Seeking Arrangements

[EvilTmp]

I don't know, I've been able to convince girls on SA to fuck when their profiles have said stuff like that. YMMV obviously but while I never pay upfront, I will send a gift through SA or an Uber gift card in advance if I get the sense the girl is real. Some will ghost of course, but when they do meet up and then you flash more cash in front of them, they go all the way 99% of the time in my experience. I find that small investment worth it for me, same as if I have to pay for dinner before we fuck BBFS, but I've posted before about who I'm looking for on SA and that's why it's worth it when I find someone.

From your post history it sounds like you have more budget and more patience than the average guy. Good on you, it probably helps your cause in the long run. Me? My patience is razor thin for girly games. Has it cost me a girl in the past? Maybe but also maybe not. Regardless, I set the rules and that's the way I like it. No simping, no pedestaling. Ever.

[TimLuvsTits69]

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...9-cb465d400d27 Don't bother with this one. Scammer, after a little small talk, switches it over to Crypto. Not sure what her angle was, told her I wasn't interested in Crypto until I started to see some pussy pics. That ended quickly.

[JDeller]

I don't have time or money to deal with girls asking for money upfront or hedging on intimacy. For me its just a total waste of time or money no matter how hot the girl looks or what she says.

I don't know, I've been able to convince girls on SA to fuck when their profiles have said stuff like that. YMMV obviously but while I never pay upfront, I will send a gift through SA or an Uber gift card in advance if I get the sense the girl is real. Some will ghost of course, but when they do meet up and then you flash more cash in front of them, they go all the way 99% of the time in my experience. I find that small investment worth it for me, same as if I have to pay for dinner before we fuck BBFS, but I've posted before about who I'm looking for on SA and that's why it's worth it when I find someone.

[PlayTrey]

Anybody received random text message from someone that claimed to met you on Seeking? I have a girl name Nina.

[MinorLeague]

Solid advice and obvious for anyone who's been in the bowl 5 minutes. But just like paying upfront or paying for M&G some guys will still do it over and over. How many stories are there on here of paying before the meet and getting insta-ghosted? The same stories go back decades now, the same mistakes. Some guys will do what they do. You can't fix thirsty.

I don't know, I've been able to convince girls on SA to fuck when their profiles have said stuff like that. YMMV obviously but while I never pay upfront, I will send a gift through SA or an Uber gift card in advance if I get the sense the girl is real. Some will ghost of course, but when they do meet up and then you flash more cash in front of them, they go all the way 99% of the time in my experience. I find that small investment worth it for me, same as if I have to pay for dinner before we fuck BBFS, but I've posted before about who I'm looking for on SA and that's why it's worth it when I find someone.

[PjDaniels928]

Solid advice and obvious for anyone who's been in the bowl 5 minutes. But just like paying upfront or paying for M&G some guys will still do it over and over. How many stories are there on here of paying before the meet and getting insta-ghosted? The same stories go back decades now, the same mistakes. Some guys will do what they do. You can't fix thirsty.

Didn't even know there was a term "rinsing" smh and yeah that makes complete sense, thanks fellas, happy hunting.

[EvilTmp]

This is what her profile says:

"I want a genuine, mentoring relationship that will lead to intimacy. ".

Gents, when they say that things "will lead to intimacy" in the future, they are a rinser. They will lead you on / string you along, trying for an allowance for these platonic dates that "build trust," and intimacy miraculously will NEVER happen. It's called rinsing.

Solid advice and obvious for anyone who's been in the bowl 5 minutes. But just like paying upfront or paying for M&G some guys will still do it over and over. How many stories are there on here of paying before the meet and getting insta-ghosted? The same stories go back decades now, the same mistakes. Some guys will do what they do. You can't fix thirsty.

[Bran001]

Haha yeah I'm aware, but read intimacy and wasn't sure if that meant she was open. Shame, she's a smoke.

This is what her profile says:

"I want a genuine, mentoring relationship that will lead to intimacy. ".

Gents, when they say that things "will lead to intimacy" in the future, they are a rinser. They will lead you on / string you along, trying for an allowance for these platonic dates that "build trust," and intimacy miraculously will NEVER happen. It's called rinsing.

[ItsChiChi]

If you are 23 years old trust me you don't need SA. Don't waste your money on it. I would spend money on a life coach and improve your social skills. I'm sure if you go to the bar in Boston every girls will want to talk to you if you are not weird. Base on what you are saying, it sound like you want a pro. For me, I joined SA just to see what is the hype. I played around with it until I got banned. It was alright for me because I get to find girls of my type that I can go straight to sex because of money. A lot of the girls on SA will want $400, which is ridiculous because they are horrible in bed.

I Feel what your saying I been improving myself looks / money etc etc I consider myself a good looking male I just suck at talking to women I don't know what to say other than what's up.

I discovered this at 19 (from going through all of HS a loner and no pussy to easily banging sexy chicks every week paid of course) and ever since I have been addicted that I gave up on regular women but I'm trying to make it 50/50 paid and free so.

I'm putting myself out there wish me luck.

[The Hunter]

I was in communication with this lady over a month ago. She texted me every day and very persistent to meet. I didn't go for it. Something seem amiss about her. She live in those apartment buildings and she also mentioned she have a kid. I don't want the baby's daddy all of a sudden show up!

Yes she is constantlty texting to come back. I felt the same about the kid and the baby daddy potential issue, but said fuck it toftt and wasnt bad. May venture over today to give her a shot to improve on the last time.

[PjDaniels928]

Did you read her profile? Not sure how much of a plunge it will be unless you are just looking for company.

Haha yeah I'm aware, but read intimacy and wasn't sure if that meant she was open. Shame, she's a smoke.

[Member #6450]

Did you read her profile? Not sure how much of a plunge it will be unless you are just looking for company.

Pretty sure I've seen her on Facebook Dating too.

Which I didn't know was a thing, but Facebook Dating is a complete joke. Works like Tinder with swiping right or left. Seems the only people I match with are asian scammers who will message you to switch to WhatsApp. Their profile will say they live in a city or town nearby however all their photos are from locations clearly not nearby. It's nothing but a crypto scam. Read something on Reddit some poor sap got scammed out of $1000 by indulging one of these scammers. There are real people on it though but with all the scammers it's tough. Of course FB does nothing about these scammers.

[Joe1223]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...e-405164c0ff05

Hey all, anyone set something up with her? Was thinkin about taking the plunge.

Did you read her profile? Not sure how much of a plunge it will be unless you are just looking for company.

[PjDaniels928]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...e-405164c0ff05

Hey all, anyone set something up with her? Was thinkin about taking the plunge.

[MinorLeague]

I'm assuming that I've been blocked as every girl that I click on it says " profile-de-activated" Anyone have this happen? I have never discussed any sex, any money, I've not been offensive, just wondering what's going on?

Sometimes I get that and I have to clear my cache, log out, back in, refresh, and it works again. I've never actually been banned and I've used SA since they started pretty much. I try not to say anything that might be considered bannable but I routinely say things like do you have any boundaries, what did your last arrangement include, etc.