NoVA SugarBabies

[ChiefQueef]

I have been using Google voice for initial texting and to text with some other seniors here. My account was flagged and banned after sending a hello text to this chick. I tend to believe that is not a coincidence. I have appealed that with Google, but be warned. Definitely an inconvenience, but didn't impact anyone in my stable or ones that I have actually met as I transition then to imessage texting. For the seniors here I text with I will hit you from a new number if the ban isn't lifted. The bigger issue is that the bots at Google are judging who you text. Maybe use text now or text mate for initial screening 🤷8205;9794;65039;.

- ditch google, facebook, and apple for this hobby; you are correct in your suspicion and all your activities are conveniently tied to identifiable accounts.

- textnow uses recycled numbers and you cannot delete accounts; so use your imagination if someone else ends up with your number down the line.

- don't use the "burner" app; look up recent news.

- recommending you use "mysudo", or, if you are tech savvy: a VOIP solution like Telnyx (unlimited numbers and control at a cost).

- avoid email.

- lean towards end-to-end encrypted services or time-based communications (chats expire after X amount of time).

- use cash and gift cards while / where you still can.

[Zerry]

This reinforces my suspicion that you're a good looking dude LOL. Girls want to go straight to your hotel room without even meeting you, not knowing if you could be a creep or have terrible BO or something. You also said most of us are suckers for paying $500, there's plenty of young 8-9's willing to do it for 250-350. I really don't think that's most people's result on SA.

I like fine dining myself. I'd never take a girl to Applebees to save a few bucks because why the fuck would I eat there? Also young girls weighing 120 pounds don't eat a lot. I've never had one that can split an appetizer, eat their entre and side, and split a dessert with me. They always get full halfway. Most of the time they don't even want the dessert in the end.

Taking a girl to Eddie V's in Tysons may add an extra 75-100 to my bill, but that's nothing to me.

The only girls I've had go from dinner dates to just hotel are ones that are annoying as fuck, and the only thing I want them to to is shut up and spread their legs LOL. The ones with decent personalities, I've never treated like a fucktoy.

Respect only gets you in the door, it's like the bare minimum to even start talking allowance and sex. Unless you look like TomFord and Dimples, Tom can apparently just tell a girl he wants to fuck her and she's down based on the text screenshots he posted.

After you're in the door, it's money and looks. Last is probably sexual ability. After all, you all bang young girls, how many have told you about dating a young hot dude who was terrible in bed? Yet, the girl still dated them, and would date someone like them / fuck them again if they had the chance. Hell, our SB's probably have a FWB that fits the exact description right now LOL.

1. Many dudes here have some serious beer googles. 2. I don't put any weight behind how much people here say they pay, not because I don't believe them, but because I don't feel it matters. Girls accept different amounts from different guys. I've paid more than some dudes and less than others, depending on too many factors to list for that moment in time.

But man oh man a lot of people have their 9's upside down. The brain starts playing tricks on you when you think you can get an easy score. A Bumble 6 is a Seeking 9 on this forum.

[Rudy Wellz]

They want #3 first -- so many get scared off by creeps, being treated like a piece of meat etc. IF you deliver on #3 first, then #1 can be lower and #2 is more likely for you.

Upon further review, you are 100% correct. What get's me (us) in between their legs is being a gentleman, them feeling safe, intellect, humor, not being a creep. I am also in great shape and pretty decent looking for 55. Money is a necessity (4 to 5 hundo is my range), good sex keeps them coming back for more.

[Prince85]

Yeah but she is getting out of hand now. Wants 6 minimum and used to be able to be talked into half that with Uber fare.

Ended up seeing her tonight. Other reviews are pretty spot on. She is quick to move to text and send pics. Texts a lot. Semi-pro vibes. Starts high but is able to negotiate down to a more manageable allowance. Honestly it wasn't that great. I have to agree with others that she is not good looking. Her face is busted and she looks older. And the body looked good in pics but is average in person. Tits were really nice but that was about it. From waste down she is thicker and stockier than my liking. She was clean and fresh though so that was good. She was ok with bareback but is not on birth control so would need to pull out. I ended up just wearing a cover. She is a nice girl though, very chatty and makes you feel comfortable but can be kinda hyper. Can host from her apartment which was a really nice and clean place. I actually considered not going through with it and leaving but my little head took over and I ended up doing a round with her. Was ok but I won't be repeating.

[Mandane]

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...c-9001605b593f

Might be a real person, all the info I was given seemed to check out to the person they claimed to be. That said, she had no intentions of meeting. Only one reply on the site, which was her number. Small talks for a little bit and then drops a OF-like menu on you. When I said I only meet, s kept agreeing to meet, even setting time and place, but would follow it up with needing some amount of cash for rent, flat tire, you name it.

I have been using Google voice for initial texting and to text with some other seniors here. My account was flagged and banned after sending a hello text to this chick. I tend to believe that is not a coincidence. I have appealed that with Google, but be warned. Definitely an inconvenience, but didn't impact anyone in my stable or ones that I have actually met as I transition then to imessage texting. For the seniors here I text with I will hit you from a new number if the ban isn't lifted. The bigger issue is that the bots at Google are judging who you text. Maybe use text now or text mate for initial screening 🤷8205;9794;65039;.

[Mcsylv]

I've met one maybe two ever for a drink first. Never taken one to dinner. But other than that I've met them all directly in the room. Now I always bring a bottle of wine or liquor and we chill for a while over a couple drinks and get to know one another before jumping into bed. But that's my method that's worked great for me for the past 3-4 yrs. Using that method I've only ever had once a gal decide she wasn't interested and left.

This reinforces my suspicion that you're a good looking dude LOL. Girls want to go straight to your hotel room without even meeting you, not knowing if you could be a creep or have terrible BO or something. You also said most of us are suckers for paying $500, there's plenty of young 8-9's willing to do it for 250-350. I really don't think that's most people's result on SA.

For dinner, I've learned my lesson that you never let them pick on the first date. Nothing worse than be stuck with a big bill for someone that has no intentions of taking it anywhere with anyone. Try to meet and eat at the bar so it can end quickly if its going bad.

I also had a girl pick a place and I'm 100% cerrtain it was her friend wating on us.

I like fine dining myself. I'd never take a girl to Applebees to save a few bucks because why the fuck would I eat there? Also young girls weighing 120 pounds don't eat a lot. I've never had one that can split an appetizer, eat their entrée and side, and split a dessert with me. They always get full halfway. Most of the time they don't even want the dessert in the end.

Taking a girl to Eddie V's in Tysons may add an extra 75-100 to my bill, but that's nothing to me.

Play it smart and approach each SB in a manner that makes them most comfortable.

-I have a 2+ year SB that has young kids. We will occasionally do lunch, but mostly she wants to have a few drinks, get banged, get paid and go home.

-Ivy league trained attorney likes high end restaurants. But then we go back to her place and have almost unlimited free time. She will occasionally cook as well.

-I've had SB's where the arrangement began with lunch / dinner dates every time and then it changed into meet me at the hotel.

I think most SB's want (in this order): 1) cash, 2) great sex, and 3) to be treated nicely and with respect.

The only girls I've had go from dinner dates to just hotel are ones that are annoying as fuck, and the only thing I want them to to is shut up and spread their legs LOL. The ones with decent personalities, I've never treated like a fucktoy.

They want #3 first -- so many get scared off by creeps, being treated like a piece of meat etc. IF you deliver on #3 first, then #1 can be lower and #2 is more likely for you.

Respect only gets you in the door, it's like the bare minimum to even start talking allowance and sex. Unless you look like TomFord and Dimples, Tom can apparently just tell a girl he wants to fuck her and she's down based on the text screenshots he posted.

After you're in the door, it's money and looks. Last is probably sexual ability. After all, you all bang young girls, how many have told you about dating a young hot dude who was terrible in bed? Yet, the girl still dated them, and would date someone like them / fuck them again if they had the chance. Hell, our SB's probably have a FWB that fits the exact description right now LOL.

[InsaneManX]

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...c-fc51a9300a56

Curious. All the pics are damn near photo shoot quality. Did a Reversee check on a few pics. One came up as a cover photo for some site offering adult WhatsApp convos.

What has me suspicious was a very poorly worded text response seeming to imply she wants some cash up front.

It's a new profile so just seeing if anyone else has reached out to her and what the deal is with her.

She sent me the same thing. I blocked and reported.

[BobDingle10]

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...c-fc51a9300a56

Curious. All the pics are damn near photo shoot quality. Did a Reversee check on a few pics. One came up as a cover photo for some site offering adult WhatsApp convos.

What has me suspicious was a very poorly worded text response seeming to imply she wants some cash up front.

It's a new profile so just seeing if anyone else has reached out to her and what the deal is with her.

[Ernest Ll]

Play it smart and approach each SB in a manner that makes them most comfortable.

-I have a 2+ year SB that has young kids. We will occasionally do lunch, but mostly she wants to have a few drinks, get banged, get paid and go home.

-Ivy league trained attorney likes high end restaurants. But then we go back to her place and have almost unlimited free time. She will occasionally cook as well.

-I've had SB's where the arrangement began with lunch / dinner dates every time and then it changed into meet me at the hotel.

I think most SB's want (in this order): 1) cash, 2) great sex, and 3) to be treated nicely and with respect.

They want #3 first -- so many get scared off by creeps, being treated like a piece of meat etc. IF you deliver on #3 first, then #1 can be lower and #2 is more likely for you.

[Rudy Wellz]

Play it smart and approach each SB in a manner that makes them most comfortable.

-I have a 2+ year SB that has young kids. We will occasionally do lunch, but mostly she wants to have a few drinks, get banged, get paid and go home.

-Ivy league trained attorney likes high end restaurants. But then we go back to her place and have almost unlimited free time. She will occasionally cook as well.

-I've had SB's where the arrangement began with lunch / dinner dates every time and then it changed into meet me at the hotel.

I think most SB's want (in this order): 1) cash, 2) great sex, and 3) to be treated nicely and with respect.

For dinner, I've learned my lesson that you never let them pick on the first date. Nothing worse than be stuck with a big bill for someone that has no intentions of taking it anywhere with anyone. Try to meet and eat at the bar so it can end quickly if its going bad.

I also had a girl pick a place and I'm 100% cerrtain it was her friend wating on us.

[BDM1227]

I prefer the same approach as you. Meet for dinner and drinks, I treat, and no expectation of a M&G gift. Sometimes we've gone from there to my hotel, sometimes we set up a date for another time, and a couple times we parted ways and never got in touch again. I enjoy the date aspect, just coming straight to my room is too transactional.

For dinner, I've learned my lesson that you never let them pick on the first date. Nothing worse than be stuck with a big bill for someone that has no intentions of taking it anywhere with anyone. Try to meet and eat at the bar so it can end quickly if its going bad.

I also had a girl pick a place and I'm 100% cerrtain it was her friend wating on us.

[Dimples572]

I see many of you guys post about going straight to the hotel, even with new babies for the first meet. Some of you talk about getting some quick drinks before going to the room, but I've never seen anyone talking about actually going on dates with SB's. Dinner, drinks, doing something fun in DC, etc.

I do wine and dine, am I the minority here? I feel like all the SB's I've successfully fucked would've flaked out if I just had them come directly to a hotel. Most SB's I go on a platonic M&G first for no allowance, usually a dinner date. If that goes well, then we might decide to go back to a hotel, or many times they just go home and we set up a fuckdate for another day.

I've met one maybe two ever for a drink first. Never taken one to dinner. But other than that I've met them all directly in the room. Now I always bring a bottle of wine or liquor and we chill for a while over a couple drinks and get to know one another before jumping into bed. But that's my method that's worked great for me for the past 3-4 yrs. Using that method I've only ever had once a gal decide she wasn't interested and left.

[LikesGirls]

I see many of you guys post about going straight to the hotel, even with new babies for the first meet. Some of you talk about getting some quick drinks before going to the room, but I've never seen anyone talking about actually going on dates with SB's. Dinner, drinks, doing something fun in DC, etc.

I do wine and dine, am I the minority here? I feel like all the SB's I've successfully fucked would've flaked out if I just had them come directly to a hotel. Most SB's I go on a platonic M&G first for no allowance, usually a dinner date. If that goes well, then we might decide to go back to a hotel, or many times they just go home and we set up a fuckdate for another day.

I prefer the same approach as you. Meet for dinner and drinks, I treat, and no expectation of a M&G gift. Sometimes we've gone from there to my hotel, sometimes we set up a date for another time, and a couple times we parted ways and never got in touch again. I enjoy the date aspect, just coming straight to my room is too transactional.

[Ernest Ll]

Unemployed, working on her escorting website.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...c-3efbd38f772e

[BDM1227]

I see many of you guys post about going straight to the hotel, even with new babies for the first meet. Some of you talk about getting some quick drinks before going to the room, but I've never seen anyone talking about actually going on dates with SB's. Dinner, drinks, doing something fun in DC, etc.

I do wine and dine, am I the minority here? I feel like all the SB's I've successfully fucked would've flaked out if I just had them come directly to a hotel. Most SB's I go on a platonic M&G first for no allowance, usually a dinner date. If that goes well, then we might decide to go back to a hotel, or many times they just go home and we set up a fuckdate for another day.

Unless I know from someone who; s experienced with her I would not go straight to room. Even if I know she's DTF, I will at least meet for a drink if I can. For that reason I rarely do this near where I live. I like to feel the vibe.

So a couple weeks ago I get a chick that won't go to text. Only going through the website. She's talking about PPM on the site. I'm keeping my workding vague but agree that "if we click" and she's open to intimacy I'd consider. We agree to meet near my office for lunch. I ask if I should book a day use. She says she typically doesn; t hook up on the first meeting. I say "if we agree its only a meet and greet I'm fine" Shows up we have a good time. On the way out she says "I'll send you my cashapp" . She texts it to me and I tell her "this was a meet and greet. I really dig her so if she's not just scamming I'll give her the full amount for it spread over a few meets. " That was the last I heard from her.