometimes I just say "I will keep that in mind and thanks for the quick reply". Or "you are out of my league". Don't wanna get banned because some Karen had a bad hair day.

I completely agree w / HG. I have definitely used that "you are out of my league" before, there are many ways that could be interpreted, one or two might get the girl to come back w / a more reasonable number.

I hadn't heard "I will keep that in mind" before HG put it here. I think the next time I saw it, a POT was using it on me. So, I at least understood what she meant.

I reported some time back about a 40's MILF, a total knockout, who was trying to have me get a room at a coastal resort for the weekend. I never bit, I don't really have the freedom to do that w / my SO and all. I wrote her off at least a year ago. However, I have seen her profile active on the site recently. Still, as much as I wanted to bang her, I didn't see the point in contacting her. Perhaps she saw my profile on one of the few times I was active on the site (I keep it deactivated when I am not paid up), anyways, I just got a text from her. Hmm, perhaps she has decided to become more reasonable. I would not exclude the possibility. Or perhaps she learned that I was one of the more sane guys on the site, and lots of the other dudes who have been hitting her up weren't.

[HollywoodGuy]

See but those are polite ways to close down the interaction. I've got no problem with how you do that.

But I'm seeing lots of situations where the guy wants to end by dunking on the girl. To let her know that he resents and has animus towards her. But why? I can't imagine who these guys are in real life. That kind of stuff isn't contained to texts with sugar girls. That kind of anger is part of a person's fabric of being.

Having been in a few open SB relationships I get a lot of feedback from the girls about what goes on out there. It's definitely not all good.

[Murrican]

I always give the girl the last word. There are about 100 of them for every one of us. So who cares? Sometimes I may end with "Not a match but good luck in your search". At that point they start lowering the price or just disappear. Ether way I am gone as I do not negotiate.

Or sometimes I just say "I will keep that in mind and thanks for the quick reply".

See but those are polite ways to close down the interaction. I've got no problem with how you do that.

But I'm seeing lots of situations where the guy wants to end by dunking on the girl. To let her know that he resents and has animus towards her. But why? I can't imagine who these guys are in real life. That kind of stuff isn't contained to texts with sugar girls. That kind of anger is part of a person's fabric of being.

[Sipping]

So I don't mind tattoos on a girl and I love me a petite young Asian. But when I saw this I just couldn't stop thinking about what it would be like to fuck her. I mean, must be totally crazy, right:

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...3-2b4cf3c6c63d

Nice girl, good fuck. She's easygoing and knows how to suck cock. No BBFS, but she's athletic and enthusiastic. Not as weird as I though it was going to be.

Pretty expensive at 6. 5, probably won't repeat. But there's a lot of potential there.

[HollywoodGuy]

Just spent some time here.

It's actually kind of amazing how some dudes carry themselves. Maybe I'm just not jaded because I'm married and I feel like it's a privilege to have this kind of covert fun and I'm not jaded by doing it all the time. But man. The guys who end conversations with "fine you were fat anyway" or "if you don't like it there are plenty of other sluts to talk to" is astounding. Like why would you put that kind of energy into the universe? It makes no sense to me. It's so easy to be classy and just say "we clearly aren't a match, best of luck to you" and end things cordially. And bonus if the girl is a *****. Trust that ending with class will only make her feel stupid after she realizes she did not, in fact, get the last laugh. She just ended by proving how much less class she has. There really is no downside to being polite through and through.

I almost always give the girl the last word. There are about 100 of them for every one of us. So who cares? Sometimes I may end with "Not a match but good luck in your search". At that point they start lowering the price or just disappear. Ether way I am gone as I do not negotiate.

Or sometimes I just say "I will keep that in mind and thanks for the quick reply". Or "you are out of my league". Don't wanna get banned because some Karen had a bad hair day.

[Murrican]

https://www.reddit.com/r/SugarBABYonlyforum/

I can't remember if I posted this. Creepy but very informative if you are a baller / high roller.

Just spent some time here.

It's actually kind of amazing how some dudes carry themselves. Maybe I'm just not jaded because I'm married and I feel like it's a privilege to have this kind of covert fun and I'm not jaded by doing it all the time. But man. The guys who end conversations with "fine you were fat anyway" or "if you don't like it there are plenty of other sluts to talk to" is astounding. Like why would you put that kind of energy into the universe? It makes no sense to me. It's so easy to be classy and just say "we clearly aren't a match, best of luck to you" and end things cordially. And bonus if the girl is a *****. Trust that ending with class will only make her feel stupid after she realizes she did not, in fact, get the last laugh. She just ended by proving how much less class she has. There really is no downside to being polite through and through.

[Murrican]

Check out my post #7330 from 11 days ago.

Just checked that out. Ok so she made you use condoms. I can live with that. I do anyways. I'm more concerned if people say that you should be concerned some jealous dude is going to follow you home or show up banging on your hotel door while you're naked or something.

[Ajfff]

So someone want to go through how to use WYP successfully? Even just a little?

I wouldn't pay for it but seeking just gave 50 credits free to port my profile over and I'm not paying for seeking again for a while so why not?

But I dunno that I want to just go around offering girls M / G $, or offering a bunch then trying to whip it around via text to mean not for the date but just to show up at my place.

Share anyone?

Again, just doing it cause it's free and maybe a cheaper alternative at times to seeking.

[HollywoodGuy]

Mr. Hollywood, I recently went through the seeking chat of a former SB of mine (with her permission of course), whom I am still very good friends with. My mind was blown! Not only were men offering her significant amounts of money, but lots of them even paid heavily for the first platonic dates. My 300 ppm made me feel seriously cheap. And this SB was at best a 6 / 10, albeit with a sweet, caring, and submissive personality.

The chief reason seeking girls are quoting large sums is because there are men in LA who have more money than God and the rest of us are getting outbidded. Even the fat and ugly girls on seeking are quoting 500 and above and the extremely gorgeous ones are starting at a 1000. I do have the money, but I have never in my life gotten a satisfying experience whenever I paid more than 400. In fact, they tend to be my worst ones.

There will always be girls that will hookup with you for way less for a variety of reasons while they simultaneously rake some other guys over the coals. As a guy that married very young and stayed in long term basically monogamous relationships until I was in my early fifties my dating skills were almost non existent. And dating young girls was something I had not done since I was young.

As an early SD I was spending stupid money because I had it and didn't have to rely on my personality in any way to get the hottest girls (some of whom were great in bed & some not). But once I hit the skids I had to use all my extra time to hard core studying the dynamics of this arena just like it was a full time job in a new industry. I literally dedicated years to dissecting and analyzing every encounter I had and my way of approaching each girl. I had spreadsheets breaking it all down. And tons of notes. I spent hours reflecting on every conversation and sexual encounter.

Most of my life I had a fair amount of pussy but not always from the girls I really wanted it from. And if I had more money I would definitely up the physical quality of the girls I see today. But in no way would I sacrifice the personality type I need to be happy. What I have been spending lately is a pittance. I am not getting the quantity I want but I have few complaints with their overall looks or skills.

When I started this thread I was averaging about 25-40 dates a month for years. Eventually lowering myself to a $ or so per date it still came to 30 k or so a year. But a far cry from my heydey (more like 100 k a year). But over time I could see that the overall quality of the dates was improving even as the amount per date was decreasing.

Today I sacrifice very little in the quality of the sex at all. If it isn't covering all the bases so to speak, I am long gone after the first date. I can say that I have no trouble at all getting the personality types I am looking for which is always a two way street. I am most always the FWB, generic BF or real BF or just the calm in the middle of their stormy lives. So yeah they cut me some serious slack.

It's like most things. If you can get whatever you want by papering it over, it may look good from afar, but be far from good when you get closeup. When you have to work for it, the successes will be sweeter and more rewarding. So guys if you are determined to get the best pussy possible from girls that actually like you and vice versa. Put in the effort and you will be amazed at the results. Sorry for droning on but I guess you triggered me with that post.