Seeking Arrangements

[Newbie978]

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...e-874c18f12111

Would love her fet life account. I'm friends with a lot of girls on FetLife. Some dudes too.

I have talked to this girl in the past on Seeking, she wanted a crazy amount of money like $600 for an hour. Too rich for my blood.

[DarkClouds]

There might be exceptions but the point you're missing is that in general $100 will get you a bottom of the barrel girl. And, honestly, SA is the wrong place to look for that. Generally speaking, as you move up the barrel you will pay more for a higher quality girl. I'm not advocating that we overpay. Just that if you want to be in an environment where the girl looks super hot, you're in clean and pleasant environment, and she isn't in a rush to get her next fix (they will often spend several hours with you), then you can't keep repeating the $100 mantra. Again, yes, there will be exceptions and unicorns (girls who deserve more but agree to $100). Those will be rare and mostly dependent on the relationship you've developed with them. If the girl is doing $100 with everyone then she isn't a unicorn. She's an addict. Or very new and hasn't learned the market.

Again the point of my post is to show you all that paying between $100-$150 is possible. If I post pics or link to their profiles it does me no good because I will essentially ruin my arrangement with the sb when most of you guys are offering to pay her more money.

[Gianni Versace]

It was several years ago but the same thing happened to me so I guess it's a long-standing policy to prevent spam / bots.

This is strange because when I was on this time last year I never ran into these problems. Hopefully customer service lifts the restrictions.

[EasyGoingJ]

So I signed up for Seeking last night and was excited to put in the work to finding a new sugar baby. The problem I encountered for the first time being on the site is not being able to send anymore messages for 24 hours because I sent too many messages too quickly? LOL.

This is the error message I received.

"You've sent too many messages, too quickly, and must wait up to 24 hours before you can send them again. If you believe you've received this message in error, please reach out to customer support. ".

Has anyone else experienced this problem? I can not even reply to any of the messages I have received.

It was several years ago but the same thing happened to me so I guess it's a long-standing policy to prevent spam / bots.

[Mfp79]

Anyone get these lately? Seems to be someone threatening to out SDs to their families. Not engaging with them, but curious if others are seeing this.

[TrentWilliams]

So I signed up for Seeking last night and was excited to put in the work to finding a new sugar baby. The problem I encountered for the first time being on the site is not being able to send anymore messages for 24 hours because I sent too many messages too quickly? LOL.

This is the error message I received.

"You've sent too many messages, too quickly, and must wait up to 24 hours before you can send them again. If you believe you've received this message in error, please reach out to customer support. ".

Has anyone else experienced this problem? I can not even reply to any of the messages I have received.

Yes, I've sent too many messages too quickly before and was restricted for 24 hours. You can email and they will unrestricted but sometimes the 24 hours is up before they respond.

Also to touch on the discussion you've been having. 150-250 girls were much easier to find a few years ago. "SB inflation" is def real and I've been getting most girls asking for 400-600 these days. I just moved up here from south Florida and surprisingly the girls up here are asking for more $$.

[DarkClouds]

You were probably trying to spam as many girls as possible to maximize your 1 month subscription. They're on to you. Also they don't know if you're a spammer.

So I signed up for Seeking last night and was excited to put in the work to finding a new sugar baby. The problem I encountered for the first time being on the site is not being able to send anymore messages for 24 hours because I sent too many messages too quickly? LOL.

This is the error message I received.

"You've sent too many messages, too quickly, and must wait up to 24 hours before you can send them again. If you believe you've received this message in error, please reach out to customer support. ".

Has anyone else experienced this problem? I can not even reply to any of the messages I have received.

[Gianni Versace]

So I signed up for Seeking last night and was excited to put in the work to finding a new sugar baby. The problem I encountered for the first time being on the site is not being able to send anymore messages for 24 hours because I sent too many messages too quickly? LOL.

This is the error message I received.

"You've sent too many messages, too quickly, and must wait up to 24 hours before you can send them again. If you believe you've received this message in error, please reach out to customer support. ".

Has anyone else experienced this problem? I can not even reply to any of the messages I have received.

[Joe1223]

Thank you sir. I was thinking of trying to counteroffer half what they initially ask but was concerned that I wouldn't get any takers. My hesitancy may have been due to a couple women that I texted with first who wouldn't budge. To clarify two things: Did you mean to suggest offering 200 or 250 if they ask for 600 in the hosting example, because I reported being able to get to 300 with first counteroffer with two who asked for 400? And yeah, I just mentioned getting a hotel and inflated what it would cost. I mentioned dayuse just for discussion here.

The rates have increased dramatically over the past years so finding a hot young willing lady at $200 is definitely a unicorn or possibly an addict. Everyone has their limitations of what they are willing to f. If the girl fits what you find attractive then pay the 400 for the first time and negotiate a better rate for repeat visits. Some girls just want dependability with a decent guy. If you are a troll or very old then you may always have to pay a higher toll to play. I had a girl demand a 1000 and I politely declined but eventually she came back to the table and we ended up at 300 and it was about a year long thing. She eventually moved away but when she comes home to visit we still meetup.

I have paid a higher rate than what I would typically do just to get a taste. Sometimes we agree to a sustainable rate sometimes not. I do like the girls under 30 and my sweet spot is 20-24 but these girls do think they are worth a lot more. The most I ever paid was 400 for the initial visit but never repeat at that rate.

[EasiePeasie]

If they say 400 with host, then counter with 200 or 250. Should end up at 300. For the other scenario I wouldn't mention day use. If they say 400 counter with 200 saying a decent hotel is close to 200 a night now. Oftentimes they don't even know about day use rates.

Thank you sir. I was thinking of trying to counteroffer half what they initially ask but was concerned that I wouldn't get any takers. My hesitancy may have been due to a couple women that I texted with first who wouldn't budge. To clarify two things: Did you mean to suggest offering 200 or 250 if they ask for 600 in the hosting example, because I reported being able to get to 300 with first counteroffer with two who asked for 400? And yeah, I just mentioned getting a hotel and inflated what it would cost. I mentioned dayuse just for discussion here.

[JDeller]

If they say 400 with host, then counter with 200 or 250. Should end up at 300. For the other scenario I wouldn't mention day use. If they say 400 counter with 200 saying a decent hotel is close to 200 a night now. Oftentimes they don't even know about day use rates.

Yeah, I have already started to arrange dates with women who both asked for 400 but could not host so I got them to agree to 300 by saying I would pay for a dayuse hotel near them. My question was about how to get the all-in cost down to 300 instead of 400. Do the ones who host fir 300 ask for more than 400 so you negotiate aggressively or do they ask for 400 or less?

[Gianni Versace]

Using terms like "you can pop twice" tells me this isn't her first rodeo. I wouldn't be too worried about other guys seeing her because there is a good chance she is already doing that.

For many of you that know me know that I stopped paying a girl for their time a long time ago. But I rather pay them for atleast 2 pops. If they are late sometimes I make them give me an extra pop. So when she told me she'll give me 2 pops its because it is expected already and she was being playful and cute. LOL.

[GerogeohWell]

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...6-408df7a43ab6

Chatted with this one for a bit. Looks promising, she does ppm at hotels. Just wondering if she's actually a pro or if anyone have any info who want to pm me before I meet with her?

Met with her and can verify she's real. Definitely not new to this and seems to see multiple people per week. She told me not to post too much so I will leave it at that. Treat her well.

[EasiePeasie]

Again the point of my post is to show you all that paying between $100-$150 is possible. If I post pics or link to their profiles it does me no good because I will essentially ruin my arrangement with the sb when most of you guys are offering to pay her more money.

I understand your poaching concern and, speaking for myself, do not need to see pics or links. But eager to see an example text interchange that succeeds in bringing an initial request of 400 or more down to 200. As a SA newbie, I'm wondering if lengthier or more assertive texting on price works. Best I've done is get 600 ask for 400 with 2 women who can host, and 400 ask for 300 with two women who cannot host.

[Spike77]

The point of my screenshot from 2020 was A so the chances of my sb seeing the interaction regarding price 2 years ago will be slim. I have pretty high taste in women. I would rather jerk off than see an unattractive woman. Here is another interaction with one my SB's this morning. I normally pay her $100 and she hosts. She asked me for $115 for today and I am ok with that. Again I can't post pics or link to her profile or else it will screw up my arrangement with her when a lot of you guys pay her $250+.

Using terms like "you can pop twice" tells me this isn't her first rodeo. I wouldn't be too worried about other guys seeing her because there is a good chance she is already doing that.