The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

[LiquidCoil]

What exactly is the justification for the dick pic? I've never in my life met a woman who enjoyed receiving dick pics. Not a single one.

That sounds like something that could potentially be used to blackmail someone in the future.

Not to mention, why would you ever send your actual dick pic?.

[DJprofessorK]

Have any of you guys gotten anywhere with this one? Says she can host in Spring Hope. Sent a wall text of her rules and requirements including needing a selfie and a dick pic (WTF?) and she will send more pics of herself back. I called her out because there is no way in hell I'm sending that out and we actually had a good back and forth conversation. Enough so that I considered actually pursuing something with her. I mean, whoever I'm texting sounds cool. Definitely not a bot. Then she sent the list and asked for a dick pic again! Maybe it is her copy paste reply over text.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...8-2bc9c3e37e38

What exactly is the justification for the dick pic? I've never in my life met a woman who enjoyed receiving dick pics. Not a single one.

That sounds like something that could potentially be used to blackmail someone in the future.

[Bh400]

Have any of you guys gotten anywhere with this one? Says she can host in Spring Hope. Sent a wall text of her rules and requirements including needing a selfie and a dick pic (WTF?) and she will send more pics of herself back. I called her out because there is no way in hell I'm sending that out and we actually had a good back and forth conversation. Enough so that I considered actually pursuing something with her. I mean, whoever I'm texting sounds cool. Definitely not a bot. Then she sent the list and asked for a dick pic again! Maybe it is her copy paste reply over text.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...8-2bc9c3e37e38

[Badger7]

At the risk of sounding like an idiot, what is a FC that you keep referring to?

Seems like more and more SBs are asking for upfront cash transfers (CashApp, Venmo, etc) either prior to meeting up, or during the m & g, or before the fun in the FC. I have never given $ (30,50, 100, etc) up front, and don't intend to. But I am curious. Has anyone done a mobile cash transfer prior to a real live sugar date in the FC? If so, did you also go to the FC the same day as the cash transfer?.

[StormyTuesday]

Seems like more and more SBs are asking for upfront cash transfers (CashApp, Venmo, etc) either prior to meeting up, or during the m & g, or before the fun in the FC. I have never given $ (30,50, 100, etc) up front, and don't intend to. But I am curious. Has anyone done a mobile cash transfer prior to a real live sugar date in the FC? If so, did you also go to the FC the same day as the cash transfer?.

[DJprofessorK]

Hollywood Guy is long gone but I see that Far Far Away is still posting very valuable tips on the SB game up there in Richmond. Might help to give the lingerie ads a rest and peruse the Richmond posts every so often. Just my two cents.

If we're thinking of the same 'Hollywood Guy' he hit me up with some VERY solid intel while I was out in Vegas on business last year. Also added that if I was ever in the Los Angeles area, he had additional information to share. Really good dude.

[StormyTuesday]

Welcome back. You should work on getting the 33% discount. Set up a dummy account with a different email address. Never pay on this dummy account, Whenever discounts are offered, you will receive the 33% discount in your email. Now login to you regular SA account. Then go back to your dummy SA email account that you're getting the 33% discount. Click on the link in the email. This will bring up 33% discount in your regular SA account. Bingo!

I get 66% discount from my dummy WYP account.

Appreciate the advice, though honestly I have kept three accounts since 2015, one for premium and two back-ups (non-premium) that I can rotate over to. Comes in handy when I want to circle back around to a SB who didn't vibe well with me on the initial messaging. I use a fairly different profile approach on my "dummy" non-premium accounts to see if I get more or even different favorites coming in. Also, since 2017 I have had access to a SB's account, so I can see what competition is out there, so to speak, both in quantity and quality.

[StormyTuesday]

She sent her number on my very first message to her. But now she's not texting me.

Maybe I am old school but I have taken over 65 SBs to the FC since 2015, which included a 2 year exclusive and a 20 month covid break. I RARELY commit to a "number". I tell her that it depends on how much fun we have. Yeah, some disappear when I don't play the number game. IMHO that is why SA has gotten crappy. Too many escort johns coming in and treating these girls like escorts. I was an escort john back in 2014 so I know that game as well, negotiate up front and hand it over when you walk through the motel room door. Granted, it helps to do the meet and greet first and it helps to have an honest face and voice. I appreciate the input from the Raleigh brothers on this topic but a bit of history. The Raleigh SA site was a satellite offspring of the east coast granddaddy site, the Richmond SA forum. Think I'm kidding? Their forum has over 20,000 posts, Raleigh has 2000 posts. Hollywood Guy is long gone but I see that Far Far Away is still posting very valuable tips on the SB game up there in Richmond. Might help to give the lingerie ads a rest and peruse the Richmond posts every so often. Just my two cents.

[StormyTuesday]

So I get tested at least once a year at anylabtestnow and it cost me about $ 300+ for a full panel. I always include HIV just because you never know. How does this work at health departments?

What does it cost? I need discretion more that the savings.

I have been getting the full panel STI testing free since 2016 at my local county health dept, usually once or twice a year. The one time I got chlamydia they fixed me up for free as well. Hardly anyone is ever in there when I am there. In this way I can offer to show the SB my clean bill of health (I white out my name) along with my 2015 vasectomy letter.

[Reggie212]

Is anyone else immediately turned off by 'Spoil Me' and 'My Wishlist is the best way to get a response' verbiage on some SB profiles?

It gives me the impression that she's less concerned about meeting the right person she can form and arrangement with, but instead she's just on the site to get stuff for little or nothing in return.

Maybe it's just me.

Yes, it turns me off. For the reasons you mentioned, I use these statements as a way to screen them out. After all, they are as much a candidate for an arrangement as you are. I like it when they eliminate themselves from my consideration before I waste any time on them. If all I'm looking for is a really nice piece of ass, I'll just spend money for a higher tier well reviewed provider. There are plenty of them. If you are looking for something more, then that is probably a different story and these candidates have probably told you as much as you need to know.

[Summe4]

She is a thief! Avoid her! She has been on SA under different profile names. She is bad news, will attempt to extort.

[Pubb69]

You are 100% correct. Pisses me off that some of these chicks use their profiles as a free online store.

What pisses me off even more is if any idiots out there that actually send them gifts.

Maybe the best thing to do is write the attorney generals office and say you thought you were on a dating site but girls were propositioning for money. I know it sounds evil but I hate that site and everyone on it.

[Bh400]

Is anyone else immediately turned off by 'Spoil Me' and 'My Wishlist is the best way to get a response' verbiage on some SB profiles?

It gives me the impression that she's less concerned about meeting the right person she can form and arrangement with, but instead she's just on the site to get stuff for little or nothing in return.

Maybe it's just me.

Nope, it's not just you. Huge turn off and a hard pass when I see that. These SB sites just give an already entitled chick an avenue to take it to the next level. I would hope that guys aren't just sending them stuff just for existing but I know better.

Meh, I guess I'm getting crochety but I expect to be charmed out of my resources just a little bit!.

[Baxter49]

County health departments across NC, and probably across the entire country, offer free testing and treatment. I have randomly gone for testing a few times as an adult, especially when I'm getting into an exclusive relationship with a potential wife / gf. You can get results by phone within a day or two for stuff like syphilis and gonorrhea. However, they ask for an in person return if you choose to get tested for HIV.

It is 2021, how is it that people still don't know this.

So I get tested at least once a year at anylabtestnow and it cost me about $ 300+ for a full panel. I always include HIV just because you never know. How does this work at health departments?

What does it cost? I need discretion more that the savings.

[LiquidCoil]

Is anyone else immediately turned off by 'Spoil Me' and 'My Wishlist is the best way to get a response' verbiage on some SB profiles?

It gives me the impression that she's less concerned about meeting the right person she can form and arrangement with, but instead she's just on the site to get stuff for little or nothing in return.

Maybe it's just me.

For sure, and as someone else pointed out, when they've spent hours making a 50+ item wishlist. One the other day had that plus demanding money for M&G -- I just immediately hid the profile.