Seeking Arrangements

**MinorLeague** · 12-13-22 16:51

Originally Posted by Mfp79 [View Original Post]

Anyone get these lately? Seems to be someone threatening to out SDs to their families. Not engaging with them, but curious if others are seeing this.

You're getting messages via SMS or on SA? I haven't gotten any but also haven't played in a while. I use a burner for texts and Intelius a girl before meeting. Depending on the vibe I'm getting sometimes I ask the girl to send me their I'd beforehand or even in person before going somewhere private.

**MinorLeague** · 12-13-22 16:44

Originally Posted by EasiePeasie [View Original Post]

Do not know what other men do but I copied what many women reveal. I have one public pic in front of a mirror with camera and both hands hiding my facial features. Other pics showing my face are set to private. Have only been a member for 3 weeks but learned right away to never send private pics to someone who requested access before texting enough to demonstrate they aren't phishing for identification clues.

Do not use pics on social media. And you can wait for the next sale which happen frequently. My cost was 200 for 3 months, which I think will be enough time to find good regulars.

Years ago I used a fake photo I found off Facebook but it caused more issues than it helped. I don't use social media in my civilian life. I tried Diamond SA but wasn't worth it. On AM I use a blurred photo but on SA these days I just don't use a photo, make all mine private, and in my profile I tell girls if they want to see photos just ask me.

**EasiePeasie** · 12-13-22 14:03

Originally Posted by Newbie978 [View Original Post]

I have talked to this girl in the past on Seeking, she wanted a crazy amount of money like $600 for an hour. Too rich for my blood.

When I moved from SA to texting with her she also asked 600 plus I would need a hotel with her. Two other women in mid-late 30's also asked 600 but they accepted 400, could host, and were more attractive. So I told this one good luck.

**IAmDreaman35** · 12-13-22 06:47

Originally Posted by EasiePeasie [View Original Post]

Do not know what other men do but I copied what many women reveal. I have one public pic in front of a mirror with camera and both hands hiding my facial features. Other pics showing my face are set to private. Have only been a member for 3 weeks but learned right away to never send private pics to someone who requested access before texting enough to demonstrate they aren't phishing for identification clues.

Do not use pics on social media. And you can wait for the next sale which happen frequently. My cost was 200 for 3 months, which I think will be enough time to find good regulars.

Understood. Thank you EasiePeasie for the tips. 200 for three months is definitely a good deal.

**EasiePeasie** · 12-13-22 06:31

Originally Posted by IAmDreaman35 [View Original Post]

Question for you guys who monger but are single? I am new to seeking and currently deciding if I want to pay the monthly upgrade fee of $109 a month, so I am able to message females on seeking (starting to get tired of the escort sites.) Do you all upload your real photo's or leave that part of your profile completely blank on seeking arrangements?

Do not know what other men do but I copied what many women reveal. I have one public pic in front of a mirror with camera and both hands hiding my facial features. Other pics showing my face are set to private. Have only been a member for 3 weeks but learned right away to never send private pics to someone who requested access before texting enough to demonstrate they aren't phishing for identification clues.

Do not use pics on social media. And you can wait for the next sale which happen frequently. My cost was 200 for 3 months, which I think will be enough time to find good regulars.

**Gianni Versace** · 12-12-22 23:43

Originally Posted by EasyGoingJ [View Original Post]

It was several years ago but the same thing happened to me so I guess it's a long-standing policy to prevent spam / bots.

I contacted customer support and hey lifted the restrictions.

**Vish23** · 12-12-22 23:22

Originally Posted by IAmDreaman35 [View Original Post]

Question for you guys who monger but are single? I am new to seeking and currently deciding if I want to pay the monthly upgrade fee of $109 a month, so I am able to message females on seeking (starting to get tired of the escort sites.) Do you all upload your real photo's or leave that part of your profile completely blank on seeking arrangements?

I am single and I use my real photos. I also recently subscribed to that and seeing my first date tomorrow. I don't see a reason not to use my original photos because I am single anyway and don't have much to lose.

**IAmDreaman35** · 12-12-22 22:59

Question for you guys who monger but are single? I am new to seeking and currently deciding if I want to pay the monthly upgrade fee of $109 a month, so I am able to message females on seeking (starting to get tired of the escort sites.) Do you all upload your real photo's or leave that part of your profile completely blank on seeking arrangements?

**JohnnyFive85** · 12-12-22 22:18

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**JDeller** · 12-12-22 18:37

For me the repeat issue is simply the question did she deliver and was she fun to be with? I have done one offs, less than five meets, greater than 20 meets. Usually the repeats die out because schedules don't line up or she just doesn't meet the grade in some area or the ppm is just unsustainable. The one long term I had evolved into a quasi relationship / paid mistress (perhaps too much emotionally involved on both ends) but she was totally fine with me seeing others. However, I never had a psycho engaging in stalking behavior like you did.

Originally Posted by FairPlay [View Original Post]

Curious when you guys find a girl how often you repeat with them? Do you make it a quasi relationship? Do they take their profile down? Some girls are ok with one offs, other want a long term arrangement but basically its "a don't ask don't tell" on what you guys do when you're not seeing each other, and then others are basically looking for. Whatever they consider this to be as an exclusive relationship. I got involved with this one girl and she'd drive by my house and then ask me the next day where I was at night. Just curious what your experience is.

**Joe1223** · 12-12-22 15:01

Originally Posted by FairPlay [View Original Post]

Curious when you guys find a girl how often you repeat with them? Do you make it a quasi relationship? Do they take their profile down? Some girls are ok with one offs, other want a long term arrangement but basically its "a don't ask don't tell" on what you guys do when you're not seeing each other, and then others are basically looking for. Whatever they consider this to be as an exclusive relationship. I got involved with this one girl and she'd drive by my house and then ask me the next day where I was at night. Just curious what your experience is.

I prefer a longer term deal especially if she checks all the boxes for what I look for and if she can host then I hang on as long as possible. I have only had a few that I would bring home and that home was a second home not the primary home. I always use fake profiles and name aka vanilla Joe, when interacting with the ladies. My priority is discretion and I am always worried about that surprise knock on the door. The down side of my long term arrangements is that I develop a more of a friend relationship only because it becomes so comfortable it can feel like a gf / bf thing. That is why I am very reluctant to go to dinner or out in public after the initial M&G. That's usually when I start a new search or they start to want a real BF so they start to pull away. In my experience ladies 30+ tend to be more relationship searching vs the college girls who are just looking for some fun money. You should definitely keep your private life separate unless you are single than who cares.

**DarkClouds** · 12-12-22 10:14

This is why I never bring anyone home. I'd rather pay the extra cost of grabbing a spot. Also, I rarely repeat. Even though I pay lip service to that idea when I first meet them. It takes a very special girl for me to repeat. In most cases, as they become more familiar they start taking you for granted and their behavior spiral downward. There's nothing quite like that first meeting when they're on their best behavior. Also I can't seem to find the same excitement in repeated meetings. After all the reason I am in this hobby is because I'm not looking for a steady date.

Originally Posted by FairPlay [View Original Post]

Curious when you guys find a girl how often you repeat with them? Do you make it a quasi relationship? Do they take their profile down? Some girls are ok with one offs, other want a long term arrangement but basically its "a don't ask don't tell" on what you guys do when you're not seeing each other, and then others are basically looking for. Whatever they consider this to be as an exclusive relationship. I got involved with this one girl and she'd drive by my house and then ask me the next day where I was at night. Just curious what your experience is.

**FairPlay** · 12-12-22 10:02

Curious when you guys find a girl how often you repeat with them? Do you make it a quasi relationship? Do they take their profile down? Some girls are ok with one offs, other want a long term arrangement but basically its "a don't ask don't tell" on what you guys do when you're not seeing each other, and then others are basically looking for. Whatever they consider this to be as an exclusive relationship. I got involved with this one girl and she'd drive by my house and then ask me the next day where I was at night. Just curious what your experience is.

**Gianni Versace** · 12-11-22 20:31

Originally Posted by DarkClouds [View Original Post]

There might be exceptions but the point you're missing is that in general $100 will get you a bottom of the barrel girl. And, honestly, SA is the wrong place to look for that. Generally speaking, as you move up the barrel you will pay more for a higher quality girl. I'm not advocating that we overpay. Just that if you want to be in an environment where the girl looks super hot, you're in clean and pleasant environment, and she isn't in a rush to get her next fix (they will often spend several hours with you), then you can't keep repeating the $100 mantra. Again, yes, there will be exceptions and unicorns (girls who deserve more but agree to $100). Those will be rare and mostly dependent on the relationship you've developed with them. If the girl is doing $100 with everyone then she isn't a unicorn. She's an addict. Or very new and hasn't learned the market.

The trick is to get the girl who is very new and has not learned the market now. Also historically around this time it is slower for sex workers which is why if you have noticed I have signed up for SA around the holidays for less competition and girls needing more money. Also my bread and butter is usually single moms. That is not bottom of the barrel. I did meet an addict once in Lynn who was staying at a recovery home that I did not enjoy.