Seeking Arrangements

**Joe1223** · 01-15-22 19:18

Originally Posted by TheList00 [View Original Post]

I personally never been scammed but my question is to you guys after reading the latest scam thread. Now I already stated my feelings on why you guys feel the need to give your money to these hookers as soon as you walk in the door without getting service and some of you answered its common courtesy. Yeah nothing like being a gentleman to a hooker addicted to crack with her bf hiding in the bathroom who fucks her for free but now I got to ask. Why do you guys bring your wallet with you to have sex with these woman. You already make an agreed upon price. So if the price is 200 just stuff 200 bucks in your sock or pants pocket and that's it. What is your purpose of bringing in your wallet with your I'd, credit cards and maybe you have money. Makes no sense why you wouldn't keep it locked in the car or if you took the train, bus, uber you still don't need any of that stuff. It blows my mind how I read how some of you guys get scammed when its so easily avoidable. Please stop treating these woman as if there your friends and feeling bad for them. And for all you marks who think you find these non pro gems on seeking and want to keep it to yourself as if there your gf makes me laugh. These so called gems probably are banging a different dude a night with a bf hitting it for free spending your money laughing at you and then you come here acting like a mark for yourself trying to treat these woman as gems when there all far from it.

Though I agree with the fact that you can't treat these girls like GFs or friends especially during the first few meets. Maybe after several times together you can let your guard down a bit but never allow yourself to be exposed as to who you really are. At least that is my approach and I use a fake name and fake social media profiles. However you cannot get into a hotel without I'd or CC so that poses another issue. Just keep the wallet on you or in site all the time!

**CambridgeSci** · 01-15-22 17:25

Originally Posted by GianniVersace [View Original Post]

What are the best Bars to find girls now in Dorchester? I forgot how unaffordable Southie is now. Man I am getting old.

LOL, I'm early 30's so here's where I go in DOT if I'm down there.

Yellow Door is a hotspot. The Industry Bar and Grill too.

Lucy's is always fun and has good brunch with groups of girls around.

Dorchester Brewing Company has groups and can be hard to meet people if you're by yourself or have no game.

**Spike77** · 01-15-22 17:22

Originally Posted by GianniVersace [View Original Post]

What are the best Bars to find girls now in Dorchester? I forgot how unaffordable Southie is now. Man I am getting old.

For 20 something young professionals I would say The Bowery, Lower Mills Tavern in Lower Mills. Industry, Lucys Tavern, Landmark Public House in Adams Village. Ashmont Grille in Ashmont. Savin Bar and Kitchin in Savin Hill. Dorset Hall in Neponset. Blarney Stone in Fields Corner. That's just off the top of my head.

**Gianni Versace** · 01-15-22 16:36

Originally Posted by Spike77 [View Original Post]

There are plenty of female students and young professionals living in Dorchester. Just Depends what part of Dorchester. Adams Village, Lower Mills, Neponset aren't bad areas. Even Ashmont has come around. Plenty of hopping bars and restaurants full of girls in their early 20's. No one can afford Southie anymore so now they are all moving into Dorchester.

What are the best Bars to find girls now in Dorchester? I forgot how unaffordable Southie is now. Man I am getting old.

**Spike77** · 01-15-22 15:32

Originally Posted by GianniVersace [View Original Post]

There are no girls in Dorchester that look like that. Its a fake.

There are plenty of female students and young professionals living in Dorchester. Just Depends what part of Dorchester. Adams Village, Lower Mills, Neponset aren't bad areas. Even Ashmont has come around. Plenty of hopping bars and restaurants full of girls in their early 20's. No one can afford Southie anymore so now they are all moving into Dorchester.

**Hyperion11** · 01-15-22 14:19

Originally Posted by Hyperion11 [View Original Post]

She just sent me a text saying that we need to talk, as she's under 21.

Thing is, we had a drink at the hotel bar. And they looked at her I'd.

Fuck. What would be the best to do now? Ignore her?

Here is the profile: https://members.seeking.com/member/2...f-e76b4de4a2dc.

Avoid at all costs!

**JClearMan1** · 01-15-22 14:01

Originally Posted by GianniVersace [View Original Post]

There are no girls in Dorchester that look like that. Its a fake.

LOL, that's exactly what I was thinking.

**Gianni Versace** · 01-15-22 14:00

Originally Posted by CandyMan555 [View Original Post]

Do they have to pay for anything?

Yes one of the SB's I was seeing told me that she paid $$$ to be premium and featured. There were more features that she was showing me that was available to a paid SB than a non paid sb.

**CandyMan555** · 01-15-22 13:48

Do they have to pay for anything?

**TheList00** · 01-15-22 13:31

I personally never been scammed but my question is to you guys after reading the latest scam thread. Now I already stated my feelings on why you guys feel the need to give your money to these hookers as soon as you walk in the door without getting service and some of you answered its common courtesy. Yeah nothing like being a gentleman to a hooker addicted to crack with her bf hiding in the bathroom who fucks her for free but now I got to ask. Why do you guys bring your wallet with you to have sex with these woman. You already make an agreed upon price. So if the price is 200 just stuff 200 bucks in your sock or pants pocket and that's it. What is your purpose of bringing in your wallet with your I'd, credit cards and maybe you have money. Makes no sense why you wouldn't keep it locked in the car or if you took the train, bus, uber you still don't need any of that stuff. It blows my mind how I read how some of you guys get scammed when its so easily avoidable. Please stop treating these woman as if there your friends and feeling bad for them. And for all you marks who think you find these non pro gems on seeking and want to keep it to yourself as if there your gf makes me laugh. These so called gems probably are banging a different dude a night with a bf hitting it for free spending your money laughing at you and then you come here acting like a mark for yourself trying to treat these woman as gems when there all far from it.

**MamboMikea** · 01-15-22 13:24

Anyone could have picked up your lost credit cards and license. . .

Deal with the situation as if that is what happened.

Originally Posted by Hyperion11 [View Original Post]

She just sent me a text saying that we need to talk, as she's under 21.

Thing is, we had a drink at the hotel bar. And they looked at her I'd.

Fuck. What would be the best to do now? Ignore her?

**Bran001** · 01-15-22 13:02

Originally Posted by Hyperion11 [View Original Post]

Unfortunately yes.

That does limit some of your options.

Happy to take the convo to DM's; and I don't purport to have all the answers or best strategy. Some of us are less risk-averse than others. Some advice you'll get is to just block and ignore, because a decent percentage of this never comes to fruition. Because they know once they go nuclear and contact a family member, no money will be forthcoming in any event. The ones who do that really feel wronged, vs merely out for money.

**Hyperion11** · 01-15-22 12:10

Originally Posted by Bran001 [View Original Post]

Do you have a wife / gf that you want to keep this from? Most of the strategy branches off of that.

Unfortunately yes.

**Bran001** · 01-15-22 11:56

Originally Posted by GianniVersace [View Original Post]

There are no girls in Dorchester that look like that. Its a fake.

Yes.

Guys to avoid the time-wasting, going-down-the-black-hole disappointments and worse, learn to recognize low value profiles on SA. This surely is one.

Do I know for a fact that there is no way this is a real one? No. But if you only focus on much more obviously real ones you'll have a much better experience here. And this applies whether you're into the totally amateur college / grad student / young professionals, or the pro's who 'advertise' themselves on SA.