"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**RogerOver** · 08-02-22 19:46

Originally Posted by PartyTimeGuy [View Original Post]

Maybe you were just trying to be funny (sardonic tone is sometimes difficult to perceive in here as opposed to seriousness), but procuring and / or doing illegal drugs with a SB adds a whole new layer of legal risk that is not worth it just for a piece of ass IMO. I don't much care if a SB does drugs. But not while with me and not if it affects her being on time or her performance, or if she is inclined to be carrying. In states where weed is legal recreationally (maybe even in states where it isn't: everything is moving towards national legality and the risk is substantially less even where it is currently "illegal") Sure. Why not? I partake myself. Sex while high on weed is a LOT of fun. But being arrested for illegal drug possession or sale is definitely NOT fun. There is no SB action in prison.

I live in a weed friendly state, but I have no problem at all hanging out with a banging hottie that wants to do a couple of lines, put a dent in the mini-bar contents, and fuck like crazy people. I realize this is a thread in a more conservative state, but honestly, as I've gotten older I'm way more open to some mind altering experiences.

Risk tolerance is defined individually. And no, I wouldn't do anything like that with a chick I didn't know really well.

Edit to add: I would never take a job where they want to have me incriminate myself with my urine. I imagine being arrested might hurt my career, but I take that chance all the time with hookers, etc.

I have to say, there appear to be some rather judgmental folks in here, given you're all trying to pay some girl to let you fuck her.

**PartyTimeGuy** · 08-02-22 16:02

Originally Posted by Hal1957 [View Original Post]

I'm paying for companionship, sex is just one aspect. I also wouldn't be interested in a woman who pounds a pint of vodka every night, it totally kills the vibe. And despite many states decriminalizing marijuana, they can't legalize it because it's on the federal list of narcotics. That means if I have a job that requires random urinalysis, say a pilot for instance, I still have to abstain.

As much as I wish it could be so, the vast majority of SBs I have experienced would hardly qualify as "companions. " There is that rare gem who transcends the age barrier, has a wisdom beyond her years, and has an intelligence and breadth of curiosity that overlaps my realm of interests. But usually she is just a fun, young, tight fuck buddy, hopefully with enough personality so she isn't the psychological equivalent of a two-bagger.

I hear you about SB drug abusers. An alcoholic or drug addict is not usually a terrific SB. She is too focused on getting her next high. And your comment about weed is justified. It is still a Federal crime regardless what a particular state says. However, we are already flouting the law by having SBs and my feeling about weed is that it isn't that much additional legal risk. I could change my mind on that one if I were arrested on Federal drug charges for marijuana, but being arrested for purchasing sex would be much worse, especially in the eyes of friends, family and co-workers, who would likely give me a pass on getting caught for using weed. And I think my chances of beating a marijuana charge in court far surpass the likelihood of beating a prostitution solicitation charge. Obviously if you have a job which would be in jeopardy from a positive urinalysis, then you need to lay off the weed. But wouldn't that be true for a SB-related arrest? Most high paying jobs, even under guaranteed contract, have a moral turpitude clause. If I had one of those, I would also abstain from being a SD in the first place. A fun piece of ass every now and again is not worth risking a lucrative livelihood.

**BobLobLa** · 08-02-22 15:13

Originally Posted by Hungre1234 [View Original Post]

She comes and goes based on money needs it seems,

And how much money would that be she needs for a get together?

**RedBaron69** · 08-02-22 15:12

Originally Posted by Hungre1234 [View Original Post]

She's very sex positive, very sexy, good personality, you'll leave happy. She comes and goes based on money needs it seems, and she can be a little flaky in replying (you have to ask the right questions to get a reply sometimes LOL.) Otherwise, treat her good and enjoy.

What's her right questions? I can't get her to view my message. LOL.

**Hungre1234** · 08-02-22 09:36

Originally Posted by ErnestLl [View Original Post]

She's been on before, but not in over 6 months. Killer private pics. Serious stripper vibe https://members.seeking.com/member/2...1-59134aac5f4b.

Any intel?

She's very sex positive, very sexy, good personality, you'll leave happy. She comes and goes based on money needs it seems, and she can be a little flaky in replying (you have to ask the right questions to get a reply sometimes LOL.) Otherwise, treat her good and enjoy.

**ErkTheOne** · 08-02-22 07:45

Originally Posted by WakeForYou [View Original Post]

Definitely not a stripper. She's been on and off the site for years. Young professional with alternate views on relationships / monogamy. Reviewed well when she has been reviewed.

I second that. Not a stripper at all, just loves being sexy and loves sex. Saw her several times a few years ago and she was awesome. Amazing body, open to everything, just a lot of fun.

**Hal1957** · 08-02-22 06:43

I'm paying for companionship, sex is just one aspect. I also wouldn't be interested in a woman who pounds a pint of vodka every night, it totally kills the vibe. And despite many states decriminalizing marijuana, they can't legalize it because it's on the federal list of narcotics. That means if I have a job that requires random urinalysis, say a pilot for instance, I still have to abstain.

Originally Posted by Zerry [View Original Post]

You're paying for sex. Why such a hard line on drugs? Needle drugs for AIDS sure, but weed? If they look haggard they look haggard, past drug use or not.

**PartyTimeGuy** · 08-02-22 03:17

Originally Posted by RogerOver [View Original Post]

You dumped that hottie over her wanting to do mushrooms with you? Two things: you missed a chance to hit that hot ass some more, AND you missed out on doing some mushrooms! I see only upside with her request. LOL.

Maybe you were just trying to be funny (sardonic tone is sometimes difficult to perceive in here as opposed to seriousness), but procuring and / or doing illegal drugs with a SB adds a whole new layer of legal risk that is not worth it just for a piece of ass IMO. I don't much care if a SB does drugs. But not while with me and not if it affects her being on time or her performance, or if she is inclined to be carrying. In states where weed is legal recreationally (maybe even in states where it isn't: everything is moving towards national legality and the risk is substantially less even where it is currently "illegal") Sure. Why not? I partake myself. Sex while high on weed is a LOT of fun. But being arrested for illegal drug possession or sale is definitely NOT fun. There is no SB action in prison.

**RogerOver** · 08-02-22 01:10

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

I hear you, Bam. This girl, smoking hot spinner, was one-third my age at the time I FC her. Her ask for 'sugar'? - a Barbie makeup kit that cost around $160. So submissive, loved to call me daddy. However, she asked for future meetings if I could get magic mushrooms for her / us. I just could not get around that and didn't see her again. I still see she is on the seeking site in southern California.

You dumped that hottie over her wanting to do mushrooms with you? Two things: you missed a chance to hit that hot ass some more, AND you missed out on doing some mushrooms! I see only upside with her request. LOL.

**ChrisPoontang** · 08-01-22 17:03

Originally Posted by BamBam [View Original Post]

If the teeth currently look good / okay, ignore them. I avoid women with messed up teeth but that's mostly an appearance issue with me. Dentistry is expensive and often not covered by insurance. If she or family spent money on making them look good, that's a positive in my book.

I do not shy away from casual pot usage but too much use is going to correlate with other problems. I generally avoid any other drugs like the plague. I am looking for inexperienced normal chicks. Typically in college or just out. If they act remotely pay for play, I am gone. Those using drugs are usually like this.

Lack of custody is a pretty big red flag. Lots of women these days are going for joint custody. It's their most reliable way of making sure the guy pays his share of support and gives them more free time to enjoy their lives. If a woman has lost custody of two kids, especially a daughter, you need to probe that pretty hard. Never say never but if she cannot offer a good explanation, I would ease my way out. Too many others willing who have no such risk..

Wow dude!

When girls start blabbing you need to be firm and say "Less Talkie, More Suckie" while pointing to your crotch.

It always works for me because I don't want to hear that shit.

**Tyrex2** · 08-01-22 15:45

Originally Posted by PartyTimeGuy [View Original Post]

Cute. Petite. Full of energy. Adventurous. Playful. Sassy. Likes to tease with dirty talk. Masturbates to get me hot. Loves to be spanked and have it rough. Makes it a game to see how many times she can get me to pop before I am totally worn out. Does pretty much does anything I want. Nothing is perfect but this comes damn close.

You sir are a lucky SOB LOL. If you want to ever share your toy, I'd be happy to play nice her, as would I'm guessing a lot of other folks here.

**FarFarAway** · 08-01-22 15:08

I hear you, Bam. This girl, smoking hot spinner, was one-third my age at the time I FC her. Her ask for 'sugar'? - a Barbie makeup kit that cost around $160. So submissive, loved to call me daddy. However, she asked for future meetings if I could get magic mushrooms for her / us. I just could not get around that and didn't see her again. I still see she is on the seeking site in southern California.

**WakeForYou** · 08-01-22 12:16

Originally Posted by ErnestLl [View Original Post]

She's been on before, but not in over 6 months. Killer private pics. Serious stripper vibe https://members.seeking.com/member/2...1-59134aac5f4b.

Any intel?

Definitely not a stripper. She's been on and off the site for years. Young professional with alternate views on relationships / monogamy. Reviewed well when she has been reviewed.

**Ernest Ll** · 08-01-22 09:25

She's been on before, but not in over 6 months. Killer private pics. Serious stripper vibe https://members.seeking.com/member/2...1-59134aac5f4b.

Any intel?

**OliverNP** · 08-01-22 09:18

First, I'll say that the fact an SB smokes weed is in no way going to prevent me from fucking her, but in most cases when I find an SB doing drugs of any kind, I drop her like one of her own bad habits after the initial banging.

I can't think of a single SB I've ever been concerned about being a health risk due to needle sharing or whatever, most of my girls are college girls or just otherwise in a league so far from streetwalkers that it's never been a concern.

The problem I have with it is simply because, statistically, the number of "weed people" or recreational drug users I've known (plenty) that are reliable human beings is low relative to the number of non-drug users. Specifically, the weedy girls tend to flake more on appointments (even if its just last minute rescheduling) or otherwise do things that amount to wastes of my time, and time is valuable to me. Girls that don't regularly partake in drugs are way more on-the-ball, have much healthier sex drives (being horny only when high doesn't count as a healthy sex drive), are more invested in their arrangements and just generally make better daddy's girls. I also don't like wondering if a girl I'm with is carrying illegal drugs in her purse, even though I've been fortunate enough to never get into the types of legal issues where it would matter.

What I've found is that when people use a substance regularly, it's usually because they "feel a need for it" and that need is almost always based in other personality / mental issues. I just prefer to avoid those issues where possible. Drugs are only sexy to those who need them in order to enjoy sex. To the rest of is they are mainly a filthy habit for the weak.