Arrangement Reports

**Pau Ford** · 12-15-22 09:28

We hadn't discussed $ yet so I was going in blind. I don't normally go in blind for this very reason reason, it could wind up being a waste of time but she was pushing to meet so I just rolled with it.

No, she's not my body type nor age preference and I would not have paid 500. She comes across super slutty DTF so I was willing to meet and assess things in person but 300 was the number I had in mind all along.

Originally Posted by Tkow70 [View Original Post]

Unless that's your body type, I'm thinking $300-$350 tops. Have you tried to negotiate? A lot of girls start at $500 now. I recently had a $500 that turned into a $300. The girl has to have some worth. If it's not looks, it damn well better be menu.

Originally Posted by PauFord [View Original Post]

Had plans to meet. She cancelled at the very last minute with some horseshit excuse. I wasn't going to reschedule but she was pushing pretty hard to meet so we set another meeting time. She ghosted. No call / no show.

Saw her on a different SD site she had different pics than on SA. She looks kinda chubby / dumpy so kind of glad meetings fell through.

**Big Penor** · 12-15-22 09:13

Originally Posted by Tkow70 [View Original Post]

Unless that's your body type, I'm thinking $300-$350 tops. Have you tried to negotiate? A lot of girls start at $500 now. I recently had a $500 that turned into a $300. The girl has to have some worth. If it's not looks, it damn well better be menu.

My type is large natural tits and a tone / tight waist (Can be average of slim). Not many women on seeking fit that body type.

I usually don't bother negotiating. I find so few women interesting on Seeking that I don't want to risk losing out on an opportunity.

**Witness2002** · 12-15-22 08:00

Thanks for the info! Helps a ton!

**FafaFooey** · 12-14-22 22:50

Originally Posted by Baggio57 [View Original Post]

Curious for those of you who have had an SB and at some point ended it. How'd that go? Because really, that's the key part. Some of you have talked about how great it's going and the money and all that while also saying you know you're going to have to end it. That is the part where it can all go to hell. Because if she isn't ready for the allowance and gifts and all that to end, you could be looking at some major headaches. So, has anyone out here have an extended period with an SB and ended it and if so, how did it go? Really, isn't that why we see escorts and go to parlors, because when it's over it's over and we don't have to concern ourselves with any baggage? I agree that the good parts sound great, I'm just concerned about what the end game will be like and if that may ruin everything before it. But maybe I'm too cynical.

You should have lots of options to end it from your end if or when it gets to that point. Exactly how depends on the girl. If there's any hint of crazy / clingy ghosting may be the best option. This assumes like the other advice that you used burner contact points and didn't share personal info. If she knows a lot about you and doesn't want to let go, you're in trouble. With a more rational girl, especially if you know she's still playing the field, its probably 'nicer' to at least try an excuse like schedule changes at work, traveling, or even crying poor to give things a cleaner end. That also might leave that girl as a future option if you end up in a dry spell and want to scratch the itch with someone familiar.

I've had the same experience with the girls ending things. Luckily only been ghosted a few times by ones I wasn't that into. I've had a few others tell me they were moving or getting back with SOs from their past lives, and at least they didn't show up right back on the site so those stories seemed credible. The first SA girl I ever connected with I saw on and off for over 2 years and she checked a lot of the boxes for me. All along she told me she was using the money to finish a class and pay off some fines so she could get her license and find a job. I thought it was the usual BS the girls feed us so we feel better about paying for it. But lo and behold she actually used the money to finish a class, pay off fines, and get her license back. She would proudly send me pictures of her grades and receipts, and then she went and got a good job and had no more time to play. I was pretty upset about that one at the time, but it was a lot more positive ending than a lot of arrangements will be.

It'll always be an easy come, easy go game so keep your guard up personally, financially, and emotionally and don't be surprised by anything.

**Tkow70** · 12-14-22 22:43

Originally Posted by PauFord [View Original Post]

Had plans to meet. She cancelled at the very last minute with some horseshit excuse. I wasn't going to reschedule but she was pushing pretty hard to meet so we set another meeting time. She ghosted. No call / no show.

Saw her on a different SD site she had different pics than on SA. She looks kinda chubby / dumpy so kind of glad meetings fell through.

Unless that's your body type, I'm thinking $300-$350 tops. Have you tried to negotiate? A lot of girls start at $500 now. I recently had a $500 that turned into a $300. The girl has to have some worth. If it's not looks, it damn well better be menu.

**Baggio57** · 12-14-22 22:28

Originally Posted by DynoJr [View Original Post]

He's dropped a good amount of wisdom and I agree on the ghosting. One girl that I connected with very well told me to just ghost if you want to end it. The GenZs ghost without a second thought and it seem like my (GenX) generation has some need to end things elegantly.

Have you read about employees that just stop showing up for work? It's crazy how much this younger generation just moves on. I recommend you learn from them.

That's a very good point on this generation and ghosting. I'm from the same 'clean break' generation. I'm also at the point in my life where I don't want to work that hard for pussy anymore, so the SB life prolly isn't for me. LOL. Thanks for the info guys.

**Pau Ford** · 12-14-22 21:58

Had plans to meet. She cancelled at the very last minute with some horseshit excuse. I wasn't going to reschedule but she was pushing pretty hard to meet so we set another meeting time. She ghosted. No call / no show.

Saw her on a different SD site she had different pics than on SA. She looks kinda chubby / dumpy so kind of glad meetings fell through.

Originally Posted by BigPenor [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...5-a32f4083ffad

DTF, 5.

Anyone have the info on her? She seems like an escort.

**Big Penor** · 12-14-22 20:58

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...5-a32f4083ffad

DTF, 5.

Anyone have the info on her? She seems like an escort.

**DynoJr** · 12-14-22 20:06

Originally Posted by PauFord [View Original Post]

You are over thinking it big time. While you certainly can get attached to someone over time you'd be surprised how quickly anyone can be forgotten. And you can be replaced just as quickly. This applies to both the guys and the girls. Dive back into SA and boom, you've got new pussy (or $$ source if a SB) to replace the old.

I've had a number of arrangements, too many to count, that were a few months to a 2+ years (and counting) and they've all ended fine. 90% of the time things end when someone ghosts. Ghosting sucks but it's very easy, no (or very minimal) drama, and the other person eventually gets the hint and goes away.

Rule #1 - never stick your dick in crazy. If you don't let a crazy chick into your life to begin with you never have to worry about the consequences of fucking her.

He's dropped a good amount of wisdom and I agree on the ghosting. One girl that I connected with very well told me to just ghost if you want to end it. The GenZs ghost without a second thought and it seem like my (GenX) generation has some need to end things elegantly.

Have you read about employees that just stop showing up for work? It's crazy how much this younger generation just moves on. I recommend you learn from them.

**DynoJr** · 12-14-22 20:00

Originally Posted by DWill [View Original Post]

Hey man great write up. Couple of things if I read this correctly at one point you were spitting out over 4 gs a month. First off good on you. I make a really good living but no way could I ever find 4 k a month, hell 3 k a month to spit out on the hobby. I couldn't get that much excess spending pass the Warden if I tried. You being single I'm sure plays a huge role in that expenditure. Lastly the more important question. How much "fishing" as you put it did you have to do and was it all on SA? I have to be honest I've had 2 long term arrangements in the past, one just ended a couple months ago and they were both 250 ppm everything goes and I mean everything. I would stack their looks up against any girl on the market. So I say that say it doesn't have to be 400-500 to find quality which is why I'm interested in where you did your fishing the most.

Good write up.

It seems like $500 is the target for everyone I talk to. Some will negotiate down, one I'm seeing I agreed to because she is literally a model with my exact body type. There's another I see for $300 that has lasted for over a year. She's got more rules but probably a 7 face on an 8 body. Both girls are 30 yo, the younger ones seem to think they should make more than they deserve but just aren't skilled enough to get it. My 2 $.

**DWill** · 12-14-22 18:01

Originally Posted by BillUnderwood [View Original Post]

I just entered into a monthly arrangement with a 22 year old former track athlete. Half Polish, half German in a total smoke show however, it is new so we will see how it goes. The monthly amount is $2,400 but with the understanding that she might need a couple hundred more some months just for a little extra spending money. We saw each other three out of the last five days and quickly discussed moving from PPM to a monthly as ppm at the rate I was seeing her would have bankrupted me. Like I said, we will see how it goes. As I have recently been interviewing, I also saw another 22-year-old, very artsy, but her ADHD makes time in bed a real handful, although she is down for anything. Costs $450 PPM plus Uber from the city and back which adds another $120 plus if we go out. In addition, I have started to see a 32 year old school teacher who is super cute and a lot of fun but that is also $450 ppm. I like the 32-year-old the most, but it simply becomes a time and cost issue. I have another I see that is also 32 years old, very pretty Polish girl, but sometimes she drinks heavily and her home life is complicated. I have seen her the longest, almost 18 months but infrequent maybe once a month and no longer provide her with any income when we see each other. The last one that I have also seen recently was also for over a year 22 y / o Polish girl and I would give her 400 for the first visit during the week and 300 for the second if there was a second. I have found most are OK with $400 to $500 ppm. Anyone willing to accept less is probably not worth it, nor anyone looking for more would not be any better than what I am finding at that price point.

I recently concluded a seven month arrangement / relationship with a beautiful 26 year old Special Education Teacher. It started at 500 ppm but then we went to a monthly and she wanted to see me often and I did not feel like becoming bankrupt.

Hey man great write up. Couple of things if I read this correctly at one point you were spitting out over 4 gs a month. First off good on you. I make a really good living but no way could I ever find 4 k a month, hell 3 k a month to spit out on the hobby. I couldn't get that much excess spending pass the Warden if I tried. You being single I'm sure plays a huge role in that expenditure. Lastly the more important question. How much "fishing" as you put it did you have to do and was it all on SA? I have to be honest I've had 2 long term arrangements in the past, one just ended a couple months ago and they were both 250 ppm everything goes and I mean everything. I would stack their looks up against any girl on the market. So I say that say it doesn't have to be 400-500 to find quality which is why I'm interested in where you did your fishing the most.

Good write up.

**Pau Ford** · 12-14-22 17:23

You are over thinking it big time. While you certainly can get attached to someone over time you'd be surprised how quickly anyone can be forgotten. And you can be replaced just as quickly. This applies to both the guys and the girls. Dive back into SA and boom, you've got new pussy (or $$ source if a SB) to replace the old.

I've had a number of arrangements, too many to count, that were a few months to a 2+ years (and counting) and they've all ended fine. 90% of the time things end when someone ghosts. Ghosting sucks but it's very easy, no (or very minimal) drama, and the other person eventually gets the hint and goes away.

Rule #1 - never stick your dick in crazy. If you don't let a crazy chick into your life to begin with you never have to worry about the consequences of fucking her.

Originally Posted by Baggio57 [View Original Post]

Curious for those of you who have had an SB and at some point ended it. How'd that go? Because really, that's the key part. Some of you have talked about how great it's going and the money and all that while also saying you know you're going to have to end it. That is the part where it can all go to hell. Because if she isn't ready for the allowance and gifts and all that to end, you could be looking at some major headaches. So, has anyone out here have an extended period with an SB and ended it and if so, how did it go? Really, isn't that why we see escorts and go to parlors, because when it's over it's over and we don't have to concern ourselves with any baggage? I agree that the good parts sound great, I'm just concerned about what the end game will be like and if that may ruin everything before it. But maybe I'm too cynical.

**BaltoMan66** · 12-14-22 16:55

Originally Posted by Baggio57 [View Original Post]

Curious for those of you who have had an SB and at some point ended it. How'd that go? Because really, that's the key part. Some of you have talked about how great it's going and the money and all that while also saying you know you're going to have to end it. That is the part where it can all go to hell. Because if she isn't ready for the allowance and gifts and all that to end, you could be looking at some major headaches. So, has anyone out here have an extended period with an SB and ended it and if so, how did it go? Really, isn't that why we see escorts and go to parlors, because when it's over it's over and we don't have to concern ourselves with any baggage? I agree that the good parts sound great, I'm just concerned about what the end game will be like and if that may ruin everything before it. But maybe I'm too cynical.

I understand your question. While the ladies we meet can be all kinds of nice and fun, they tend to display immaturity or selfishness too. They try to hide it, but I find it comes out eventually. This mixture, in my opinion, can be dangerous for a guy on SA who also has a life (wife). I enter each arrangement thinking about a safe exit. And by that I mean that I set up all facts so that I can disappear at any moment. I use my middle name, which I never use professionally. I tell them I am from a different place than reality. Made up where I was born, grew up, went to school, etc. They don't know my last name either. I use a burner number (of course). I am afraid that someone would want to go scorched earth upon break up. I haven't experienced that yet, but it doesn't mean it can't happen. Most times, you just have a long gap in communication that doesn't link up again.

I had one SB that I saw off and on for almost 5 years (from her being 27-32). She had her issues, but man was she smart, sexy, and just kinky enough. I am pretty sure in real life she likes an older guy. I count myself as lucky because while I am older (58) I am tall, fit, and surprisingly, ladies think I'm pretty good looking. And a larger than average cock with good know how of the female body gives me a plus if we get to play. I love making women cum, over and over. That'll get you plus points every time LOL. But I digress.

Build your exit plan when you start, just in case.

**RitTigers** · 12-14-22 16:03

Originally Posted by RitTigers [View Original Post]

Hi,

Just wanted to check if anyone have experience with her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...5-9da3502a13f3

Thank you in advance.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...5-9da3502a13f3

**FarFarAway** · 12-14-22 14:19

Originally Posted by Baggio57 [View Original Post]

Curious for those of you who have had an SB and at some point ended it. How'd that go? Because really, that's the key part. Some of you have talked about how great it's going and the money and all that while also saying you know you're going to have to end it. That is the part where it can all go to hell. Because if she isn't ready for the allowance and gifts and all that to end, you could be looking at some major headaches. So, has anyone out here have an extended period with an SB and ended it and if so, how did it go? Really, isn't that why we see escorts and go to parlors, because when it's over it's over and we don't have to concern ourselves with any baggage? I agree that the good parts sound great, I'm just concerned about what the end game will be like and if that may ruin everything before it. But maybe I'm too cynical.

If you've been seeing someone for a few months, you ought to have the sort of relationship that you can phone her and tell her you are stopping, and why. These aren't relationships that are made to last, everyone understands that. The only question is when. I did that with all of the people I broke it off with. This is just a part of the respect I gave them that made the arrangement work for me. If I saw someone just once or twice, and it wasn't worth continuing, I don't have any problem just ghosting.

I had seen a young MILF a couple of times, and I didn't think she was into me. No BJ at all and no DFK. She contacted me again, after a gap in time, and I said exactly what the problem was. She said she didn't realize that was what I wanted. Yeah right. However, she was active in pursuing me after that point, and I FCed her Friday. I had a much much better time.