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[DotHill]

Recently, on Seeking, I have noted & experienced a scam by Asian women. I don't know the end result yet, however, it's extremely scammy. Others may have already experienced this & have been further into the scam. Currently, this has happened with about 4 women. The same base scenario is below. But here's how it works:

Connection: An Asian woman with pictures that seem real, will reach out to you via Seeking.

Off Platform: Either they quickly get off the platform and are quite willing to chat on regular text, WhatsApp, Telegram. Sometimes even Snapchat. They then end up deleting their account, so they can focus "solely on you".

Their Story: Each of them have a range of stories around the same general idea.

1. They want to develop a relationship slowly with you, because their last relationship, they caught their ex, supposedly on camera. (which is why they won't do video chat sometimes).

2. They will take pictures & send them to you daily, showing what there eating, going to the gym. Say they post them to Instagram, but won't give you the link.

3. They say they have a business, usually in the "design industry", or they work for as a "Designer" in some field. Designer of Jewelry, or designer of clothes. But they can't give out the business name or the business doesn't have a website. They say they only work with Royals and top celebrities, got to keep their clients privacy. LOL. I show them 5 people online who started a jewelry or clothing brand, who are doing extremely well, selling to celebrities. There statements are usually, well our designers make $1 million a year. (I'm like okay, do the math.)

4. They'll talk about how a parent or relative recently died, but there "uncle' or another type of family member taught them about business, and taught them about investing. Specifically about Crypto or currency trading. Weird because they tend to talk about the line "profit of 15% - 25% Saying it multiple times in a conversation is big red flag.

5. They get mad if you don't respond to their messages daily. But, at the same time, won't answer your own questions.

6. "Some" will do a live video chat. However, I believe it to be faked, given that the quality video through WhatsApp is grainy. That's not usually the case w / WhatsApp. I've even done the video feature on seeking. It's actually pretty high quality, & that was between a computer & iPhone during peak hours.

7. At some point, they'll tell you some type of sob-story how they tried to help out their company or their business by taking cash from their "trading account" to help out their employees, and to cover losses during "Covid."

Overall, it's some type of long-term play. I have yet to find the end result. But, currently, I do still communicate w / them to see how far it will end up. But I wanted to reach out to anyone here, if they've experienced this, cause you may have only been contacted by one person. I've got 4 on the hook. One, got angry at me, because she thought I would steal her Instagram account, and she wouldn't give me the link. Because I told her, "you're scared of me receiving a live photo" but you create photos & videos to supposedly a million followers who don't know you at all." She was hella pissed, and was like, and then the broken English sentences started coming.

Anyone experience this?

They will eventually lead you to open a trading account with their fake 'broker'. First they will trade along with you on a buy signal that was shared by their 'uncle' or 'dad'. You will see that those sessions would have made you a lot of money depending on the lot size you commit to. Then comes the real money transfer to their 'broker'. That would be the last time you will ever see your money! This is well documented modus operandi. Google it. Run away from such set up. You will waste money as well as time and emotions.

[Longjblues]

PetiteBaby, 34,5'1, thin, Boston, actually located in Danvers, quoted $350, and hosting.

I apologize for lack of link. Any info on this one? Anyone recognize?

[Joe1223]

Recently, on Seeking, I have noted & experienced a scam by Asian women. I don't know the end result yet, however, it's extremely scammy. Others may have already experienced this & have been further into the scam. Currently, this has happened with about 4 women. The same base scenario is below. But here's how it works:

Connection: An Asian woman with pictures that seem real, will reach out to you via Seeking.

Off Platform: Either they quickly get off the platform and are quite willing to chat on regular text, WhatsApp, Telegram. Sometimes even Snapchat. They then end up deleting their account, so they can focus "solely on you".

Their Story: Each of them have a range of stories around the same general idea.

1. They want to develop a relationship slowly with you, because their last relationship, they caught their ex, supposedly on camera. (which is why they won't do video chat sometimes).

2. They will take pictures & send them to you daily, showing what there eating, going to the gym. Say they post them to Instagram, but won't give you the link.

3. They say they have a business, usually in the "design industry", or they work for as a "Designer" in some field. Designer of Jewelry, or designer of clothes. But they can't give out the business name or the business doesn't have a website. They say they only work with Royals and top celebrities, got to keep their clients privacy. LOL. I show them 5 people online who started a jewelry or clothing brand, who are doing extremely well, selling to celebrities. There statements are usually, well our designers make $1 million a year. (I'm like okay, do the math.)

4. They'll talk about how a parent or relative recently died, but there "uncle' or another type of family member taught them about business, and taught them about investing. Specifically about Crypto or currency trading. Weird because they tend to talk about the line "profit of 15% - 25% Saying it multiple times in a conversation is big red flag.

5. They get mad if you don't respond to their messages daily. But, at the same time, won't answer your own questions.

6. "Some" will do a live video chat. However, I believe it to be faked, given that the quality video through WhatsApp is grainy. That's not usually the case w / WhatsApp. I've even done the video feature on seeking. It's actually pretty high quality, & that was between a computer & iPhone during peak hours.

7. At some point, they'll tell you some type of sob-story how they tried to help out their company or their business by taking cash from their "trading account" to help out their employees, and to cover losses during "Covid."

Overall, it's some type of long-term play. I have yet to find the end result. But, currently, I do still communicate w / them to see how far it will end up. But I wanted to reach out to anyone here, if they've experienced this, cause you may have only been contacted by one person. I've got 4 on the hook. One, got angry at me, because she thought I would steal her Instagram account, and she wouldn't give me the link. Because I told her, "you're scared of me receiving a live photo" but you create photos & videos to supposedly a million followers who don't know you at all." She was hella pissed, and was like, and then the broken English sentences started coming.

Anyone experience this?

They try this on Tik Tok as well. As soon as the present the Whats App link I immediately block them. Whats app is notoriously scam ridden so always exit the conversation as soon as they present it.

[DreplyNow]

Recently, on Seeking, I have noted & experienced a scam by Asian women. I don't know the end result yet, however, it's extremely scammy. Others may have already experienced this & have been further into the scam. Currently, this has happened with about 4 women. The same base scenario is below. But here's how it works:

Connection: An Asian woman with pictures that seem real, will reach out to you via Seeking.

Off Platform: Either they quickly get off the platform and are quite willing to chat on regular text, WhatsApp, Telegram. Sometimes even Snapchat. They then end up deleting their account, so they can focus "solely on you".

Their Story: Each of them have a range of stories around the same general idea.

1. They want to develop a relationship slowly with you, because their last relationship, they caught their ex, supposedly on camera. (which is why they won't do video chat sometimes).

2. They will take pictures & send them to you daily, showing what there eating, going to the gym. Say they post them to Instagram, but won't give you the link.

3. They say they have a business, usually in the "design industry", or they work for as a "Designer" in some field. Designer of Jewelry, or designer of clothes. But they can't give out the business name or the business doesn't have a website. They say they only work with Royals and top celebrities, got to keep their clients privacy. LOL. I show them 5 people online who started a jewelry or clothing brand, who are doing extremely well, selling to celebrities. There statements are usually, well our designers make $1 million a year. (I'm like okay, do the math.)

4. They'll talk about how a parent or relative recently died, but there "uncle' or another type of family member taught them about business, and taught them about investing. Specifically about Crypto or currency trading. Weird because they tend to talk about the line "profit of 15% - 25% Saying it multiple times in a conversation is big red flag.

5. They get mad if you don't respond to their messages daily. But, at the same time, won't answer your own questions.

6. "Some" will do a live video chat. However, I believe it to be faked, given that the quality video through WhatsApp is grainy. That's not usually the case w / WhatsApp. I've even done the video feature on seeking. It's actually pretty high quality, & that was between a computer & iPhone during peak hours.

7. At some point, they'll tell you some type of sob-story how they tried to help out their company or their business by taking cash from their "trading account" to help out their employees, and to cover losses during "Covid."

Overall, it's some type of long-term play. I have yet to find the end result. But, currently, I do still communicate w / them to see how far it will end up. But I wanted to reach out to anyone here, if they've experienced this, cause you may have only been contacted by one person. I've got 4 on the hook. One, got angry at me, because she thought I would steal her Instagram account, and she wouldn't give me the link. Because I told her, "you're scared of me receiving a live photo" but you create photos & videos to supposedly a million followers who don't know you at all." She was hella pissed, and was like, and then the broken English sentences started coming.

Anyone experience this?

[TSmithers24]

I'm guessing you paid in advance? It's not that she searched your stuff when you were in the bathroom, stole the money and ran?

I never paid a SB up front or had one ask for payment up front (scammers aside), always at the end as I'm leaving. This is one of the distinguishing differences between true SB's and pros who demand money up front.

I almost always pay after and sometimes in cash app on the way home. Could easily stiff them but I would never. One beautiful college girl I saw for about 6 months but had to stop due to her schedule changing, went back on the site. She was asking 6 ppm, more than I gave her but I think she's worth it. Met a guy at a hotel, had sex and he bolted without paying her. She now asks for it to be given up front.

[DarkClouds]

What we often tend to forget is that profiles are like resumes. White lies and exaggeration are ok and expected. Profiles are written to save face in case friends run into them and to allow the ladies to look at themselves in the mirror each morning. What they actually will accept and even embrace might be entirely different. Read the profile (in fact, I suggest reading it carefully because there could very well be a quiz) but don't take it literally.

9/10 guys would message her anyway no matter what the exclusions are. Hell I've done it. And have been successful more often than not even when it comes up that I am not in their age range or looking for something they don't have listed on their profile.

This profile does set off a lot of red flags so whoever is conversating with her. Continue with caution.

[Syedna]

Any info on 35 yr old, "red"head, 5'5, in Haverhill? Seems direct and new.

"Baby Red".

35 Female Haverhill, Massachusetts, United States.

Hot little red head you won't forget.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...9-f48712a42a7c

You have to go to her. She's a little chubbier than her pics would lead you to believe. She can be very chatty. Aside from that, pretty much everything goes. BBBJ, BBFS, she will rim you & you can see her for 200.

I hope this helps.

[SwimSays]

The only thing I'll say is I don't understand why a scammer would put something like "No guys my age or younger" in their profile. If you're just out to scam people online why limit your pool? I suppose it's because it makes your profile seem more believable but most of them are not that smart.

9/10 guys would message her anyway no matter what the exclusions are. Hell I've done it. And have been successful more often than not even when it comes up that I am not in their age range or looking for something they don't have listed on their profile.

This profile does set off a lot of red flags so whoever is conversating with her. Continue with caution.

[Hobbyist420]

Been off and on SA for years with good success. Recently went back on after a year away or so, and after it's rebranding, and not seeing any of these girls you are posting or a good selection at all. Seems far less active than previously. Am I missing something?

Its slowly dying because they refuse to police the scammers on there.

[KcirtaPanner2]

Profile reads like a total scam.

Says she takes online classes but gets "hit on around campus. " She lives "in the downtown area" which is language no one from Boston uses. There is nothing we refer to as "downtown. " Wants "guys who are local" but then says "2-3 hrs. " 99.98% sure it's a scam profile.

The only thing I'll say is I don't understand why a scammer would put something like "No guys my age or younger" in their profile. If you're just out to scam people online why limit your pool? I suppose it's because it makes your profile seem more believable but most of them are not that smart.

[SwimSays]

I could not find the review but I remember reading she was a scam or even worse a setup. Can anyone confirm or deny this?

Can't confirm a scam or a setup but I can say in my experience she is a huge time waster. She had another profile started a couple of years ago and was just recently deactivated over the summer. When she first was on there we started talking and after seeming like we were on the same page making plans with her was like trying to nail jello to the wall.

She was always 100% about it until the day of our set plans and there was always an excuse. Talking to others. She was doing this same shit with most. I eventually stopped talking to her and she was a good lesson in the people on there who aren't really serious or ready to actually meet someone off the site.

Either that or they are holding out for the "perfect" one to come along before they actually go through with it.

Based on the pregnancy, and her back on the site with new profile, looks like she did indeed find that perfect someone.

She might be more serious about meeting up now but don't let her string you along!

[Bran001]

Profile reads like a total scam.

Says she takes online classes but gets "hit on around campus. " She lives "in the downtown area" which is language no one from Boston uses. There is nothing we refer to as "downtown. " Wants "guys who are local" but then says "2-3 hrs. " 99.98% sure it's a scam profile.

Profile Title: Gentlemen start your engines.

Seeking: https://members.seeking.com/member/a...6-0871d8876fed.

Has anyone got an opportunity to set something up w / this one? So far, been emailing. However, from the convos, it seems as though she wants to do things a certain way. I don't know if there's hidden messages in the profile details I need to figure out. But wondering if any one has jumped on this, tried, or experienced. Any insights would be helpful.

[NicosWave24]

How much are we talking and is she really in or near Boston?

She wanted 4 I gave her 350 then 3 after the first time. She's out in Springfield area.

[David5512]

Try the information from this reddit post https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifest...n_sa/?sort=new.

Thank you so much! I sincerely appreciate the help. .

[David5512]

I've been banned on SA multiple times. The 1st time was because I was being too explicit on the site. The second time was because someone reported me for no apparent reason. This has been discussed before, but the key to not getting banned is by taking the conversation off the site ASAP.

I never had an issue getting back on with different burner numbers / e-mail addresses. I used my same credit card and / or Google Play to pay for SA without issues.

Thank you so much. I appreciate it. I'll try a burner number. That may be it. Thanks again. .