Arrangement Reports

[DWill]

Hey guys. Was conversing with this one tonight and she was way to easy and accomodating. She's in Hanover Park (decent area) living at an Extended Stay. She told me that's where she's LIVING at the moment. I offered $250 with cip included. She jumped on it no questions asked which was concerning.

Def some flags with low price point and where she says she's living. Sounds like one level above a street walker and may be a serious user. A guy forewarned me on a previous inquiry of mine not to see a chick as she was strung out and not worth it. Curious if anyone has seen this one and what their experience was.

I don't stick my raw dick in $250 pussy so curious if I should make an exception. My head is telling me don't but, we now how that can be overridden when we're thinking with the wrong one!

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...9-0d737c3fbfd2

She looks familiar and its weird because I saw someone that looked like her in that specific area and I thought my encounter was weird because that doesn't happen in HP area. Check your DM hit me back.

[Tkow70]

Hey guys. Was conversing with this one tonight and she was way to easy and accomodating. She's in Hanover Park (decent area) living at an Extended Stay. She told me that's where she's LIVING at the moment. I offered $250 with cip included. She jumped on it no questions asked which was concerning.

Def some flags with low price point and where she says she's living. Sounds like one level above a street walker and may be a serious user. A guy forewarned me on a previous inquiry of mine not to see a chick as she was strung out and not worth it. Curious if anyone has seen this one and what their experience was.

I don't stick my raw dick in $250 pussy so curious if I should make an exception. My head is telling me don't but, we now how that can be overridden when we're thinking with the wrong one!

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...9-0d737c3fbfd2

[Tkow70]

But isn't it $600 for both versus $300 for just Dana? Am I reading that wrong?

Hey man. Not sure Dana will do $300 anymore. She quoted me $500. If anyone is still seeing her at that rate lmk as I have to work on my negotiation skills. I got her for $400 for a few hours 2 weeks ago.

Her and her friend would be asking $1 k.

[Bill Underwood]

Interesting that you say this as that is exactly how mine ended with a 26 y / o last summer. One day she was at the house telling me she loved me and listing all the reasons. Said she wanted to continue the relationship after she moved. The next week, she told me to never call her again as she prepared to move out of state.

He's dropped a good amount of wisdom and I agree on the ghosting. One girl that I connected with very well told me to just ghost if you want to end it. The GenZs ghost without a second thought and it seem like my (GenX) generation has some need to end things elegantly.

Have you read about employees that just stop showing up for work? It's crazy how much this younger generation just moves on. I recommend you learn from them.

[Bill Underwood]

Yes, my being single absolutely has its advantages as I can spend without caring if someone finds out. I have stayed with SA for this and not really tried elsewhere. It is a lot of time filtering through the profiles and staying on top of the conversations. I probably spend an hour a day messaging current prospects and hopefuls. Until I have seen someone 4-5 times, I do not count that as anything regular and they could easily ghost me the next time. Many of the girls too I feel are probably seeing multiple guys in the beginning trying to see who are the best fit for them from a lifestyle and financial standpoint. You are correct though in that at times, I have spent as much as $4,000 a month on this but that was seeing multiple people every week as I weeded out the good from the bad or just was supporting someone that I was spending lots of time with. In the prior arrangement, we would see each other sometimes 4-5 times a week so when you think of it like that, it gets more reasonable although to be honest, we also did not have sex every time as we settled into a more vanilla relationship. With the current arrangement, if it works out, it puts me at $300 each time at most which is a number I am comfortable with and she is willing to come over more often then twice a week, we just understand that that is the expected minimum as we agreed on a monthly. I do not doubt that the girl you are seeing for $250 PPM is as pretty as any of the others as I have found little correlation between price and looks. If anything, the ones that ask for more come across more entitled and flaky. What I have seen, as to be expected is that if the girl lives downtown, expect it to be more, if she lives in the suburbs, more likely less as geographically her options are more limited.

Hey man great write up. Couple of things if I read this correctly at one point you were spitting out over 4 gs a month. First off good on you. I make a really good living but no way could I ever find 4 k a month, hell 3 k a month to spit out on the hobby. I couldn't get that much excess spending pass the Warden if I tried. You being single I'm sure plays a huge role in that expenditure. Lastly the more important question. How much "fishing" as you put it did you have to do and was it all on SA? I have to be honest I've had 2 long term arrangements in the past, one just ended a couple months ago and they were both 250 ppm everything goes and I mean everything. I would stack their looks up against any girl on the market. So I say that say it doesn't have to be 400-500 to find quality which is why I'm interested in where you did your fishing the most.

Good write up.

[ChiGuy1977]

What's funny is that's the same Dana who has a solo profile on here and many guys have seen her for 300 and bbcip. You can also see the weight gain in her conbo profile as opposed to her solo profile. Sorry, don't have link handy but think it's Danaspa or something.

But isn't it $600 for both versus $300 for just Dana? Am I reading that wrong?

[ChiGuy1977]

Curious for those of you who have had an SB and at some point ended it. How'd that go? Because really, that's the key part. Some of you have talked about how great it's going and the money and all that while also saying you know you're going to have to end it. That is the part where it can all go to hell. Because if she isn't ready for the allowance and gifts and all that to end, you could be looking at some major headaches. So, has anyone out here have an extended period with an SB and ended it and if so, how did it go? Really, isn't that why we see escorts and go to parlors, because when it's over it's over and we don't have to concern ourselves with any baggage? I agree that the good parts sound great, I'm just concerned about what the end game will be like and if that may ruin everything before it. But maybe I'm too cynical.

I knew that she didn't want a real romantic relationship so I told her that I was in love with her and because I couldn't let that go I was going to have to move on. That made sense to her so I ramped down and moved on. So it depends on the woman and what she wants. But I would think most wouldn't want to marry someone a lot older than them. If they did I'd mention very restrictive prenups, etc so they understood there would be no / limited financial benefit.

[Pau Ford]

We hadn't discussed $ yet so I was going in blind. I don't normally go in blind for this very reason reason, it could wind up being a waste of time but she was pushing to meet so I just rolled with it.

No, she's not my body type nor age preference and I would not have paid 500. She comes across super slutty DTF so I was willing to meet and assess things in person but 300 was the number I had in mind all along.

Unless that's your body type, I'm thinking $300-$350 tops. Have you tried to negotiate? A lot of girls start at $500 now. I recently had a $500 that turned into a $300. The girl has to have some worth. If it's not looks, it damn well better be menu.

Had plans to meet. She cancelled at the very last minute with some horseshit excuse. I wasn't going to reschedule but she was pushing pretty hard to meet so we set another meeting time. She ghosted. No call / no show.

Saw her on a different SD site she had different pics than on SA. She looks kinda chubby / dumpy so kind of glad meetings fell through.

[Big Penor]

Unless that's your body type, I'm thinking $300-$350 tops. Have you tried to negotiate? A lot of girls start at $500 now. I recently had a $500 that turned into a $300. The girl has to have some worth. If it's not looks, it damn well better be menu.

My type is large natural tits and a tone / tight waist (Can be average of slim). Not many women on seeking fit that body type.

I usually don't bother negotiating. I find so few women interesting on Seeking that I don't want to risk losing out on an opportunity.

[Witness2002]

Thanks for the info! Helps a ton!

[FafaFooey]

Curious for those of you who have had an SB and at some point ended it. How'd that go? Because really, that's the key part. Some of you have talked about how great it's going and the money and all that while also saying you know you're going to have to end it. That is the part where it can all go to hell. Because if she isn't ready for the allowance and gifts and all that to end, you could be looking at some major headaches. So, has anyone out here have an extended period with an SB and ended it and if so, how did it go? Really, isn't that why we see escorts and go to parlors, because when it's over it's over and we don't have to concern ourselves with any baggage? I agree that the good parts sound great, I'm just concerned about what the end game will be like and if that may ruin everything before it. But maybe I'm too cynical.

You should have lots of options to end it from your end if or when it gets to that point. Exactly how depends on the girl. If there's any hint of crazy / clingy ghosting may be the best option. This assumes like the other advice that you used burner contact points and didn't share personal info. If she knows a lot about you and doesn't want to let go, you're in trouble. With a more rational girl, especially if you know she's still playing the field, its probably 'nicer' to at least try an excuse like schedule changes at work, traveling, or even crying poor to give things a cleaner end. That also might leave that girl as a future option if you end up in a dry spell and want to scratch the itch with someone familiar.

I've had the same experience with the girls ending things. Luckily only been ghosted a few times by ones I wasn't that into. I've had a few others tell me they were moving or getting back with SOs from their past lives, and at least they didn't show up right back on the site so those stories seemed credible. The first SA girl I ever connected with I saw on and off for over 2 years and she checked a lot of the boxes for me. All along she told me she was using the money to finish a class and pay off some fines so she could get her license and find a job. I thought it was the usual BS the girls feed us so we feel better about paying for it. But lo and behold she actually used the money to finish a class, pay off fines, and get her license back. She would proudly send me pictures of her grades and receipts, and then she went and got a good job and had no more time to play. I was pretty upset about that one at the time, but it was a lot more positive ending than a lot of arrangements will be.

It'll always be an easy come, easy go game so keep your guard up personally, financially, and emotionally and don't be surprised by anything.

[Tkow70]

Had plans to meet. She cancelled at the very last minute with some horseshit excuse. I wasn't going to reschedule but she was pushing pretty hard to meet so we set another meeting time. She ghosted. No call / no show.

Saw her on a different SD site she had different pics than on SA. She looks kinda chubby / dumpy so kind of glad meetings fell through.

Unless that's your body type, I'm thinking $300-$350 tops. Have you tried to negotiate? A lot of girls start at $500 now. I recently had a $500 that turned into a $300. The girl has to have some worth. If it's not looks, it damn well better be menu.

[Baggio57]

He's dropped a good amount of wisdom and I agree on the ghosting. One girl that I connected with very well told me to just ghost if you want to end it. The GenZs ghost without a second thought and it seem like my (GenX) generation has some need to end things elegantly.

Have you read about employees that just stop showing up for work? It's crazy how much this younger generation just moves on. I recommend you learn from them.

That's a very good point on this generation and ghosting. I'm from the same 'clean break' generation. I'm also at the point in my life where I don't want to work that hard for pussy anymore, so the SB life prolly isn't for me. LOL. Thanks for the info guys.

[Pau Ford]

Had plans to meet. She cancelled at the very last minute with some horseshit excuse. I wasn't going to reschedule but she was pushing pretty hard to meet so we set another meeting time. She ghosted. No call / no show.

Saw her on a different SD site she had different pics than on SA. She looks kinda chubby / dumpy so kind of glad meetings fell through.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...5-a32f4083ffad

DTF, 5.

Anyone have the info on her? She seems like an escort.

[Big Penor]

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...5-a32f4083ffad

DTF, 5.

Anyone have the info on her? She seems like an escort.