Bullshit that has Nothing to do With Pussy

**PrimeTime2430** · 04-21-22 09:02

Self explanatory. I followed the FAQ and reached out to the admin multiple times to delete my account, and I don't hear shit back. I want it deleted as I'm done with this stuff and want my account gone asap. Someone fucking help me please.

**DWaits** · 04-20-22 16:05

Originally Posted by Jinurso [View Original Post]

In the end I'd rather just meet a girl outside the sex worker realm. I have a second date lined up with my pilates instructor that has some promise.

My middle age advise is don't get married, don't live with someone. If you have money and good friends, buy a multi-unit building together so you've always got a crew (even if the friends are married). If you decide you want a kid, have the kid with a friend. You will avoid loneliness and always be able to have sex with whoever you want whenever you want as long as you have the money and the looks.

**Jayp80** · 04-20-22 14:07

I swear 9/10 times someone asks if a girl is TGTBT or if it's a LEO setup the girl looks like she's been on coke or meth for the last 10 years and I wouldn't even bang for free. We all have our own likes and dislikes so to each is own, but sometimes I just shake my head.

**Jinurso** · 04-20-22 10:58

I should add I have dated two escorts in my life. One of them was a disaster who had a terrible drug problem she couldn't shake that she tried to hide from me until I woke up in the middle of the night and saw her snorting coke or something in the corner. It got a lot worse before it ended and was a terrible experience overall.

The other one was more normal. No drugs but she had a serious shopping addiction so was always living paycheck to paycheck. She wanted to settle down and quit the business but had no other real skills or other than a makeup / hair dressing license.

At one point I was at her home for the weekend and didn't know she booked an appointment and her home was an incall. She always came to my place when we were client / SW. So I'm in the building lounge drinking a coffee or whatever for an hour while she's getting who knows what done by who knows who in the bed we were sleeping in all weekend two hours after she told me she was falling in love. It just didn't feel good so I ghosted her after the weekend.

**Jinurso** · 04-20-22 10:43

Originally Posted by Ratso100 [View Original Post]

I been reading your opinions and they all sound reasonable for this specific situation. As I scrolled through prior post on the site, there's other guys claiming they got the personal numbers from girls from this "service"-CLM. So, I guess maybe they can offer even more specific advice regarding the situation. Tell me, what happened when you shot the first text to a specific girl's personal number.

You might be referring to me. Yeah, at some point or other I ended up with numbers for most of the CLM girls. I never crossed into personal territory with any of them, although a couple made it clear they were open to it. There are two I considered dating in real life, but as another poster noted, when you start venturing into an escort's personal life, you may not like what you find. This woman had a couple of kids and a lot of ex drama and it just wasn't worth it. The other one seemed well adjusted but seemed to be hiding some serious darkness behind that came out over text that scared me off before I asked her out. Shame because she's a great communicator and we have really good chemistry when we are together.

There was a third girl at CLM who gave me her number and within five texts wanted to have my baby (literally, as some sort of green card ploy). I wasn't attracted enough to her to explore, but make sure to pull out with that one LOL.

The fourth one I talked about previously, and she really really really wants a husband. I got the impression that she is working at CLM hoping to strike gold and intentionally has a limited menu so she won't be seen as a prostitute whenever her future husband does walk through the door. We texted for a while but she's so dull I lost interest. She tries way too hard to come across as a good catholic girl who just does this temporarily.

In the end I'd rather just meet a girl outside the sex worker realm. I have a second date lined up with my pilates instructor that has some promise.

**Ron M** · 04-18-22 12:49

It's just your turn at bat. Enjoy it while it lasts. Because at some point you're going to strike out with 2 outs in the 9th inning. Then the game over.

**GeneralObvious** · 04-18-22 08:52

Originally Posted by DMichaels69 [View Original Post]

To sum this up the overall advice is not to do it. That's my read on it and I agree. I don't want to be a downer but there is no upside for you. Keep it business and then leave it behind when you leave.

There are upsides to a connection with any provider. That is, more doors can open up. I've had plenty of freebies over the years. They are women first, and they get horny like any other woman. If you're fairly nice looking, or appear to be looking for a wife, you will get more attention.

The downside is, she could be interested in a green card, start obsessing over you, which is unlikely, or looking for a bigger payday.

All of my private encounters have been free, and a few sizing me up to get a green card.

**EyeEatAss** · 04-18-22 06:18

Originally Posted by Ratso100 [View Original Post]

I know dude. I aint buying no fantasy or trying to get freebies. But she does seem like a cool person. Who knows, she gets rave reviews here for a reason. Then again, your right. Might as well get dates with out paying for the massage entry door fee and jump straight to action.

I recently broke it off with a grocery store pick up. We saw each other for a few months. Couple weeks later I called her up for a little nookie-nookie. She was ok with it a few times. The last time I called her up she said, "If you're going to treat me like a wh*re you might as well pay me like one"! For some reason it made it much more exciting! 1. 5 for 90 minutes. BB everything.

**DMichaels69** · 04-17-22 19:06

To sum this up the overall advice is not to do it. That's my read on it and I agree. I don't want to be a downer but there is no upside for you. Keep it business and then leave it behind when you leave.

Originally Posted by Ratso100 [View Original Post]

I know dude. I aint buying no fantasy or trying to get freebies. But she does seem like a cool person. Who knows, she gets rave reviews here for a reason. Then again, your right. Might as well get dates with out paying for the massage entry door fee and jump straight to action.

**RubLuvr** · 04-17-22 18:20

Unfortunately I have been in a situation to deal with a few of this type of female. Just remember, the vast majority may be intelligent, may be hot, may possibly even have the emotional IQ to handle money and life. However, the vast, vast majority are ADD / impulse driven and live in a magic world of magic thoughts where they honestly will think a guy is going to "rescue" them from the life, but in a short time realize the guy they knew to start with wasn't a multi millionaire Richard Geere. Isn't a multi millionaire Richard Geere. Then they go right back to magical thinking that he's just around the corner, they are going to win a lotto, they will save their money for a couple years and straighten their life up, get their kids back, etc. Etc. Not to discourage you, but it is a dangerous game involving yourself with sex worker women if they can get enough personal info to get into your real life, even a litte bit.

**Ratso100** · 04-16-22 22:38

Originally Posted by Devlin [View Original Post]

People,

Pretty Woman was a Hollywood movie. In real life, they are Sex Workers, we are Johns.

I know dude. I aint buying no fantasy or trying to get freebies. But she does seem like a cool person. Who knows, she gets rave reviews here for a reason. Then again, your right. Might as well get dates with out paying for the massage entry door fee and jump straight to action

1. You are not the first John that she has given her number to

2. You are not the only John who gets special service like her tongue up your b*tthole

3. If she offers bare sex, you are not the only one she has gone bare with

Try seeing her for a Unpaid Date and you'll see how fast she has an excuse for not being available.

The End

Devlin

I know dude. I aint buying no fantasy or trying to get freebies. But she does seem like a cool person. Who knows, she gets rave reviews here for a reason. Then again, your right. Might as well get dates with out paying for the massage entry door fee and jump straight to action.

**Devlin** · 04-16-22 18:35

People,

Pretty Woman was a Hollywood movie. In real life, they are Sex Workers, we are Johns.

1. You are not the first John that she has given her number to

2. You are not the only John who gets special service like her tongue up your b*tthole

3. If she offers bare sex, you are not the only one she has gone bare with

Try seeing her for a Unpaid Date and you'll see how fast she has an excuse for not being available.

The End

Devlin

**Ratso100** · 04-15-22 23:17

Originally Posted by TJGeek [View Original Post]

All the advice so far has been my experience also, especially that from FafaFooey. I've had a few give me their contact info and agree that you should proceed with caution and not expect anything, but see where it goes. In my case, I had one that just kept it business, another that turned it into a more semi-exclusive "side guy" situation after she left the business. With perhaps some emotional component to it. A few others I did not follow up with after being able to learn more about them by a simple internet search. A few were from out of town and it seemed to hard to connect while traveling. So after the first text, expect it to be a continuation of her business, but play it out and see what happens. Beware of a possible emotional connection that will complicate things.

Please update us on how it turned out!

By any chance, were any from clm? Please no need to give specific names but if so from Clm (since they are sex workers but technically not escorts or at least not that I know off that they work outside of Clm), how did it go? Did you shoot your shot before seeing them one last time P4 P? Was it all buisness even outside of it? Were you able to still see for service? I can't remember which section was it, but someone posted that they had a similar situation to mine before in the massage section couple weeks ago of the section from clm and claimed it was "cool"to have them as friends. Still looking for for that post. Regardless, I will keep all your advice in mine.

I mean consider that this provider and I spend the whole appointment talking during the massage and interrupt the "action" for back and forth banter, I don't expect nor want "freebies" outside of P4 P.

**TJGeek** · 04-15-22 19:39

Originally Posted by Ratso100 [View Original Post]

I been reading your opinions and they all sound reasonable for this specific situation. As I scrolled through prior post on the site, there's other guys claiming they got the personal numbers from girls from this "service"-CLM. So, I guess maybe they can offer even more specific advice regarding the situation. Tell me, what happened when you shot the first text to a specific girl's personal number.

All the advice so far has been my experience also, especially that from FafaFooey. I've had a few give me their contact info and agree that you should proceed with caution and not expect anything, but see where it goes. In my case, I had one that just kept it business, another that turned it into a more semi-exclusive "side guy" situation after she left the business. With perhaps some emotional component to it. A few others I did not follow up with after being able to learn more about them by a simple internet search. A few were from out of town and it seemed to hard to connect while traveling. So after the first text, expect it to be a continuation of her business, but play it out and see what happens. Beware of a possible emotional connection that will complicate things.

Please update us on how it turned out!

**Ratso100** · 04-15-22 11:37

I been reading your opinions and they all sound reasonable for this specific situation. As I scrolled through prior post on the site, there's other guys claiming they got the personal numbers from girls from this "service"-CLM. So, I guess maybe they can offer even more specific advice regarding the situation. Tell me, what happened when you shot the first text to a specific girl's personal number.