Sugar Daddy Sites

[SuperMan333]

Here are some basic guidelines for newer SDs to save time and money, remain safe, and increase your chances of success:

1. Never send any money before meeting. Not. One. Cent. Only scammers will ever ask for money before meeting. Never accept "online arrangements until we can meet," or send money "to show that you're serious," or fall for sob stories about overdue bills or emergency car repairs, etc.

2. Never pay for a meet and greet: no play, no pay. Anyone who demands this is a scammer and a hustler, no ordinary girl or experienced sugar baby will request this. Your time is far more valuable than that of any entitled bottom feeder.

3. Should the profile not have any full body pictures, or use all sorts of wacky filters, request unedited full body photos or a video call before meeting. Fatties and fuglies will zoom in on their face and use deceptive angles and filters to conceal how gross they truly are. Don't let an overfed catfish waste your time.

4. Set expectations ahead of time, be clear and confident about what you are looking for. Never settle for less, or allow her to move the goal posts. Girls appreciate clarity and your direction.

5. Don't get stuck on any one chick, expecting her to be "the one. " Many girls can be fickle, and may disappear without notice. Always keep more in the pipeline.

6. Make sure to tell your potential SB that "you are looking for a regular connection with someone that appreciates you and wants to make you happy, someone who will do whatever it takes to please you. " This is to ensure she gives it her all. Whether you actually intend to continue seeing her is up to you, but this keeps away time wasters and discourages bad lays.

7. Meet & greets should be in a setting with an easy out, preferably a casual public setting. Meet for coffee / tea, ice cream, or drinks. A sit down lunch or dinner can be awkward if a fat and / or ugly chick shows up, or if the girl turns out to be a rude pig with a nasty attitude. You select the place to meet: don't have a gold digger or rinser drag you to a high end restaurant, or a rob direct you to a place where your defenses are neutralized.

8. Never accept a date where a "gay friend" or "sister" shows up with her "for her safety. " This is a hustler, a dinner who're who wants to treat her buddy or her pimp to a restaurant meal at your expense, or shake you down in some other way. If a normal girl were really concerned about her safety, she would not agree to meet you under any circumstance.

9. Do not engage in altercations or arguments with scammers, hustlers, rinsers, dinner who'res or any other bottom feeders when messaging or texting. They may retaliate by reporting you to the site under false pretenses, and try to get you suspended or banned. Simply stop engaging them, report them if inclined to do so, and move on to the next POT.

10. Don't be afraid to discuss expectations beforehand, but move the conversation off site as soon as you can. Use neutral terms on the site, and at the beginning of texting to avoid bans and suspensions. Once the girl demonstrates she's DTF, be as transparent as you like.

11. Never pay any cash at the beginning of the date. Always after visiting the FC to avoid cash and dash, or bait and switch situations.

12. Keep talking and texting to an efficient minimum, moving the conversation to an in-person date as soon as you can. Otherwise momentum will be lost, and time wasted. Your POT is getting countless offers, and will accept someone else's proposal if you don't retain her interest.

13. You call the shots, you set the terms, this is your arrangement. You are a sugar daddy, not a trick. There are more prostitutes on the site since FOSTA made it harder for them to operate elsewhere, but never let them set the tone. Never accept a prostitute's rules, or more specifically, her pimp's rules. If she drops escort terminology or rules, don't engage her, or risk being banned. Keep her in the streets of Skid Row for the chumps.

14. Remain tenacious and alert: online dating can be a minefield, but there are still gems to be found. Trust your instincts: if something feels off, it probably is. If things feel great, keep a guarded optimism until reaching the FC.

15. Last but definitely not least: Have fun and stay positive!! Approach each interaction on its own terms. Have a friendly and approachable profile: use well lit photos of you in a number of interesting environments or engaging in entertaining activities. Have fully filled out sections in coherent sentences that convey your personality and what you're looking for in very general, easy to understand terms. Any negativity or complaints in your profile can deter a connection with quality girls. Keeping a comfortable, playful environment and good vibes in every step of your interaction with your POT will increase your chances of success.

Feel free to share more tips on this thread. Good luck!

Do you guys use your real picture on your profile?

[MisterPnw]

Been lurking a long time and benefiting off some of your awesome Intel so I thought I would contribute too with girls I've seen visiting your fine city.

MimosasAndRosé:

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...2-46d878c121c0

My ATF body ever. Basically built like an anime with huge natural knockers on a slim body. 100% expected to be catfished but was pleasantly surprised. Sweet girl, chill to talk to, seemed smart too. Fun in private too with nice head game (BBBJ) and CFS. Bare was an option but she was close to her monthly test and preferred to just wait until then. Will do her bare on my next visit. Greek on the table but didn't take her up on it. Damage was 700.

Hannah:

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...3-f58d52fb8244

Saw her a few weeks ago. She's certifiably insane in the best way. Pics on SA don't do her justice but the ones she will send over text will show she's a 10. Translates to in person too. Great body and gorgeous face, crazy open sexually too. One of the most enthusiastic fucks I've had off SA. She's always smiling and happy when fucking. She's been busy so haven't been able to see her since, but maybe you guys will have better luck. Damage was 800 and I think that was worth it for multiple hours and rounds.

Your ATF:

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...0-fe335d5056f0

Gorgeous girl, great body, seasoned pro. Fantastic body on her and she can use it. Provides a really good experience with great conversation, amazing sex. Can feel a bit transactional because she only stays 2 hours but during that time we did nothing but fuck and suck so I think it was worth it. She didn't literally start a clock but our few meetings she has naturally ended them at the 2 hour mark after we get naked. BBBJ, BBFS with cip, Greek with CIA, ATM, she's very flexible. Damage was 500. Pretty sure she's on OF as well but does not give it out.

Isabelle:

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...e-9b7160926fed

Saving the craziest for last. Amazing girl, skinny and tight body, very highly skilled in all departments. Can be very flakey but eventually met on the 4th attempt. Quoted 700 which I paid. The reason this was crazy is pretty unbelievable to explain. Once in a lifetime experience for me as she facilitated a threesome that I did not expect. You won't be disappointed.

That's all from me I'll post more as I see them but think I have my hands full right now too.

[FarFarAway]

I've also formed arrangements organically while out and about, and many girls often talk about their sexual exploits with one another, inciting curiosity about you from their friends. For those who have the ability to find girls this way, online dating platforms aren't as necessary.

There are hardened pros and fast women to be had anywhere, but Seeking also has its share of fresh civilian girls who simply got curious about sugar dating while overhearing from a friend or from social media, who don't have an extended list of debauched WGs to refer to you. They want a good connection with someone older and experienced whom they enjoy.

These are the ones we hold on to, and don't always report about.

Yep, I have heard about this. Some people troll for girls this way. It is likely a little too risky for someone like me w / a SO. I am also a lot older than them, not everyone is going to be receptive. If the girl has a BF it might get dicey too.

I have definitely thought about something I have read, someone made up fake business cards w / their sugar name and sugar contact info. Another way. If you are in a bar / restaurant, maybe flirting with the bartender / waitress. Take a sugar packet, write your burner number on it, and give it to her on your way out. With an appropriate little quip like ' there's more sugar where this came from'. The girl will know what you mean.

[FirstClass1]

I get that finding a girl to fuck is fun, but I never understand the self-congratulatory posts that go on here. You may have found a unicorn, but you're PAYING for pussy. That's it. If you play your cards right and hit the right SB, you don't have to spend a lot of time hunting anymore. I have an SB that I found "organically," although, in the end, it's bullshit. But, she's willing to sell the pussy, and I'm ready to pay. The cool thing is that she has friends. They are a lot like her, and it's not that hard after a few months to have her inviting those friends over.

I haven't been on Seeking as a paying member for years. However, my contacts still hold up, and they keep making more introductions. I'm not sure why people agonize over how to pay or bypass blocks on Seeking.

I've also formed arrangements organically while out and about, and many girls often talk about their sexual exploits with one another, inciting curiosity about you from their friends. For those who have the ability to find girls this way, online dating platforms aren't as necessary.

There are hardened pros and fast women to be had anywhere, but Seeking also has its share of fresh civilian girls who simply got curious about sugar dating while overhearing from a friend or from social media, who don't have an extended list of debauched WGs to refer to you. They want a good connection with someone older and experienced whom they enjoy.

These are the ones we hold on to, and don't always report about.

[Alkalinedio]

Haha, that Goblin comment made me crack up. Reminds me of the OG Nintendo game!!

Thanks for the laugh!

AD.

This goblin is ugly and delusional. She's not even worth the loose change in the bottom of a filthy taxi.

[FarFarAway]

I get that finding a girl to fuck is fun, but I never understand the self-congratulatory posts that go on here. You may have found a unicorn, but you're PAYING for pussy. That's it. If you play your cards right and hit the right SB, you don't have to spend a lot of time hunting anymore. I have an SB that I found "organically," although, in the end, it's bullshit. But, she's willing to sell the pussy, and I'm ready to pay. The cool thing is that she has friends. They are a lot like her, and it's not that hard after a few months to have her inviting those friends over.

I haven't been on Seeking as a paying member for years. However, my contacts still hold up, and they keep making more introductions. I'm not sure why people agonize over how to pay or bypass blocks on Seeking.

If it is time to get all high and mighty on the posters here, why do you exempt the moderator of this thread, who has surely posted way more about his exploits than anyone?

[RogerOver]

Yeah, I didn't say I was on SS, just that I could be. Based on my age. That was my point. I could pay the highest amount any girl on SA asked, but I won't because if I did have to pay that kind of dough, what would that say about my sorry ass? It's like that movie, where Robert Redford paid a million bucks for a night w / Demi Moore.

Getting a girl for a not insane amount is the point. Getting one at all who isn't a professional is the point. HG goes for a certain demographic because he consciously limits what he wants to pay and gets turned down all the time. Me too. I am going for fresh girls who absolutely positively aren't pros. They don't turn me down because my wallet is too light, they turn me down b / c they don't *really* have a hankering for a guy twice or three times their age, or while they like the taboo nature of getting paid for it, in the real world can't go through with it.

Yes, I understood your original post. I'm sure Demi Moore whined all the time she was getting her pussy blown out by Robert Redford in "Indecent Proposal. " Good for him, to know what he wants and having the means to get it, knowing every who're has her price.

We're all going for that optimal connection: a hot girl, the best experience, and an agreeable allowance. What that is varies from person to person. The great thing is that folks with limited funds can still get in on the action.

You're jumping to conclusions. A girl can ask for anything. Or say 'I used to get. '. That doesn't mean they have ever gotten it. So, no, there are so many different ways this sets up. Some girls like the idea of being on the site but are actually too scared to go through with it. Or think if they did get someone who paid that sort of $, they'd jump at the chance to play "Pretty Woman". Those dreams don't come true for you or them. Don't spend any adrenaline worrying about it, just block them and move on.

I get that finding a girl to fuck is fun, but I never understand the self-congratulatory posts that go on here. You may have found a unicorn, but you're PAYING for pussy. That's it. If you play your cards right and hit the right SB, you don't have to spend a lot of time hunting anymore. I have an SB that I found "organically," although, in the end, it's bullshit. But, she's willing to sell the pussy, and I'm ready to pay. The cool thing is that she has friends. They are a lot like her, and it's not that hard after a few months to have her inviting those friends over.

I haven't been on Seeking as a paying member for years. However, my contacts still hold up, and they keep making more introductions. I'm not sure why people agonize over how to pay or bypass blocks on Seeking.

[FirstClass1]

Yeah, I didn't say I was on SS, just that I could be. Based on my age. That was my point. I could pay the highest amount any girl on SA asked, but I won't because if I did have to pay that kind of dough, what would that say about my sorry ass? It's like that movie, where Robert Redford paid a million bucks for a night w / Demi Moore.

Getting a girl for a not insane amount is the point. Getting one at all who isn't a professional is the point. HG goes for a certain demographic because he consciously limits what he wants to pay and gets turned down all the time. Me too. I am going for fresh girls who absolutely positively aren't pros. They don't turn me down because my wallet is too light, they turn me down b / c they don't *really* have a hankering for a guy twice or three times their age, or while they like the taboo nature of getting paid for it, in the real world can't go through with it.

Yes, I understood your original post. I'm sure Demi Moore whined all the time she was getting her pussy blown out by Robert Redford in "Indecent Proposal. " Good for him, to know what he wants and having the means to get it, knowing every who're has her price.

We're all going for that optimal connection: a hot girl, the best experience, and an agreeable allowance. What that is varies from person to person. The great thing is that folks with limited funds can still get in on the action.

[FarFarAway]

Not everyone can afford a flight to Asia, Latin America or Eastern Europe. Someone on a social security pension can have fun with young hot girls closer to home thanks to the sugar bowl.

Yeah, I didn't say I was on SS, just that I could be. Based on my age. That was my point. I could pay the highest amount any girl on SA asked, but I won't because if I did have to pay that kind of dough, what would that say about my sorry ass? It's like that movie, where Robert Redford paid a million bucks for a night w / Demi Moore.

Getting a girl for a not insane amount is the point. Getting one at all who isn't a professional is the point. HG goes for a certain demographic because he consciously limits what he wants to pay and gets turned down all the time. Me too. I am going for fresh girls who absolutely positively aren't pros. They don't turn me down because my wallet is too light, they turn me down b / c they don't *really* have a hankering for a guy twice or three times their age, or while they like the taboo nature of getting paid for it, in the real world can't go through with it.

[FarFarAway]

2 k per meet and not even that hot. She's been around since 9/2021. Who the hell is paying for this and ruining it for us?

You're jumping to conclusions. A girl can ask for anything. Or say 'I used to get. '. That doesn't mean they have ever gotten it. So, no, there are so many different ways this sets up. Some girls like the idea of being on the site but are actually too scared to go through with it. Or think if they did get someone who paid that sort of $, they'd jump at the chance to play "Pretty Woman". Those dreams don't come true for you or them. Don't spend any adrenaline worrying about it, just block them and move on.

[Animal131]

These are obviously hustlers. Dinner Horse. Judging from their photos they are fat-asses and a man-hating lesbian couple. Their basic intent is to have their mark foot the bill for a high end restaurant, maybe even demand an upfront allowance "for their time and the expense of their makeup," or other such bullshit. They will never give up a drop of pussy juice. They're constantly jumping to new accounts and burner phone numbers, as they have obviously taken advantage of more than a few guys.

https://nypost.com/2006/01/12/meet-t...-no-apologies/

Anyone who refuses to discuss the dynamics of a conversation before meeting is only looking to lead you on, waste your time, and use you. Never let them gaslight you or determine where to meet, and for how much. You are the Sugar Daddy, not them.

I tell so many guys this and they think I am a woman hater or an incel. They are incapable of seeing the other gender in a bad light and thus allowing these girls to charge 2 k for an hour.

[FirstClass1]

Dude. She's hot. Platonic. Ugh.

A platonic hot girl always has a boyfriend they don't mention. He's pimping her out, but is too jealous to let other guys nut in her.

[City Slicker]

Anyone met up with her?

Hulamula100.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...d-b62f0922d6f0

Dude. She's hot. Platonic. Ugh.

[HollywoodGuy]

Not everyone can afford a flight to Asia, Latin America or Eastern Europe. Someone on a social security pension can have fun with young hot girls closer to home thanks to the sugar bowl.

That was kind of a joke. And yes anyone can afford an SB here and there. Even on a fixed income.

[FirstClass1]

In many 3rd world countries for a lot less. lol.

Not everyone can afford a flight to Asia, Latin America or Eastern Europe. Someone on a social security pension can have fun with young hot girls closer to home thanks to the sugar bowl.