Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[Chudakkad]

A longtime UTR / SB recently tried to change the time of one of our meetings (this happens often with her) but then (for the first time) pulled the Venmo crap. Keep in mind that this is someone I have seen maybe 25 times. (Maybe more).

I told her we were meeting at the arranged time and that I do not Venmo.

The appointment went on as initially scheduled.

You the man!!

[JackTaggart]

On SA I have experienced many 'almost' last minute cancellations due to them being on the rag. I always respond that if it doesn't bother them it doesn't bother me. They seem to appreciate that attitude and most of the time we meet as planned and have a great time.

I thought of doing that just to see, but probably over half of my enjoyment is going down on a woman for a long period of time, so it's kinda an inefficient use of money for me if I will only have sex and get a BJ. I won't go down on a random woman on her period.

[OldPup]

Has anyone met with her? I have been chatting with her on Snapchat for a few weeks on and off. We keep making plans and then she flakes. One time she said she got her period, so it wouldn't be good to meet. But then keeps messaging. No request for money.

She also has her location on full time, so I see where she is all the time between Hamden and Branford. Same typical locations.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...c-ec9c1e97ff6c

On SA I have experienced many 'almost' last minute cancellations due to them being on the rag. I always respond that if it doesn't bother them it doesn't bother me. They seem to appreciate that attitude and most of the time we meet as planned and have a great time.

[Sutigel2]

A longtime UTR / SB recently tried to change the time of one of our meetings (this happens often with her) but then (for the first time) pulled the Venmo crap. Keep in mind that this is someone I have seen maybe 25 times. (Maybe more).

I told her we were meeting at the arranged time and that I do not Venmo.

The appointment went on as initially scheduled.

[BlueFox141]

Rule #1: don't respond to any girls who don't post full body pics in their profile. They are fat 100% of the time. Really fat.

I haven't been an SA member for maybe 10 months, but was on for over two years prior to that and can think of two girls who didn't have full body photos, but weren't even close to being fat, let alone very fat. The first there was no mutual interest so we never met. The second, had a number of face shots only. I had dinner with her three times, but she was just too scared to pull the trigger. I really would have loved to hook up with her. Texted her a few times after that but she stopped responding. I very well possibly had more, but that standard wasn't anything I was concerned about, so I'm not sure. Now as far as #1 Rule, I would say it would have to be about money, specifically "Never prepay for anything, ever- Cashapp, Venmo, PayPal. That would be my opinion based on my meager experience, as opposed to yours.

Be careful out there.

Blue.

[LouisHernandez]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...1-7d814965dfe6

This one started sending me messages last month. Gave some basic banter for about 2 weeks then I asked her to upload a full body pic to the site. Wouldn't do it so I cut contact. Body type says Slim but I'm convinced she's fat.

Rule #1: don't respond to any girls who don't post full body pics in their profile. They are fat 100% of the time. Really fat.

[TopGun9]

Don't waste your time with this one. Been talking with her on SA but today I noticed she has an ad on STG asking for deposits.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...a-4b5562043f8a

https://hartford.skipthegames.com/fe...i/739350668781

Report her to SA, shut her down.

[BBFreak]

Don't waste your time with this one. Been talking with her on SA but today I noticed she has an ad on STG asking for deposits.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...a-4b5562043f8a

https://hartford.skipthegames.com/fe...i/739350668781

[JackTaggart]

I posted about her July of 2020 post #2561. She seemed to be playing games with me, and a couple others posted the same thing. I think I recall someone had said they had seen her, but I could not find it in the thread. She's been on seeking for quite a while. I think it strokes her ego too lead guys on.

Blue.

Thanks. I forgot that seeking profiles had usernames that I could use to search.

The location being on 24/7 really confuses me. Oh well.

[BlueFox141]

Has anyone met with her? I have been chatting with her on Snapchat for a few weeks on and off. We keep making plans and then she flakes. One time she said she got her period, so it wouldn't be good to meet. But then keeps messaging. No request for money.

She also has her location on full time, so I see where she is all the time between Hamden and Branford. Same typical locations.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...c-ec9c1e97ff6c

I posted about her July of 2020 post #2561. She seemed to be playing games with me, and a couple others posted the same thing. I think I recall someone had said they had seen her, but I could not find it in the thread. She's been on seeking for quite a while. I think it strokes her ego too lead guys on.

Blue.

[JackTaggart]

Has anyone met with her? I have been chatting with her on Snapchat for a few weeks on and off. We keep making plans and then she flakes. One time she said she got her period, so it wouldn't be good to meet. But then keeps messaging. No request for money.

She also has her location on full time, so I see where she is all the time between Hamden and Branford. Same typical locations.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...c-ec9c1e97ff6c

[TopGun9]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...1-7d814965dfe6

This one started sending me messages last month. Gave some basic banter for about 2 weeks then I asked her to upload a full body pic to the site. Wouldn't do it so I cut contact. Body type says Slim but I'm convinced she's fat.

She's definitely fat.

Talked to her several times many years ago, she's def been on SA way before 2020. And over the years, I can see she has been putting on additional weights.

She has always been a time waster, but maybe other guys had better luck and actually fucked her. She's on my ignore list.

[JackTaggart]

For deffo she's "fluffy". Maybe her fingers are slim.

I spent a lot of time in South America this year. At first I was filtering out all the curvy girls on seeking because here it usually means morbidly obese / rolls. There it usually means slim but with a nice ass.

[Yuk Phu]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...1-7d814965dfe6

This one started sending me messages last month. Gave some basic banter for about 2 weeks then I asked her to upload a full body pic to the site. Wouldn't do it so I cut contact. Body type says Slim but I'm convinced she's fat.

For deffo she's "fluffy". Maybe her fingers are slim.

[Buck Cock]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...1-7d814965dfe6

This one started sending me messages last month. Gave some basic banter for about 2 weeks then I asked her to upload a full body pic to the site. Wouldn't do it so I cut contact. Body type says Slim but I'm convinced she's fat.