Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

**BlueFox141** · 09-09-22 15:47

Originally Posted by ArchitexOne [View Original Post]

Has anyone she her. I remember her from the past.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...5-d84b5c0d9822

Looks like a dead end. Her profile says "I am not a prostitute I do not do pfp please do not write me if that's what you are looking for."

Blue.

**ArchitexOne** · 09-09-22 15:36

Has anyone she her. I remember her from the past.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...5-d84b5c0d9822

**XxMarkXx** · 09-06-22 17:05

Originally Posted by ArchitexOne [View Original Post]

Has anyone seen or heard from Ella the pastry chef in a while.

Sadly, no. Last I talked with her was February. Texted her a couple months ago, no reply.

**ArchitexOne** · 09-06-22 15:49

Has anyone seen or heard from Ella the pastry chef in a while.

**Gridge** · 09-04-22 16:44

Originally Posted by Mankind617 [View Original Post]

I signed up last year and it was a total waste. I too received a quite a few messages and all of them were spam. I responded to a few of them and never got any responses. They make it look like many of the women are online or recently online but they aren't. The other scam on secret benefits is the secret album. You'll be given access to see the secret album even though you may not have requested it from anyone. When I contacted customer service about the lack of responses even the ones that messaged me first I was told that sometimes they change their minds and are no longer interested. I found a thread on another website that shared similar stories to mine. Finally I contacted secret benefits customer service and told them that their website is a scam and I was filing a complaint with the FTC. They reimbursed me what I paid for the credits and deleted my account. I was fortunate to get my money back.

Thanks-.

That's what I figured it was. It makes it tempting because the pictures appear to be some good looking women who are actually interested. I did notice how it appears there are a disproportionate number of girls online all the time.

**Mankind617** · 09-04-22 09:26

Originally Posted by Gridge [View Original Post]

Anyone have any luck with Secret Benefits? I signed up a few days ago and while there appears to be a nice selection on there, the price just to send a message seems outrageous. I have received a bunch of messages from different girls but you have to pay just to read them. I'm just trying to wrap my head around paying that much to read a message that might be a waster of time.

I signed up last year and it was a total waste. I too received a quite a few messages and all of them were spam. I responded to a few of them and never got any responses. They make it look like many of the women are online or recently online but they aren't. The other scam on secret benefits is the secret album. You'll be given access to see the secret album even though you may not have requested it from anyone. When I contacted customer service about the lack of responses even the ones that messaged me first I was told that sometimes they change their minds and are no longer interested. I found a thread on another website that shared similar stories to mine. Finally I contacted secret benefits customer service and told them that their website is a scam and I was filing a complaint with the FTC. They reimbursed me what I paid for the credits and deleted my account. I was fortunate to get my money back.

**WilliamArthur** · 09-04-22 08:40

Originally Posted by Gridge [View Original Post]

Anyone have any luck with Secret Benefits? I signed up a few days ago and while there appears to be a nice selection on there, the price just to send a message seems outrageous. I have received a bunch of messages from different girls but you have to pay just to read them. I'm just trying to wrap my head around paying that much to read a message that might be a waster of time.

Have been on there for a while. But yes, they charge for everything. Had a few good hookups, but nothing lasting. Lots of flakes, fakes, and gals looking for platonic meetings. Not sure its worth the time or $$ As many scammers as on SA.

**Gridge** · 09-03-22 20:44

Anyone have any luck with Secret Benefits? I signed up a few days ago and while there appears to be a nice selection on there, the price just to send a message seems outrageous. I have received a bunch of messages from different girls but you have to pay just to read them. I'm just trying to wrap my head around paying that much to read a message that might be a waster of time.

**Big Mac Daddy** · 09-02-22 21:56

Originally Posted by DoverBen [View Original Post]

The one on the right offered me too. I cancelled the offer.

I knew something was fishy with her.

BD.

I didn't bite on either Lisa, New London or NYC. I did on the Alice one knowing I could get a refund on points. When I did, WYP tried to stiff me by denying me. I filled out a survey and bitched I'm not about to lose paid points on spammers like Alice and Lisa.

An hour later, I got the refund as they made a rare exception, which is pure BS. I got another survey after that, so I'll be complaining more about their 'exception'. They setup their rules which allow spammers to waste our paid points so we can just buy more. Like hell to that!

BMD.

**DoverBen** · 09-02-22 20:57

Originally Posted by BigMacDaddy [View Original Post]

My lucky day.

I got two offers today, same two girls but with different IDs. One in NYC and the other in New London. Both logged in from Thailand and likely a VPN.

BMD.

The one on the right offered me too. I cancelled the offer.

I knew something was fishy with her.

BD.

**Coberman** · 09-02-22 20:48

Originally Posted by ArviK88 [View Original Post]

I thought this was a good thread to bring this subject up.

I would like to hear guys' experiences with meeting someone via Snapchat or Telegram (encoded chat app similar to Signal).

I personally have been unsuccessful so far as almost everyone asks for either deposit or pay by cashapp or gift card before meeting, which is obviously a scam.

DM is fine too.

Arvi.

Lots of * bots, and scammers. I do think some of the ones asking for a deposit are real (<5%) but it's not worth making that bet not to mention how that looks or the record it creates, but that's me. And I'll add that I wouldn't consider Telegram as secure as Signal.

**ArviK88** · 09-02-22 18:24

I thought this was a good thread to bring this subject up.

I would like to hear guys' experiences with meeting someone via Snapchat or Telegram (encoded chat app similar to Signal).

I personally have been unsuccessful so far as almost everyone asks for either deposit or pay by cashapp or gift card before meeting, which is obviously a scam.

DM is fine too.

Arvi.

**Big Mac Daddy** · 09-02-22 16:41

My lucky day.

I got two offers today, same two girls but with different IDs. One in NYC and the other in New London. Both logged in from Thailand and likely a VPN.

BMD.

**TSmithers24** · 08-29-22 22:58

Originally Posted by JoeSchlosser1 [View Original Post]

Sounds like you signed up as a sugar baby instead. I'm pretty sure.

Thanks! This was correct and weird but I contacted them and they fixed it.

**Big Mac Daddy** · 08-28-22 18:15

Originally Posted by DoverBen [View Original Post]

Anyone had any luck on WYP?

I have been trying since last few months but no meets yet. They all disappear after you spend credits. Looking for a solid regular connection. Any recommendations?

Should I switch to SA? I hear that site is not what it used to be.

BD.

WYP in the Htfd area is a wasteland. New ones that show up tend to be TGTBT and spammer / scammers.

My last attempt a few weeks ago was with a knockout who sent me a $50 offer. I accepted and I've learned to start my messages about delaying any contact info until we're comfortable with meeting in public. It's a disclaimer so they don't send contact info and blow my refund if they're a scammer. WYP will refund if no contact info has been exchanged. So, here's a few pics of that last scammer who left CT and headed to NYC. I offered to meet her Fri., sat, or sun last week. Her reply was that she doesn't meet strangers! She was looking for marriage or investors or partners in her business. Yeah, right. My refund of points is in the works.

BMD.