"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**FTP1999** · 02-07-22 16:25

I don't do this anymore.

After a couple of years in the bowl, I came to appreciate that they can tell me any story they want and I believe them, as long as they keep coming back and satisfy me at a price point I can afford.

Originally Posted by Almighty [View Original Post]

This goes to more the "research" I do after making initial contact with a pot SB.

I do a pretty serious attempt at a deep dive on any pot sb's to see what their deal is. Sometimes you find their FB page and find more pics and see that the one they sent is several years old and they aren't as attractive now, or they have a BF, etc. , or might have a habit, etc. I like to find out as much as I can about them before I meet them. I think it helps avoid potential problems or drama situations down the line.

So, I was just wondering, what sites do you guys use to check pics?

For instance, a SB sends you her pic, what sites do you use for a reverse search of the pic, to see if the pic is real, or is being used other places, etc, or maybe get a lead on their fb / insta / whatever page? I'd even pay for the service, if it was good, so it doesn't necessarily have to be a free service. Just whatever site / service anyone uses for that stuff.

Or am I the only one that does this?

**Ron Pamet** · 02-07-22 16:19

So after 2. 5 weeks on Premium, being kind of frustrated with the SA site, I scored big. This was the first girl who followed through and met me. We clicked pretty well at lunch and she decided she'd be willing to meet up at a hotel next time. We ended up meeting the next night and everything worked out great. She's a 19-year-old college student and she still hasn't asked for money (although I did volunteer $120 in cash so far). She wants something consistent, so she sounds like a low-maintenance keeper that might even stick around just for the great sex.

And as a side note, my impression of some of the POT SBs I have messaged is that many of them don't care about coming up with something that works for both of you. Some of them actually want you to be direct and clear about your intent right off the bat, and lead them by the hand. And unfortunately, sometimes it's because they don't want to put in a lot of effort (see screen caps). Not surprising that we have a lot of low-IQ women with disorganized minds on the platform.

**DWinthrop** · 02-07-22 13:44

Saw this one again over the weekend. I've been seeing her every once in a while since she was an 18 yo in NOVA. She's 20, not 24. Good lay, nice big tits and she's very submissive and moans loudly. Lets me hit it bare but insists I pull out for the finish. https://members.seeking.com/member/6...5-c97735b26633.

**Member #6575** · 02-07-22 09:57

Originally Posted by SBmidlo [View Original Post]

Could this be the one? https://members.seeking.com/member/c...2-49342d6fb613.

She has since blurred her face on the Tryst ad but saw it when you first posted. Odd coincidence if not. Same last name etc.

Well spotted -- yes it is same girl. She had a load of very identifiable pictures on tryst -- and she took them all down -- then put just some back up with blurred face.

I am guessing she has not done this before -- certainly not as a full blown hooker -- and even her seeking skills look green.

I am talking to her via txt -- and she has also changed her number LOL I guess somebody told her that using her real number was a bad idea!!

SA.

**Ernest Ll** · 02-07-22 09:35

Originally Posted by Almighty [View Original Post]

This goes to more the "research" I do after making initial contact with a pot SB.

I do a pretty serious attempt at a deep dive on any pot sb's to see what their deal is. Sometimes you find their FB page and find more pics and see that the one they sent is several years old and they aren't as attractive now, or they have a BF, etc. , or might have a habit, etc. I like to find out as much as I can about them before I meet them. I think it helps avoid potential problems or drama situations down the line.

So, I was just wondering, what sites do you guys use to check pics?

For instance, a SB sends you her pic, what sites do you use for a reverse search of the pic, to see if the pic is real, or is being used other places, etc, or maybe get a lead on their fb / insta / whatever page? I'd even pay for the service, if it was good, so it doesn't necessarily have to be a free service. Just whatever site / service anyone uses for that stuff.

Or am I the only one that does this?

Google used to be great for this, but now is pretty much worthless. I've had several SBs who either used profile pics or texted me ones that I ultimately found on social media, but google couldn't find them. Was able to Sherlock Holmes my way to the IRL identities and checked socials to learn more about them.

I used to use Tineye, but not sure that works on social media anymore either.

**SBmidlo** · 02-07-22 09:03

Originally Posted by SaTraveler [View Original Post]

https://tryst.link/escort/mysticalmisfit

I am posting this here as this girl is behaving more like a SB than an escort -- and I get the feeling she is on tryst as her SD relationship has ended and she is after another.

She seems familiar -- not sure if she has been on Seeking or is a UTR from FB or whatever.

I am chatting with her -- and will see -- but any intel. Would be great if any of you guys recognize her.

Thanks.

SA.

Could this be the one? https://members.seeking.com/member/c...2-49342d6fb613.

She has since blurred her face on the Tryst ad but saw it when you first posted. Odd coincidence if not. Same last name etc.

**Almighty** · 02-07-22 08:24

This goes to more the "research" I do after making initial contact with a pot SB.

I do a pretty serious attempt at a deep dive on any pot sb's to see what their deal is. Sometimes you find their FB page and find more pics and see that the one they sent is several years old and they aren't as attractive now, or they have a BF, etc. , or might have a habit, etc. I like to find out as much as I can about them before I meet them. I think it helps avoid potential problems or drama situations down the line.

So, I was just wondering, what sites do you guys use to check pics?

For instance, a SB sends you her pic, what sites do you use for a reverse search of the pic, to see if the pic is real, or is being used other places, etc, or maybe get a lead on their fb / insta / whatever page? I'd even pay for the service, if it was good, so it doesn't necessarily have to be a free service. Just whatever site / service anyone uses for that stuff.

Or am I the only one that does this?

**Member #6575** · 02-03-22 09:47

https://tryst.link/escort/mysticalmisfit

I am posting this here as this girl is behaving more like a SB than an escort -- and I get the feeling she is on tryst as her SD relationship has ended and she is after another.

She seems familiar -- not sure if she has been on Seeking or is a UTR from FB or whatever.

I am chatting with her -- and will see -- but any intel. Would be great if any of you guys recognize her.

Thanks.

SA.

**SBmidlo** · 02-01-22 17:49

Hit this one up https://members.seeking.com/member/1...6-37ac9606361b.

She sent me a message and her number. Down on her luck widow trying to earn some favors. She has a roommate and they share a hotel room in the Glen Allen area. You can have a date with both of them for less than some of the younger ones are charging LOL. Or a date with her by herself is reasonable also.

No, I have not sampled and don't plan to. Just sharing information.

**Cowboy1964** · 02-01-22 13:45

Brand new add on SA I believe she has been on here before as lacilou and or platinum blonde if anybody has had the pleasure please inbox me with a report thanks.

**FarFarAway** · 02-01-22 12:29

Originally Posted by ErnestLl [View Original Post]

Read her profile. Study her photos. Pick out some morsels for your opening line. Make her laugh / get her attention / show that you read her profile.

50% of opening messages hotties get are "hey, what's up" "check out my profile and let me know if you are interested" or some other generic, lazy, lame attempt.

For instance - https://members.seeking.com/member/b...1-4f4df0fccd50 -- make a reference using a quote from the movie.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...e-c5f77fde8b6c - she's 6'! Plenty of leg references without being crude, or throw some other sappy philosopical quote back at her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...b-ce519eced32c - mentions lazy morning in bed "I have a feeilng mornings in bed with a hottie like you wuld be very active!

Agreed. I'd also emphasize that all of these pointers and tips are in the archive below, which newbies would be advised to study up on, because all the info is there, and you don't have to post questions and hope for replies from experienced SDs.

**Johnny 5** · 01-31-22 23:57

Originally Posted by ErnestLl [View Original Post]

Read her profile. Study her photos. Pick out some morsels for your opening line. Make her laugh / get her attention / show that you read her profile.

50% of opening messages hotties get are "hey, what's up" "check out my profile and let me know if you are interested" or some other generic, lazy, lame attempt.

This is good advice along with what the others have offered. Like everything else in the bowl though, I think this depends on each individual's situation. In this respect, I think the process is very similar to a regular dating site: check the boxes first as a foundation, then talk and see if there's more to each other that we can work with.

I admit that I'm lazy and do some form of the "hey, what's up?" message 90% of the time. Of those, I get a response back to at least half, which is more than enough for me in the month or two that I'm usually active on the site. I will do a little bit more detail in the message for the ones I'm most attracted to, and for those that are slightly below my top targets but say in their profile that they want substance. However, I'm probably on the younger end of the SD demographic, or at least not older than most of the potential SBs' parents. I also have a complete profile that gives a brief description of what I'm about and what I'm looking for.

I think it helps a lot to have some self awareness in knowing what your strengths and weaknesses are, and just don't be creepy.

**TheHobbyLobby** · 01-31-22 19:12

Originally Posted by BobLobLa [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...5-942c74d0928e - pic seller. Claims to have had in person arrangement that ended badly and wants to build tru $t befgore meeting in person.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...c-37fd4fa8e8a4 - verified IRL. Just young, not really ready for banging someone 2-3 x her age.

If she isn't ready to bank anyone 2 or 3 x her age she will be severely handicapping herself. I don't know if there are any SD that are in their 20's or early 30's.

**BobLobLa** · 01-31-22 10:17

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...5-942c74d0928e - pic seller. Claims to have had in person arrangement that ended badly and wants to build tru $t befgore meeting in person.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...c-37fd4fa8e8a4 - verified IRL. Just young, not really ready for banging someone 2-3 x her age.

**Ernest Ll** · 01-31-22 10:13

Read her profile. Study her photos. Pick out some morsels for your opening line. Make her laugh / get her attention / show that you read her profile.

50% of opening messages hotties get are "hey, what's up" "check out my profile and let me know if you are interested" or some other generic, lazy, lame attempt.

For instance - https://members.seeking.com/member/b...1-4f4df0fccd50 -- make a reference using a quote from the movie.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...e-c5f77fde8b6c - she's 6'! Plenty of leg references without being crude, or throw some other sappy philosopical quote back at her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...b-ce519eced32c - mentions lazy morning in bed "I have a feeilng mornings in bed with a hottie like you wuld be very active!