Seeking Arrangements

[Member #6450]

Anyone else experiencing more girls getting annoyed or angry when intimacy gets brought up when discussing an arrangement? It's been a problem I've been encountering a lot more lately, when I first joined it wasn't that common but lately I'm getting irritable or angry tirades on how "no one wants to just help a girl out anymore none of the men on here are real sugar daddies" rants, one had a meltdown because she has a minimum wage job and is struggling on paying rent, getting gas and food and when I mentioned meeting first to see how we click and go from there she immediately spews out "even if we click I don't want anything sexual at all or until I get comfortable but could we start an allowance" I counter with ppm first and if it seems long term then an allowance and that we can do ONE arrangement with no intimacy but it won't be much for that reason and her reaction at that you would've thought I fucked her mom and sister at the same time while setting her possessions on fire. I'm very curious what it's going to be like on there when gas hits six dollars a gallon it's going to be a fucking shit show.

From what you are saying it sounds like these women want all the benefits of an arrangement and not have to provide anything in return. Why would any sane guy enter into a deal like that? None that I know of. It's entitlement. They think they are owed something just because they are an attractive woman. As for the one you mentioned working a minimum wage job? Sorry honey, you should have done better in school. Most of these women are complete disasters and can't manage their own finances or carry massive debt. I mainly stick to escorts. I have dated civ women every now and again too. Most of them have bad credit and way too much debt from making dumb financial decisions. I'm usually able to suss that out early on and break it off. Who needs that in their life? SA seems like something I could do, but based of what I've read here I'll stick to escorts.

[HankChinanski]

Anyone else experiencing more girls getting annoyed or angry when intimacy gets brought up when discussing an arrangement? It's been a problem I've been encountering a lot more lately, when I first joined it wasn't that common but lately I'm getting irritable or angry tirades on how "no one wants to just help a girl out anymore none of the men on here are real sugar daddies" rants, one had a meltdown because she has a minimum wage job and is struggling on paying rent, getting gas and food and when I mentioned meeting first to see how we click and go from there she immediately spews out "even if we click I don't want anything sexual at all or until I get comfortable but could we start an allowance" I counter with ppm first and if it seems long term then an allowance and that we can do ONE arrangement with no intimacy but it won't be much for that reason and her reaction at that you would've thought I fucked her mom and sister at the same time while setting her possessions on fire. I'm very curious what it's going to be like on there when gas hits six dollars a gallon it's going to be a fucking shit show.

[Member #6450]

This is like the 4th EROS pro I've seen on SA this year LOL.

Also, some girls (or, ahem, "girls") will rope ya in for a few hours or days of texting until they ask for the cashapp. The scammers, real or fake, know if they ask right away, their ass will be more likely to be reported.

Reached out to her on Snapchat. She wanted me to text her instead. She just wrote back "Text", but before I had a chance to it looks like she's not here anymore. As of yesterday morning she was still in the Boston area, but she's gone now and based on her Snapchat post she is now in San Diego. I did a little digging and found a site that showed her rate is $450/ hr. Not sure if that is accurate though. She has no reviews that I can find.

[I On Da Street]

She's batshit fucking crazy. Didn't see her for a few weeks after first time and she started stalking and threatening to out me to people. Total bipolar psycho with a loose pussy.

A fair assessment. If you like crazy, and you have your hobby life isolated maybe. She's going to attach real quick though. I think from previous conversations with other hobbyists, she is also not a fan of darker ethnicities (I may have my preferences but I never just put out a no, sight unseen, on anyone) She Hosts out of a large apartment complex off of 139 in Marsh Vegas. She had hit me up recently, lives alone now but I declined, at which point she lost it at me.

[CbrRider]

She's batshit fucking crazy. Didn't see her for a few weeks after first time and she started stalking and threatening to out me to people. Total bipolar psycho with a loose pussy.

Thanks for the heads up. I guess I'll stick with the Brazilian roulette a little longer.

[Nrlmus]

Is this some fetish or what?

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...8-bd364de7ed28

Her name is Surreal. Any more questions? LOL.

[Mattis1775]

Is this some fetish or what?

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...8-bd364de7ed28

She could be a guy for all we know. These freaks who are into anime and dresses like them are just weird. Plus, this person isn't looking for anything, just: Attentive, Emotional connection, Life of leisure, Luxury lifestyle. To me, she just wants company and nothing more. Hard pass.

[ClPost045]

This chick looks like fun and no bs. Has anyone here met with her recently?

She's batshit fucking crazy. Didn't see her for a few weeks after first time and she started stalking and threatening to out me to people. Total bipolar psycho with a loose pussy.

[Lily1234]

Is this some fetish or what?

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...8-bd364de7ed28

[Hobbyist420]

She's on other sites. https://www.eros.com/massachusetts/b...770.htm?cat=54.

This is like the 4th EROS pro I've seen on SA this year LOL.

Also, some girls (or, ahem, "girls") will rope ya in for a few hours or days of texting until they ask for the cashapp. The scammers, real or fake, know if they ask right away, their ass will be more likely to be reported.

[CapDude25]

Ok here's another one. She's a little new. Just wondering if she had a previous profile and created a new one.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...c-8610e70e048d

Wanted a couple dates first to build a connection. Also, wanted some funds upfront because she was struggling and it would show I'm earnest. Maybe she should stop buying expensive clothing and having drinks out.

Late to the party with this one but can corroborate with another post that she's a fake or scammer. I actually met with her once for drinks after she was pretty insistent on meeting. During the meet, she said she was financially responsible and actually has a bunch of money ($10,000 is what she said) saved up for a move to NYC after college. Didn't think much after the first meet and greet. Continued to text a little and then out of the blue asks for money to pay for school books. Doesn't make sense to claim you're financially responsible but need $ for books. I told her I never pay upfront before a meeting and she proceeds to ghost me.

You dodged a bullet, I think she blocked me with her original SA account but see her under a new account here: https://members.seeking.com/member/1...a-e818144d6feb.

[CbrRider]

Wow, she seems intriguing. Have any of you seen her or spoken with her? She's pretty straightforward and shows all of her pictures, flaws and all. Pics 6 and 7 particularly.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...b-e76dbb54f365

Wonder if shes the same Cece from post# 939?

This chick looks like fun and no bs. Has anyone here met with her recently?

[Lily1234]

Has that bad girl Asian vibe that I love! Any info would be great.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...6-0ab82f2a876c

She's on other sites. https://www.eros.com/massachusetts/b...770.htm?cat=54.

[PaulRew]

Has that bad girl Asian vibe that I love! Any info would be great.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...6-0ab82f2a876c

[Bran001]

Have you guys found that when you are trying to set something up with some of these SBs that when they are adamant about condoms, they can eventually become BBFS situations or do you have to ask first?

Many of the decently-educated (students / grad students / young professionals) are atuned to sexual health and want condom usage.

One 23 yr old I was seeing w / out them recently started asking me to use; she's had a couple of vaginitis infections and assumes (probably correctly) that they came from men. It's not just the typical std's.