NoVA SugarBabies

**Arty33** · 09-09-22 10:00

Between not the girl you take to mom vs poor judgement to meet some dude straight in hotel room. They still need to exercise caution because what if you're not who you said you are. I've had SBs tell me they stayed back observing to see who the guy they were going to meet and turns out the guy is older, fatter, and uglier than picture, then she bolted. So, are you saying they should just trust your texts and pictures online and come to your room, that's not the kind of girl I would hook up with. But like I said if you do, then that's your thing, I am not judging you. So what's the issue, I personally have an interest to make sure they are exercising caution in meeting guys, so I know something about their selection, not meet any guy for money in hotel.

Originally Posted by Dimples572 [View Original Post]

Lmao! Dude. You don't think that literally every single woman on that website that's banging dudes for money, that is selling their bodies for sex, that there's not something completely fucked up with their judgement?? I hate to break it to you but most normal, stable, moral, well adjusted successful women aren't on that website and wouldn't be caught dead on it. I've yet to meet anyone on there that wasn't completely damaged in one way or another or that I'd be willing to bring home to meet my Mom.

**Arty33** · 09-09-22 09:53

From her texts, all sob stories about her dad is dying her stepmom being mean, told her no money to meet. Finally she called me some names and left the chat. Knew she had no real interest since she started texting without even checking my pictures, LOL, that's a dead giveaway someone's into money scam.

Originally Posted by Lobsid [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...6-ae6336ae601a

She for real. Met up with her when she had a different profile a few months ago. Her pics are heavily edited. She has a lot of face sores, and skinny. I talk 5 mins and knew I wasn't interested. Say she use to be into heavy drug use. I'm guessing she meth user. Also notice a tall light skin black guy eye us during coffee. She seem jittery around me, so I made an excuse to end M&G quickly. I drove one big circle. Then I saw her walking with the guy eyeing us earlier to the bus stop. Seems like he was her partner. I would be very careful with this one.

**Old Chinese Guy** · 09-09-22 08:42

Originally Posted by Mcsylv [View Original Post]

I feel like at least 50% of the time when I give an extra amount to a girl, she then expects it next time we meet, even if I make it clear the extra is a 1-time exception. Like when I give her the normal amount on the next date, I get the look and a question about how come it's lower this time, not recognizing that the last time I gave her extra for a special circumstance, or that I was just feeling generous, or she gave me a rimjob I don't fucking know. Then the situation turns awkward, at some point I have to tell her I don't like it when she demands extra and that it's not a gift then, she's just raising the allowance. Then she gets hissy about how I don't appreciate her, and next thing I know I'm down 1 SB and +1 blocked number.

I think it depends on the girl and your relationship. I have given extra when asked if it's for something specific and I value our relationship, like some extra spending money when they travel. Or if they need (not want) something urgently. But it is always clear it is the exception more than the rule. So rates always stay the same for me with extras from time to time. It does essentially boil down to a higher overall rate.

**JonFisher** · 09-09-22 08:16

Originally Posted by Mcsylv [View Original Post]

I feel like at least 50% of the time when I give an extra amount to a girl, she then expects it next time we meet, even if I make it clear the extra is a 1-time exception. Like when I give her the normal amount on the next date, I get the look and a question about how come it's lower this time, not recognizing that the last time I gave her extra for a special circumstance, or that I was just feeling generous, or she gave me a rimjob I don't fucking know. Then the situation turns awkward, at some point I have to tell her I don't like it when she demands extra and that it's not a gift then, she's just raising the allowance. Then she gets hissy about how I don't appreciate her, and next thing I know I'm down 1 SB and +1 blocked number.

I have found that a small gift costing 10 $ is worth a lot more say 100 $ in allowance money and they don't expect that every time. I have a bunch of 10,25, 50 gift cards and some 12 $ pyjamas from Costco etc. in my car. Or wine bottle if over 21,. I hand them out occasionally and they get me far more mileage.

But agree with Arty, you give what you feel you are comfortable with. I started giving one of my SB 100 more because I was seeing her less and told her its because of inflation and by jolly, she loves me so much more. It was because she did not expect it.

**Mcsylv** · 09-09-22 02:25

Originally Posted by Arty33 [View Original Post]

First up, I won't meet anyone directly in a hotel room, that's a waste of my time & money, what if I don't like her in person, I am picky who I want to have sex with so I want to make sure I like her personality somewhat before I fuck her. Second, I won't trust a girl who'd meet with a guy directly in a hotel room first up, something off with her judgement, but to each their own, I don't judge others who do, it's their thing, like I said I am selective. Lastly, what I pay them is what I feel is reasonable for me, not the lowest I can negotiate, if I like her and she's nice to me then it's not an issue. I've given SB's more than they asked sometimes and that's just because she's being a sweetheart and do everything I want out of her, including being on time, not waste my money on expensive dining, staying as long as I want her to, being good in bed, not showing irritability etc.

I feel like at least 50% of the time when I give an extra amount to a girl, she then expects it next time we meet, even if I make it clear the extra is a 1-time exception. Like when I give her the normal amount on the next date, I get the look and a question about how come it's lower this time, not recognizing that the last time I gave her extra for a special circumstance, or that I was just feeling generous, or she gave me a rimjob I don't fucking know. Then the situation turns awkward, at some point I have to tell her I don't like it when she demands extra and that it's not a gift then, she's just raising the allowance. Then she gets hissy about how I don't appreciate her, and next thing I know I'm down 1 SB and +1 blocked number.

**Dimples572** · 09-08-22 22:58

Originally Posted by Arty33 [View Original Post]

Second, I won't trust a girl who'd meet with a guy directly in a hotel room first up, something off with her judgement, but to each their own, I don't judge others who do, it's their thing, like I said I am selective.

Lmao! Dude. You don't think that literally every single woman on that website that's banging dudes for money, that is selling their bodies for sex, that there's not something completely fucked up with their judgement?? I hate to break it to you but most normal, stable, moral, well adjusted successful women aren't on that website and wouldn't be caught dead on it. I've yet to meet anyone on there that wasn't completely damaged in one way or another or that I'd be willing to bring home to meet my Mom.

**Cruisin1011** · 09-08-22 22:29

Originally Posted by Arty33 [View Original Post]

Lastly, what I pay them is what I feel is reasonable for me, not the lowest I can negotiate, if I like her and she's nice to me then it's not an issue. I've given SB's more than they asked sometimes and that's just because she's being a sweetheart and do everything I want out of her, including being on time, not waste my money on expensive dining, staying as long as I want her to, being good in bed, not showing irritability etc.

Exactly this.

**Arty33** · 09-08-22 18:32

Quick to move to text, wants to meet quickly as possible, wants $100 for meeting at the diner. Everything else after is vague, so a m&g money scam.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...6-ae6336ae601a

**Mandane** · 09-08-22 16:51

Over conversation she seemed much more interested in getting identifying details about me than in scheduling a meeting. She's slick, but too much evasion and too interested in my details. Which I always lie about anyway. Blocked and moved on. Recommend you avoid.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...f-1b63ae3e3680

**Tyrex2** · 09-08-22 13:02

https://members.seeking.com/messages...0-dad39902aefc

Chatted her up. Seems nice enough - low key and smooth. Went to text quickly. Bartends or so she says, apparently not new to this. Initial ask was 700, dropped to 550. Not for me at that price, but one of you all might like. Will play w / o cover for upsell. First picture is "older", second is from "last night".

**Tyrex2** · 09-08-22 12:53

Originally Posted by LikesGirls [View Original Post]

That's most likely a setup for a robbery.

Reason I waived off.

**TomFordModel** · 09-08-22 12:46

Originally Posted by DasHottCalla [View Original Post]

She started at $1000 for me. Quickly came down to $300. The pics she sent of her body were amazing, he face not so much. I made a date with her, when I parked on the street of her apartment she was already waiting outside. I definitely wasn't interested in what I saw and promptly drove off. Her body was not as fit as the several pics she sent me.

LOL! There has to be someone that dropped 1 k for it. Who was it. Reveal yourself.

**Arty33** · 09-08-22 12:19

First up, I won't meet anyone directly in a hotel room, that's a waste of my time & money, what if I don't like her in person, I am picky who I want to have sex with so I want to make sure I like her personality somewhat before I fuck her. Second, I won't trust a girl who'd meet with a guy directly in a hotel room first up, something off with her judgement, but to each their own, I don't judge others who do, it's their thing, like I said I am selective. Lastly, what I pay them is what I feel is reasonable for me, not the lowest I can negotiate, if I like her and she's nice to me then it's not an issue. I've given SB's more than they asked sometimes and that's just because she's being a sweetheart and do everything I want out of her, including being on time, not waste my money on expensive dining, staying as long as I want her to, being good in bed, not showing irritability etc.

Originally Posted by Mcsylv [View Original Post]

This reinforces my suspicion that you're a good looking dude LOL. Girls want to go straight to your hotel room without even meeting you, not knowing if you could be a creep or have terrible BO or something. You also said most of us are suckers for paying $500, there's plenty of young 8-9's willing to do it for 250-350. I really don't think that's most people's result on SA.

**LikesGirls** · 09-08-22 12:17

Originally Posted by Tyrex2 [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...b-ef17f944c87a

Had things setup, suddenly mentions I'd have to come pick her up and gives a gas station strip mall in a remote area which a friend could give her a ride too. Didn't plan on that so begged off and it seems a bit odd / sketch. Anyone else had any interactions?

That's most likely a setup for a robbery.

**ProCatHunter** · 09-08-22 10:24

Anyone else chatting up the profile who lists herself as DC but is out in Berryville?

Seems way TGTBT, but even after 3 days of messaging, she hasn't hmu for money, gift cards or personal info.

No, I'm not going to list her profile link, because if she is real, it would not be good if some aggressive monger scared her off the site.