Seeking Arrangements

[JClearMan1]

I'm not sure who reported me, or what their report was even based on, since I've never once offered commercial services, or discussed anything related to money, or even responded to any messages that discuss money (I always assume it's a trap). Anyway, someone reported me on SA, so I was temporarily suspended until I read the terms of service and watched a video about it, and then re-agreed to the terms of service.

[Andarrato]

Saw Bekky recently. Very nice girl and aims to please. I wasn't attracted to her because she is kind of like a tomboy. She's probably 20 lbs heavier than her pic on SA and any of the pics she ends up sending to you are 5 or 6 years older than she claims.

Anyway, $300 for pretty much whatever you want. Not sure I'll be seeing her again. Again, sweet girl and no complaints with the service. Be nice to her.

After a few good sessions with me she just scammed me. I'd cut out while you can.

[Chuchunga]

She just sent me a text saying that we need to talk, as she's under 21.

Thing is, we had a drink at the hotel bar. And they looked at her I'd.

Fuck. What would be the best to do now? Ignore her?

She's over the age of consent and you're not liable for her drinking as the bartender checked the I'd. When I take a really young looking 21 out I usually go to a place that I know cards so they basically are validating it. If anyone is getting in to trouble it's the bar. You did your due diligence part. She's the one that committed fraud.

My advice is to ignore her. Personal I'd play along though and see what she wants and then report her to the cops or take care of her myself. This is why usually I update my license before moving so it always has an old address on it LOL. She doesn't seem bright enough to be doing this on her own. You don't need to tell the cops how you met her, just say your wallet was stolen, they texted you then trying to extort you and let them ping the phone and track it down.

[CandyMan555]

I can't get to her profile anymore because I had to permanently block her, but user name is currently "trouble1". She tried to play a guilt game to get me to buy content, after telling me that she probably has Covid and is facing being kicked out of her hotel. I asked if she'd been vaccinated and she said "No". Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

Anyway, her username on twitter and o n l y f a n s is katanataylor96.


Edit: why the hell can't I write "only" "fans"??

If you pay 20 dollars is that for just that one person or what? How does this work Thanks CM.

[DotHill]

I can't get to her profile anymore because I had to permanently block her, but user name is currently "trouble1". She tried to play a guilt game to get me to buy content, after telling me that she probably has Covid and is facing being kicked out of her hotel. I asked if she'd been vaccinated and she said "No". Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

Katana gave me her snapchat I'd and tried to sell 'content'. I blocked her. Just saved a ton of time!

[SalamanderFour]

Is SA worth the fees? With so many fakes, time wasters, and pros to weed through it just seems like a very expensive process to get a side piece.

You could easily spend hundreds of dollars, weeks and months, and not have much to show for it.

[JClearMan1]

I can't get to her profile anymore because I had to permanently block her, but user name is currently "trouble1". She tried to play a guilt game to get me to buy content, after telling me that she probably has Covid and is facing being kicked out of her hotel. I asked if she'd been vaccinated and she said "No". Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

Anyway, her username on twitter and o n l y f a n s is katanataylor96.


Edit: why the hell can't I write "only" "fans"??

[Joe1223]

This is good advice especially for the first few meets. Just curious. Have any of you guys had a SB for over a year or two? I have and I don't really worry about anything at this point dealing with robbery, exposure, blackmail, etc. Am I wrong? What length of time do you stop being concerned with this bs?

The majority of my encounters from the SA type arrangements have been long term (1-2 yrs). Once I see her a couple of times I / we either start to develop chemistry or we don't. If she isn't my type I politely withdraw from her. My goal is to discover as much about her as soon as possible so that trust can be established. This is done during conversations as most girls want you to talk about them and it shows you are interested in them. I am always trying to get to her Incall situation as soon as possible in order to get away from the hotel expense. Once you do that the risk of her turning on you is very low. I have never had a problem but I also screen the girl carefully before letting my guard down. I really don't think any of them ever knew my real name. I few do know what town I live in but that is only because some of my fake social media profiles have hints. My expectations with SA is that the girls I look for are actually college girls or single moms with real lives that just need some extra cash. I steer away from the semi pros or girls that are obviously struggling with other social issues.

[MajorJohnson]

She just sent me a text saying that we need to talk, as she's under 21.

Thing is, we had a drink at the hotel bar. And they looked at her I'd.

Fuck. What would be the best to do now? Ignore her?

I'd say yes, we do need to talk, talk about the stuff she stole. She'll be pretty easy to catch if that's her real picture and he profile still active. A lot of places with liquor licenses will actually scan the I'd's so that can be evidence in her extortion / witness intimidation trial.

[Gianni Versace]

I guess it's like any other kind of relationship where you develop trust over time. The girls that I see I have developed a connection with but it's more like a good friendship. I am not looking to fall in love and neither are they. We respect each other's boundaries. The girls that I tend to look for are not pros. They aren't looking to meet at a hotel on the first date. They are not opening their legs for any guy. The ones I look for tend to be young professionals with good upbringing who are just looking for one guy to have an arrangement with. These girls are getting harder and harder to find on SA these days. I think where guys get in trouble is when they think with their small head and are just looking for a quick lay. They end up meeting some sketchy stranger and bad things happen. I view having an arrangement as a marathon, not a sprint. You got to put in the work to find the right one but for me it is worth it in the end. If you want a quick lay get a professional escort (and yes, watch your wallet if you do go that route).

Just & FYI with any new SB I immediately get the word Sugar Baby out of their heads and insist we are really good friends with benefits. I honestly feel that term SB make girls think its $300-$600. Once you get that term out of their head they are back down to reality and will accept a modest donation. Just my 2 cents.

[Spike77]

This is good advice especially for the first few meets. Just curious. Have any of you guys had a SB for over a year or two? I have and I don't really worry about anything at this point dealing with robbery, exposure, blackmail, etc. Am I wrong? What length of time do you stop being concerned with this bs?

I guess it's like any other kind of relationship where you develop trust over time. The girls that I see I have developed a connection with but it's more like a good friendship. I am not looking to fall in love and neither are they. We respect each other's boundaries. The girls that I tend to look for are not pros. They aren't looking to meet at a hotel on the first date. They are not opening their legs for any guy. The ones I look for tend to be young professionals with good upbringing who are just looking for one guy to have an arrangement with. These girls are getting harder and harder to find on SA these days. I think where guys get in trouble is when they think with their small head and are just looking for a quick lay. They end up meeting some sketchy stranger and bad things happen. I view having an arrangement as a marathon, not a sprint. You got to put in the work to find the right one but for me it is worth it in the end. If you want a quick lay get a professional escort (and yes, watch your wallet if you do go that route).

[Bran001]

This is good advice especially for the first few meets. Just curious. Have any of you guys had a SB for over a year or two? I have and I don't really worry about anything at this point dealing with robbery, exposure, blackmail, etc. Am I wrong? What length of time do you stop being concerned with this bs?

I have had a few SB relationships last more than a year. I absolutely did not worry about blackmail, robbery or other 'bad stuff' with any of them. Yet I still maintained a fair bit of distance.

One required full disclosure of identity before she'd let me come to her home. I never regretted it. It saved me a lot on hotel rooms! I already knew her full identity.

[TheList00]

This is good advice especially for the first few meets. Just curious. Have any of you guys had a SB for over a year or two? I have and I don't really worry about anything at this point dealing with robbery, exposure, blackmail, etc. Am I wrong? What length of time do you stop being concerned with this bs?

Again stop being a mark for yourself. If you have a sugar baby for 2 years and paying her theres a reason why in 2 years she's calling you to take your money. Not like in the last 2 years she loves you so much or the sex is soooo good she's throwing you freebies. And in the 2 years while your paying for it, she's probally had like 10 bfs who work at walmart or probally unemployed in mommys basement who fucking her everynight not costing them a penny. So with that being said you shouldn't trust any of these woman at any time. They don't like you like that and never will. If you go broke tomorrow she won't give two fucks and delete your number and if you dropped a gold watch, money etc by accident sure as shit she's taking that and not going the honest route.

[JDeller]

This is good advice especially for the first few meets. Just curious. Have any of you guys had a SB for over a year or two? I have and I don't really worry about anything at this point dealing with robbery, exposure, blackmail, etc. Am I wrong? What length of time do you stop being concerned with this bs?

Though I agree with the fact that you can't treat these girls like GFs or friends especially during the first few meets. Maybe after several times together you can let your guard down a bit but never allow yourself to be exposed as to who you really are. At least that is my approach and I use a fake name and fake social media profiles. However you cannot get into a hotel without I'd or CC so that poses another issue. Just keep the wallet on you or in site all the time!

[JClearMan1]

This lady is doing ppm for $700, she says: "Possible dinner or drinks depending on schedules and compatibility. No drama, or strings. Typically 700 per meet". Good luck with that.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...f-42cb57a88ba4